lifeaftertheclub Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	“Interview with a Sociopath” - Sociopath admits he actively hones in to manipulate when he senses a person is weak; Behavior is similar to that of LVM/NVMs. Perhaps many of the LVMs/NVMs discussed here also have Cluster B personality disorders (including sociopathy, narcissism, etc) like this man. Yes they do, I am reading “when men behave badly” By David buss and it says explicitly that people with dark triad traits do these things / are LVM bc the only way they can trap people with them is to use negative tactics instead of just being a good person (because they never will be)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 06:48 PM
66	The title was « exactly why you should do coffee dates first » I started telling guys yes and then not showing up at all, just blocking them after they arrived. I would originally be interested bc of their profile but as soon as they offered a low effort date I would pretend to take the bait. If they’re going to waste my time, I’ll waste theirs too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 09:11 PM
–	The best thing about getting older and finding FDS is realizing that you don't have to "work" in a relationship - he is either great or you are gone. The one problem I have with FDS is that I didn’t find it sooner :) we need to start funding some billboards or something	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 01:19 PM
39	Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem? “Why men behave badly” by David buss explains that statistically men over estimate how attracted women are to them, and women underestimate. I’d also appreciate tips on how to attract men in “my league” (500k+ net worth, attractive, good personality) I have no doubt that good men don’t spend much time on the “dating market” though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 05:50 PM
170	He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!! Yes this is why I always drive myself to dates. Also they are not allowed to know where I live or drive me until they’re actually in a committed relationship with me. If a man decides he’s going to drive me to the woods or crash the car I’d be basically helpless. Many men cannot control these impulses and emotions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 01:19 AM
13	He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!! “Treat them like the free samples I received in Costco” This made my day 👍	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 01:17 AM
7	One of Y'all's 50/50 Boyfriends Is Posting About FDS lol Hey, this sounds like what my ex sounded like when he found out I was looking at FDS! It’s almost like women are coming together and sharing information, and men don’t exactly like that! I broke up with my ex due to FDS ideas and I thank you all for blessing me with more quality time with myself and my blissful peace in a clean house, cooking delicious meals, bubble baths, watching my net worth skyrocket… never would have had all that if I stuck with him!💕💕💕💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 01:54 AM
62	STOP BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR ABUSERS WHO BEND YOU FORWARD AND SCREW YOU. She is so fortunate not to end up like Gabby Petito, yet she still wants to be accommodating to her hobosexual ex who ousted her from a van in another state. When a man turns against you he will take all those kindnesses he gave you before and say “you’re a user/gold digger/stealing/whore.” This is exactly how my ex would try to keep me in my last relationship. If I left, it meant I “truly” was a whore and using him for his money. If I stayed, I was a whore too for being with a man just for his money. I would BEND OVER BACKWARDS to tell him I loved him, was attracted to him (these were true) but he knew in his heart he wasn’t good enough / he had awf…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 06:19 PM