lightlysaltedStev Archive

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2	DMing models on Instagram does actually work, but you have to do it in a VERY specific way to get responses I’ve not used it for models, but I find replying to an Instagram story with any girl one of the best ways to start a conversation with them. Like for example, I went to uni with a girl that I got along with and lost communication with since I graduated. Now it’s been 2 years and it’s really awkward to just randomly start a conversation with someone you haven’t really spoken to for that amount of time, but I’ve found by replying to an Instagram story we was able to re connect and get chatting lik…	/r/seduction	09/04/22 10:49 PM
3	Dating after Nuclear war? Without reading the context this is definitely the most 2020’s post title I’ve read today 😂	/r/seduction	18/03/22 04:21 PM
4	How to start messaging this girl? Sure thing ! So on the Instagram app, people put up ‘stories’ which are just like pictures/videos of what they are doing (usually with a caption) to the people following them on the app (a bit like snap chat) this could be anything obviously from a place they are visiting to them at a concert or whatever. When you view their stories you have an option to reply to it which goes directly to their inbox with the picture they posted that you are replying too. So for example if someone I like but don…	/r/seduction	13/01/22 07:09 PM
5	How to start messaging this girl? Yeah the replying to Instagram stories method truly is the best method. I’ve found it a god send in the past to start/restart conversations 😂 however you say she doesn’t post any stories so that one is out the window. (Though if she does post one before you make up your mind on what to do then go that route) I suppose right now you are forced to do it the ‘old fashioned way’ and have to just slip into her DM’s. I suppose you could message something about that party you was both at ? Like a “hey …	/r/seduction	13/01/22 11:43 AM
2	[deleted by user] Here’s my genuine thoughts on it: As far as you’ve said in your post you haven’t started dating yet, you have just said you liked her. So in that respect it’s fair game she keeps flirting around as it would be if you was. Doesn’t mean it’s ‘nice’ to see but you both aren’t even dating yet. Did you not arrange some kind of date when you told each other that ? Because that could be an issue. You’ve said that she’s said it back but then never arranged a date (I’m assuming here because you haven’t s…	/r/seduction	13/01/22 12:02 AM
3	[deleted by user] Tbf I missed the part where he said he “double texted her” that’s my bad I thought she had just not replied to his last message. Kind of changes my answer slightly because 2 ignored messages are a clear signal	/r/seduction	24/12/21 05:11 PM
8	[deleted by user] Look I’m gonna come at this from a slightly different angle as there’s a lot of comments (maybe rightly) just telling you to move on which you may have to do in the end. BUT if you are really set on this girl and don’t want to give up just yet like you have suggested in your post, then I’d wait a while before contacting her again. I saw you mention you was going away in the middle of January. Just wait until then and give her one last message or call.. if you still get no response or spark from …	/r/seduction	24/12/21 12:43 PM
35	Shooting your shot at someone “out of your league”? About 5 or 6 years ago I used to think exactly like you! I used to look at dating as ‘leagues’ and used to say to myself: “well I’m a 7/10 when I make an effort so as long as I go for women that are also 6-7/10 I should have the best chance of success” And I noticed whenever I did come into contact with anyone I perceived to be above my level (either on dating apps or in real life) I’d have this mental block where I couldn’t bring myself to display any natural charm or charisma I could with any …	/r/seduction	19/12/21 11:15 PM
1	How effective is the "fuck it, I'm nervous but I'm going to ask her out anyway" approach? Dude the “Every human feels fear. Courage is simply feeling the fear of something filled with tension, and then deciding to push into it anyway. Courage is NOT the absence of fear.” Is a very inspiring quote in of itself thank you ! I actually won’t forget that	/r/seduction	28/10/21 07:38 PM
1	How effective is the "fuck it, I'm nervous but I'm going to ask her out anyway" approach? Oh man this made me laugh 😂 how this app is free I sometimes wonder	/r/seduction	28/10/21 07:24 PM
1	Fuck learning "tricks" or "tips". 99% of the time they dont work and just make you look stupid. Just learn about building self worth and the very basics of attraction and everything else will follow. 1000000% agree with this 🙏🏻 when I was 16-18 I used to look up all these “how to attract a girl” “how to get a girl to go out with you” type videos and when I got to my early 20’s I learned that really none of that stuff works strictly to the letter. If you go In with a damn script (most people that watch these kinds of things usually are looking for that) or a “plan” that doesn’t have the millions of variables and adjustments for every scenario then you are going to look awkward and stupid whil…	/r/seduction	05/07/19 03:34 PM
1	Lost my virginity on vacation Maybe 🤷🏻‍♂️ I guess that’s a point to consider as well	/r/seduction	04/07/19 06:35 AM
1	Lost my virginity on vacation Can spin it how you like but you are still part blame if you sleep with someone knowing they have a boyfriend you can get into all the “technicalities” but at the end of the day decent people wouldn’t do it. I wouldn’t. I bet a lot of people reading this wouldn’t. I’m definitely sure many would but as I say in my opinion the people that do are morally wrong in my opinion	/r/seduction	03/07/19 11:27 PM
2	Lost my virginity on vacation Absolutely I put blame on OP as well as he knew this before.. I know loosing your virginity is cool and all but at the cost of ruining some guys life, nah man not worth it ive been on the other side of it. Especially on an occasion like loosing your virginity because everytime he thinks back now I imagine regret might be there knowing you could of potentially ruined a guys life.. maybe that’s just me but it’s not the circumstances I would want to loose it, plenty of opportunities in life to have…	/r/seduction	03/07/19 09:46 PM
7	Lost my virginity on vacation all i took from this story are that despite women always calling men scumbags those women are real hoes when they have BF's	/r/seduction	03/07/19 08:01 PM
1	Lost my virginity Hahahahaha bro I remember when I lost my virginity and I genuinely expected to feel like a different person.. I mean I felt good for an hour or so afterwards knowing I’d lost it and that “Burden” has gone forever but it’s a little disappointing when you feel exactly the same the next day 😂	/r/seduction	17/06/19 09:18 AM