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| 1 | Need sex tipsGoogle: Nina Hartley Teaches How To Eat Pussy Like A Champion (Sunny Lane) Every man reading this should watch this. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Rank compliments for a woman ranked from safest to riskiestYou can be even more specific and talk about her wenis | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Online Dating and Last Minute CancellationsI was watching a video the other day about how women and really just people in general are less likely to take chances, particularly in dating, these days. I think this combined with the general disconnect we all have from social media leads to a lot of apathy. That's my hypothesis at least. I was talking to a girl on bumble and maybe left my next reply too late and she's just ghosted me. Whatever, maybe shes talking to someone else, or maybe she just doesn't care anymore. Most of us have short … | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Good pick up lines/Openers"Huh?" "Haha... So you come here often?" | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 04:54 PM |
| 3 | What experience forced you to completely rethink dating?Going on a date, thinking it went well, gave her a kiss, then got rejected the next day. She said I didn't really give her enough banter, essentially. I realized that my conversation style was too logical and void of emotion | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Texting advice most guys misunderstand (and it’s killing their conversations)All this plus I believe another sign of validation seeking is trying to hijack a topic and making it about yourself when she's sharing a story. I think there's merit in sharing stories to connect but if you dont ask her questions about her experience and pivot into sending a long message about something similar that happened to you... I think it looks desperate | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Why you have no energy to go out and meet womenI put timers on all my social apps. At a minimum I have more awareness of how much I've spent on each during the day and try to minimize it. I.e. I just got a "you have 10 minutes left" on reddit notification | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 12:13 AM |
| 16 | Is the life of promiscuity worth it?To each his own but I think later in life, when going on dates with girls I want long term relationships from, I feel embarrassed telling them. Not that my number is that high but I still feel like quality over quantity is probably more attractive | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 10:33 PM |
| 2 | You just are not attractiveI think I'm pretty good looking but there're no girls when there's no social life or social skills on my front. I think social status, charisma and confidence probably go a lot farther than looks can ever take you | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck are meant to meet women if you don't like socialising?I kinda have the same problem. I've been doing a lot of reflecting lately though. There really are opportunities everywhere. Something I lost sight of an am trying to reintegrate into my life is talking to EVERYONE so it becomes second nature again. I've been in a bit of a slump since covid honestly. Making small talk with people at the kiosk when youre shopping, making an observation on the street when someone is nearby, etc. I'm big into cycling and am planning to volunteer at some events this… | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 06:24 PM |
| 1 | She wants back into your life - here is what you doWell I didn't make it past step 1 | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 03:09 AM |
| 0 | 3 Reasons Why Good Looking Guys Rarely Get The Girl They WantI'm getting girls match ME on Hinge at the moment but my messages are so boring I immediately get ghosted. I have no clue what to say. I feel like when I try and write something a little more creative it must just come across awkward. I'm even trying to reply to the 7s that liked me just for practice and they wont even reply | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I Just Broken up with my girlfriend for not being honest. Please give a read.Sounds like extreme insecurity. Potentially some narcissism too. I moved in with one so I couldn't get away for awhile. It's good you got out, I promise you it would have only gotten worse | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 01:17 AM |
| 10 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Why I'm probably dying alone 👈👈😎 | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 02:08 PM |
| 2 | The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak PowerI did it. I pulled the plug. It wasn't really the instant relief I thought it would be but we'll get there. She still has a bunch of my stuff at her house. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak PowerI feel very low ngl. I have this tight pain in my chest all the time now from anxiety. Some days I've been so anxious I have felt like throwing up. We are constantly arguing about how things are going and how I'm not meeting her needs. I've really began to question if I'm the bad guy in all this but I dont logically think that's true. SHE just suggested a 6 month break. When I suggested that is a long time and we just take a the holidays apart she got upset and said she was surprised I wanted a … | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 05:25 AM |
| 3 | The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak PowerThat's absolutely wild. A weird example of mine is when I had to go out of country for a competition. She didnt want to go and that's fine. She had weeks to think about it. An hour after I left she started texting me to turn around and get her but I had a long drive so I didnt. She made me feel like shit, texting me all the way there, I just felt so low and disrespected. I've missed out on a big competition/anniversary/end of summer celebration when she threatened to break up with me if I went a… | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 03:54 AM |
| 3 | The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak PowerI wonder if my gf has bpd. A lot of blow ups that just don't really make sense. My boundaries feel non existent in this relationship too | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 02:43 PM |
| 55 | What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?Every man should do themselves a favour and watch this video: Nina Hartley how to eat pussy | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 04:31 PM |
| 2 | The father of my Cold Approach followed meMessaging the dad before meeting her seems a bit odd. Like you're trying to insert yourself into her personal life before you even get to know her. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 03:25 AM |
| 6 | Went on two dates but got hit with the "Didn't feel the connection i was hoping for." afterwards.Just speculating, was there a chance you were being too friendly? Not really flirting and just having mostly kind of logical conversations? I might be projecting, this is usually my problem. I thought a date went really well then the girl said there wasn't a spark as there wasn't really enough banter. Looking back, I understand but I was a little shocked at the time | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Getting sucked into a relationship when only wanting FWBI am dealing with this rn. I don't know what to do, I am still processing things. She's catching feelings after we discussed what this was | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Seduction as a 'Hermit'?I was just watching a reel about someone saying he'd go out alone on Friday and Saturday and just drink water (instead of using alcohol as a crutch, I'd assume) and try and talk to people. It did wonders for his confidence and social circle | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 08:32 PM |
| 5 | How do you respond to rejection texts?I'm not gonna argue with that, it could happen. I'll just say you gotta be ready to take a hit to the ego and not get defensive about whatever she ends up saying. At this point, if you've been rejected, it's a no risk high reward move (if it's constructive feedback). | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 02:15 AM |
| 17 | How do you respond to rejection texts?After a date, on occasion, I've politely asked what it was that she wasn't 'vibing' with. I.e. a girl once told me there wasn't enough banter. Which was very insightful to me. Then I just said thanks and left it. There is no reason to keep talking to her. I did it because I thought the date went well so I was just curious how I could improve for next time. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | The easiest way to kiss a girl (works 90% of the time if the date went well)Her: snorting laugh "Yeah, I guess so, yeah" (Eddie Murphy, Bowfinger) (Jokes) | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | How much of an issue is living at homeI'm in the same boat. Plus waiting for a new job to start in a couple weeks. May go on a date soon and I'll have to sell that I'm living with the parents and currently not working 🚩🚩 I did buy a new property though but it's not completed yet for a few more months. I feel like girls might just think that's a lie. Times are tough though, I feel like maybe women will be more accepting of this situation at the moment. I have a fwb right now and we always have to go to her place. Which isn't the wors… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 04:32 AM |
| 3 | I am 40 and starting to learn gameWhere do you usually meet girls? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 11:13 PM |
| 1 | 28m and only ever dated or hooked up with women from dating apps. I’ve never been with anyone I’ve first met organically in real life. Anyone else?Where do you usually meet women irl? Do you have any hobbies that involve groups where you can talk to them? | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 07:16 PM |
| -1 | 28m and only ever dated or hooked up with women from dating apps. I’ve never been with anyone I’ve first met organically in real life. Anyone else?I mean maybe, maybe not. I don't know. I think that the apps are a safety net though. If that wasn't there, maybe there would be a different mentality. Edit: what I mean is, if you HAD to talk to girls irl, if there was no other option, maybe there would be more drive/pressure to do so | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 01:17 AM |
| 2 | 28m and only ever dated or hooked up with women from dating apps. I’ve never been with anyone I’ve first met organically in real life. Anyone else?If there were no apps, guys like you and me would HAVE to learn some game, there would be no other options. Apps give us the illusion that we are doing something about our singleness/loneliness. Maybe in that universe, we're actually in more successful relationships | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 01:13 AM |
| 6 | 28m and only ever dated or hooked up with women from dating apps. I’ve never been with anyone I’ve first met organically in real life. Anyone else?Similar experience and in my mid 30s now. I hate to admit it but I think my standards lower as time goes by and then I end up getting matches with 7/10 girls mostly. I might date one for a year. I feel like I'll never meet a quality girl online and really want to start making an effort irl. I work from home and don't go out a ton. Plus my hobbies are generally male dominated so that doesn't help. I think online dating is inorganic. Instead of seeing someone in a crowd, being attracted to them, a… | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Date ideas that girls and your wallet loveA box of durex sensi-thins is $25 CAD for a box of 58 on amazon right now. That's about 45 cents a pop. You can have a good time for $1-2 depending on how your stamina is that day. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Is it weird to approach girls when out with family?Gotta teach the kids somehow. The wife will understand | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:49 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to her"Damn shawty so what's it like being black?" - cringy white dude. I don't get it. If you have an issue with someone's appearance why would you be bothering them. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 05:27 PM |
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