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Praise the Lord for renewing your life. I pray for you a man who is kind and understanding like the Lord who will treat your past with grace and understanding. It's great that you are self-aware, so pray for a spiritual renewal of sexual innocence, so that you will have the strengths of purity, not the weaknesses of promiscuity.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/25 09:52 PM
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Hey, sorry for the delay. I'm going through some stuff right now so am not really able to respond but I'll do it later, if you don't mind waiting.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/25 12:51 AM
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I see. That's an important context... Thanks! I'll continue the conversation, but before that, may I ask, where are you in your faith (not practicing, still figuring it out, or all in)? Also thanks /u/InevitableKiwi5776 for helping.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/25 01:55 PM
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You're welcome! Your parents seem to be very reasonably protective from what you described. Kudos on answering with clarity, detail, and a lot of thought. You're rare and your man will be a lucky one. My question now is: Do they have any idea on where and what means you should use to be found by your man? You mentioned "Besides church it's not an option for me right now, but I can explain why in the comments if needed," so could you please explain, as that would help the discussion? Thanks in ad…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 01:10 PM
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You seem to be very intelligent, humble, and curious, with a great attitude. I feel like you'll go far! Since your parents are protective, what are their ideas on your dating life, if I may ask?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 01:49 AM
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I'm sorry about it. May I ask what your video evidence is of?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 01:27 AM
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Try to not worry about your appearance unhealthily, keeping in mind that women have a higher standard of beauty of themselves than men have of them. If you do a search of "are women harder on themselves in physical appearance than men are on women?" you can find scientific studies. Focus on what you can change, especially the attitude, which makes a huge difference in one's personality. My own wife is almost taller than I am (5'8) and I find it attractive actually. She was insecure about many pa…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/25 12:44 AM
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Happy early birthday!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 11:35 PM
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Thanks! I edited my comment and added more info btw. I'm glad my recent challenges catalyzed an insightful comment on your post. Only child and home-schooled? Yes do start seeking those out to avoid any blind-spots in your future marriage. These team activities really could grow you in how to patiently deal with disagreements, especially with other people in the context. You could make some meaningful friendships too along the way! Don't end up with avoid-able team dysfunction, miscommunication,…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 09:25 PM
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One thing I just realized that we lack in our marriage is: Teamworking skills. As a result, we suffer from miscommunication, arguments, and misunderstandings when we are in a situation where we have to work together, i.e. a great/loyal couple but a dysfunctional team. Working as a team is a skill. Since this is RPW, as the husband learns to be a better captain, the wife should learn how to be a better first-mate. Perhaps going out there to participate in team-building activities can be beneficia…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 09:13 PM
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I'm okay answering! My goal was to decide as fast as possible. I had a list of things I liked in a wife which I had been working on for months prior to us meeting virtually. After we met virtually, we exchanged a few meaningful messages and didn't talk for a couple months. Then, we started talking everyday as we were both on break, and due to having my list and being prepared, with some courage and prayer, and due to talking a lot and having very purposeful conversations, I was able to decide in…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 11:36 PM
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Thank you! She was 19 when we met and I was 24. I had no prior experience of physical desire in any relationship or situationship. So the exchanging photos with comments was indeed a great way to make sure we had chemistry, expressing my sexuality in a respectful way, while maintaining my values and respecting the sacredness of marriage. Also, luckily before we met I had to become confident and secure in pursuing a wife.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 10:00 PM
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Thanks! And through our responses to the photos we sent, we could have a feel of the attraction and chemistry we had. We were also both virgins and in our first relationship btw.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 09:48 PM
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Here's what I did to ensure it with my now-wife without crossing boundaries since I believe in sex within marriage. While dating her long distance, I asked her for a SFW photo/video every day, and we exchanged lots of images. Later when we had a deeper connection and had promised to be with one another, we talked about how sex would be like in the marriage and if there are any obligations, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 06:35 PM
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