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Okay, but this artist is super gross known Nazi and misogynist Stonetoss. A stopped clock is right once a day and all that but we're better than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:54 PM
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First of all, thank you for writing all this up. I had a hardcore Tolkien phase in my mid teens (didn't we all?) and I feel like I never run into people who know about Eol or Feanor or, in this case, Turin. I think Turin in particular is illuminating because he's literally under a curse to basically make the worse decision every time the opportunity presents itself. Yet we see men freely making these kinds of decisions every day of the year, without the excuse of being cursed - that's why Turin …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:55 AM
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Exactly!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:54 PM
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Late to the party but it's not internet misogyny seeping into real life. The internet is real life, filled with people saying what the really believe. The internet may have radicalized some of these men, may have turned inchoate discomfort or resentment of women into this vile hatred, but mostly it just gave men who already hated women a new vocabulary to say it in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:27 PM
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This list is great but don't forget about Parler as an alt-right red flag! (A sea of red flags, hung all over the US capitol - the January insurrection was in large part planned/organized on Parler.) And I would also say that not all of these are created equal - How To Win Friends And Influence People is a pretty standard Business Bro 101 book with an interesting history and some useful information for people who are not naturally gifted in social situations, whereas Evola was a legit fascist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:26 AM
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Yeah I came here to talk about pediatric spay/neuter too lol Obviously I understand why shelters do it, but if you can keep your animals intact until they go through puberty they will generally be healthier and longer-lived.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:16 PM
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It's a thing because women see men as people and men see women as sexy bits attached to less sexy bits. If I had to pick a favorite part, shoulders all the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:34 AM
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I'm your same height and approximate build, and you're so right that 5'8"-6' is the sweet spot. I hung out (ugh) with a guy who was 6'7" and it just...didn't work at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:32 AM
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Outside of work, I get to make literally all the decisions about my day-to-day life without reference to anyone else's needs or preferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:55 AM
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Can you link the post? (Mods, is that allowed?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:48 AM
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I'm 25 and just now going back to school for my pre-med requirements. Every so often I start to panic thinking "Oh I need to get married before med school, I'll be too old by the time I finish residency" but 30 isn't old! 35 isn't old! (A bit dicey for kids but I don't even know if I want kids!) I can live my life without reference to some imaginary man in my future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:28 AM
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I don't generally read full-on erotica, but I do really enjoy romance novels with explicit sex in them. The genre has evolved hugely since the days of bodice-rippers and rape=love and heroines magically orgasming the instant the hero penetrates them with his Magic Wang. Modern explicit romance novels are all about consent, respecting boundaries, having an emotional connection with and trust for your partner, etc. There are definitely still instances of rape and sexual violence in some books but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:29 AM
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I think a man would swipe right on the female version of this, though. Free-spirited and looking for a physical connection? That's catnip to a certain kind of (low-value, obviously) guy. What he is is willfully ignorant about what appeals to most women - b/c if you're in your forties and still don't understand that "jobless" doesn't make panties drop, you're clearly doing it on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:37 AM
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If you want kids, marriage is absolutely worth it if you can find the right partner. Every child deserves two quality parents, and every mother deserves a supportive partner. I know we've all met excellent single mothers and maybe one or two genuinely good single dads, but raising a child is hard work, and it's even harder if you are doing it on your own. Just to be clear, one quality parent is better than one shitty parent + one quality parent being dragged down by the shitty one. I'm not tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:11 AM
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Respectfully, I think you might enjoy/benefit from a deep dive into the recommended reading on the sidebar. There's a lot there and some of it speaks directly to your situation. My own personal two cents? Don't continue dating a man you aren't attracted to, especially a HVM. The longer it lasts and the more you recognize his genuinely good qualities, the more guilty you will feel for not being attracted to him, and the worse you will feel for breaking it off when you do finally break it off. In …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:57 AM
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A little off topic, but seriously, thanks for sharing your experience. I've considered selling eggs before when things were tight, never did because I wasn't comfortable with having basically my own biological children out in the world and me never meeting them, but it sounds like a pretty abusive process and not worth the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:52 AM
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Thrifting is great but if you have the budget for it Amour Vert is my absolute favorite sustainable brand. The cost is about the same as Anthropologie, and nearly everything is natural fiber, organic, etc. People Tree is another well-known ethical brand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:38 AM
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Did you hear they fired all their union organizers and all the employees who supported the union, using coronavirus as an excuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:38 AM
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They're such a cute couple! Also...the best thing that asshole has to say about himself and his friend is that they're "able bodied?" Lol, okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:08 PM
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And frankly? If he's having you meet/interact with his kids early on, that's a quick and easy sign that he is a LVM and a shitty dad. It can be seriously traumatic for kids to meet an adult, bond with an adult, maybe even start to love and feel loved by an adult...and then have that connection severed because their dad broke up with her. I know we've talked about keeping men away from our kids until we've thoroughly vetted them (at least partially to suss out any pedophiles dating single moms fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 12:44 AM
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I think this was posted here a few months ago. I also fervently hope that it is satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:52 PM
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OP/Celeste is absolutely correct, but I just came here to shit on Elon Musk (along with the rest of you ladies, apparently).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:38 PM
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Seriously! I remember hearing the dean of the honors college at my university talk about how hard it was to get men in, because fewer of them applied and of those that applied, fewer were qualified. But like...no one was stopping them from trying harder in high school. And here's this man bending over backwards to get in guys without officially "lowering the standards" for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:38 AM
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Second the recommendation for Right Wing Women. Also your summary is spot-on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:51 AM
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Can't remember where I read it originally, but some smart woman correctly pointed out: they don't show the "good woman" at 40. Because what's happening when she's 40? She's working herself to death keeping the house and raising the children of a man who probably doesn't treat her well (even if he isn't actively unfaithful or abusive). By 60 she's just accustomed to it, some of the hard work is done, and sure she gets to enjoy her twilight years with her grandchildren. But a lot happens between 2…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:46 AM
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Fun fact: highly misogynistic ancient Greek society regarded women as the ones controlled by their sexual desires, compared to reasonable, rational men. It was supposed to be funny that women would ever choose not to have sex (like we would see it if men decided to stage a "sex strike" now). I like to think it would work, though. If a critical mass of women made sex contingent on treating your partner well, getting your shit together, and acting like a goddamn adult, I think there would be more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:22 AM
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I'd say I'm at the preparation stage, mainly because I'm not dating even a little bit at the moment, so no opportunity to put any of what I'm learning here into action. Definitely trying to stealthily spread some of the FDS message with my female friends/roommates/coworkers tho :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:49 AM
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As a young woman, I really appreciate these posts about dating younger guys and guys who don't have much money yet. There aren't a lot of guys in my age range who are already making really good money but there are plenty who will be in 5-10 years. Thanks for this advice on how to distinguish between "hanging on to a loser with potential" and "how to identify a guy who's going to make it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:53 AM
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I got messages almost exactly like when I was online dating. And even when they aren't overtly creepy - when they respond to "Actually, you're over my age limit" with "Oh ok nvm then" - they're still ignoring a boundary you've already set, because on OKCupid at least, you can see the person's age restrictions. So he's seeing "looking for men 25-31" or whatever, and his 39-year-old ass is still deciding to message the woman who does not want his messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:50 AM
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I did the same thing. Wonder how long I'll have the "throwaway account" flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:24 AM
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Exactly!! Because even if the guy you have kids with is "just" low value (and not abusive/a cheater/an asshole/whatever) if you have kids with him you will never get him fully out of your life. Only have kids with the man you want to have around forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:14 AM
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There seem to be lots of childfree women on this sub, and I firmly believe it ought to be every woman's right (and her right alone!) to choose for her self whether or not to have children (as well as how many and who she wants to be the father). This includes choosing permanent sterilization, no matter how young (as long as you're an adult) or what your hypothetical future partner might want. I personally am super ambivalent about having kids (basically "don't think I want them but if my husband…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:51 AM
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I'm a 24-year-old virgin and I totally relate to this. I want to have sex...in the context of a committed relationship with a man I am strongly attracted to, and trust with my physical and emotional safety. I have not met a single man who was willing/able to fulfill those non-negotiable conditions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:51 AM
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Oh my gosh, this reminds me so much of this one particular guy I had the biggest crush on (I know, crushes :/ ) last spring. 6'7", ripped, broad shoulders, black hair, blue eyes (still probably one of the best-looking guys I've met in real life). College graduate (psych major, read whatever you want into that tidbit) but only seasonally employed. He knew I was so into him, and he absolutely used it. He "wasn't emotionally capable of a relationship right now" but we talked (he talked at me) for h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:10 AM
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