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| 2 | Ladies, how do you deal with returning a man’s belongings when you have no interest in talking to him ever again?I see your point but honestly, returning it to him is more for me than it is for him. I don’t entirely care about whether he wants the book or not, it’s more just the symbolism of giving it back to him and cutting off all communication with him. Afterwards we will have absolutely no reason to ever talk again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how do you deal with returning a man’s belongings when you have no interest in talking to him ever again?I haven’t flat-out blocked him but I’ve deleted our conversations and his number is “muted” (I shouldn’t get notifications if he messages me). I don’t really think that he would contact me again on his own accord, even if in response to getting the book. He’s a bit of a wuss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, how do you deal with returning a man’s belongings when you have no interest in talking to him ever again?You have a point. I think the reason he hasn’t asked for it yet is because he just isn’t able to talk to me again after the way he dealt with me. But I have a frail conscience so I’d rather just put it in an envelope and send it. It’s no big deal for me and it avoids me feeling guilty about it later on. In a way, it also stills allows me to grieve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how do you deal with returning a man’s belongings when you have no interest in talking to him ever again?I think this book has some sentimental value so I’m just going to ship it, no return address. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how do you deal with returning a man’s belongings when you have no interest in talking to him ever again?I would if it wasn’t for his mother’s signature and dedication inside. I feel guilty about that part. Thanks anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, how do you deal with returning a man’s belongings when you have no interest in talking to him ever again?Yeah, I might not even have them include a return address. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how do you deal with returning a man’s belongings when you have no interest in talking to him ever again?Yeah, I definitely think mailing it is the best option. Just because of the sentimental value. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, I’m happily single but my sex drive is too high. It sucks. How do I lower it?Haha, “no touchy thyself”, I love it ❤️❤️ let’s do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I’m happily single but my sex drive is too high. It sucks. How do I lower it?There are worse problems to have, probably. I’ll manage somehow. Thank you though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:59 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, I’m happily single but my sex drive is too high. It sucks. How do I lower it?Eeeewwwwwww. Okay I’m definitely disgusted and put off now, that much is true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, I’m happily single but my sex drive is too high. It sucks. How do I lower it?I was on the pill a few years back. Totally ruined my body and definitely did not work to lower my libido back then. Definitely not going back! But thanks for the idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I’m happily single but my sex drive is too high. It sucks. How do I lower it?I might actually do the equivalent of a NoFapChallenge where I don’t masturbate at all for 90 days or something along those lines. Maybe that’ll help too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:57 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, I’m happily single but my sex drive is too high. It sucks. How do I lower it?I hear you, sister. I think at one point I too saw sex as a way to feel wanted and loved and to seek validation. I’m not sure that’s the case anymore. I know men don’t like me and I’m totally fine with that. I feel like it’s an actual physiological need at this point. I definitely need to up my journaling game and self-therapy. Maybe instead of masturbating, or every time I feel the need to do it, I’ll go do some writing instead on why it is I feel the need to do it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:48 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, I’m happily single but my sex drive is too high. It sucks. How do I lower it?I don’t actually consume all that much porn at all, if any. I just have a very vivid imagination and that’s what gets me in the end. And yes, I sometimes just feel the need to get some relief from my urges even when I know that I have other stuff to do, that it’s pointless, that it doesn’t give me anything long term. It can be as simple as me lingering in bed longer in the morning and not going out for a run anymore. As I also suffer from anxiety, I’m the kind of person who sets up a schedule fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Basic redditor starterpackOh god, I can’t even 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:06 PM |
| 48 | Relationships are an option, NOT a necessityThis, queens! Chose to stay single from now on and have never felt better. Funny what changes after you get that weight off of your shoulders! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 04:21 AM |
| 35 | 100%100% this. And to be fair, no one in my life has, to this point, ever come close to it. I’m looking forward to enjoying plenty of years of blissful solitude ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 09:28 PM |
| 0 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️Lol, good job at taking what I wrote out of context, piling it together to fit your backwards narrative. I could perfectly have continued going out with dudes if I wanted. Finding them was never an issue. The issue was getting them to stay. And I don’t think that that’ll change after I lose 60 pounds. Men are men, their nature and attitudes towards me won’t change when I get “hot”. When I reach my bad-ass body I will be proud of myself for all that I’ve accomplished and work hard to maintain it.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 09:27 PM |
| 5 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️When I don’t have no option? I have plenty of options. I could keep dating right now if I wanted to. I’m just better than that. It’s not what I want for my life. Don’t blame this on me being ugly or fat. It’s true that I am both things but it’s never stopped me before. When I do get skinny I’ll still have zero intentions of dating. I don’t want men coming after me either. If you’re a woman - wow. What an embarrassing logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 08:34 AM |
| 36 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?When you put it like that... that little fragile masculine ego must be in shatters! Hahaha. Oh well. Leveling up towards infinity ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:24 AM |
| 48 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?Very, very true. We’re getting out of this so much stronger! 💪🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:15 AM |
| 30 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?It just makes them realize they’ll have an even harder time finding a woman who will take them hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:14 AM |
| 83 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?What surprised me the most is the amount of men who feel the need to be mothered and cared for. I swear to god, I could not find a guy who wasn’t incredibly dependent on me for something. It’s ridiculous. I don’t even want to have kids and now I have to be a mother to an adult man? Hell no. If you want to be told just how much of a good boy you are, to talk to your mommy. Jeez | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:13 AM |
| 60 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?That should be my new civil status. “26, female, offensively single” ✊🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:02 AM |
| 66 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?Goddamnit, now I am definitely going to live my best table life 💪🏻❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:51 AM |
| 46 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?So, you mean that they’ll actually have to put in some fucking work into making themselves desirable as a partner?! That’s some outrageous thinking you got there, girl. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:49 AM |
| 70 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?How DARE you not need a man?! ItS iN yOuR gEnEs. Hahahaha. Oh lord, lord, lord. Maybe if more women stopped lowering themselves down to such low levels we would not have to tolerate such bullshit 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:48 AM |
| 10 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️Here’s to investing in your true passions and interests, and making time for them instead of things that we feel obliged to care about! 💪🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:06 AM |
| 7 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️You got this 💪🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:01 AM |
| 9 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️Now is the time to grow and evolve. I am so happy you’ve realized this and are on the road to becoming the woman you want to be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:00 AM |
| 18 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️This is actually not a bad idea at all. There’s a lot to this sub that transcends to other fields of life beyond dating for sure! Keep on rocking ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:24 PM |
| 20 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️Just work on yourself, girl! And remember, there’s nothing that a man can give you that you can’t give yourself - even the orgasms we give ourselves are better than the ones we get from them, and to be fair, we get very few from them anyway! 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:24 PM |
| 55 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️I mean, I really have zero interest in dating anyone. And I mean anyone at all. Like, zero. Less than zero. Negative interest. In order for me to even consider it, he’d have to work his damn ass off to prove to me that he wants me. And I mean really work for it to even get a first date. And because I don’t really believe in men anymore and I don’t really think a dude would do that (in general, and for me in particular), I don’t even consider it an option 🤷🏼♀️ Don’t have time to lose anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 28 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️Hey! Better late than never. I definitely wish I had realized this much sooner... but had to go through my share of negative experiences to get there. No regrets. I already can breathe so much better! It’s funny how when you let go of some things it genuinely makes you feel so much lighter! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:14 PM |
| 42 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️I definitely hope so! In a way I’m proud that I’ve never had a relationship. I’ve never settled for things that I thought were beneath me... and the men I did want relationships with didn’t want me, but that’s on them. I keep seeing some of my friends who are relationship addicts and just jump around from relationship to relationship and quite frankly that is some real fucked up bullshit. Not knowing how to be alone is poisonous. I feel genuinely bad for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:12 PM |
| 91 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️Oh dear god, I can’t believe I am actually saying this because I never thought I’d get to this point in my life, but I kind of hope that doesn’t happen to me! All I really want to do is stay single and take photos and write and and travel the world, and men only hinder that 🙄🙃 don’t need distractions from my goals! Happy you leveled up and found a good dude though! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 75 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️True, true, true. I have zero interest in dating anymore, but I fully realize that I may be leveling up just for that. However, I hope I keep on leveling up continuously, and for myself, and not to find some scrote of a man who doesn’t appreciate me. Better off single than in bad company. I’m pretty sure there’s an adage out there somewhere that says that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 07:51 PM |
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