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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Any advice on how to make a move first instead of waiting for the girl to show interest?		lightdarkblue	/r/seduction	03/10/14 03:52 AM

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2	Making friends at college I would definitely recommend joining a student group as well. Shared interests lead to shared experiences and shared experiences lead to stronger relationships.	/r/seduction	14/12/15 01:55 AM
2	On Authenticity, Confidence, and Sex Appeal: Here's what I've learned from Life and Women. This is exactly what I've come to realize recently and have been striving for! Living more true to yourself. Then the quote at the end about surprise and astonishment is spot on! We need things to shake up our lives from time to time even if they seem bad at first they can help us to get out of our mental ruts and sometimes even lead directly or indirectly to something even better that we never could have imagined.	/r/seduction	05/12/15 09:28 PM
1	Should I be my best possible self before approaching? Don't get hung up on this idea of your "best possible self". Your best possible self will always be just out of reach no matter where you currently are. Instead focus on what's in front of you right now. What can you do? Work out, talk to girls, and enjoy every second of it no matter the outcome.	/r/seduction	19/11/15 04:07 AM
3	[FR] My very first date Really enjoyed this story. It gave me motivation that even when you feel completely unsure/nervous to begin with it could still turn out to be something great like this so you should just go for it instead of potentially missing out. Thanks for sharing!	/r/seduction	04/10/15 10:17 PM
3	What's the deal with smiling? I've heard both that a big beaming smile is the most important thing in pickup and I've also heard that it's a sign of submission and James Bond (who never smiles) is the ideal, sometimes all this from the same PUA. I say do whatever comes most naturally to you. If you are a person who naturally loves smiling and that fits with your personality then smile all you want. If your not so inclined to smile because you don't feel the need then don't, just be true to what you feel. Personally I feel a smile does help me even when I'm not initially in a great mood. Just try both out and figure out what works best for you.	/r/seduction	04/10/15 05:52 AM
3	Don't be shy, don't try and hide your intentions intentions are only going to push the interaction forward if you've already established attractiveness. This is just my opinion right now, but I feel like you shouldn't have to work so hard to convince someone that you're attractive. Sometimes it can come across as trying too hard and can also lead to you trying to be someone you're not. Just state your intentions and if they already think you're attractive then great. If not, then what's the point of wasting your time trying to prove yourself t…	/r/seduction	03/10/15 05:24 AM
2	Epic Pick-Up Journey I agree that I need to find a middle ground. I think this is where flirting helps with expressing interest without explicitly stating it at first. This way you can gauge how she reacts and you're still not really hiding anything, just being more subtle about it.	/r/seduction	02/10/15 05:45 PM
2	Epic Pick-Up Journey Hahaha! Of course I wouldn't literally be saying "I want to be sexual with you!" I was just being hyperbolic for comedy's sake, but I understand your point. Thanks!	/r/seduction	02/10/15 04:26 PM
1	Epic Pick-Up Journey I can not agree more on the honest approach. I think nothing is more important than first, being honest with yourself, and second, bringing that honesty out into the conversations you have with other people. My only struggle with being honest is that I really want to be able to be open and say I'm looking for a physical connection with girl (of course while treating her with the utmost respect), but I want to say this right away. Like right after I meet a girl, but I think this would scare any g…	/r/seduction	02/10/15 03:51 PM
1	Any advice on how to make a move first instead of waiting for the girl to show interest? I did hold her hand and she held mine back. Also put my arm around her shoulder which was not rejected but also didn't feel reciprocated in any way.	/r/seduction	03/10/14 05:17 PM