| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | So..How do you make a man improve himself without nagging him?If a man will only do the bare minimum in life without being nagged then that man is not a captain. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/16 06:46 AM |
| 8 | Simple QuestionsI would hate to have a life partner that was not my best friend. It sounds like you are too focused on putting on this facade of what you think a RPW should be. You don't have to be a perfect 1950's housewife sex kitten, you just have to be the best version of you that doesn't nag, ride the CC or do other activities that push men away. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/16 07:26 PM |
| 2 | How not to be welcoming!Thank you for this field report! I've definitely seen myself get in those funks around 5pm after particularly hard days and it's easy to forget to ask about your husband's life in those moments. This was a really good reminder. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 04:08 AM |
| 41 | Outsider questions - marriage?RPW don't want the kind of men who frequent TRP. Honestly, one of the worst things about this sub is when TRP "alpha" men bleed into this sub trying to give advice on how to pursue them. While both subs are under the RP umbrella, we pursue very different sexual strategies. RPW want a captain. Someone who is dominant and capable enough to make us want to submit and stay in line, but who also has traditional "beta" tendencies like willingness to provide, commit, nurture a family, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/16 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Romantic gesture for him?When's the wedding date? If it's around Christmas then an advent calendar might be a cute idea! Every day it's a little note or a treat he'd like or some other small token of affection. I did it for my husband one year and he really liked it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/16 02:47 AM |
| 10 | What women are attracted to and what they actually find themselves dating are two very different things. A case study using Wuthering Heights.A "case study" based on a fictional work? What's next, a "case study" exploring why Heath Ledger was hot in 10 Things I Hate About You? I hate when TRP armchair theorists leak into this sub with this bullshit. Really, Indian American immigrant computer scientist vs. bum drug dealer? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | "I think you're cute" cardsDon't take dating advice from a 16 year old boy. Don't hand out cards to strangers. Just freaking say hi. Sometimes I really do not understand this sub. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/16 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Confused about my dating situation (having trouble deciding between two guys)You went on one date with Guy 2. If he said he wants a LTR, marriage and kids with you he is either 1) pathetic and crazy or 2) trying to get in your pants by saying whatever necessary. Judging by your description of him I'm going to go with option two. Just take it easy, don't talk about marriage and get to know men in a non-sexual way. If it clicks with someone you'll know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/16 11:35 PM |
| 7 | Confused about my dating situation (having trouble deciding between two guys)Neither of these men sound remotely like captain material. You have no obligation to commit yourself to either of these people. I disagree with the other poster. Online dating is a numbers game and it's okay to go on many dates to get to know people. The issue is when you do what you did with Guy 2. Honestly, when I was online dating I didn't even kiss a man until I secured some form of commitment. Absolutely no sexual activity outside of exclusivity and no sex outside of an LTR. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/16 01:26 PM |
| 9 | How do you deal with a friend wanting to ride the CC?I think you're being a bit judgmental in this situation. While it sucks seeing your friend hung up on a man that does not care about her this does not constitute riding the CC. Her n count is still very low for what I assume her age is if she's clubbing, she's not casually sleeping around and she appears to have standards even if she is hung up on this guy. Soon she will realize that she wasted time with this guy but that's her realization to make on her own. As far as her n count, I think you a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/16 10:03 PM |
| 3 | He has given me a conditional offer to move me to LTR status based on my self-improvement. Take it or leave it?So you're saying you've never had a FWB? Someone good enough for sex and companionship when necessary but not good enough to represent you as your partner? Sexual relationships are on a spectrum and there's something between 2am booty calls and life partners. Sure she could be strung along in this pseudo romantic relationship or she'll find someone who is willing to commit and call her their partner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/16 01:16 PM |
| 3 | He has given me a conditional offer to move me to LTR status based on my self-improvement. Take it or leave it?No one's saying he doesn't enjoy your company or that he just wants you for sex. You seem very close and people who are close do things for each other and share things with each other. What we are saying is that he doesn't love you in the way that you want him to. If he did, he would commit. Move on. A relationship is a probationary period before marriage so what are you on right now, probation for probation? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/16 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Why women paint their nailsI wish I could keep my nails painted! Manicures and cooking and house work and lifting just don't play nice together. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Spending a life together but not marryingBut he's not at home. A perfect example is when I have to call for accounts like utilities or the toll road tags that are under his name. Or health insurance or credit cards where he's the primary account owner. Before when we did not share a last name or when I said that I was his girlfriend, I would have to get him on the phone to give verbal permission. Now, as his wife, that's inferred. It's probably not a best practice for these companies to unquestionably take my word without checking with… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/16 05:46 PM |
| 20 | Spending a life together but not marryingI lived with my boyfriend for five years with completely fused finances, shared credit cards, shared property, everything a married couple should have. I was like, why get married? This works just fine! After we got married I realized how wrong I was. All of the stuff that was a pain to deal with before is so easy now. As his girlfriend, I couldn't do a lot of things on his behalf but as his wife I'm given the authority to speak for him. This helps our lives run so much more smoothly and takes a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/16 05:56 PM |
| 5 | How to handle an argumentative man?I'm breaking from RPW wisdom here by saying gtfo but, frankly, this man is abusive. This man is not your captain and he does not treat you like a first mate that he trusts. He seems to have no redeeming qualities, a worthwhile man would not need to seek sex from hookers. You are still young, child or no, and worst case scenario being alone with a child in a healthy home is better than a lifetime of being berated for things no person deserves being berated for. Get out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/16 07:21 PM |
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