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Okay, so my advice first and foremost is to just relax for a moment. Personally, my 20s sucked and my 30s are better than I could have imagined. I had a youthful face and always looked young, and that was a disadvantage until it became a distinct advantage. Hang in there, your time will come. For now, if you want to be successful with women, my advice is to read some of the classic literature like Models and The Rational Male, and to really double down on lifting. Women like strong guys with vis…
/r/seduction22/03/19 02:41 PM
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Welcome, bro. Think about it like this: When it comes to exclusivity, you can go from dating non-exclusively to exclusive dating, but the reverse is not true. That's called breaking up. I believe that the best relationships, the healthiest, most loving, strongest relationships, come from abundance. When you're fucking half a dozen girls on a rotating basis, all of them understand that you're dating non-exclusively, and you choose one that really deserves your full attention to form an exclusive …
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:48 PM
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In the future, you need to be honest from the outset that you aren't interested in dating exclusively. Trust me. I've made the same mistake you did. Just be clear that you're not in a relationship and that you're just dating and you absolutely date other women. You might drop a few more plates this way, but it has to be like this or you will be in the same situation you are in now over and over again.
/r/seduction20/03/19 02:53 PM
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If you want a girl work on yourself first, when you are truly at peace with yourself is when all the good things start to happen in life. I completely agree with this sentiment. I try to coach guys to figure out what's holding them back through honest self assessment and then work on fixing or improving it. For me, that was fitness. I was a scrawny kid growing up, well into my 20s, and it was seriously impacting my self image and self esteem. I started lifting and got fit, and my confidence and …
/r/seduction14/03/19 01:40 PM
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I don't know. Maybe, but I don't have the time to look. Here's my suggestion: If you've approached a girl and she's not meeting your expectations, do the takeaway. See what happens. Try it in the club this weekend and report your experiences with it back here. I'm curious to see how it works for you.
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:34 AM
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That's one perspective, but can you see how that is inherently a scarcity mentality?
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:40 PM
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Welcome, bro. I'm here to help.
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:50 PM
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So there seems to be a lot of confusion in this thread. I'll try to clear it up. It's not about ignoring them. That's not it at all. It's about communicating high value, abundance, and not being attached to the outcome of the interaction. A busy man is a valuable man. He's busy doing important things, things that matter to him and fulfilling his purpose as a man. His time is scarce and valuable, and he doesn't have time to waste on undesirable women. A man that's constantly on the grind, hustlin…
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:39 PM
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You're right. As a general rule, the Models technique does promote a more active role in approaching women. That's true. What I want to encourage you to think about is the underlying, atomic, fundamental theory about why the Models technique works and why the OP was successful with these women. I think you might find that the same basic female psychology is at play. They're narcissists? That's a bit of a leap, no?
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:34 PM
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There's a distinct difference between not showing interest and being detached from the outcome of the interaction. Please write more about how you're not showing interest. It's a very delicate dance. You have to do it right for it to work. Standing in the corner of the club and just looking at your phone could be considered not showing interest, but that's not going to result in positive interactions with women.
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:30 PM
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I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. He wants to enjoy both these women sexually. If he can make that happen, why shouldn't he? I think the mindset you're coming from is that he should just be grateful for Z and not pursue A because he might risk Z by making overtures towards A. This is a classic "scarcity" mindset. The thinking goes like this: "Women are a scarce resource for me. I am not likely to be able to get attractive women to be attracted to me, so I am going to treat every one …
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:26 PM
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I'm not that very socially aware This is what I would work on first. The specifics of how to approach, when to approach, etc. are minor details when compared to being able to communicate via body language, vocal tonality, and eye contact. Try joining a social or professional club where you just interact with people without the goal of meeting women. Learn how to talk to people and how to recognize nonverbal communication. Nightclubs are loud places. Talking is often just a formality. For example…
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:19 PM
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As a followup to this, it doesn't have to be an outright rejection. She can be acting disinterested, or just not appreciating my attention like I want. After I do the takeaway, they're often on their best behavior, realizing that I'm giving them a second chance. I don't give third chances. I simply don't have the time to waste on a girl that isn't meeting my expectations. There is a practically infinite number of them out there.
/r/seduction12/03/19 03:23 PM
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Okay, I will. Thanks.
/r/seduction12/03/19 03:20 PM
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Welcome, dude. I'm here to help. If you're 21 or older, consider nightclubs. I've found that they are ideal places to meet attractive women, and they're perfect laboratories for experimentation with approach, game, etc.
/r/seduction12/03/19 03:19 PM
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I'm just a guy that values my success with women and learned how to realize that goal through trial and error.
/r/seduction12/03/19 03:00 PM
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I can see why you're confused. I'll try to clear this up. Ultimately, what Models is trying to teach you is that women respond well to men that are coming from a place of high value confidence. You know who you are. You know what you want. You aren't afraid to make that known and pursue it, even if it means that you might get rejected (because there's always another girl that will recognize your high value). That's what Models is all about. The technique that works for the OP works for him in th…
/r/seduction12/03/19 02:56 PM
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Something called "amused mastery".
/r/seduction12/03/19 02:45 PM
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Welcome, bro. I'm here to help. Subtly, yes, you can elevate your status with Z that way too. The same psychology applies. You're a high value man, women compete for your limited attention, and she's lucky to have you in her life. You can make this work outside just these two girls, by the way. It's easy with them because you need to be in proximity with them for the project, but the concept you're beginning to grasp works even with girls you walk up to at a coffee shop or in a nightclub. If you…
/r/seduction12/03/19 02:42 PM
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Dude, this shouldn't surprising to you, or anyone that understands female psychology or game. This is classic, textbook, well documented and established game theory. It's almost cliche at this point. Almost all game revolves around the exact psychology that drove her to want to fuck you. Look, with A, it will actually be easier. Z has already fucked you. You are, empirically, a desirable male. You have the social proof of a super hot babe inviting you to her home and jumping your bones. Women ab…
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:36 PM
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How about this: Watch every RSD video on YouTube. Read "Models", "The Rational Male", "How To Win Friend and Influence People", and every Seddit AMA you see on the right of your screen right now.
/r/seduction10/03/19 10:21 PM
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I see this question get asked a lot, and instead of writing up some huge essay, I'm going to point you towards some resources that will help you. Start with "How To Win Friends and Influence People", by Dale Carnegie. Read that. Then read "Models", by Mark Manson. Then read "The Rational Male", by Rollo Tomasi. Concurrent to reading all that, watch and understand Owen Cook (AKA Tyler Durden)'s RSD videos on YouTube. That should be enough to keep you busy for awhile. Ask again on this forum if yo…
/r/seduction10/03/19 10:05 PM
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Thanks for posting this. It's an interesting case study.
/r/seduction10/03/19 03:39 PM
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White knight, not white night. The general concept of a "white knight" is really just an extension of the "nice guy" syndrome. The thinking of a white knight goes like this: If I ingratiate myself with women by identifying with them and promoting their (perceived) interests, they'll reward me with emotional and physical intimacy. This only works in the rarest and most undignified of circumstances, because it means that the white knight must abandon his own interests. This loss of frame control a…
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:48 PM
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