lidiakwon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	I’ve been out in the street doing day game and approaching men for 2 weeks now. It’s working! I had the most thrilling connection with this one guy..		lidiakwon	/r/seduction	27/04/18 03:35 PM
5	Going out solo as a woman is pretty hard. How do you guys manage to go out solo? I found it tough.. I'm used to having somebody along. You call that a wing, right? It took me over an hour to get over my approach anxiety. Maybe it's harder because I'm a woman..		lidiakwon	/r/seduction	03/05/18 04:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Trapped Saying "just be confident!" And then after blasting short guys or saying they instantly friendzone guys like me. I hear you. So you have an issue with the kind of women who would make a superficial judgement on you, and friendzone you. If you look back your personal experience of being rejected or friendzoned, is it really all just because of your height? You don't think there is anything you could've done differently to have better experience with women like avoiding being around a certain type…	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/20 08:43 AM
1	Trapped I appreciate the fact that I can see the truth about how hypocritical and shallow people are, but it is truly making me unhappy. I'm a woman, and I can still feel your frustration and how you feel stuck between these two apparent choices. I want not to hate women anymore, but at the same time, if I don't hate them, I will just provide them the attention and validation they want from average males like me. The reason you feel stuck, and even forced to hate women must be because you aren't happy w…	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/20 10:29 AM
1	I haven't swallowed the red pill but they seem to have some accurate points. How do I balance this for a healthy perspective? I still can't help but lend an ear when trp people say that there is some equation or game at work and that I happen to be on the losing end of it. Hey, I'm a woman and I understand where you're coming from, especially knowing how online dating is really skewed against men nowadays. In terms of actively pursuing companionship I'm on some dating sites and apps, which honestly I hate because I think they're mostly superficial and dehumanizing. I'm pretty sure a lot of other men, or even women woul…	/r/ExRedPill	06/04/20 07:34 AM
1	How do I curb my thirst/man up? Sounds good :)	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/19 08:52 AM
1	How do I curb my thirst/man up? Why don't you try to meet different women, then? What action are you currently taking to meet women other than her?	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/19 07:50 AM
1	How do I curb my thirst/man up? hmmm, why would you want to date somebody who doesn't appreciate you as who you are?	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/19 06:30 AM
1	How do I curb my thirst/man up? It's only natural that you care about how someone you like think about you. That's just a starting point of any kind of relationship between two people. My question is what it is that woman told you she wants, but you can't give?	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/19 10:56 AM
1	Trp has mostly damaged my skills with women Now you know what's not working and what you should avoid following. Then, a new question comes - do you know what you can follow instead? It's really important to find an alternative strategy. Otherwise, you can easily fall back to the old beliefs. What's your new way of being good with women?	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/19 10:53 AM
1	How do I get a GF after detoxing from the Red Pill? Just do the exactly opposite to what you've been taught by the redpill until you feel more comfortable with doing it like spending a good time with women doing non-sexual things, expressing yourself and being more engaging, showing your affection and interest as you feel, etc. Doing it just once or a few times won't really help, because like you said, your brain will still look for the pattern you were programmed for by the redpill and you will feel emotionally triggered. If you do the opposite …	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/19 10:46 AM
1	[HELP] I need to leave my mysoginistic tendencies What is it you've done so far to get along with women? Maybe we can start from there to figure what else you could do to change your situation.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/19 10:34 AM
3	I was not programmed for this It's good that now you are aware of what's not working at least. You can reprogram yourself for what's actually working and bringing you what you want. I'm sorry to hear what happened with that girl, but I'm sure if you don't give up and keep on trying to meet more women, you will again find who you really want to invest in. By the way, do you think it's too late to tell her about your feelings for her? It doesn't matter whether that will change anything with her, but I think you being able to e…	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/19 10:32 AM
2	I like this girl but... It seems like you still have this belief that you have to be a jerk to make a girl like you? Why do you assume that your way is wrong, and the other guy's way is somehow better? You can be who you are, but you want to feel comfortable and confident about who you are first to attract a girl. What specifically does it mean being yourself to you?	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/19 10:26 AM
1	I'm in Better Shape! But Less Confident??? I'm a woman, and what I can tell you is physically looking good will definitely help, but that's not the defining factor for women to feel attracted to you. It's a plus, but women find and feel confidence of a guy from how he feels about himself? If you're getting more self-conscious about how you look, and attached to your look too much, hoping it should bring you some rewards without working on other aspects of yourself, it will be actually off-setting the nice body you have. Having said this,…	/r/seduction	22/09/19 10:41 AM
2	Is he playing games? should i just move on? I’ve read your post several times, and it’s mostly about what happened, not what you want with him. You seemed to enjoy hanging out with him and having sex with him. So whether he seriously considered you as a girlfriend material or just wanted something more casual, you also got what you wanted and had a good time? So I hope you won’t doubt or regret what’s happened between you two so far. I’m not saying you shouldn’t pursue anything further with him, but having been on the receiving end of his…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/19 07:39 AM
2	I’ve been out in the street doing day game and approaching men for 2 weeks now. It’s working! I had the most thrilling connection with this one guy.. Thank you! I will try to share more of my progress soon :)	/r/seduction	28/04/18 02:49 AM
2	I’ve been out in the street doing day game and approaching men for 2 weeks now. It’s working! I had the most thrilling connection with this one guy.. But you know...from women’s perspective, it’s actually better than a guy being overly confident or dominant. Being approached by a random guy in the street itself is already pretty intimidating. Being gentle and empathetic helps us to feel a lot more comfortable receiving a guy...	/r/seduction	28/04/18 02:46 AM
1	I’ve been out in the street doing day game and approaching men for 2 weeks now. It’s working! I had the most thrilling connection with this one guy.. I really like your comment. I’m going to save it and read again before going out to the street. I completely agree that I started to be better at it when I didn’t get attached to the outcome so much, but just focused on the fact that I’m doing it. Although I sometimes even mention I’m nervous to a guy, it somehow comes out better than when I was trying to make the conversation right. I like the actual example of teasing you included here. I’m trying to work on being more flirtatious at the momen…	/r/seduction	28/04/18 02:43 AM