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| 1 | Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes?You can be friends. There are two types of breakups: You break up because one person is crazy, cheated on you, you no longer love them (or anything one sided), there was abuse, you think theyre scum - No You break up because you're simply incompatible for whatever reason - yes Majority are number one, so mostly no. And always do a clean break for some time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | I'm thinking of telling an employee where I work his fiance used to be a hoeSadly the world does not consist of only people who would take their colleague or boss getting involved in their dating life as a bonding experience, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:57 PM |
| 6 | I'm thinking of telling an employee where I work his fiance used to be a hoeIf I don't have to tell my employee about the sexual history of their partner, I won't. It's work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:49 PM |
| 11 | Refusal to compromise on socio-economic standards will exacerbate the effects of "Golden Penis Syndrome".Baseless assumption using the “just-world” fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the YouTuber FaceandLMS?It is a pessimistic channel and things like mewing are not proven to be effective - do want you want, but lower your expectations. Black pill obviously. Lots of talk about how “it’s over” if you are “deformed” too much. I think the facial attractiveness part is useful and fine. Facial attractiveness is very important and it’s good to talk about it scientifically, but if it wasn’t discussed so pessimistically it would be much better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:33 AM |
| 4 | Q4all: why did you break up with your ex-partners?The last longterm that I ended was due to not seeing a future together. She was impulsive, wanting to go out and drive to other cities frequently on a whim, doing things that I did not enjoy. I didn’t want a future with someone so very different than me. I also started falling for someone else at the end and realized it should just end. That was three years, but I was not even 19. Disregarding the only a few month relationships, all others have due to their mental illnesses creating just so many… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Cross Post - Getting over a BPDWhat the crap. My ex did everyone of these to a T. It took me a year to get over them but I am now (but still working on trusting women) - you guys can do it! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/21 03:31 PM |
| – | What are your thoughts on skincare?Nah, all you need is one dude! No serial needed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 12:29 AM |
| 14 | What are your thoughts on skincare?The least you could do is a moisturizer with some sunscreen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 11:49 AM |
| 6 | Looksmax?Yep. They break your legs, insert a rod, and every day increase the length of the rod further breaking them even more. Pretty extreme but been done tens of thousands of times | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 11 | Looksmax?It is natural to groom yourself, to workout, get a good haircut, be fashionable, wear cologne etc when dating. You are trying to impress. It is however not healthy to do the extreme side of looksmaxing, like obsessing over bone placement, considering breaking your legs repeatedly to be taller, etc. It is wonderful to be a healthy man who takes care of himself, is fit and with good style and goes out to meet women. Just try out that before you get extreme. It’s natural | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why?These women aren’t rejecting these men after learning they don’t want to get married immediately. It’s far before that, before they get to know them. I agree that it may be tough to be marriage oriented in early 20s but that is NOT what is happening in real life. My engineer friends who aren’t ugly but aren’t super attractive either (like biologically - these guys still try) don’t get 0 matches & 0 female attention because girls think they wouldn’t settle down, those same girls are out with othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why?You are generalizing completely incorrectly. All of my male friends at 24 want long term relationships. They’re not wanting to sleep around. They just get nothing because women only go for the more attractive guys until they’re 30+. These guys are engineers, you think they are actually aiming to sleep around and aren’t just crushingly lonely? You’re insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 08:36 PM |
| 20 | r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why?A 30+ woman usually still wants men like they were getting in their 20s. They just put commitment on hold for their careers, or their first marriage didn't work out etc. But any attractive 30+ man can date younger or already got married, there's not much of a reason to commit to an older woman who often has a lot of baggage, either emotional or in the form of kids. It's a tough situation and a lot of tempering of expectations has to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.Absolutely, growing up will do more than fashion. I am very much into fashion, spend thousands on it yearly (not to get dates), and looking good does me nothing but compliments from friends. This post is way off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 03:50 AM |
| 4 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Maybe as a factor in a hookup at most. Doesn’t matter in real relationships. Past around average, bigger dick does not mean better dick game and does not represent any high value / provider benefits for a relationship. You can ignore it as a factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 04:24 AM |
| 7 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Yes. If it's below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:32 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.If the guy is crazy enough to think crying twice over the death of a loved one basically ended his relationship, then surely he’s dense as hell regarding everything else in the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:59 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Your whole argument is that crying makes you look “weak and pathetic” and “passive and feminine”, and according to you even appearing as that momentarily makes you not able to succeed. It’s flawed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:17 AM |
| 13 | Girls are getting fatter and fatterYou named the problem. Is this post just a vent? | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Men who want to marry eventually need to raise their standardsYeah, older guys can raise their standards to incentive behavior, forcing a huge number of men into loneliness (due to a lack of women meeting high standards) only to see societal changes in what.. 30 years? That's not happening. Just start with high standards in your 20s and have a lifetime to find a partner. You can't be 40 with high standards when women already have emotional baggage / several divorces | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manI think it's generally easy to tell if a woman likes you, but it's also easy to think a woman likes you when she doesn't. Guys often put too many in the flirting/like category. So guys assume at one point in their life that lots of women are flirting with them, eventually realize that's not the case and often overcompensate by believing women almost never like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop this way of thinking? Have I been brainwashed?Most relationships don't end due to cheating. A major majority. I'm not sure why you are so obsessed over such a minority and improbability. Yeah cheating happens but it's more than likely not going to happen to you in any healthy relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/20 08:38 AM |
| 4 | How did you guys change your minds about the redpill?You look at the big picture. Almost everyone gets married eventually. Almost everyone that cares at all will have the majority of their relationships be healthy. You don't need to scheme to get people to like you; 99% of the world doesn't know about red pill and they all do fine. You gain life experience that there is no formula for manipulation. At 18 you look at yourself by your lonesome and the immaturity of women. In the big picture this is a very temporary time of your life. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/20 08:49 PM |
| 10 | Why do redpillers think people who don't talk and act like them can't get laid?THEY didn't get laid when while they were "betas" due to the fact of them having some personal issue that was in their way. I don't know if it's all due to personal issues. Every RPer I know just basically never spoke to a woman, then decided they wanted to (leading to redpill pickup/plate theory) or decided women were to blame (a different side). Not talking to women isn't a personal issue like any mental problems or lack of confidence, healthy but lonely people join RP too and get corrupted. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Marriage hits historically lows! Lowest Level in over 100 years!I know of people who got married in their early 20s and none of them were rich or white. It's almost like marrying young still happens universally, although less common, and it's not a race thing... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Marriage hits historically lows! Lowest Level in over 100 years!True. I'm 24 and get none, but I have several distant friends in longterm relationships that I expect to get married in the next few years, late 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/20 02:37 PM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.I hear all the time from women that men aren't over their exes/have emotional baggage more than the typical woman. Lots of popular tweets and such too, it's not an unknown thing. And not only 30+, men at all ages I think have issues dealing with their emotions and pain. I don't think it's more baggage than women, but it is there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 11:37 PM |
| 0 | My [M24] experience having an attractive sister [F31] and analyzing her relationshipsI appreciate your personal experiences being listed, but to come out and say everything you do at the end by analyzing the relationship of a single woman who you cannot remain completely objective with is weak at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How do women treat their casual sexual partners better then their bfs?I've never noticed that as a trend, but just speaking from personal experience it has been true to a degree. Some of that has been a sex thing—they're willing to do things they don't like, like blowjobs, with a fling than with their longterm partners in order to impress—but I have noticed that the bad partners show their colors the most in long term relationships. They might compromise with a fling on stuff temporarily when they may not compromise well in a relationship. It gives the illusion th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/20 12:16 AM |
| 3 | My ltr is testing my frameRoutines are easy | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 06:25 AM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexI dispute that women have "attachment" as a consequence that men don't have. Research dispute this as well, women don't get attached from casual sex any more than men. They may, however, enter into a casual sex relationship while hoping that it is not just casual sex at a slightly higher rate than men which is entering into that kind of relationship improperly. Pure casual sex for a night doesn't cause more problems for women with attachment. In fact, your entire point may be moot "Of note: None… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 11:01 AM |
| 3 | So it’s slowly becoming common knowledge that oral birth control can an effect on women’s libido and mate preferences. Has anyone else noticed this?I think it can be kind of difficult for some women to compare and measure their libido. Absolutely some have said the pill hasn't effected anything that they noticed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 01:23 AM |
| 10 | So it’s slowly becoming common knowledge that oral birth control can an effect on women’s libido and mate preferences. Has anyone else noticed this?BC pills as the graph states. 54% of students used a condom they last had sex, 29.4% used BC pills, and 8.8% used both a condom and BC pills. Btw, the percentage of students who were currently sexually active decreased significantly from 2007 through 2017, again debunking your claim of more promiscuity with less BC (more BC pills, less promiscuity). https://www.cdc.gov/healthyyouth/data/yrbs/pdf/trendsreport.pdf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 11:22 PM |
| 6 | So it’s slowly becoming common knowledge that oral birth control can an effect on women’s libido and mate preferences. Has anyone else noticed this?That's not true at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 11:11 PM |
| 6 | So it’s slowly becoming common knowledge that oral birth control can an effect on women’s libido and mate preferences. Has anyone else noticed this?I don't think the data backs up your claim. That's also not my personal experience in high school either. It could be a minor trend that goes against the data, but not enough to effect promiscuity in high schools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 11:05 PM |
| 28 | So it’s slowly becoming common knowledge that oral birth control can an effect on women’s libido and mate preferences. Has anyone else noticed this?I'm a bit confused. The common side effect of the pill is reduced libido. I've known 10+ women on the pill and not a single one had increased libido, only decreased or no change, which would cause them to seek less risky behaviors overall. So why are they hornier in high school with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 10:54 PM |
| 94 | Me and 6girls in a house over the weekendThree outcomes if you really try to encourage sexy time: No woman wants to look like the slut to their friends, so nothing happens. You encourage them to get frisky among each other, and you get in on it. You are already deemed as one of the girls, and nothing happens. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer?I'm sure you don't know any women with problems committing, but every woman I've dated in the last two years has had issues with commitment. Of course, not committing to me doesnt mean issues with commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 05:44 PM |
| 12 | Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer?Yup. Guys tend to fall in love faster, so often they'll want to commit to a relationship first. I think it's when it comes to the marriage commitment that you see men often slow down. You hear stories all the time about men getting "red pilled" when they commit too fast, then getting rejected and blame it on acting beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:00 AM |
| 16 | Cheap Places to Take Girls for First DateSir, this is a Wendy's | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 02:03 PM |
| 38 | Cheap Places to Take Girls for First DateNothing says class more than your date bringing in their own flask to spike their boba tea on a first date | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Do not worry most men are not getting any.Awesome 👍 | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Do not worry most men are not getting any.Wow, you're a real idiot. Who said anything for at 18? Above 18, so that age range is way higher. "Among those ages 18 to 64, the share of currently-married adults has decreased consistently, reaching a record low of 48.6% in 2016," Your ad hominem is hilarious when you're this much of a nimrod. | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Do not worry most men are not getting any.https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-state-of-our-unions-marriage-up-among-older-americans-down-among-the-younger It’s true. Men don’t reach 50% married until 28 though. | /r/seduction | 27/12/19 01:15 AM |
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