lfteye Archive

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1	Lawyer hit me with a bombshell before mediation tomorrow Negotiate in brackets— if she earns within a certain range, she pays you xxx. As for a bonus, require her to provide documentation directly from her employer with the terms of her employment. I’m sure your Atty did that. No matter what, if you are unsure don’t feel pressured to agree to something. Your lawyer’s job is to advocate for you and you should give yourself time to think about it.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/22 11:25 AM
1	TRO gave her all control, and I am being cornered. Line up therapists for the kids - they will be the best source of neutral “facts” about what occurred in the home. Judges want to hear from people/sources of info/reports other than parents to test their veracity. See if your state allows you to request an earlier TRO hearing and/or will provide you with a lawyer for free. If the divorce/custody hasn’t been started, do that. Take a deep breath and remind yourself this is a marathon and won’t get untangled overnight. Reduce contact (if it’s allow…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/22 09:58 PM