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lifeadept/r/askMRP12/07/19 08:08 AM
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lifeadept/r/askMRP13/02/18 06:50 PM
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lifeadept/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 09:56 PM
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actually I've noticed that I'm reading askMRP posts starting from comments - there is much more to learn in them, plus, only based on them I decide if the original post is worth my time at all
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 08:08 AM
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Along with all other, already mentioned, reasons for not hire your wife, consider one more reason: right now by being successful boss in your own company, with other possibly attractive women employed, you create some kind of mystery about yourself (increasing dread). Everyday she needs to guess what did you do during the day, who did you meet with, and so on. It is a side bonus of not working with your wife. Why would you ever want it to be removed?
/r/askMRP03/12/19 10:03 AM
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OP, don't forget that you don't do it for her
/r/askMRP24/09/19 10:17 AM
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The solution is to use DARE (https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8m8tqv/talking_with_women_always_dare_never_deer/) ​ It seems the original post is deleted, maybe someone archived it
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 11:59 AM
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Usually women try to make effort to give an impression that their men are high value (even if they think otherwise) - just to boost their own social status (high value men wouldn't be with someone low value, would he?). Thus, as other already wrote, such behaviour is a clear red flag for me. ​
/r/askMRP07/01/19 01:21 PM
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I've read PFSftPM just recently and found it, in my opinion, as the one the closest to what is learnt on this forum .. it is like reading an essence of the top forum posts in a single book. Although I need to admit that the pill is delivered quite directly in this book. ​ As for the recommendation - whole sidebar I guess, but the one book I can think of as being a great complement to PFSftPM (but more from male perspective) is certainly Way of the Superior Man
/r/askMRP31/12/18 07:32 AM
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probably you meant this one http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html?m=1 also, Practical Female Psychology is a good book position to start - summarize all main MRP concepts without actually talking about red pill
/r/askMRP30/12/18 03:21 PM
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We had a fight and I held frame this statement has no sense at all, unless fighting is part of your frame If you "held frame" you wouldnt see this event as a fight. Everything that doesn't fit in your reality is funny, amusing, or irrelevant
/r/askMRP07/12/18 09:15 AM
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OP listen to what BobbyPeru wrote - this is exactly your answer. My wife is similar, so here are some other points: - medium is a message, if she does not contact you then it means she doesn't need your help - DO NOT OFFER IT UNTIL ASKED!! it is very important unless you don't want to appear as needy - trust me - if she will need you (if only to vent), she will come to you; let her do this and lead her to other (more fun) things - you have right to set boundries if you don't like how things are …
/r/askMRP27/11/18 09:09 AM
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thanks for the statement vs. discussion advice. What do RS and LP stand for? Cant google it.... I took some personality tests in the past and they helped me to calibrate my career path so I see some value in them
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/18 08:37 AM
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thanks! I do have full trust from them, it is rather that they sometimes want to feel that they still follow up the project (although they dont and dont really have to - it is my job). I know what you have meant by your example and I do say sometimes something like "yes we do X, there are more details but we have them covered" when what I actually think is "dont waist my time". Funny thing is, this happens when technical people (my boss) go to management. I've just realized I'm doing the same th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/18 08:10 AM
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I like to be very precise and informed and, on some level, I assume that everyone likes things that way - thus I have a tendency to explain too much. Actually, subconsciously I treat too many statements as a question for clarification instead of them being shit tests or possibilities to AA / flirt. It made me to start putting extra effort into focusing on detecting such situations. I liked the linked article because it emphazises the problem - especially that it does it in non-RAMBO way. It even…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/18 09:36 PM
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Behaviour of your wife is very similar to my wife when she is under stress regarding her work. Also this: "knowing that she prioritizes motherhood above her career, but that she hates the way she feels when she's around the kids for longer than 2 hours, yet can be at work for 16 hours and be happy" hits ground in me. ​ About your questions: I wouldn't follow with explanations about being happy and smiling - either you are or you are not and it sounds like DEERing a little bit. IMO what Chad wrot…
/r/askMRP30/10/18 09:02 AM
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like and love is not the same ... Athol makes this distinction quite clear. I wouldn't want to be with someone I don't like.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 01:07 PM
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op, this is the answer. clean because you want it to be cleaned, have sex when you want it not when you think will be appropriate, kino because you like to touch her ... just do what you want
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:27 AM
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One day my wife said that "she isn't that into sex like she used to be when she was younger", now we have sex (she initiates) everyday despite her being pregnent in 9th month. Figure it out by yourself ...
/r/askMRP30/07/18 11:07 AM
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This is the situation I'm quite familiar with - my wife is used to completely focus on the project when one is up and all her emotions (usually negative) are about the work. I will give you examples what didn't work for me in the past and how I deal with it now. What I used to do was to offer solutions (that seemed obvious for me), sometimes engage emotionally in her pukes, and finally, sacrificing my time/hobby to allow her to spend 3 months working all the time with me doing all choreplays. At…
/r/askMRP25/07/18 08:36 PM
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don't fucking amplify. just agree. "yep totally lying." "yep you're exactly right." and roll your eyes and let the sarcasm just ooze in your tone. ... just agree with her but make it obvious you think she's an idiot. that'll shut the bitch up this. its very easy to implement and works pretty well especially when you cannot find any non-autistic amplify replay. and OP should DGAF more.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 06:55 AM
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I know and that was exactly why I have posted ... for some reasons I saw this situation to be different than usual bad behaviour; thankfully I've got reminded that "your most powerful tool is your time and attention" along with OP comment " I like to take the approach that you'll give an explanation once (so she knows that you don't just make decisions by feelz but through logic), and after that there is no more DEERing."
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 01:52 PM
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I fully agree with the post, but it only touches situation when there is a moment that at some point "the ball is on your side" - and this is exactly when you can choose how the NEED look like and act accordingly. It gets tricky when you don't have such moment. What do you think is a right approach in that case? Of course I can always tell her to do something my way but I don't really have power to enforce it. Following is an example of what I mean: Example: My wife is pregnant but recently star…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 10:36 AM
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Thank you for both links. I've read previously jack's comment on advanced fogging and even adopted it (mainly to deal with my wife) but never thought of it as a real try to see other person perspective - more like a fog that you tried and understand. The article about powertalk seems very interesting - will read it later.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 01:20 PM
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Apparently, but could you elaborate? As I wrote I do see occasional usefullness of those parts, but I can't really imagine always asking questions and giving suggestions instead of direct orders to employees or to wife/kids.
/r/askMRP13/02/18 07:18 PM
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I can see that you may be correct about confident issues - I do see some changes in my behaviour between similar events in similar environment taking place now and, lets say, 5 years ago. This is certainly something I need to keep working on. About Pearly - its an electronic device used to keep track of menstrual cycles (https://www.lady-comp.de/en/index.html)
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 06:16 PM
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I've started 5x5 in September 2017 but had to stop in November, started again in January (due to surgery I had and what is worse is that I will need another one because of hydrocele) - and they are weak anyway no more excuses, 5x5 are: SQ 195 DL 210 BP 145 Row 155 OHP 100; dont know my 1try maxes
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/18 07:36 PM
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I wanted to give a short report of my progress since I've found this forum on July 2017 and thank you all for your contribution in making male life better. I'm not native English so forgive me any gramma mistakes. some background: Me: 35, 188cm (6'2''), 93kg (204lbs), bf dropped from 23% to 18%, started lifting but still way to go Wife: 37, 165cm (5'5''), 48kg (105lbs), looking young and attractive for her age Marriage: typical BP history, she was my first real LTR, met soon after her 10 year LT…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 09:46 PM
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