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Its because they are jealous. I am very succeful career wise for a woman my age. but if I have the chance, I would absolutely love to be a stay at home mom, since I think raising a family is the most important thing a woman can do. And im quite confident I can pull off a guy who would allow me to do that, 90% of woman cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:11 PM
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I know a girl who is dating an nhl player who makes 9million a year, they have a one way open relationship where he is allowed to fuck other girls, but she isnt allowed to fuck other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:50 PM
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attractive men arent cowards, they are in the dms, not the comment sectiion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:52 PM
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do we actually know what percentage of the population in the age group you are talking about is single vs in a relationship tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:36 PM
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well yeah im 22. and im talking about the single ones. theres an abundance of data on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:28 PM
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woman dont like the ass kissing and white knighting tho. trust me, the men commenting how hot a girl is on their instagram photos are not having sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:22 PM
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oh trust me they all pursue younger woman, maybe not for serious relationships but for casual sex they definitely do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:19 PM
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Im 22 and work in finance and ngl its hard to tell the difference between my male coworkers who are 25 and the ones who are 40. But it is a competitive industry and the men tend to take care of themselves healthwise, eat well and gym before work. so perhaps not the norm the older woman I work with dont seem to age as well as the woman I know who work less stressful jobs, and are alot more masculine and less friendly so I somewhat understand what the men in here are saying, but I also doubt most …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:06 PM
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well I have an average amount of followers and my account has always been private, and its never been an issue for me, if anything I have had men tell me they prefer it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:41 PM
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guarantee they arent judging how many followers and likes you get
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:27 PM
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I think men who take instagram too seriously are cringe and too feminine for me 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:27 PM
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isnt asking for instagram over a phone number less creepy? easier to block and not be harassed, I prefer giving out my instagram over my number, and I do not take ig seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:24 PM
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The problem is theres a ton of beautiful woman who have average amounts of instagram followers and private instagrams, you just wouldnt realize this because their accounts are private. Honestly alot of the girls I know who have large followings are pretty average irl and date average guys, and alot of them live or pretend to live the luxury lifestyle you see because they are pay to play. sure they will have one night stands with blue checks, alot of girls do, but the number of blue check and fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:22 PM
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thats a very small percentage of guys then. even the really socially awkward and weird men I have known had atleast one friend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:21 PM
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its harder for men to make friends? news to me, and against every anecdote I have seen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:47 PM
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meh, it depends what you consider slut shaming. it seems like the sexually succesful men are less likely to view a "slut" as a longterm relationship prospect. the really slutty girls I know always end up with the nerdy socially akward guys who were never succesful sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:21 PM
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Ive been asked a few times, but it was more of a casual just fun conversation rather than a serious one. but ive also heard guys say they can just tell if a woman has a high count, and that makes sense because as a woman I can usually tell aswell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:29 PM
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so your basing your "men dont wanna date anymore" on what? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:32 PM
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how is it sad? Men ask me on dates and try to date me. Men dont try to date you. and Im the sad one? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:28 PM
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I work with very high earning men and It really doesnt seem like they care what a woman does for work. I dont necessarily think being a career woman or succesful is seen negatively, but working very long hours and acting masculine seems to be a negative
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:20 PM
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lol you know im right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:17 PM
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whenever I see a woman saying that "men dont try to do dates anymore" you are inadvertently broadcasting that you are a low value woman. Men definitely still try to "do dates" when they view you as a potential relationship partner. You are confusing sexual attraction with relationship attraction, this is sooo common in woman. If men are only viewing you as a sexual conquest than they consider themselves out of your league and are thinking "yeah id fuck her if its easy, but no way am I taking her…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:30 PM
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Yeah im saying most girls arent going around measuring dicks with a ruler and talking about how many inches a guy is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:43 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:16 AM
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who cares, this subs way to obsessed with penis size. all i know is that men who have bigger dicks can make me orgasm faster, I dunno how many inches they are but I know they are bigger than others. but I also havent been with a ton of men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:13 PM
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seekingarrangements .com lol jk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:02 AM
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alright well I guess I just have access to tall guys on demand then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:57 AM
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pretty much every man I have met who is socially succesful and financially succesful is pretty "redpilled" even if they arent aware that they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:31 AM
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yeah but you are alot older than me, people are taller these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:28 AM
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i said the white ones are tall lol, im from alberta originally and the guys are way taller there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:50 PM
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I know in canada it seems like most men I know are over 6ft, or atleast the white guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:26 PM
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I think any guy in the top 40% can pull it off if they are confident (source: I have had guys who arent that attractive pull it off on me) you probably just cant read social cues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:41 PM
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another woman chiming in here. we 100% do it to draw attention from men and to be ogled at
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:13 PM
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These posts are so dumb. obviously a combo of the two is the most ideal and its not that uncommon. but if I have to pick #2. even tho the poetic part sounds cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:19 PM
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but is it sexual interest or relationship interest? sounds like alot of excuses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:00 PM
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ive never heard it and I worked as a server all through university. maybe its just an american thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:22 PM
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the conservative part kind of throws me off because a canadian conservative is very different from an american conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:20 PM
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most people arent that into politics and not married to their ideas as much as reddit is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:07 PM
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you arent interested in men in your socioeconomic class or they arent interested in you? not trying to attack you, ive just seen alot of woman who are lawyers struggle with dating since they works such long hours and alot of them (not all) tend to have quite masculine personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:06 PM
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Significantly hotter than a barista at starbucks or a bartender. Significantly less hot than the "white collar" finance, tech, entrepreneur bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:51 PM
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they still have to choose to do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:52 AM
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I work in finance (still very male dominated) but I live in canada and we have so many fast track programs for woman and quotas that you can move up in a company way faster if you are a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:24 AM
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most people have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:22 PM
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you arent an average looking woman if no men just randomly hit on you. seriously, im not trying to be mean but even the girls I know who are average to below average looking get hit on quite often
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:23 PM
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As a woman I agree its easier for dating, and easier in the workplace (atleast where I live) I disagree with friendships though, I get jealous of mens friendships sometimes they seem to be longer lasting and stronger bonds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:48 PM
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I think the men in this sub think any man who is confident is a "bad boy" while its just simply confidence and not being a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:45 PM
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lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:42 PM
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but like I dont think woman need to use "infidelity dating sites" to cheat lol these studies seem very one sided and like massive generalizations, and they dont really make sense with the title of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:41 PM
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I dont ever see the "high value woman" picking the "thugs, or bad boys" lol, maybe the fuck boy, but I still see woman around me going for the financially succesful men even if they themselves are financially succesful, and especially woman from wealthy familes almost exclusively go for guys who are either from wealthy families or are wealthy themselves. most high value woman are not going for the "bad boy thug drug dealer" there are enough chads that are financially succesful, and despite what …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:36 PM
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average in america or wherever your from. not where I live, its 110 here. all evidence you have cited is from really subjective weird sources, you cited a study that you clearly didnt even read lol. I think you need to get out in the world a little more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:58 PM
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a 110 IQ is an average IQ is many countries, and within certain demographics and socioeconomic groups. so conversation over, you are just an average IQ guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:52 PM
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I complained about the study because it involved taking 200 people and rubbing "testosterone gel" on them right before a test, not very scientific. they didnt even take the participants baseline levels of testosterone etc. Its a dumb study. and its from cut of all places, not exactly objective. the fight situation is dumb, do you actually know any men who are over the age of 22 who get in fist fights anymore. Most men walk away, especially the bigger ones because they arent scared. its actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:32 PM
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because if you are so shy and lacking in confidence you probably havent interacted with enough humans and dont have enough friends or relationships to actually have enough anecdotal evidence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:26 PM
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any evidence for this? or is this a coping mechanism for you? because my anecdotal experience says almost the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:06 PM
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I agree but its also blue pill guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:18 PM
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have you ever seen one of those top 1% best looking guys interact with a group of guys before though? they arent typically the alpha or leader or the group, and they get ripped on by the other guys just as much as the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:56 PM
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oh so your only talking about like the top 1% best looking guys and thats your only criteria for a guy being a chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:52 PM
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I think we have different definitions of what a chad is then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:50 PM
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or like maybe confidence and intelligence isnt correlated?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:43 PM
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Honesty in the industry I work in, and the industries my friends work in, the chad type guys are most succesful, and all the entrepreneurs I know are chad types, wents to a private school where you had to score high on an IQ test to get in and there where still plenty of chads, in university I knew plenty of chads who partied 3 nights a week barely studied and got straight A's. plus I would assume people who exercise and eat well have better functioning brains, and those are chad and stacy trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:36 PM
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sorry I didnt see the "early teenage girls" part I just saw teenage girls and though you were reffering to 18 and 19 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:31 PM
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But I guess what you are trying to tell me is that woman are smarter than men in your theory so thanks for that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:27 PM
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No they arent. its likely a mix. your just an introvert who probably thinks they are way smarter than they are. lol did you even read the article you linked? thats literally the dumbest study I have ever read and is not scientific whatsoever and has a very small sample size
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:26 PM
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well you have a large amount of young woman signing up for sugar daddy sites to go after old men lol so it cant be too uncommon. Ive heard of girls who go to fancy restaurant alone and sit at the bar to meet older men aswell but honestly now that im in the corporate world its hard even tell the difference between a 25 year old man and a 40 year old man who keeps himself healthy. I know alot of girls who have the older guy fetish , maybe not necessarily for longterm relationships but for casual f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:10 PM
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Ive never done it either, I dont think its super common, but it definitely happens enough for most people to know someone who has done it. Im sure woman are more likely to keep this one on the down low though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:06 PM
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honestly I think more woman would rather be a stay at home mom (atleast in the early years) but its just not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:00 PM
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I would argue the more intelligent men tend to have the most success with woman, as much as the sub hates it alot of chads are actually above average intelligence (atleast where I live and the groups I have been around) The average looking smart white guy always has more relationship options than the tall muscular drug dealer guy. only exception is the guy whos so smart that he is kind of autistic, those guys dont seem to do to well, but thats more their social skills than intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:57 PM
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status is more important than looks lol. post malone is gonna have access to sex with way hotter girls than some 10/10 male model no ones heard of
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:52 PM
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I agree, I think alot of men here are basing this purely off of online dating, not realizing tons of girls arent even on OLD and some that are only check it once a month if that, that being said though, really good looking guys seem to get away saying whatever they want (stuff an average looking guy would never get away with) and still being able to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:50 PM
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The first two I see alot of and I agree. The last point though I only half agree with, I know some average to above average looking guys with good personalities who do struggle with dating, they only get sex like once a year etc, but do tend to have relationships with attractive girls every once and a while, I just remember every one of my ex boyfriends would have a few friends who you just assumed where having adequate amounts of sex and relationships based on how they looked and acted in socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:45 PM
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I know lots of girls who arent having one night stands or fwb and arent sneaking off to have sex with chad in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:42 PM
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I know a few. usually either the high payed average looking career woman who thinks she deserves a man whos a 10 because she makes money, or the girls who spent their time doing some sort of sex work (onlyfans, sugar baby, escorts etc). But usually they snap out of it after a certain age and start going for men who are in their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:41 PM
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this one I have to disagree with lol ive met woman who have done this or something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:37 PM
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lol what? why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:25 PM
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I like both. I almost prefer the "dad bod" jason mamoa picture that was going around, still huge muscles and I liked the water weight on his belly. if thats a dad bod then I love dad bods, but I dont think thats what many would consider a dad bod outside of the internet lol his physique looks good in every picture/video I have seen him in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:16 AM
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this is just a sad post you clearly dont have any experience with woman, nor are you close with any men who have experience with woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:14 AM
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you came out of nowhere and attacked me saying wild shit. what happened to you growing up ? lol so triggered. do you interact with humans in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:04 PM
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summerinmontauk lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:57 PM
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some guys its just genetic having a 6 pack though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:32 PM
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well I like tall men with muscles. every guy I have dated has gone to the gym 5+ days a week but you wouldnt know they were "gym bros" go to your local equinox, obviously not every guy there is wealthy or has a good job but alot of them do and still workout daily, its a very white collar environment (atleast in my city) jason mamoa body type is ideal, although he is 6'4 and probably one steroids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:26 PM
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well jason mamoa is also 6'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:24 PM
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so thats steroids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:38 PM
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so you think the super rich men over the age of 35 with near perfect physiques arent atleast on TRT? you are delusional lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:18 PM
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no they are all roided out lol. keep in mind the rock literally just claimed to be natural, they wont say they are on roids because they dont want kids to do it. If they are over the age of 35 and that muscular and lean they are on TRT at the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:55 PM
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oh lol. well I agree with the bald 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:50 PM
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italians are white tho ? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:48 PM
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That fine, plenty of people have preferences in race when it comes to dating. its more your post history that makes it hypocritical lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:47 PM
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hahaha basically. I like a guy who only does moderate amounts of steroids. but not too much steroids. you realize chris evans is 100% on the steroids right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:41 PM
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you dont like tall men but like short and stocky with broad shoulders but dont like muscles? thats alot of contradictions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:28 PM
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according to other woman in this sub, im supposed to be attracted to 100 pound feminine looking boys who wear makeup and if im not it means im from the ghetto. but in reality Im attracted to tall strong muscular masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:25 PM
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I dont think she has interacted with many men, or seen any without their shirts on lol. or she probably think a guy who is 100 pounds smokes cigarettes and malnourished but has abs is athletic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:20 PM
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I think we have different definitions of what "athletic" looks like lol most athletes dont look like roided out gym rats, although alot of professional athletes are on steroids (or have been at some point). im talking like moderate muscle mass and lean physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:19 PM
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if this is true though, is casual sex just ONS or a guy the girl sees for a couple days, weeks or months and then moves on (never officially dating)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:36 AM
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Yeah fair. I wasnt really talking the bodybuilder or steroid type of muscular. I just still dont really agree with OPs argument though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:28 AM
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I would more blame the fats for global warming
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:02 AM
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I mean muscle mass can be genetic too. but also wouldn't a group that has more free time to go to the gym or exercise etc typically have more classically gendered physiques? but it can vary by country and region alot aswell. Like in canada for example lots of the popular sports are full of upper middle class people. hockey for example which is definitely the most popular sport in canada is very expensive and the men who become succeaful it tend to come from wealthier families but also when I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:51 PM
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but in north america it seems like low socioeconomic men are either obese or really skinny (and sometimes the occasional roid freak) , and the higher socioeconomic men are lean and muscular? thats how it seems to be in canada atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:16 PM
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6'0-6'5 ,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:11 PM
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depends. ive heard of guys who had a few hundred girls through their time in university. If you ever have met a pro athlete or celebrity some of those guys have hundreds and thousands. its like ordering a pizza for them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:17 PM
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I dont care if other people are sleeping around, men or woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:14 PM
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as someone whos ex boyfriend was roommates with "top 10% men" in university, they had new girls coming over for sex daily, sometimes twice a day, made me pretty uncomfortable. Lots of girls know about it, I just dunno if everyone knows the extent. Theres guys who have reputations for having slept with hundreds if not thousands of girls. this is a very confusing post. I think you might just be out of the loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:11 PM
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you attacked me first, and took it really really personally lol. why you so angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:03 PM
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im not sure about this. As someone who grew up in a upper class environment, the upper class men actually tended to have muscles and were tall and quite masculine etc. maybe because they could afford to play sports and had the free tine to go to the gym etc. Now they werent the bad boy drug dealer types covered in tattoos, but still what would be considered quite masculine, similair to how woman from affluent families tend to be in better shape physically and able to explore feminine hobbies etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:56 PM
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im a woman idiot. i was pointing out something that I have seen my peers do, I never said I do it. I dont really sleep around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:47 PM
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One thing I have noticed that alot of girls I know do, and that you see alot of woman bragging about on the internet is saying. If they go on a first date with a guy and dont like him or respect him or dont view him as ltr material, they will have sex with him on the first date. and If they do view them as ltr material or as a nice respectful guy, they will make him wait 3 dates or whatever number of dates. I dont get why woman do this, it incentivizes men to be assholes and disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:19 PM
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I work in finance. I got the money for investing in a startup from crypto. I got lucky with the crypto for sure. and I got a full ride scholarship to university for my academics and sport so im not saddled with student debt like alot of my peers. I also have female privilege though in the fact that my company has a fastrack promotion system from woman, and I was able to make tons of money in tips while serving during highschool and university (which I bought a bunch of bitcoin and eutherian with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:07 PM
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mine was self made too. mine came from work, investing in a startup and crypto lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:56 PM
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Im already more financially succesful than you LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:13 PM
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nah, you just sound like a guy who pays for pussy and is jaded he doesnt have the looks, finances, body or social status to attract woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:46 PM
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most ultra wealthy people arent in the public spotlight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:40 PM
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Yeah fair, same. honestly this is way to big and complex of an issue to get into over reddit comments lol. I appreciate you be respectful and open minded tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:31 PM
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lol so you have no idea what you are talking about then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:30 PM
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I agree with alot of what you said but its over generalizing things. You gave a very "big liberal american city" take on things I really dont have time to write out a big long rebuttal but im canadian and it seems like things are very different here, especially in the more economically conservative provinces.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:15 PM
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I dont think you have interacted with many women then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:57 PM
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Yes you can lol. have you met an ultra wealthy person before? you realize you can start a company and build it up without stepping on people? someone being unable to compete doesnt mean you are stepping on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:51 PM
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I dont think you have met any super wealthy people if you think they have to be a sociopath lol. Powerful maybe, like I dont get why anyone would want to be a politician unless they are a but of a sociopath. but I know very wealthy people who are very lowkey, you wouldnt really know if you just met them randomly, and they donate a shit ton of money to charity, and use it to help out friends and family. source: I work in finance and have uber wealthy clients and coworkers, and also grew up and we…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:45 PM
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there is that guy who hangs out on the street in yaletown in front of his rolls royce and asks for your phone number and then when you decline he is like "but look, I have a rolls royce, doesnt that change your mind" lol that guys creepy and ive encountered him like 3 times, I guess thats kind of catcalling, but Id more likely classify that as creepy/desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:26 PM
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what type of girl? because I definitely would consider myself quite attractive (my ex was an nhl player), Ive modeled when i was younger (hated it), managed to get on raya simply because of my looks, and I typically date and attract the top 10% of men, and I never have been catcalled in vancouver and Im walking around downtown daily. are you counting homeless people who ask for money or just say random gibberish? because that happens but that also happens to males I know. but I do get the guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:24 PM
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Chunka23 lol triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:25 PM
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you realize there are tons of attractive girls who dont post thirst traps on instagram etc, you just dont see them because their accounts are private, and you clearly dont meet them irl lol. as for dressing "slutty" sometimes it looks like you are dressing slutty just because you have a well maintained physique, and dressing slutty doesnt make you a slut, honestly the girls I know with the highest knotch counts tend to be average to below average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:43 PM
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I live in downtown vancouver. Oh I have seen those stories, im not saying it doesnt happen but I dont think its as common as people make it out to seem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:43 PM
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where do you live? not saying you are lying but I have been catcalled twice in my life and the guys were like 12 years old so I wasnt threatened. and my friends say they dont get catcalled either, maybe its just not a thing in canada
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:54 PM
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It depends so much on the guy and his features etc. like if a guy is tall, muscular with nice body, he will probably look best in just a t shirt and jeans or a polo shirt. But if the guy is super skinny or fat he might need to layer or wear different fitting clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:20 PM
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not gonna lie I have seen it happen lol. Theres these two guys my brothers are friends with and we used to go and pre drink at their place. They rented a house with a big front yard in a high foot traffic area right by the beach, and when they would be out drinking on the lawn and whenever a group of attractive girls walked by they would yell "you girls are hot" and they always got a positive reaction, and some of the girls they "catcalled" would often come into the yard and hangout and they had…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:07 PM
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Orange_Paisley well yeah, I havent seen anyone in here say to wear dirty sneakers. but theres $100 sneakers that are considered stylish in my age group. I dont expect a man to wear fancy dress shoes on a date, most wear plain white sneakers or blundstones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:57 PM
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I dunno, in my age group most of the really wealthy and attractive men arent wearing suits and dress shoes lol. A nice watch is pretty much the only wardrobe item men in their 20s flex with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:37 PM
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ShaktiSun meh, I dunno though, because if a man has a really nice body, then a simple t-shirt and jeans looks amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:29 PM
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gay male influencers tho. you arent negating my point at all lol. musicians have been wearing makeup for decades and it hasnt caught on for straight men ever, unless they are emo or gay, you arent gonna start seeing pro athletes or super masculine men wearing makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:26 PM
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im 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:07 PM
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you can only reference well known muscicians etc. If I see a random guy walking around with makeup I am likely to assume he is gay. telling men they should start wearing makeup is only going to give them a harder time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:40 PM
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how is that homophobic? I like dating masculine men, that doesnt make me homophobic. Unless you are saying all gay men are feminine? because I think that makes you the homophobe....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:22 PM
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terrible advice. If I see a man wearing makeup I will assume he is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:50 PM
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I have to say its a pretty unfair comparison. My ex boyfriend has a very strong jawline but always had a beard because he would literally have to clean shave it twice a day if he wanted to be clean shaven, it grew in that fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:48 PM
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ewww thats creepy. so you just prey on insecure men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:09 PM
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if he is 6'5 and 270 pounds of muscle (not fat + muscle) at the age of 45, he is on all the steroids just so you know lol not an answer to the question just warning you that guy is on all the steroids lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:18 PM
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how old are you? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:16 AM
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what? you dont think its normal for someone to not want their partner to hangout with one on one with a person of the opposite gender at their home? I dont think you have interacted with a straight woman before. guarantee 90+% of straight woman wouldnt want their boyfriend going over to a womans place alone to hangout with them one on one. wanting monogamy isnt a red flag or insecurity. You seem mentally ill and like your just butthurt woman dont want to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:04 AM
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im insecure for having a personal preference? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:55 PM
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Yeah I was gonna say. Ive never been called a slut by a man (to my face atleast) but I have by woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:54 PM
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from my experience the guys who say they "give a fuck about a woman's orgasm" are creepy and probably bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:51 PM
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Where I live I think its far easier for women to make money than men, so I guess its different culturally. I live in a very liberal city in canada and theres like legit brothels that are run as businesses so its pretty safe to say they arent being trafficked since its highly regulated. But I dont know of any male brothels targeted towards woman (not that im looking lol). but you would think it would be just as common for woman to get prostitues as it is for men(not saying its super common but re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:46 PM
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I havent dated a bisexual man before and I dont think I would. So I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:39 PM
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I think men have a higher sex drive. and like variety of partners alot more than the typical woman but I get the vibes that you havent been in a healthy relationship with a woman if you dont think woman have high sex drives with a man they are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:34 PM
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how come in places where prostitution is legal or decriminalized there arent just male brothels that woman are sneaking off to then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:31 PM
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Ive only ever seen this argument on reddit tbh. Incels, prostitutes, and onlyfans etc would probably be almost non existent if woman had the same sex drive as men. plus look at how many men get driven crazy by not having sex, whereas many woman choose to be celibate for long periods of time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:28 PM
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I have no problem with a man being bisexual. But if I was dating a bisexual man I wouldnt feel comfortable with him hanging out one on one with a guy, just like I wouldnt feel comfortable with a straight boyfriend hanging out one on one with another woman. All of my exes have been very straight and I had zero problem with them hanging out with their guy friends or sleeping at their guy friends places, I wouldnt feel the same way if he was bisexual. Its just a personal preference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:25 PM
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but also its definitely more of a big city thing I think. probably depends alot on the level of inequality, my city has very high inequality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:23 PM
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Oh I totally agree that the girls making alot of money are a small percentage. But from what I have seen it seems like alot of girls cant find a longterm sugar daddy but end up just finding a few guys who will pay them to have sex every once and a while, and some of them have pretty low ppm prices so the guys dont actually have to be. that rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:20 PM
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I work in finance and my company has a fast track program for woman, so I got promoted after only 6 months of being there (and yes I agree thats sexist but im benefiting from living in an extremely gynocentric society, canada).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:37 PM
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I work in finance. My company has a fast track program for woman lol so I got promoted after 6 months of being there. I live in Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:27 PM
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sure. Im assuming you dont have a dad judging by the fact you are a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:44 PM
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good luck never finding anyone and never having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:41 PM
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instagram is the worlds largest dating app. people who dont use it for dating are missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:53 PM
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ewww stay at home dad 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:50 PM
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No lol . so many woman dont even use dating apps because they have so many options irl. I literally only downloaded dating apps because my country has extremely strict covid restrictions. You have to keep in mind that attractive and confident men pursue woman irl and have no issues approaching a woman and introducing themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:46 PM
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if you think all sex is transactional, and that no one ever has easy low effort sex for free then you are a bottom of the totem pole man, well below average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:26 PM
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triggered lol who cares. I call cap on most of what you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:56 PM
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obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:55 PM
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and how much do you make? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:29 PM
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I dont care that much unless he is unemployed or an idiot. I prefer a man who makes atleast similar amount to me, but I dont think thats unrealistic. Most of the attractive men are also wealthy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:54 PM
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Same. They literally have no idea. its very sad, and they are the type of guys who would drop the girl if they found out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:50 PM
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What I described is like a top 30% or 40% man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:49 PM
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Theres definitely hot in shape older men who just want to fuck a 20 year old. theres definitely alpha men and men who have lots of sex for free still pay for sex on occasion. I know woman who have boyfriends and have sugar daddies its very sad and the boyfriends dont know Some of them enjoy doing it. and not all sugar daddies are old and ugly. most are but not all of them. I think with the attractive ones its more about paying the girl to leave after and not having to put the effort in
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:37 PM
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she clearly doesnt view men as humans. I feel really bad for her boyfriend. I hope he find another woman. Its one thing appreciating someone doing something for you, but she basically uses sex as a weapon and a bargaining tool in the relationship. she clearly doesnt even like having sex with him. Very sad! internalized misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:31 PM
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100% agreed. yes all is a reach lol. I just find even if a guy is really good looking if he isnt smart or succesful or good socially and confident I wouldnt consider him a chad. but looks for guys is like half genetic and half what they do (gym etc, hygiene etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:19 PM
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I bet the girl you have a crush on has been on a sugar daddy site, make a fake sugar daddy account and see. I legit think this is common in western countries unless a girl is under a 5 looks wise, or comes from a wealthy family with two parents
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:15 PM
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confident, smart, disciplined , gets what he wants, succesful, funny, large social circle with many friends, good social skills etc and looks wise preferably tall and goes to the gym. but honestly looks dont matter nearly as much as the way a man conducts himself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:13 PM
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probably because its easy, tax free money. and theres sugar daddies who are hot and alpha chad types. and no one will find out about it likely, hence why everyone is reacting so crazy to this post. Sugar dating is basically a huge secret amongst woman and many men have no idea. I live in canada, its likely more common in big cities ( I live in what would be considered a big city in canada) but im from a smaller city and those girls are still being flown out to the big cities by sugar daddies, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:08 PM
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its more than enough. you havent been that guy then. Theres guys who are 7s and 8s who still have woman messaging them on dating apps, and IG asking to have sex on occasion. plus house parties, clubs , bars etc. You clearly just dont have the social skills or social circle. If you think low effort sex isnt a thing for a certain percentage of the population its pretty sad tbh, and you clearly dont have enough friends who you are close with that would divulge this information to you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:01 PM
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im sure it happned. celebrities and pro athletes etc were still fucking thousands of girls back in the day, sure its easier now. But its just easier for woman to sleep around and no one finds out these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:57 PM
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theres tons of broke average looking guys getting laid. you clealry have nothing going for you if you think thats not the case. go make friends irl plz
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:53 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:52 PM
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hahah exactly. I know girls who preach socialism and communism on social media but still only fuck with rich guys or have sugar daddies. the hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:45 PM
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Im not gonna break down every "chad" I knows degree information lol. as far as careeers, finance, engineering, marketing , sales, tech, entrepreneur etc. and no most werent "wealthy" before, middle class for the most part, but also I know some who came from very poor families, but also some who came from well off families. hate to break it to you but social skills, charisma, drive, discipline and social network is very important to getting a good career and making lots of money (and those are "c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:37 PM
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I think seeking arrangements is the main one people use
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:45 PM
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the majority of girls I hang out with are in the top 20% best looking girls, and yes some are models lol. and we are youngish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:49 PM
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im not promoting it at all. I have problems with it and think its kind of fucked up. Im just spreading awareness that it is a very common thing where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:47 PM
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and alot of them are university aged aswell, might be succesful in the future but have little to lose in the meantime
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:46 PM
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They can hide their identity, find a guy from a different city, or find one irl or on instagram aswell. But I live in canada and no way you would get fired for that here, we are way to politically correct lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:46 PM
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thats not the point I was trying to make. I was dispelling your idea that "all sex is transactional"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:44 PM
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if anything it seems like the more financially succesful a woman is, the more they look for a man who is financially succesful. Im 22 and making 6 figures, I dont think I could date a guy who doesnt make a somewhat equivalent amount, or atleast has potential to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:38 PM
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make a fake sugar daddy account and go see lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:36 PM
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All the "chads" I went to university with were making 6 figures straight out of university. Programmers arent the only people making good money lol. have you even interacted with a "chad" before?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:36 PM
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and then theres the guys who just have good social skills/ confidence, and the financially succesful guys, who get free low effort sex often enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:28 PM
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well the top 5% most attractive men are getting that almost daily, the top 20% most attractive men are getting that every once and a while. Source: I have 4 brothers and lots of male friends, and they get "want to have sex" messages on dating apps and instagram fairly often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:28 PM
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and you are forgetting theres literally guys that just exist and have woman asking them if they can come over and have sex and leave right away. they arent investing much time or any resources into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:50 PM
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lots of "chads" actually become financially succesful. Trust me these guys dont have to put much effort into chasing woman or perfecting dating skills. Im no feminist, im aware im in my prime and plan to lock in a top tier guy while I still have the most options. my ex played professional sports, I think im in a different wheelhouse than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:49 PM
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No not all low income woman, although they are more likely to do it. But I know girls who work in finance real estate and law etc who do it too. even woman who come from upper middle class families are doing it aswell. its super mainstream amongst girls my age but im in a big city. I think it depends more on parents wealth and how good their relationship is with their parents rather then their personal income (armchair psychology based on purely anecdotal experience), but a girl can be making 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:10 PM
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theres plenty of broke men getting sex for free lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:49 PM
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so he has to do tasks for you in order to get sex from you? using sex as a bargaining tool in a relationship is just sad, your man is pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:55 PM
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My cousin is gay, has pretty bad asbergers, very introverted and socially akward, and is known as a slut in our cities gay community, I have seen some of the guys he has hooked up with for free and they are male model types. Its definitely easier for gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:19 PM
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Yeah I think its a combination. I think something else that gets lost in the debate is the rise of sugar dating, I dont do it, but it seems like 70% of girls I know have done it, and some of them get really pulled into that lifestyle and just do not engage with men their age anymore, Ive even heard woman I know say theres no point in having sex with someone if they arent getting paid. Im not saying this is a huge factor in this, but I think its another factor (even if its just a minor one) that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:07 PM
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