liisathorir Archive

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2	What Are Your Thoughts On The 41 Tenets of Tateism? Most of these sound fine on the surface, but if you think about how people could interpret them of what the implied meaning is, it’s not necessarily a great guide. It also can become divisive for people who identify as men, who identify as women and in society as a whole. I feel it would be easier to use the tenants from The Satanic Temple as a guide and you can add some of your own personal ones as well. The Satanic Temples 7 fundamental tenents are: One should strive to act with compassion and…	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/23 06:09 PM
2	The internet telling men how approaching girls is creepy It can be really creepy. Do you know someone asked me on a date while we were both waiting in the emergency room. He asked me loudly in front of everyone else. We both waited over 8 hours before we were treated separately. I had a ring on my wedding ring finger. Started the conversation with “what book are you reading?” I went to the hospital to be treated for my health issue, not to find love, and especially since I am already in an amazing relationship. Another time I have been asked out very …	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/23 12:55 PM
-1	Are there any good old books on dating that are relevant today? Honest answer is no. Society has changed too much for those books to apply to modern dating and modern societal norms.	/r/ExRedPill	02/03/23 04:40 AM
1	What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically? I don’t mind answering but I’m curious why you need to know why I rejected them. If I give you answers will you accept them and think it’s okay because I’m allowed to, or will you think some of them are bad reasons and I should have “given them a chance”? You don’t have to respond. I just am unsure why this would be useful to you. For the one who stalked me, he liked the idea of me, not who I actually was. I didn’t fit his narrative and he would get mad at me for not being how he imagined me to …	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/23 10:02 PM
1	What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically? I admit I didn’t phrase that perfectly. I don’t think safe space for women is correct either, but I know there is something there that I haven’t been able to clarify myself yet. Before i go on more I also want to express that this is my point of view. I have had some bad experiences with men in the past so I don’t automatically paint all men as bad and evil, but I will admit I am more weary and suspicious than I probably should be at times. It’s not all women’s point of views and some will vary.…	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/23 04:05 AM
2	Why the rate of single men in the US looking for dates has declined I would take a look at this form a different perspective. More people are comfortable being with themselves than being with someone who isn’t compatible with them. Think of it as both men and women are not just settling for a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship. They are looking for a cohesive partnership. So don’t give up just because others have decided they may be better on their own. Just keep doing you and see what happens.	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/23 01:47 AM
1	What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically? Hey, I just want you to know I have read this and I’m giving it some thought on how to respond in a way I think you can understand what I mean. It might be a little while until I get back to you but we will see.	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/23 07:17 AM
1	What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically? I’ve been thinking about how to respond to you and I just really can’t articulate it. I feel I need an interpreter because I have some what I think are valid points to your response, but I just am not able to put them down in a way I think you can comprehend. I have deleted 5 responses and none of them convey what I want. This isn’t your fault, I have some communication difficulties so don’t think I’m blaming you. I will admit I didn’t write my previous response as well as I had hoped, and I won…	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/23 04:21 AM
2	What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically? I’ve written about 3 different responses but they never felt right and I figured out why. It’s your line “It feels like you have to be dishonest with women…” this is why I have been having trouble with your response. I’m assuming you are posting here to find women so you can be in a relationship. Relationships are built on trust and you are telling me you feel that the only hope for you to have a relationship is by being dishonest? I could be interpreting this wrong and if I am I apologize but i…	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/23 04:31 AM
7	What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically? Honestly, any hobby you join specifically to find women for a purpose not related to the hobby is usually unattractive and disheartening for a lot of women. A lot of women can tell the difference of a guy being into a hobby and connecting over that versus a guy joining a hobby so he can meet women. I say this not to discourage you in finding a partner, but so you can maybe see from a woman’s perspective how it would feel to find a space you feel comfortable in talking about a hobby being infiltr…	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/23 07:53 PM
3	Approaching women? I always have fake numbers and felt so bad about it. One time I gave a guy the John cena hotline number and I saved my contact name as a fake name I give out because I had said no a couple times to this guy and it was the only way I could think of to get rid of him. This was before calling phones to see if the number was correct was a thing.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/23 11:56 PM
6	I am not sure if I want a relationship . First of all thanks for posting. It’s better to come to reddit than internalize all this. Secondly, about when you reject women, is it always they are interested in you sexually or even as friends? When you reject them in you fantasies what do you feel? If you can figure out what the feeling/feelings are now think on it for a bit. If you feel powerful/better than them/superior I would say this is something to be a bit concerned about because it’s not even really happening and you are getting the…	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/23 07:05 AM
1	what was the most beautiful thing that your red pill phase took from you? I’m so sorry this is what has been taken away from you and I hope you find all these beautiful things again!	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/23 05:21 AM
9	Red pill teachings have made it impossible for me to trust my girlfriend. Seeking advice What would it take for you to trust her or women? Is there anything you think that could be done? How much would she have to change herself for you? Would you still like her if she did actually change herself for you, or do you like your idea of her more? Do you trust men? If so, why do you trust men more than someone you want to marry? Are you doing anything aside from this reddit post to change your views/opinions? I wish you the best of luck because if you don’t change it really is this menta…	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/22 03:50 PM
12	I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this? I think it bothers me because there is so much evidence against these things. I also hate when people speak in absolutes because very rarely* is anything an absolute. If women didn’t like poor men why are there so many families in poverty? If women didn’t like short men why do short men still exist (eugenics) if only tall men are desirable? If women didn’t like ugly men why can you probably name 3 men Who are not attractive, and who never were who have partners? Also what is the meteoric of attr…	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/22 03:58 AM
5	Is it true that promiscuous males are good because they have to be desirable to get sex? I’m not saying that’s wrong, but you can’t argue with the math that if someone sleeps around with more than one partner than a couple being exclusive, it increases the chances of the person who sleeps around more to get a STD. I am all about sexual health, but being realistic about your risk being higher to get a STD if you sleep around is one of them. This isn’t slut shaming. I’m all for people doing what they and the partner (long term, monogamous, polyamory, one night stand relationship) they…	/r/ExRedPill	01/11/22 07:31 PM
9	Is it true that promiscuous males are good because they have to be desirable to get sex? They are a good risk factor for getting an STD. I think the math would check out for this as well.	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/22 06:32 AM
3	[M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me. Thank you!	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/22 07:12 PM
3	[M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me. TeamDandelionAndGeraltBestFriendsForever Their bromance in the book is so perfect. They bicker in the tub together. They end up bickering and sleeping together because Geralt couldn’t get a woman, they actually do have a great relationship and are supportive of each others needs. Geralt talks to Dandelion about things on his mind. It’s one of my favourite friendship examples I’ve seen in a while. *I don’t know how to do the hashtag without the text going bold. I’m on mobile.	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/22 04:34 PM
5	[M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me. How could you forget Hamtaro! They were our “ham-hams”! Happy that was a throwback for you. I’m happy my breakdown of what I interpreted of your thought was correct. Sometimes its difficult to see what the root of the thing you want/don’t like is but it’s super helpful if you can figure out what it is so you can work on those things. Humor and funny is so difficult because it’s so different for everyone. I’m sorry about your dog passing, that’s always difficult and I know what it’s like. It’s so…	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/22 05:44 AM
5	[M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me. Hey, I so from your post aside from you not liking yourself I don’t see any issues with your personality. Where I grew up, anime was pretty big and I grew up on the PNW coast of Canada. I grew up with Sailor Moon, DBZ, Hamtaro, Card Captors, any and all Studio Ghibli, Pokémon, and there are a few anime shows I still go out of my way to watch. Just because you like it it doesn’t mean it’s childish. Otters are adorable and I can not imagine a lot of people being upset that you enjoy otters being r…	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/22 02:16 AM
3	I've been told Women think about sex in a more romantic way, how can a guy appeal to that? This is still really vague. From what I gather from this post you are sexually interested in women but currently have issues finding someone and feel appealing to a woman’s romantic sexual nature will ??? based off of a post you made previously. So as you hopefully know, women are not “one size fits all” for what our preferences, desires, or likes, dislikes, etc are. So you start this post of making a huge generalization about just women in general. No hints as to the type of women you are even …	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/22 03:13 AM
1	Why is the RP community so against being friends with woman? Thank you for your responses. I am unsure if these are your specific points of views or not. I am not trying to argue with you, I am trying to understand this point of view. I agree with your first paragraph but I see flaws in everything else. When you say women are naturally more equipped with the ability to be more emotional, it’s because society lets us be more emotional and it discourages men being emotional. Do you know how often I see men (and women) putting other men down for being really…	/r/ExRedPill	10/10/22 08:10 PM
1	Why is the RP community so against being friends with woman? So it still don’t understand the logic behind RP but I will admit I’m my question women being lesser was my misinterpretation of what you mean I will take accountability for that. I think what I meant is there are tons of examples of me and a guy friend at a bar. Another guy comes up and starts hitting on me. I tell them no, I’m not interested, leave me alone and they still don’t. My guy fiend comes to me and tells the stranger dude to leave me alone and then stranger dude leaves. Does this happ…	/r/ExRedPill	10/10/22 05:42 PM
9	Why is the RP community so against being friends with woman? Hey just a heads up, I think autocorrect may have struck and you mean platonic instead of plutonic. Also I have a question about this. If men see women as lesser, why would the attacker listen to a woman if she tried to diffuse a fight scenario if there is a man with her? Wouldn’t the man automatically be more trusted to handle the altercation by this logic? It’s a lose-lose situation.	/r/ExRedPill	10/10/22 05:01 AM
4	How do you get over the anger from being less than 6 ft? As in, how did you get around the incel-like rhetoric around women and height? I’m not sure how exactly to give advice about not being angry about it, because anger is an emotion people feel. It usually is a defence mechanism. Sometimes our brain decides it doesn’t like something someone said and then RAGE happens. https://www.apa.org/topics/anger/control this site gets into why anger is okay, and how it can be useful and harmful. I think understand your anger may be your first step to help you move past it. It’s hard to treat something you don’t understand and unfortunate…	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/22 02:26 AM
3	Should men wait until their 30's ? As someone who had 3 jobs at one point (6am - 11pm/1am) I still found time for my partner while I was also studying. It was text messages or phone calls to see how they were doing and to quickly catch up because I wanted to hear from them. It was when I had time off every now and then between jobs my partner would meet me for lunch or come to my one job that served food so I could serve and see them (and feed them free food because why not). It was getting off at midnight or one am and going to …	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/22 08:19 AM
2	Should men wait until their 30's ? Men can still do all that in their 20’s and date. Lots of people have done it previously.	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/22 07:48 AM
3	My girlfriend told me: WOMEN LIKE GOOD MEN MORE THAN ANYTHING. I think people, are more complex than 4 categories. If this was the case, why wouldn’t it be more well known and why wouldn’t people be matching within their “categories?” Then? Do you feel comfortable saying there are only 2 types of men? Men that are predators and are violent and men that are not? That to me is a more realistic classification system than what your girlfriend thought of and it’s still an outrageous idea.	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/22 06:48 PM
8	breaking up with your boyfriend because he's into red pill will only push them further into those ideas Hey, I noticed something that doesn’t make sense in your post. You talk about how women should be tolerant of people who treat them less, but then say what has helped you is realizing not every woman is abusive and being with women who treat you better. So being with someone who wasn’t good to you wasn’t good to you. Why would you wish this for anyone else? Why not work on normalizing being with people who treat you better and respect you as a person? If you do meet people who you feel “you shou…	/r/ExRedPill	06/08/22 06:25 PM
3	Is it wrong to check and see if a girl gave me the right phone number? If someone gives you a wrong number it’s for a reason. It’s difficult to hear but it’s the truth. The best way to avoid this is to tell them your number and just forget about it. If they message you, fantastic, if they don’t, no worries. This way there is no embarrassment.	/r/ExRedPill	04/08/22 10:30 PM
1	I hate how MGTOW keeps getting mixed up with the incels. Hello. I hope you are all doing well. There is a lot I'm not exposed to and I have heard some of these terms thrown around with no proper definition or a very vague and similar one. Could someone who is affiliated with MGTOW tell me what the difference is between MGTOW and Incels? I think I understand the concept behind MGTOW and for the most part it seems healthy. I would appreciate it. I promise I am not here to insult or change anyone's views. I'm just tired of being misinformed and the best …	/r/MGTOW	04/05/18 02:06 AM