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ADVICEleylaheyla/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 10:46 PM
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I assume it's the pregnancy. Some men are cautious with pregnant women and don't want sex as often as before, as they are afraid it will hurt the baby or you in any way. It can also be that he is little repulsed by it / not as attracted as before.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 11:45 AM
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I understand what you mean, but unfortunately I was never the one that decides who to pick, as men that I like never like me back. It's really sad, but it is what it is and I don't believe that will change in future. Few men per year would show interest in dating me here and there, but only the biggest losers out there (ugly, poor, bad personality, old and mix of it all). Clean, ok looking and financially stable men never ever approach me or show interest. If they did I would already marry one :…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 09:38 AM
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No need to feel bad for him. He feels the same. He just want a pretty, slim girl with calm personality who he can show around and call his girlfriend. And eventually have kids with.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 09:27 AM
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Exactly that is why it is so difficult decision. I don't think that I have some crazy high standards. I just want someone similar to me, nothing more than what I offer. Not a millionaire, not a supermodel, just a normal guy. But it seems impossible to find these men. I think that nowadays there are way more beautiful and successful women than men and that is why so many of us have to settle down with men we usually wouldn't date, if we don't want to stay single and childless forever. Will defini…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 09:23 AM
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Agree. I don't care so much about looks (I want someone I am attracted to, but he doesn't have to look like a model) or income (I make enough for myself to have a nice life), but my partner and I don't have much in common personality wise. Everything that I like he finds boring or stupid and vice versa. And we are both introverts, which is not so great. I think an extrovert would definitely be a better match for me because I need someone to push me a little in life. Hope you still find the right…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 08:51 AM
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Exactly that is the issue. I don't have so much time left since dating often takes years. He wants a baby too, so that we have in common.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 08:45 AM
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I think he does feel the same and is ok with settling down. If he was really in love with me there would be more trys for sex from his side (I am OK with less sex, since I am not sexually attracted to him anymore)
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 08:43 AM
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Thank you for the nice words. It's easier to know that I am not alone in this. He also wants to have kids, so that we do have in common. Sexual attraction is gone for us. We only have sex once every 2 months because that's what you are supposed to do in a relationship, but it's usually not very good for either of us. It's like we force it just to get it done with and pretend that we are still a loving couple.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 08:41 AM
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I think the lust and romantic love will never come back but only love as friends, but he is a good guy overall and a dad material. That's why it is so difficult I am thinking to settle.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 11:37 PM
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He annoys me often, but I kind of got used to his "flaws" and learned to live with it so nowadays we cooperate good as roommates. I would like your words to be truth, but I dated a long time, almost my whole 20s and the fact is, men I want don't want me back or just want to use me for sex.. So yes, you are right about men who don't want commitment. At least not with me. I don't understand why. I always thought and many others have told me that I am a good catch. Men are weird. Money is not so im…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 11:34 PM
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To be honest, I think that he feels the same about me. That he is also not crazy about me, just wants a good looking, normal girl he can show around and have a calm roommate life with. He does respect me mostly, but doesn't really adore me as love of his life. The time ticking sucks so bad :( even worse, everyone around me is getting married or having children, even my younger siblings. I am happy for them, but it makes me sad for me. I feel like even though I did everything right in life, I did…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 11:22 PM
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Thank you for the book recommendation. I will definitely read it. Seems like exactly what I need right now. Freezing eggs is too expensive for me unfortunately. I do earn good, but european good, which is way less than american good (everyone in Europe earns similar +/- 1000 €, no matter education)
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 11:12 PM
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