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Welcome to the other side dude! Freedom can sometimes be lonely but it feels good when you can do whatever you want.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 02:45 AM
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I hear you. I'm trying to cut out drinking as a whole. I was happiest when I was frequenting a coffee shop to work during covid (it was my third place and I have friends that call me to this day from that place). I had to move for work and now I understand I'm just not in a city for older single people. I'm moving to a big city as location really matters. But, you're fit and decent looking. Grocery stores, and activity places like the gym and all might be your place to pick up some hotties :)
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 02:43 AM
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Dating these days is tough. I have now mastered the apps. Really good pictures and you have to pay. Its not easy. I started dating after 10 years starting 2021. Its easy to get laid but to find quality women, damn pretty hard. I'm originally from another country so I'm looking to move to a very diverse area cause I just cannot find good quality where I'm at.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 02:39 AM
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Get the initial frustration out with a trip overseas. Then, with that out the window you'll be thinking clearly.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 02:22 AM
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I'm going through the same thing. I accept my faults. I don't need a woman to be happy. I was quite happy being single before playing my guitar and hanging out with friends. I will be there for my kid as much as I'm allowed to and will live life to the fullest. She made her call and is with whoever. It's not my business, it's all gone now.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/20 05:35 PM
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If you're heading for a divorce, make sure to document and screenshot everything.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 09:35 PM
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Getting a lawyer to say things works.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 08:51 PM
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Please get your own lawyer. Make sure to get free consultations and choose the best one with good value. The money spent there will be so worth it in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 02:41 PM
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Hey man, have you tried therapy. Listen to a couple of audiobooks like storms can't hurt the sky. Listen to things like stoicism where they want you to focus on what you can control, and not on what you can't. We are here to help. Reach out if you need to bro.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/20 12:04 AM
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Here's something that has a separation (that probably ends up in divorce) - The pursuit of happiness. Another one about how bad a former gf/spouse can be - Get him to the greek (this shows different sides of bad relationships). I also like watching movies I can relate to. Let me know if you any more suggestions.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/20 10:08 PM
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Try playing online games. It keeps me engaged and out of the darkness while I recover.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/20 03:27 AM
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It does get better my friend. I'm much better now than when I first found out of the affair. 10 years gone, just like that and a kid in the middle. I know you don't see it now, but I think you don't have kids and that's a blessing. You can have a clean break. Stay strong!
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/20 03:26 AM
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I know what you mean. I just want to move from where I'm living. Everything has memories. Hang in there and take it day by day. We know how you feel.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/20 12:46 AM
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Depending on how involved you are with the child you at least should get her for alternate weekends, etc. Don't worry hang in there. Things will be ok. Try to see whether you can build up a support network, therapist, mediation and all that. It's really traumatic and depressing at first. A lot of us went through this.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/20 12:45 AM
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Also, she can't take the child and not let her see you. She needs to get in touch with you as you have rights to the child as well and arrange visits.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/20 12:38 AM
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You were comfortable with yourself. That's the key to everything. With or without the intention of attracting the opposite sex.
/r/seduction23/04/20 05:52 PM
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This is spot on. It also looks at being happy with yourself no matter who you're with.
/r/seduction23/04/20 05:50 PM
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Bruh, it's not their decision. You have a court order so stop giving in. Get your girls to stay with you. You're their father, not some chump.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/20 12:23 AM
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I need you as my mentor mate.
/r/seduction30/03/20 08:29 PM
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I think we should simply start at the low end and work ourselves up. Just close our eyes and get it out of the way, lol.
/r/seduction30/03/20 06:46 PM
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Now, I'm scared to approach hot women, lol. But, I don't want anyone below her range either.
/r/seduction30/03/20 06:07 PM
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Lol, are you me? Same happened to me.
/r/seduction30/03/20 05:54 PM
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Thank you for this. I needed to read this post and the comments. It's hard to move on when you really loved, but day by day we heal. It will never be back to "normal". Acceptance. Mental strength. I think looking at stoicism and buddhism helps. Everything changes including people.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/20 11:54 PM
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Do you mind a DM as to how to go from 0 to hero?
/r/seduction19/03/20 06:17 PM
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Your story sounds similar to mine. And I'm just starting. I hope I can be as positive and change for the better like you. I'm wondering whether dating and stuff helped you. I desperately want to move on, and socialize, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/20 11:56 PM
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I didn't get hurt by her physically. But, I truly loved her and she found someone else. I don't know if it will ever stop hurting. But, it subsides with time. Time certainly heals. You have to actively start engaging in social situations, meet new people, reconnect with old friends/family, etc. You have to, otherwise, you will get sucked into depression.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/20 05:58 PM
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Thank you. All that you say is great advice.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/20 07:36 PM
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Thanks dude. Your words have helped me more than you know.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/20 07:35 PM
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Sounds very female biased.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/20 07:11 PM
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Thank you kind stranger. These words will help me get through today.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/20 06:10 PM
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