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| 12 | Need some reassurance | RANT | liberty_5-30000 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:52 PM |
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| 2 | How long to wait for men to reply? (Busy career-oriented men)24 hrs. In the real polite world, when someone contacts you, you should respond with in 24 hrs. This goes for businesses as well as personal contact. Answer I’m extremely busy but will talk to you soon, I’m extremely busy had a great time , but too busy for a relationship right now. Business world thank you for your email etc. I’m working on your questions will get back to you in x number of days If no response within 24 hours then not worth it. Sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:22 PM |
| 11 | I need support leaving my bf once and for allPorn is a drug on the same level as OxyContin. You need more and more for the same endorphin level. It’s hard to walk away but he is an addictive. Get everything in order pack your bags and tell him either you or porn? You will have your answer? There are nice guys out there - you just need to look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 01:02 AM |
| 128 | Advice on how to deal with a LVM Misogynistic who is highly involved in my love life?Wait a minute - Your dad said he preferred you to have sex with a guy so he would be your boyfriend. That doesn’t sound right. Most. Normal dads prefer their daughter’s don’t have sex. Even after they are married with kids they still prefer to believe it was immaculate conception. So what is the real deal with your dad. Boyfriend I don’t get. If he said husband it would be more realistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 02:18 AM |
| 8 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡So proud of you !!! Most women wouldn’t ask and in 7 yrs would realize they were being used. Then 4 mos later he would marry someone else Yay!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:20 PM |
| 9 | No. No thank you. Please don't. Don't give stalkers more toolsYes, good advice. But I have girls, and it pisses me off that they will need to change their lives because guys are assholes and can’t take no for an answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 23 | No. No thank you. Please don't. Don't give stalkers more toolsDear ladies Every month you should google your name on different search engines. I just did my name. And a new search group “nuwber”had my name, address ,dates of birth, cellphone, home phone, email address, house value my est worth and name and ages of my kids. I was horrified!!! I’ve called to have them remove it. They said 8 weeks to remove. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 01:20 AM |
| 4 | It's amazing to me how anyone can justify manipulation!Threesome. Say great I’ll pick the guy. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Welcome to FDS!I don’t get your post- they used to be on my feed but now I have to search your site. I think Reddit algorithm is blocking you from me. Any help would be greatly appreciated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 21 | What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted.Unfortunately that is their society. The men prefer to live under Taliban laws. Women are so brainwashed that they don’t see anything wrong with it. Look at people in your own countries, where women can be free, yet choice to live under the barbaric laws of Islam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:48 PM |
| 111 | Today a stranger man grabbed my friend's phone and opened her Gallery in public.Omg. I’m so sorry. He was an entitled very bad person. Normal people don’t act that way. Men think because they are bigger and stronger gives them a right to act like jerks. Pepper spray. I always carry it on my key chain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:47 PM |
| 7 | Good Books for Healthy Long-term Relationships/Marriages?Henry Cloud and John Townsend Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life Yes they are Christians. But I was unhappy in my marriage, felt I needed to put everyone first to be loved. This said say no be clear about your needs. Best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.This is a nice story. And reading all these comments makes me hopefully for my girls. Ladies, this what you deserve. Find your partner that loves you and actually does the little things. Thank you for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 11:35 PM |
| 4 | She says she hopes she won’t have to deal with this for years to come… sadly, she’s likely mistakenOk my father remarried and left his money to his wife and upon her death she was supposed to split between equally among her children and us. Well when she died 4 yrs later the house my father brought, et al went only to her kids leaving us with nothing. So I understand why he wants to make sure his kid is taken care of. But it is your money and can leave it anyway you want. So in that regard he is being a jerk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 03:34 PM |
| 61 | Ageism on a dating appWhy on the dating app Because you can only meet 20 yrs olds at universities. Once you are in the real world these guys can’t prey on younger workmates they will get fired. Their friends are all 40 plus and know 40+ women. That is the only way they can meet young women. You are so right about the misogyny. These guys want toys to play with. They had the family and wife thing now they are looking to train burn and turn. Ei manipulate them to their ways, use them and toss them aside when they want … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:50 PM |
| 21 | Probably the worst double standardNo, did not make me uncomfortable. in fact, I love that idea. Let's start in Texas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 10 | What refusing to pay their share looks like in 2021.I think it was done wrong. They should have a joint account where they each put in the same amount of money to pay for common expenses: food utilities taxes repairs But he is a dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:40 AM |
| 12 | Poor Britney. There’s not much else to say.OMG. I hate this. What Fucken country are we in where a male needs to be in charge of a woman. I want to riot and burn stuff down. This sets a very dangerous precedence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:21 PM |
| 12 | Reminder: Don't get transitioned into being the *forever girlfriend* if your goal is to find a life partner. It's counterproductive to allow a man to 'try on the relationship' for multiple years with no commitment.It was awful 😞 sometimes I really hate men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:15 PM |
| 45 | Reminder: Don't get transitioned into being the *forever girlfriend* if your goal is to find a life partner. It's counterproductive to allow a man to 'try on the relationship' for multiple years with no commitment.OMG this is so true. My gf’s bf left her to go the grad school. Came back moved in with her. Then moved out and married someone else. They were together 3 yrs before grad school and 2 yrs after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:20 PM |
| 3 | GOALS 😩❤️That is my sister. She is the best!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:47 PM |
| 17 | A forced “Yes” is not consentThank you so much for posting this. I showed this to my son and husband. My husband got it because we have 3 girls. My son had an epiphany. Thank you so much. I love this sight. Required for all mothers to teach their sons to be good men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:40 PM |
| 21 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Snowden the whistle blower from the USA said while he worked for the NSA guys would use the tech to spy on their wives and girlfriends. Guys in power tend to abuse such power. Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 06:46 PM |
| 165 | Man recreates the patriarchy with catsFYI. Over 3 million that is million cats are euthanasia killed every year in the United States. What that guy is doing is adding to the overpopulation of cats. He is an animal abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:11 AM |
| 43 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.Where is this? This is why my husband brought me and the girls pepper spray. These kids men are sick I would rather them go to jail for assault then be a victim of assault. Also what happened to the girl that got pushed off the platform? Isn’t that attempted murder? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:33 PM |
| 31 | We need more kink shamingFrom my son and husband. That is NOT normal in fact it crossing the line into sickness. Who ever think this is an ok fantasy is just as sick as those looking it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 11:01 PM |
| 5 | wow.Ok I have 3 girls and 1 boy and a grumpy old man husband. He has yelled at the girls and the boy for not listening. Yelled at me for something. Got so upset he left the room He has NEVER sworn at me or the girls. NEVER called me a bitch never called the girls any names. No matter when he dislocated his shoulder rough housing with kids never yelled at them. Even when my baby tried to mother him. Calling you a bitch and a Fucken bitch no matter what you said is really bad. It sets a bad example fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:45 PM |
| 25 | Something my coworker said that git me thinking ( upset)It is unbelievable that men think the world revolves around them. Everything is for their benefit. I like men, but sometimes they need to be hit on the side of the head with a frying pan. I hope you told your co-worker that anorexia is about taking control when everything around you is out of your control. They only thing you have control of is what you eat. And this has nothing to do with boys. You are right if she had cancer he would be in groups and looking at research not thinking it is boys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Single motherhood. No need for a man.Dear Laffy My friend a high power lawyer always wanted kids. She has 4 beautiful kids: 3 boys and a girl all from the same donor. They are a great family kids a normal happy pain in the butts. Go for it. You are smart have means to give them a nice life. Look through the books pick mr right. My friend did Good luck. I’m happy for you. Best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:30 AM |
| 7 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Do you really trust a man to say I’m on the pill. Or trust me I had a vasectomy. Would love more options, but I have a son. And I love him but he is still a boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 13 | Men claim you have stronger feelings towards them to manipulate youA girls says hi to a boy. Girl means hi, boy hears she like me and wants to sleep with me. A girl passes by a boy and says excuse me. Boy hears wow I’m in to you and want to sleep with you. Boy bugs girls for a date and asks what are the chances. Girl say 1 in a million. Boy says so there is chance These are facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:51 AM |
| 37 | What it means to grow up in a pornified culture.Just shared this on my kids school’s parent Facebook page. Wish me luck in getting the school board to actually do something. Thank you so much for posting this. I am really glad I found you guys. Mum of girls. I truly need you to help them navigate the world they are entering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 23 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.What is so hard about some very simple rules. No glove No love You want sex. - please provide plan B Please make sure you have money in an account to pays for lost of work, travel expenses and the cost of an abortion. No dbag comments it’s not my kid. Simple rules to live by. You can add no porn or gaming/ how to act in public ie open doors don’t walk ahead. They are the lucky ones to be dating you. Not the other way around. Thanks Not that hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 05:55 PM |
| 7 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.Dear Jnn, I totally feel your pain. Mum of 4. I used to tell my hubby, (still do) I'm going out for a pack of cigarettes' and gallon of milk. That was an old metaphor for someone leaving and never coming back. That was his way of knowing I'm at my breaking point. You need to GET OUT. Take a long weekend. I'm totally serious. Happy wife happy life. Tell your husband I love you but I'm leaving for a long weekend. Go see you sister, or just go to a local hotel to get away. He will be fine with the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:23 PM |
| 20 | Hilarious Response to a Pickmeisha’s attempt to undermine the “don’t be polite to men who creep you out” songI think you are right. It was for political On Biden tax increases. But I love you guys. Thanks for not being snarky or mean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 17 | Hilarious Response to a Pickmeisha’s attempt to undermine the “don’t be polite to men who creep you out” songSeriously Amazon in 2018 posted 11bn that is Billion in earnings, paid Zero federal taxes and received a Refund of 129mm. Million. Fix the fucken tax code. But sure raise taxes and maybe they will only get 100 million back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 4 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleIt was 2016 in Utah. A principal at a sixth grade dance said that if you are ask to dance you must say yes. Well a girl was very upset and the parents took it to the media and principal. He apologized and it was determined in Utah you can’t require anyone to dance with some one. This was a national news and every constitutional lawyer said you can’t do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleWhat a minute, the school has a rule that if a boy asked a girl to prom and she says no then she can’t go to prom with someone else??? What if a girl asked a boy to prom and he said no, does that mean he can’t go with someone else?? That is BS. No school would do that. It is unconstitutional and against the law. It was challenged in courts when schools said if a person of your own age boy/girl etc asked you to dance you had to say yes. This was middle school - it was found unconstitutional. So I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 37 | Remember ladiesPlease don’t tell men you are bi or open to anything. Just to get their attention or be cool. You say yes I’ve been with women. They hear. Porn star and think I can live out my sexual fantasy. I try to remind my daughter and her girlfriends that it is no one business your sexual orientation. Especially not boys you want to date or just be friends with. My two cents. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Female socialization starts youngFirst, believe it or not kids have some sense of agency. If a girls doesn’t like dolls most likely she will never get one. Also boys that like to cook. Will probably get cooking stuff. All one year olds like walker. Whether it’s a baby carriage or shopping cart. They also like books, bath toys, blocks and of course the empty cardboard box to sit in. When in doubt ask the parent. But the number 1 gift is money. Or a saving bond. They are one they don’t need anything. Stop focusing on girly things… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 04:28 PM |
| 18 | For those who deleted dating apps, how did you get over the fear of missing out?I did actual group dating - single volunteers, singles skiing joined groups started swing and country dancing - paid a fortune for just lunch and dinner for 8. Traveled with girl friends Iceland, Paris etc. I was still on a dating app but was very clear what I wanted. Must be able to get married immediately, no guys that are separated, must want kids; must have a career; no porn, no gaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:58 PM |
| 11 | Would probably sprain my thumb from the force of that block and deleteBlock him and delete, never respond. Like most men they get off on getting a reaction from you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 28 | The man who shot and killed 8 people, 6 of them Asian women, in Atlanta massage parlors yesterday is now blaming his sex/porn addiction.I have no doubt that he was taught that women are nothing but objects to be abused. Porn is everywhere and now it is going to be the excuse for murder. But society says sex work is empowering to women, Grammy and WAP are telling kids that women are only worth is their pussy but I ran a Zoo is bad for society. This will not be an isolated incident. So mad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:01 AM |
| 81 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.I just gave my 16 yr old daughter pepper spray. Where I live a male judge let out a violent rapist without an ankle monitor because the crime was against his ex girlfriend Guess what happened? yep he killed her. As a mom I read your post and comments so I have a better understanding of the world my girls are entering. Thank you for letting me join this group. Best Edit: they wanted to name the local high school after the judge. It was one mistake that he was sorry for in in an otherwise illustri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:50 AM |
| 23 | They're working overtime to take our rights. Please keep yourself aware and fight this shit! My heart goes out to the women in Arkansas.Not happy but you can take personal action. 1. Buy plan B online ( yes I have 2 just in case) make sure your boy friend pays for this. 2 call plan parenthood and ask where you can get Norplant. Make sure your boy friend pays the cost for this. 3 if your boy friend wants sex say can’t unless you put money into a bank account for travel expenses, lost income and cost of an abortion. Once men learn that they are responsible for the cost of No Choice maybe they will think twice about taking our righ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:25 PM |
| 7 | Pornography is not the problem.We as women, mothers, sisters girls that are friends and girls friends needs to step in and ends this. Porn can’t not be acceptable or tolerate anymore. It isn’t just hurting girls but also destroying boys as well. I don’t know how to stop this. The radical feminists are saying sex working and porn is empowering to us. That women should act like men when it comes to sex the more the merrier without consequences. But I’m not a guy and don’t want to be one. Any ideas? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:04 AM |
| 17 | Pornography is not the problem.I was watching my middle schoolers zoom class in one of the kid’s brother had porn on in the background. The teacher told the kid to have his brother turn it off. Porn is destroying generations this is not playboy. Never go out with a guy that watches porn it distorts reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:19 AM |
| 24 | Violence Against Women In Media Is EXHAUSTINGYou are a lot wiser then I was. I used love SVU. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how these shows normalize violence and pornography. These shows only re-enforce the dominance of men over women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:57 PM |
| 25 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).As a mom, your kids are facing so much pressure and challenges and your job is to try to give them the best life you can do. You can. Not your neighbors not fake people on tv. Your actions effect your kids whether you like it or not. What she did should not matter but it does. Everyone is the dads that outer her are bad that she is bad. Not one person is saying what about her boys. The real victims are her children. No kid is proud and says wow my mom is a making tons of money by taking off her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:21 PM |
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