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As a child, I don't remember paying all of my mom's bills, guiding her or comforting her through emotionally tough situations, being the ultimate decision maker for her, or really supporting her in any way. To me, if your man is doing what men do, the concept of them being "babyed" because you do the very simple tasks of cleaning and cooking and some secretarial work is hard to square. If he wants me to spoon feed him and wash his hair, I'll do it. I'd still by far be the one more protected and …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 11:57 AM

I'd say practicing gratitude; and doing comparisons that aren't shame based. (1) I have a ten-minute meditation I listen to when ever I'm starting to go into a "fault finding mind." There's lots of gratitude meditations to listen to out there, and you can find one that is right for you. Other people find things like a gratitude journal more useful, gratitude crafts projects like a tree, or simply setting aside a few minutes in the morning to list three things you're grateful for. If you find you…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 12:13 PM
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No, there is no contradiction in my logic. Even if my actions or feelings were contradictory to my reasoning, that's not a flaw in thinking. I accept and fully expect that a male SO will be sexually interested in other women. That really doesn't make me feel insecure, it is just a part of male nature. I don't really care if she isn't getting his resources. I wasn't lying to myself about my male "friends" being my friends. I knew they weren't my friends. I knew they were people who would give me …
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 06:42 PM
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I don't believe that men and women can be friends. I've never believed that. There are exceedingly rare circumstances where it can be the case, but they are rare enough that for someone to assume a woman is lying to herself when she believes that she has a male friend who is not sexually interested in her is fair. It greatly benefits a woman who is not prioritizing her fundamental relationship to keep men around. Men will, by their nature, almost always side with her, protect her, and when push …
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 05:31 PM
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While I don't think this means anything in particular, I really question what men can generally get out of friendships with women. My hubby made me cut off ties with all of my guy friends when we got together (most of them a decade old), which I somewhat easily agreed to, because both he and I knew that there's really only one reason to talk to a girl. I have relatively masculine interests but still, a man can always get more out of a male friend with those interests without the downside of feel…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 12:38 PM
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I used to be very heavily armored and "independent." It was never particularly true to myself and made the men in my life feel less needed. While women may like to feel like they don't need a man, it is probably good for the health and longevity of the relationship if you do need him (or at least feel you do), and he knows that. I think admitting and acting as though you strongly desire his attention and affection is a good thing, and showing appreciation makes him want to give it to you. My SO …
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/18 05:04 PM
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Have you asked him what kind of food he eats at home? If you had a cuisine to point to, it might be easier for people to suggest something that fits that. I take great pride in my cooking, and luckily, my SO likes so many different things that I can be very experimental. Last night I might Middle Eastern chard and chickpeas with poached eggs. But like with a lot of men, meat, potatoes and salad are the favorite meal. One thing we both really enjoy and is souvlakis served with fresh pita and a Gr…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/18 04:45 PM
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