lifebeginsat52 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Lessons Learned Ok. If you think cheating is the only thing that ruins a marriage, good luck having a better love relationship going forward.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/22 11:09 PM
0	Lessons Learned My point is, you're giving the impression that the cheating is what killed the marriage. And I'm assuring you that's not the case. The fact that her cheating occupies your mind, says you haven't accepted the end of your marriage. And the sooner you realize the symbiotic nature of your divorce, the better for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/22 01:58 PM
1	Lessons Learned No. And being cheating on hurts. But cheating is a tiny part of a reason for divorce. Blame only hurts the blamer. Is this really news?	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/22 01:55 PM
1	Lessons Learned Sure. If you think your wife was a broken person but you weren't, then you're mistaken. She did what she did. That's not changing. You are angry, and lashing out. What do you care about her or what she did? Focus on to yourself. You marriage is gone. Grieve and have fun	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/22 04:54 AM
1	Lessons Learned Cheating occurs because of a broken relationship. Cheating does not cause a relationship to end. If you focus on the cheating, you miss an opportunity to improve yourself. Don't worry about what she did. Concern yourself on how you can be better.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/22 04:43 AM
1	Lessons Learned Cheating is always due to existing problems in the relationship. The sooner you accept your responsibility, the sooner you'll heal, and the sooner you'll be able to be a better partner. Sorry if this is painful but its factual. It doesn't make you a bad person. But I can guarantee that blaming your ex 100% will not benefit you or your children (if you have any).	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/22 12:51 AM
1	Lessons Learned Read Rebuilding by Bruce Fisher	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/22 05:11 PM
1	Lessons Learned The betrayal is partly in response to you being a poor partner in your own way. You are 50% responsible in all divorces. Accepting your mistakes is integral to preventing another poor relationship	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/22 05:10 PM
1	Working on being grateful for our time together regardless of how it ended. Remember the feelings, not the circumstances is the advice I was given.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/22 05:38 PM