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I would learn how to talk before continuing. Your going to bore her if this continues. She’s answering which means she want to give it a go. Helpful hints would be to add jokes and stories from life experiences. Then slowly add flirting into the mix. That’s a really terrible convo so far. She’s bored from lockdown and your just repeating the boredom. She knows she’s bored that’s why she’s talking to you. A good convo would look like ask her about the beach she’s like yeah. Then you get her into …
/r/seduction22/03/20 11:07 AM
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Simple if they come to your bedroom willingly they want to have sex but they’ll put up walls for you to fight past. Your having sex in 3 dates maximum you just have to not fuck it up. Girls aren’t going to willingly be labeled a slut. You give her too much power their forced to refuse you. The relationship with this girl is over. Learn and don’t fuck it up next time. How your acting is exactly why she didn’t have sex with you. Repair your ego on someone else you hang up on this girl your going f…
/r/seduction18/03/20 07:03 AM
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Anyone that reads your post can instantly tell you pretty much have zero experience with girls. The pickup line you chose is essentially the pick up line that most guys with zero experience choose and think it’s a good idea to start off with. That doesn’t have to be a negative but your probably going to get rejected. I wouldn’t put all your hopes in one basket as you seem to be doing. I would suggest going out and asking out some girls, getting some success before talking to a girl in your socia…
/r/seduction11/03/20 09:52 AM
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I do the same exact thing. Did it when I was younger and still doing it now. Why change? You should know your worth. Just make sure not making it into an excuse so you don’t go and talk to girls.
/r/seduction05/03/20 06:25 AM
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Right away from your post anyone can tell your the worst. Your lonely and have no friends but think your above it all with the drinking and even think are the girls worth it when you never got one. It’s a classic defense magnetism of hating everything around you so you’ll feel ok with your state of events. Basically tell yourself your life is acceptable when it’s shit because everyone else is shit. Start by changing the mindset and then changing yourself. You’ll never get a girl being the way yo…
/r/seduction22/02/20 12:02 PM
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I think you need to work on yourself. Girls are attracted to a certain type of guy. Be interesting have things to talk about, be adventurous. Their already looking. Your the prize. Be the guy they envision and you’ll succeed 100 percent. You must be doing something super wrong to not get a second date. I almost have a 100 percent second date rate if I want it. Any guy worth his salt almost guranteed the second date. Your looks shouldn’t be the problem unless you really distorted your dating prof…
/r/seduction04/02/20 08:48 AM
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Cold approaching is definely more alpha than beta. I’ve seen some beta approaches though, it’s all in how you do it.
/r/seduction02/02/20 01:10 PM
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Your “genuine” personality probably sucks. You sound like a dick. Put yourself in the girls spot, would you want to hang out with a guy that’s cool fun charming or would you want to hang out with a guy who criticizes you all the time and makes a big deal out of nothing and makes you feel bad? Take your pick and you have your answer. A lot of people are genuine and fun to hang around. In fact I think those are the best kind of people. I think your problem is you have to learn to be genuine withou…
/r/seduction02/02/20 01:06 PM
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Your 5”3. That is a hard height my friend. It’s the truth. Your fitness, fashion sense, confidence, money, personality pretty much has to be on point a plus in my opinion to compete. Fear not though I have a friend who’s that height and pulls girls still. Everything except his height is top notch though so start with that. This is just me but it sounds like your not complete yet I would personally make myself the best version possible before going out with girls. Your going to handle much more r…
/r/seduction02/02/20 09:31 AM
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Also for your daily motivation. I would google Nick Vujicic. Every time someone tells me their too ugly to get a girl I show them this. This guy has no hands and no legs and he’s married with 2 kids. So you think you got it bad, trust me you don’t 😂
/r/seduction01/02/20 11:26 PM
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I wouldn’t pm my profile for privacy reasons. If your ugly like super below average, stick to day game. Attraction is about way more than looks. But online is really tough for below average guys. A girl is getting like 50 hits a day if she wanted online. You have to be at least average or she’ll just talk to a better looking one. A lot of good looking guys get the first date and totally botch it after too because all they have is first attraction. I have pictures of traveling working out and I h…
/r/seduction01/02/20 11:20 PM
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I’m 5”10 Chinese and I would say I’m slightly above average in looks. Your really focusing on looks and height a lot. My looks are nothing special. I am fit though. Matches should be easy. I’m super picky too. I probably only match 1-2 percent of all matches and I still get matches pretty easily. I doubt your as picky as I am. I have asain friends that kill it too. Some of them have a different girl every time I see them. Some are atheistic some just slim. I have one friend who picks up girls an…
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:28 PM
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I’m asain and I easily get matches on dating sites. It’s actually pretty easy. You got to put effort into the first impression. Girls want to meet a guy who’s fun and exciting. Also it’s a numbers game. Don’t put all your eggs to one basket until your exclusive. She’s going to be talking to ten guys same time as you. You should be doing the same for girls. You even get girls who perfer asain guys on dating websites. Chinese girls love asain men, some white girls love asain men. Some specific bla…
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:04 PM
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Smaller coastal towns are less choice but much easier.
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:49 AM
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Everyone wants something with no effort. Nothing worthwhile is easily gotten. You already know the way to do it. It’s up to you to perform. The guy should be approaching first.
/r/seduction29/01/20 12:35 AM
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It’s called real life relationships have problems. By cu grad school you mean didn’t enter university after high school right? Hope you find a school to take you. You need the education. 😉
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:01 PM
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You need help.
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:03 AM
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Where you going to college? The imaginary college for dicks? It hurts to know I’m right doesn’t it? I’m done talking. I just hate people who hates on progress and hard work even though your just a troll so It’s my fault I let you rope me into this.
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:00 AM
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I don’t like to put down people but you sound so dumb. It’s not about going to the gym it’s about the concept of putting down someone willing to put in the work. Let me guess your uneducated, no career and wondering what your doing with your life. Sound about right? Keep thinking you can go through life without putting in effort or hard work, it’ll show.
/r/seduction26/01/20 09:30 AM
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Couple of options here. Either your full of shit, you go for the worst looking girls ever or you look like Brad Pitt. The real world doesn’t work that way. A lot of things in this sub is wrong. But you ever think about that a lot of guys in this sub is suffering or miserable and generally lack the social intelligence to create change by themselves? This sub helps a lot of them. No, instead you just laugh at people trying to improve. Your the type of man that goes to the gym see someone working o…
/r/seduction26/01/20 08:34 AM
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Being a jackass is nothing to be proud of. Even if you are good with women which i have high suspicions about. You can be good with women and a great person at the same time. I actually hate guys that take and take and never give anything back. You give men a bad name. It’s ok though even if girls sleep with you they will realize soon that your worth is zero and they’ll leave always.
/r/seduction26/01/20 08:17 AM
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Essentially nocapjack is right. He’s just a giant jackass. He might even be good with women but is probably a guy who couldn’t get a women to stay or please a women to save his life. Being good at sex won’t make her have sex with you. It will however keep them coming back and be crazy about you. I don’t think game is just about getting them, it’s about keeping them around as well if you like. It’s about controlling the frame and deciding what you like to do with it. This is an excellent guide to…
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:31 AM
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Nobody has ever said I’m boring. They can hate or like me but they’ll all agree I’m interesting. Some tips is to put yourself out there. Do a lot of things, have a lot of hobbies, have a fun and exciting life. Have passion in your work in the things you do. The more you do the more stories you have they more interesting you seem. Girls can feel passion like that. It’s like a magnet, they want a man who knows what he wants what he likes. Just by talking to you they can feel it. You shouldn’t be s…
/r/seduction23/01/20 03:34 AM
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I don’t like pickup lines where you unintentionally lower your value, that being said it worked ok here. You messed up asking how her day is what you expect her to answer also everyone asks that. You want to be interesting. If you were a girl would you go out with a guy who looks and talks exactly the same way as every other guy? Obviously not. Ask her some specifics, flirt make some compliments make some jokes. Find something you have in common with her then go for the close which is the date. …
/r/seduction22/01/20 12:57 AM
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Tell her you wanna show her something, a picture or something or wanna talk to her make up a stupid reason. I believe you should get the number before asking for the date. You kinda need it to communicate. And way harder for her to flake.
/r/seduction17/01/20 07:58 AM
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You have to realize when girls want to settle down they want a guy with more caring characteristics. How you act in a relationship and when your trying to pick up ten girls in a rotation is way different. You can’t act alpha all the time in a relationship it’s guaranteed to end up in break up whereas you can act alpha all the time to attract girls. If your a player it doesn’t matter because you can just get another girl. In fact you should have like 7 more girls in rotation it shouldn’t even bot…
/r/seduction15/01/20 09:08 PM
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So what own your weaknesses. So what if you have to compete with others who work less for more gains. Life is never fair you ever look at nba players who are short? Think about what they have to do competing against guys who were 7, 190cm and above. There’s always a guy that has it better my friend. Stop complaining about yourself. Your alive right? You can either look at your weaknesses as fuel to do even better or you can sulk and complain. To be honest your not even that short. One of my good…
/r/seduction12/01/20 10:47 PM
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My time is valuable. I never approach anyone I think is not worth it for me. My 7 is someone’s 8-10 usually and I never approach anything less than a 7. Because in my head a 7 can be a ten if her personality and everything else is bang on. And only a ten is worthy of me. If I don’t even want to sleep with her after I get her number what’s the point.
/r/seduction12/01/20 10:20 PM
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You should be happy she told you. Do you really want a girl that likes you just because of your height anyways? You should think in her mind it’s her loss not yours. Your the treasure, not her you would fill her life with happiness she doesn’t even know about.
/r/seduction12/01/20 10:16 PM
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Always go for it. If you don’t you spend the whole day thinking about it like this. You succeed you got the number and the date you fail nothing happens.
/r/seduction12/01/20 09:57 PM
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Being short is not fair. Taller guys on the same level always gets picked. So you have to work harder to match up. That being said life is not fair you have to match up but it’s not impossible. Some girls won’t date you if your shorter than them but some won’t mind as much. I have a lot of short friends that do extremely well with women. They tend to have an awesome social circle, be awesome financially, funny, talkative, amazing to hang around with and just great guys. Your not going to get tal…
/r/seduction12/01/20 09:44 PM
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2 months? What are you nuts. This girl if she hasn’t already is going to get tired of waiting for you. You should go for the kiss first or second date. You need to do it ASAP as in the very next date. If your not going to kiss her someone else will. Just think about that next time you freeze. You owe it to her to kiss her.
/r/seduction12/01/20 09:02 PM
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I’m not an expert but this is what I do. I catch a girls glance and stare hard. Make sure she knows I’m interested but not creepy. If she doesn’t look away I make my way towards her. Make subtle eye and body contact if it’s too loud and eventually introduce myself and go from there.
/r/seduction12/01/20 08:48 PM
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It’s not but it’s over man. There’s a million girls out there. Tell yourself you’ll find one way better than your last.
/r/seduction12/01/20 10:05 AM
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He’s absolutely right
/r/seduction12/01/20 09:51 AM
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Got news for you 7 is nothing you should be aiming for like 30-100. What’s a rejection? If your a stand up guy it’s their loss not yours. What would happen if you got 100 rejections in a row? You should look at it as yes I had the confidence to do 100 let’s do 100 more. You should be like I’m working on myself and I made 100 steps today. Would you think you begin a business and succeed on day 1? Obviously not. Same thing with anything worthwhile. Do 100 and then keep adding adjustments, improve …
/r/seduction12/01/20 06:45 AM
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Heyy what’s up isn’t going to cut it. Just think this girl probably has 100 matches. 30 of them are going to say hey what’s up. How can she reply to you? Be interesting be flirty, get the number and flirt some more and push for the closer with the date. Also if the convo runs dry through text how do you expect the date to go well? You have to know how to talk and start up conversations and make them interesting.
/r/seduction12/01/20 05:54 AM
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For you there isn’t. That’s why you have to make one.
/r/seduction12/01/20 02:30 AM
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You need to find a purpose. Your purpose in life is obviously not to hit up chicks. Find something to fill your life with meaning and you’ll lose the depression. Even if you got to bang a different chick every day, trust me it’ll get boring and you’ll feel just as empty.
/r/seduction11/01/20 09:52 PM
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I’ve seen guys really short get with absolute bombshells. Being short is not the problem, it’s definitely harder but life ain’t fair. You need to look at yourself and fix yourself. Fix your game, go to the gym get some confidence. Become interesting.
/r/seduction11/01/20 09:27 PM
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