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| 1219 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in. | Fundamentals | letsrizz | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 04:10 PM |
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| 2 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Bro your Reddit name should be pickerCHAD LOL, see your the guy I was talking about in the post, your the one who “gets it” lol I’m glad you touched on the point about seeing the dating apps from their perspective and how it changes the way they think about dating and feel about it cause it DOES affect us guys very much so. Yes you’re 100% right about differentiating yourself from other guys. That’s why I’m someone who is a huge fan of day gaming, approaching big set, the hard stuff cause you kn… | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.It’s all in your head man. If you are as ugly as you say you are, you’d probably have a ton of other qualities that are contributing to you being “ugly”. your face and physical features only about 20% of it. The rest is your character, the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, speak, act, and most importantly your mindset. Just from your message in here I can tell you that your face isn’t why girls don’t like you, it’s way more factors. And if you really think that to be true that your just … | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.I can’t help but disagree. You’re telling me you’ve never seen a hot girl with an ugly guy? I’ve seen that all the time and it would annoy me cause i was better looking but he would be the one who had her | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Building My Future, But Missing Out on LifeI came across this very problem near the end of last year and completely relate to this. If your anything like me your probably feeling like it feels good to work and accomplish your goals but sucks sometimes when you want some downtime and there’s no one really there since you neglected relationships due to your work. I may be wrong as I am not perfect and still working on this myself but from every mentor I’ve came across and learned from there is this idea of “seasons” There are seasons in li… | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 02:50 AM |
| 2 | I have set a new goal for myselfDope bro, definitely doable. From personal experience, approaching is one of the most life changing and fun things I’ve ever decided to do. So excited for you to experience the journey. Long as you keep a positive mindset and don’t beat yourself up while making small improvements over the months, you’ll more then likely be a completely different person by the end of it. What got you to start this challenge for yourself? | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Really? That’s intresting. I would not guess that, have you’ve had this experience? | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.I hear you and I thought the same way cause as a guy, wouldn’t you love free stuff? lol I mean It really depends on the kind of girl your dealing with because everyone is different but to be fair the kind of girl you would like in your life probably isnt one of those girls anyways. (Gold digger/girls who do like the attention) The girls I and most of the guys I help really just want a normal sweet girl and from my experiences with these girls, they seem to get very fustrated with this. Because a… | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 03:09 PM |
| 30 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Spot on bro, definitely agree with this. The problem is many guys can’t even get to the point where they can share there world with her. They can’t get their foot in their door because they approach her from a place of scarcity, aggressiveness and just being plain weird. Understand these things helps them approach in a way that allows the girl to be safe and be open to getting to know them to where she can get a view of “his world”. There are levels to the game, Fire comment tho 🔥 | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Why you feel that way bro? | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Damn sorry to hear that, that wasn’t my intention. You’re right about that tho, no one’s reality is like yours, that’s part of the value you offer the girl and others. Mind if I ask what confused you about it? | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Curious why you feel that way. I may be wrong but I feel like understanding is a fundamental to actually being able to relate and be empathic to others. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Really appreciate all the feedback on this post, i definitely didn’t expect it to get this much traction lol. Seeing how many guys are struggling with this honestly just shows how needed this convo is. My whole goal with the post was to open a real discussion about attraction and some of the fundamentals I think guys often overlook. There are a ton of great comments and counterpoints here, and I wish I could respond to every one but there’s just too many to keep up with. If you totally disagree … | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.You are spot on… She is a stranger. We have very limited energy to spend on people we do not know. Imagine you some guy comes up to you and starts talking. How much rope would you give this guy of being weird before you tell him to F off. Not much. Girls work the same That’s why you got to approach correctly, spend time with her for her to see, okay this guys confident, not crossing any boundaries, and attractive. I like this. I’ll give him a chance. Now of course the goal isn’t to constantly be… | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 02:25 AM |
| 11 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.I love this response, it goes to show guys that really this is the key here. But coming from a guy who spent the majority of young adult life struggling with women it isn’t just “this easy” as I’m sure many guys can relate to. (Hence needing to post this long post in the first place lol) If as a guy you have underline bad self esteem, negative self and world view, bad mindsets and beliefs, it takes difficult and grueling work to get out of that. Guys are misunderstood in that sense. That we shou… | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 12:44 AM |
| 2 | RSD TYLERIt took years for me to actually take it seriously but mingled for a while and slowly saw progress in my character which made me better with girls. Once I did take it seriously everything changed tbh. The real experience out talking to girls makes the lessons and models he teaches make way more sense. I found a lot of value in the mindset and principles rather than the tactics. Tho those work wonders as well. It was Mostly the inner game that helped me most. WBU? | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.100% and the way you solve that is why we learn fundamentals of attraction which gets your foot in the door. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 02:12 PM |
| 3 | RSD TYLERYea I agree but he implemented, made his own principles and made it more popular to outsiders. I’m also bias as he’s been my #1 influence in the game so there’s that too lol to each there own | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.If you’re being seen as a friend it’s 100% due to you giving “friend energy.” From the first second you meet a girl, there is a relationship being built there. If you’re nice, polite and friendly, she will treat you as such. Chances are when you first meet girls you are giving the wrong impression to her (which could be for many reasons) If you are first meeting them and are flirty, touchy feely, and teasing her, she’ll be able to tell right away, oh this guy is interested. Boom, friend zone avo… | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Huh, I can definitely see where you’re coming from as far as mutual intrest with a partner. Where I was coming from is this is more an underlying idea that really helped better communicate with women. As if you can relate to how they see most guys, when you talk to them introduce yourself you know how to come across. (Or more importantly how not to come across) A lot of guys don’t understand this, they get too aggressive, to pushy, and weird girls out making them uncomfortable and that’s the las… | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:22 PM |
| 3 | RSD TYLERSame there’s a site Rumble that has a bunch of the old RSD stuff. Even some of the courses | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.‼️‼️‼️ | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:13 PM |
| 9 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.I definitely feel you, I felt like that anytime I tried to learn anything on the internet. Just use your best judgement. I put this hear cause it genuinely helped me and hopefully it helps some do you guys as well 🙏🏽 | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:11 PM |
| 20 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.It’s not manipulation try to understand someone? Maybe if just the guy got something out of it but the girl would too. She would get a genuine, cool, attractive partner who understands her. Guys genuinely have good intentions. They want to be loved, provide and take care of a girl they like/love. The problem is they do not know how to get her to even give him the time of day in the first place. Mostly because he’s doing all the things every other guy is doing and doesn’t understand what’s going … | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Just be careful or she might try to peg you 😢 | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:01 PM |
| 34 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Exactly, women are just people. it’s not about games or tactics or tricked. It’s about being a healthy, normal guy with good beliefs and values about the world, himself and others. This is attractive. The problem is most guys attractiveness is blocked from years and years of bad habits and mindsets. If you can undo all those, you can be a normal healthy attractive guy who gets pretty women. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with WomenI get you bro, same here. Just don’t fall into that trap of “build it and they will come” Cause honestly you’ll get to the top and realize no girls want you and it’s like bruh, what was the point of all this. You know what I mean? | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 08:25 PM |
| 14 | RSD TYLER1000% bro I think Tyler is the GOAT in game in general. His teaching are far beyond just “getting girls” I’ve taken most of his courses and just those alone gave me life changing knowledge | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 08:15 PM |
| 5 | I think im afraid of women and I feel that Im going to die alone if I dont change nothing.Definitely bro. So your beliefs shape your reality. All the beliefs that you have were formed through experiences and usually painful ones. (An example is you get A+ through school, so your belief is that “im smart”) So the only way to break old beliefs is to create new experiences that rewire those beliefs. But the experiences come from doing first, not believing. (You didn’t think you were “smart” first, and then started geting A+ in school, it happened the other way around) That’s why change … | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 07:43 PM |
| 3 | How to get liked by girls?95% of most guys convos with girls are very boring This is because of this.. Guys communicate logically, women communicate emotionally. It’s boring because girls don’t find value in logic, they don’t care they just want to feel something. So make her feel something How do you do this. Be expressive. Make good eye contact, smile and say whatever comes to your head. (Even if you think it’s dumb) You being loud, expressive (which keeps her engaged), and self amused (which shows your having fun for … | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 04:05 PM |
| 32 | I think im afraid of women and I feel that Im going to die alone if I dont change nothing.Yo bro, I really respect how honest this post is. Most guys would rather lie to themselves than admit they’re feeling stuck and ashamed. The fact that you’re even asking for help says a lot about your character. Ima tell you something that I wish someone told me when I was in your shoes.. Your problem isn’t with women—it’s with your relationship to yourself. You said it yourself: • You’re tall • Dress well • Can hold deep convos • Have strong friendships • Even get stares from women… That tells … | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with WomenYes I had this experience last year when I was heavy in self development and business. The thing is it’s a great thing to do and focus on… for you. If you want girls and that’s really your goal #1 thing you should be prioritizing is talking to girls. Going out socializing and learning the skill of dating. This is why guys who are club promoters, drug dealers, bums honestly, can be the best with girls. They don’t care and honestly don’t think nearly as much as smart guys do. The best thing is to … | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Help! Can everyone learn game and be atrractive ? Tell me your story pleaseI hear you bro, I was very much the same for most of my young life. But with that being said I’ll be the first to tell you ANYONE can become attractive. It is a skill just like learning to ride a bike. There’s things you can do that you can change RN to be traditionally more attractive and things you can do over time to make yourself that way. I did both. At 21 i was overweight, bad at girls, unattractive and only could attract fat or ugly girls I wasn’t really attracted to I was just horny. lol… | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Looking for Tips on Nightgame (Especially Clubs)Dance floor is definitely a challenge when your use to just day game approaching. It causes tky to be very sharp, loud and fun as this is particually why the girls are on the dance floor to have fun. I tend to avoid it but doesn’t mean it can’t work. If you wanna do dance floor I would recommend the following Body language is key on the DF You CANNOT be trying to get into her party, especially with friends around they will reject 90% of the time. You must be in your own party. This means dancing… | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 01:52 AM |
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