lifeofideas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	What makes someone go from attractive to just a friend before anything even starts? Hygiene	/r/seduction	18/07/25 09:20 AM
7	You guys need to understand that there is no magical place to meet single women. Clearly OP has not seen the women in prison movies. They are starved for men.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 11:06 AM
1	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities If you go back and read “The Game”, a lot of the work goes into “inner game” (improving mindset). Then there’s a lot of work on one’s health, physical appearance, clothing, and haircuts and so on. It’s not just about being oneself, but also taking into account “Which of these attract the women I want?” Then, equally important, is actually getting out of the house. In the book, the guys are kind of afraid to do this, so they go out in a group and turn it into a game. Do they have the nerve to app…	/r/seduction	28/03/24 03:16 AM
5	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities Yup, the F word and R word were tossed around a lot. Then we all went to the students’ smoking section.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 05:11 AM
26	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities A lot of things that are mostly done by one gender are kind of cringey. I feel like that’s just the price for a lot of stuff that later becomes mainstream. When I was a kid, here are weird things oddballs did: Jog. Yoga Eat whole wheat bread. Use computers. Play games on computers Study martial arts	/r/seduction	26/03/24 04:45 AM
255	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities 20 years ago.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 04:42 AM
-1	Places to meet girls that are actually open to talking And people wonder why guys join cults. “Sure, they say flying saucers are going to rescue us. Just play along. Look at all the cute girls! How bad could it really get? …”	/r/seduction	12/02/24 11:11 AM
1	Here's economics answer to the classic question that countless women always ask: "Where have all the good men gone?" Bear with me, because there is a solution. The Lemon Problem is, at its core, a problem of “lack of trust”. The buyer and seller don’t know each other, and (at least with cars), they are unlikely to have or create an ongoing relationship. In traditional societies, parents would often arrange marriages with a family they already knew, and the families also existed within small communities, so any kind of cheating tends to result in a bad reputation, or even expulsion. But we modern folks probably…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 12:32 PM
10	Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive. Maybe “the kind of person you are” can be broadened a little bit. If a guy says “I’m the kind of guy who refuses to talk to people, but why can’t I find love…” the advice is going to involve changing who he is in some way.	/r/seduction	12/04/23 03:40 AM
2	How can I stop focusing on finding a girlfriend? I’d like add (or maybe just emphasize) this: OP, If I may wildly generalize, one of the most attractive qualities a person can have is this: Being able to stop pursuing immediately when faced with “let’s be friends/we need a break”. And, conversely, one of the LEAST attractive qualities is to pursue when told to back off.	/r/seduction	08/10/22 01:20 AM
2	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? It’s because of math. Basically, during the 20 year period when women are fertile, boys and men of ALL ages pursue them. This is why we see a 60 year old guy watching a 16-year-old girl walk down the street. But women’s fertile period is short—-maybe 20 years long. The consequence is a musical chairs effect, with too many males chasing too few females. It’s simple math.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 07:57 AM
5	How to determine if a girl is the right person to marry? Marriage is a lot like going into business. You want a business partner that is really dependable, a hard worker, and careful with money.	/r/seduction	06/02/22 10:04 PM
3	People overcomplicate tf outa this OP is mentioning a bunch of things that, one by one, certain women REALLY like. Many women react to height the way men react to big breasts—they just like it! Height can cancel out all kinds of things, like a crappy job or anger issues. Slender body: Same Long hair: Similar, but not as much. Still, a full head of hair is generally preferred over thinning hair. Muscles: very attractive if the man is low body fat. Banter: probably less important than being able to listen to the woman and respond t…	/r/seduction	10/12/21 10:38 PM
2	What you seek from porn will be what you are ultimately robbed of. So, as long as watch do not, a Jedi I will be?	/r/seduction	17/11/20 10:53 AM
8	What you seek from porn will be what you are ultimately robbed of. This sounds like a great pronouncement, but how do you test it? Can you extend this rationale to other things? Like, if I watch a lot of cooking videos, will I somehow not have tasty food in my life? If I watch some yoga videos, will that interfere with me doing yoga? If I watch Star Wars, will that be the reason I am unable to become a Jedi Knight?	/r/seduction	17/11/20 04:13 AM
3	Personal recommended books for reading. I've read each of these books (and some on ebook format on my phone) and will give you a condensed recommendation in the comments. There is also this “spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down” approach—which might not be intentional, to be honest. The medicine is “you must consider what women want”. The sugar is “here’s a funny story. Also, here’s a set of steps you can follow that will eventually lead you, hopeless dork, to sex with an enthusiastic and attractive woman.” While young men may just want to get directly to the sex, women can get sex easily, and find the seduction process more compelling. By presenting “sed…	/r/seduction	04/08/20 12:14 AM
1	Personal recommended books for reading. I've read each of these books (and some on ebook format on my phone) and will give you a condensed recommendation in the comments. Neil Strauss is an entertaining writer. I’ve read “The Game”, “The Dirt”, “The Truth”, “Emergency” and others. He brings the right mix of credulity and skepticism, and doesn’t try to pretend he’s objective. For better or worse, you never have the illusion of “a distinct, objective voice simply reporting facts.” Instead, it’s almost like getting a really long letter from a smart friend.	/r/seduction	03/08/20 11:53 PM
18	When Hooking up with a woman, is it better to go to her place or take her to yours? Find a hotel. Or a haunted abandoned murder house with real ghosts (for excitement). Come to think of it, maybe a hotel.	/r/seduction	09/12/18 05:58 AM