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This made me smile. Good for her. Not only on her accomplishments but for the confidence she gained from her divorce. Since breaking up with my ex I went through a glow-up in the last nine months. Some relationships really do hold people back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:12 PM
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Right is every ‘couple looking for a third’ on OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:20 PM
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There are some cathartic Reddit posts shared on FDS about men suggesting open relationships/poly and it backfires
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:49 PM
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I've had more fun in the last six months (25/26) than I ever had before. It is never too late to live your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:15 PM
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I lived in Toronto when the van attack happened. It shook me up. I’m happy he is rotting in jail for the rest of his life. Death is too easy for some crimes. There is a good article in Toronto Life about his incel-tendencies and how he used reddit/4chan to connect with other incels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:24 PM
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Did she write this for her husband, or a kid? Either way 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:26 AM
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Couldn’t be me 🙃🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:49 PM
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This was me with my ex. Humiliating and such a waste of energy. Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:31 AM
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If I saw this person in public, would I say "hi" and move on or stop and be able to have a 20 minute conversation with them. Did I use to be good friends with this person, and actively care about their life? If this a family member? I filtered ~80% of my former Facebook friends using this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:13 AM
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This is so uncomfortable and good for the woman for holding her boundaries. The manipulation here is gross. I once saw a sporting event with my dad and sister many many years ago. There was a proposal there and it seemed a bit awkward. My dad told me and my sister on the ride home never accept a public proposal if we felt uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:21 PM
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Have some gold: 🥇🏆🏅💐💐💐 I’ve tried OLD and so far had a good experience. I decided before I was going to do ‘stress-free dating’ Having a strict set of rules and standards filters out most men, and eliminates a lot of decision making for me 1) no # exchange until after first date 2) first date is dinner 3) any disrespectful comment, rudeness, inappropriate behavior is an immediate block. No explanation or benefit of the doubt is given. 4) remember that you don’t owe anyone anything. Ghost someone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:24 PM
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> We may not talk about how to pick up men for one-night stands Because we don't need to, getting sex as a woman is so stupidly easy there is no 'strategy' necessary. I downloaded Bumble for the first time last week at 26. I match~90% of the men I swipe on, got 50+ matches is ~30 minutes and multiple offers for sex (all unmatched). My experience isn't unique at all. Women and men face different obstacles, god forbid women want to talk about their obstacles in a female only space. The best dating…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:38 PM
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Taylor finally joining the murdering a man side of country music
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:37 PM
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I love FDS. Easily one of the most supportive and non-judgmental forums on here. I’m lucky to be a part of a good community with strong women, and an incredible team of mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:36 PM
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You are not a failure. Sounds like you've gone through a lot and are navigating extreme trauma. Your 'boyfriend' (other words come to my mind) does not respect your boundaries. He does not care about you. i'm sorry to be blunt but he is not your soulmate. Give him space forever. I know you love him, it is time to focus on loving yourself and taking care of yourself. It is better to be alone forever than be with someone who treats you the way your boyfriend does. You deserve so much better. FDS i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:27 PM
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You bring up a lot of good points about the legalization process and have given me some things to think about. Thank you! I see your point about legalization increases the demand. Seems that criminalizing buying sex instead of selling it would be a better method of harm reduction for women that are SWs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:48 PM
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Thanks for posting this. I support the decriminalization of sex work, simply because women that are SWs usually struggle with enough. Law enforcement and legal encounters are not going to help them in the slightest. I'm not sure how to navigate the laws to ensure actual SWs are not harassed by police but men that pimp women out disgust me. It is a nuanced situation and I'd love to hear others thoughts. I have no issues with SWs, I usually feel empathy for them. I have issues with the glamorizati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:29 PM
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I bought crypto last year and can confirm the crypto space is very male dominated. It gained a lot of traction mainly from being used to buy drugs/weapons (a la Silk Road), or illegal pornography online. It has gone up in value tremendously in the last ~5-6 years and is becoming more mainstream - especially this year. That being said, those that got in realllyyyyy 'early' usually spend most of their time online and were part of discussions for any of the above. r/FIREyFemmes has some good posts …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:06 AM
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Absolutely one of the best days of my life (so far!). So happy you also experienced this type of happiness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:37 AM
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Thank you hand twin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:18 AM
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I work as an analyst for the government! I have a Masters degree and generally am very frugal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:23 PM
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This is so cute. I like this tradition a lot - thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:21 PM
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Rooting for you! Thank you. The journey was long but worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:19 PM
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Yes. There are a lot of really good points about home safety. I agree I need to be more vigilant moving forward. I am changing the keys, adding an alarm, and I’ll avoid posting exterior pictures. Thank you for posting the link💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:09 PM
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Me too 💞 FDS is the best and most supportive sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:20 PM
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Good point. Thank you. A deadbolt is a good idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:52 PM
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Thank you. Yes, lock change, adding a chain to the door, and an alarm system before moving in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:17 PM
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I'm so sorry you went through that. I'm so upset for you. Everything you're feeling is valid. As other comments have mentioned, you should be able to file some sort of police report if/when you feel comfortable and ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:46 PM
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Women are better off without men, in general. Men only take from women while offering nothing but the audacity. I've seen some men on Twitter (typically red-pilled men) spout about how women choosing their careers is bad because they will end up alone, childless, and sad. I've never noticed women talking about men like this (in general), because women don't care if a man chooses to stay single because it is his business. It is weird that men constantly need to talk about single women. I think it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:49 PM
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There is not enough money in the world for me to be with a guy that asks this. PS - to any interested women, guys like this aren't going to give you any access to their $ aside from your weekly 'allowance'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:58 PM
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Agreed 100%. I didn't think of lurking multiple times. Good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:22 PM
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They look similar but I doubt it unfortunately. The guy has different pants and phone case in the second picture. Creeps like this are far too prevalent. For every one guy that records a woman in the gym, there are twenty guys that will stare a hole into a woman body when she works out. So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:59 PM
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I've attended talks at my grad department about food insecurity. The presenter said that women will prostitute themselves to feed their children and this is incredibly common. It is sad his mother did this, and the desperation she must have felt to provide for her kids EDIT: thought about this more. The glamorization of sex work completely overlooks the desperation women face when selling themselves. Ignorant to reality and another lie from liberal feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:02 PM
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How do you delete someone else's comment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:43 PM
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Reddit is a porn site first. Reddit hides behind the big name subreddits, but let's be real reddit would not survive without thousands of smaller porn subreddits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:13 PM
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What concerns me is that she says she is "boring" sexually, then proceeds to describe normal and healthy sexual desires. Someone told her these are "boring" interests, and she believes it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:19 PM
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Hey, I posted about my ex a week ago likely breaking up with me after seven years. He broke up with me and I did not stop it last week. I feel a lot of things, but right now I am feeling relieved. You will feel better away situations that are not good for you. The fear of the unknown is a lot a lot better than fear of the known (i.e. you know how your future with him will go). Sometimes the comfort and the potential for what could have been clouds your judgement. I see my ex more clearly in the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:25 PM
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This is mentioned a bit on my user history but I do have OCD - which is why I have a terrible reaction to stress. I didn't mention it here but I didn't want to use it as an excuse for my behaviour. He does tell me a lot that he knows me best and to be fair he does know me really well - he can tell when I'm stressed or upset really easily. Even now, I am struggling with my intuition because my OCD really messes with my brain and thought process. I relied a lot on him to supplement my intuition (1…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:15 PM
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Youre right. Never again. Reminds me of a tattoo a family member has, it is in latin and is something along the lines of "if someone wants to leave make them a door"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:51 PM
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You're absolutely right. Our relationship had a lot of problems, a lot of red flags from both him and me. I've absolutely been labelled as the "problem" in the relationship. He said his heart tells him to stay but his head is saying to leave. I've followed my heart instead of my head for years with him. I was willing to work through any problem we had because he was worth it to me. If an ugly fight on a bad day ruins the relationship then the relationship deserved to be ruined
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:50 PM
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no debt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:39 PM
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I am absolutely stress spiralling. He wanted to break up the next day, I convinced him to stay. I know I shouldn't have but the fight was my fault and emotions were high for both of us - I wanted to talk again when we were calm. We are meeting next week to talk about it. He wanted to break up a few months ago because I am bad at communication. He was so sad and I knew he wanted to be with me, but I am bad at communication and I tend to go quiet when I'm stressed. It is a bad habit I had for 25 y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:13 PM
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The argument was a buildup of a lot of things. We are looking into buying a house. The housing market in our province changed overnight in January. I don't handle stress and uncertainty well. I told him last week I was struggling with stress. TW weight I lost ~4lbs (my starting weight is 110lbs - this is a lot for me), was breaking out, my period came 5 days earlier, I was waking up with a pounding heart at 4am every night for the past week. I told him all this and I told him I would feel better…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:43 PM
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Is this satire on how men write women? Otherwise wow, I feel sorry that she views her "qualifying" traits as this. Must be sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:28 AM
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I recently found an old conversation from when I was 17 with this 28 year old man I worked with. He asked me multiple times to hang out, see his apartment, go on hikes. So gross. I didn't know I could be rude/block someone. I felt like I had to be polite to him since he was polite to me. I would be the rude one if I ignored him - this doesn't make sense to me now but I thought it at the time. Normalize teaching girls (and boys!) that is it okay to ignore someone who makes you uncomfortable - eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:17 PM
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Can't comment much because I 100% agreed on everything you said- here is the link to her other TikTok that was posted here discussing misogyny and mothers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:44 PM
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So true. Pretty sure Alexandra also made the TikTok (which was shared here!) about the mother-son relationships and how pickme moms are a part of misogyny. EDIT: found her TikTok profile, hope it is okay to link - she talks a lot about SW too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:13 AM
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GOOD. I wish more women were taught in schools how to recognize if they are being trafficked, how trafficking works, etc. I was approached many times when I was younger at malls asked if I would like to model, act, "be famous". At best these things are $cam$ but can lure girls into being trafficked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:11 AM
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Wow, that sounds like a terrible relationship with a terrible person. Someone that loves you and cares for you would not do that to you. You said it yourself, you dodged a massive bullet in that relationship and should be proud of yourself that you cut your losses now instead of later. Please be kind to yourself over the next few weeks/months as you navigate this next chapter. I think you'll find you'll be a lot happier without this toxic person in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:13 PM
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>even though I'm so sure he didn't cheat on me with her Maybe not physically but he is actively cheating on you emotionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:18 AM
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Exactly, LVM flock to women they are (1) attracted to, and (2) know will give them emotional labour/free therapy/another chance. This consititues "love" for a LVM. These women deserve so much better and I hope they wake up to reality one day. PS - I love your username!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:34 PM
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A big difference between HVM and LVM is respect. A HVM will respect your time and your efforts. LVM do not understand this respect and view women as resources they can revisit/use at their convenience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:24 PM
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> Do I need to be alone until I am over this? No, you need to be with a therapist and spending time with a support system (friends, family) as you navigate this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:55 PM
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@ EVERY "GENTLEMAN" IN THE PPD THREAD - PLEASE PROVIDE A PHOTO OF YOURSELF AND FDS WILL PROVIDE YOU WITH YOUR TRUE 1-10 RATING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:17 PM
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I will bet a large amount of money that this woman is hot and her boudoir photos are incredible. What a scrote. She can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:42 PM
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I was always under the impression that Hillary and Bill are more in a business deal than a marriage. I get frank and Clare Underwood vibes from them. I’m not American so I don’t follow US politics too intensely though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:11 PM
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I’ve lived alone for two years while in grad school. Highly recommend. There is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Living alone is very liberating and peaceful. You’ll learn a lot about yourself and your habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:16 PM
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Compared to the rationale, emotionless, calm demeanor of a man when he’s rejected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:57 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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