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Aug 5th 7hrs, bed at 12, wake at 7
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:29 PM
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Aug 4th: 7hrs15, bed at 11:45, wake at 7
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:28 PM
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Aug 3rd: 7h15 bed at 11, wake at 6:15
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 12:58 PM
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How do you find polyphasic sleep vs one long sleep? And if its good, why do you keep switching in and out?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:57 PM
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Dude, what happened?!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:54 PM
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Aug 2nd: 7 hours. :( Went to bed at 12:15 (too much sex), woke up at 7:15
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:52 PM
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Aug 1: 8.5 hours. Went to bed at 11:30, woke at 8
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:47 PM
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lilacblaze will take part in this challenge
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 11:48 PM
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Here's a good summary of lots of this research. The author's reply to his critics is also hilarious: The article is the response I had been waiting for, from the group I was expecting it from. I am glad to know they value my opinion enough to have read my article. Nothing in their response undermines anything I wrote, so I stand by my article completely. I encourage the reader to read and critically evaluate both articles, and form their own opinions.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 08:22 PM
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The OP has a point though: in any interaction there's a balance of push-pull. Too much push, all the time = unpleasant and grating. Too much pull = beta. In the middle there's a sweet spot.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:04 PM
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And copious amounts of photoshop...
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:13 PM
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Agree that their paper news coverage is pretty fair and unbiased. Unfortunately their online presence has gone the clickbait route and publishes excessively left-wing outrage "opinion" pieces. I had to stop reading it once Valenti's column became the top article on the website evey time I logged on.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 12:36 AM
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Dread works best when she can see other girls hitting on you. On a date with my LTR, two girls came up and asked if I was a famous pop singer. Had an astonishing effect on my girl - thought she was going to rip my clothes off there and then. You can then drop subtle references back to those events from time to time as needed. Of course this was unplanned - short of hiring actresses to hit on you in front of her (extreme Dark Triad?), try to put yourselves in situations where other women will can…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:30 PM
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The world is also more interesting if you interact with it rather than passively observe. Make it relevant to you and it will become interesting. Programming and computers becomes more interesting if you're developing the next Reddit; history becomes more interesting if you are tracing your own genealogy; exercise theory becomes more interesting if you are actually exercising. For example, prior to the 2012 USA elections I knew nothing about economics, but a lot of the key issues in the election…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:36 PM
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Is there a way to find about more about this, without getting into too many technicalities. Any layman-esque books that cover it? Also, if one wanted to get a system like this set-up, how would you go about it. What sort of lawyer would yo need to talk to?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:50 PM
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This is fantastic reading, thanks for posting.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 09:09 PM
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White Waters and Black by Gordon MacCreagh
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:51 PM
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White Waters and Black by Gordon MacCreagh
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:51 PM
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White Waters and Black by Gordon MacCreagh.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:51 PM
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Yes, yes, yes. Define your masculinity and identity internally rather than on external measures of success.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 09:19 AM
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I really like your sense of humor - I can come up with lines like these occasionally, but not consistently. Do you have any tips for improving ability to say/message witty things, especially off the cuff?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 07:31 PM
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Of course, you can be catcalled just as much if you are a good looking male: http://youtu.be/InUeOWlgebM
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:31 PM
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Mate, this is excellent. Same HSV status, this is a great template There was a PUA thread on a forum a long time ago, where a mPUA said exactly this. You need to disclose, but most girls, if they are attracted, are not going to care.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:54 AM
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Follow fashion boards on Pinterest. There are some good ones
/r/askTRP11/08/14 10:49 PM
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It's not a conscious goal, at least of most women, but think of it this way: men are stronger and more powerful than women. Its kind of like a field with 50% sheep, 50% lions. Most of the lions are pretty well fed, but the sheep are always a little bit afraid that a lion will get hungry and eat them. So what do they do? Defang the lions. "Lions need to not be lions but be more like sheep." "Sheep feel threatened but your big mane, so get it cut off." But here's the rub. The most lionly lions are…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 10:03 PM
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I find Peaceful Easy Feeling very RP. I found out a long time ago, what a woman can do to your soul. But she can't take you any place you don't already know to go. The perfect verse for the man recovering from a bad relationship.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:36 AM
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That's fantastic. In Europe they ruled that insurance couldn't use gender to determine premiums. Suddenly women had to start paying a lot more on car insurance. You could tell they wanted to complain, but couldn't too much because they knew this was a result of their own push for equality.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:06 PM
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The best bit is how her rationalization hamster goes into overdrive after his attack trying to justify herself. And the moderator is trying to get her to stop talking because its devolving down and down, away from logic and into feelings.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:17 PM
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Great post. I would say this is what your view should be when you get into the acceptance phase of TRP. I think the angrier tone of the some of the other posts may be due to their authors not having reached this stage yet. As you say, evolution and culture have given both sexes advantages and disadvantages. However, the feminist movement has mitigated a lot of the negative sides of being woman. Where this didn't directly disadvantage men, such as gaining the right to vote or the ability to have …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 07:57 PM
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Had a very similar experience. Initially I dated a couple of chicks, just to prove to myself that I could, but I after that fear was assuaged, my desire to date loads of women has dropped way back. I'm pretty sure it will pick up again as I get the rest of my life back in order
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:41 PM
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Married Man Sex Life is a good read. Athol's book The Mindful Attraction Plan is really good, and has a step by step plan for improving your marriage (by improving yourself)
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:57 AM
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Thanks, I have a few more in the works that are a bit more advanced. However, it seems a few of the commentators here don't grasp how evolution works at different levels: gene, individual, group, species.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:07 PM
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Lol, ok kid, which part of the fundamentals of evolutionary biology do you disagree with? And some parts are more complicated, but (1) this is reddit not a scientific paper, and (2) I believe I have condensed the information without misrepresenting it. If I have made a mistake, I am genuinely interested in hearing what it is.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 12:02 PM
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"Behind every great man is a woman. The one he didn't marry." - Kierkegaard, quoted by Pook
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 11:43 AM
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So? There was certainly much less inequality, but within any group of people there will be a hierarchy of status. Secondly, the fact that males and females both contributed is hardly evidence against this argument, particularly as this pattern is seen across the animal kingdom.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 11:37 AM
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I'd be interested to hear your alternative views
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 11:30 AM
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I suspect this arises out of the Pursuer/Pursued male/female sexual dynamic. Men are Pursuers: the fitter, faster, stronger you are, the better your catch. Thus there's a strong imperative to self betterment. Why do men support each other more (i.e. it might still make sense to sabotage your competition)? Possibly because there are plenty of targets, and you can always pick a different one. Possibly also because its better to have allies than enemies when you're in the pursuing game. In contrast…
/r/AlreadyRed27/07/14 03:51 PM
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So you want to know if you should pre-emptively end your relationship: I assume this is a defensive mechanism to avoid any possibility of getting hurt. If you truly enjoy your relationship, and it sounds like you do, then why are you afraid to take the risk of getting hurt. There's a chance she could cheat if she stays in the same city - are you going to avoid any relationship because of that risk? The good points: - you are aware of the danger -> you can take pre-emptive action - she hasn't sho…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 06:44 PM
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Look up a book called Spark by John Ratey
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 11:17 PM
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Yeah, those arm implants are fantastic. Dated a girl who had one: zero baby worries.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 03:38 PM
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Was in a long relationship. Started off slightly alpha without knowing it and gradually betafied/lost my way as a man. A few years in I found Athol Kay and Married Man Sex Life (I was googling for why my relationship was going downhill). I casually brought up in conversation the idea that women want dominant men, only to be hit with a barrage of "Whaaat??? That's so misogynistic". Of course, I apologised and stopped reading MMSL. Fast forward two years: our relationship had hit rock bottom. She …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 11:44 PM
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Depends on how the university is set up. At Durham/Oxbridge (i.e. unis with internal colleges) then you can get to the top of the college social scene by being in the drinking society, or (better in my opinion) get into a few college sports. These will get you into opportunities to meet women - then be the fun, outgoing guy that causes tingles. In a non-college uni - I have no idea, but I imagine its similar except you have to compete with the whole uni in the social game rather than mainly with…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 04:33 AM
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I have also not dated below in league since either as I didn't like the pain I caused. Because they get too attached?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:40 PM
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Top comment on that article: Going on the internet and endlessly complaining about how women "withhold sex" from you is just about the least manly thing I can think of in the entire world. That's the problem here, is that these doofuses have no idea how to act like real men, and I'm not talking about being a jock frat boy alpha male, I'm talking about living your life in a dignified way that earns you respect. Learning cheesy pickup artist tricks is not a shortcut to manhood. Sitting around in y…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:17 PM
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It's not... but herpes is a fairly trivial thing. So I got cold sores on my dick. There's a strong chance they'll never come back, and if they do it'll only be in the next year or two. The only real "problem" is having to explain this to future partners.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 08:13 PM
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I've heard stories of people who had herpes for a few years, and then the antibodies disappeared from their blood stream after a few years, because the virus hadn't reared back up again. Anecdotal, but if you caught if from someone a while ago, you might no longer test positive
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:58 PM
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Oral to genital of HSV-1 is relatively rare, almost urban myth rare, but I think it occasionally happens Actually it's more and more common, particularly in young people. The majority of new incidents of genital herpes are HSV1, typically from unprotected oral sex. I found this out the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:54 PM
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It's another way of maintaining your own frame, and not letting yourself get defensive about stuff she says.
/r/AlreadyRed28/06/14 04:39 PM
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Not just women either. No shortage of men who get comfortable and start packing on the pounds (or in my case, shedding the muscle).
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 01:20 AM
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As far as I can see you have two problems. 1) You have little or no social circle. I wish I could give you a magic solution to this, but friendships are organic and unique. What has helped me is doing fun things (e.g. rock climbing) with people who also enjoy those things. Don't stress out about it, don't be needy, but do have something to offer. Everybody wants more friends, but particularly if those friends have some value to enrich their own lives. 2) What's your mission in life? Good article…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 07:46 PM
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Inspiring post. these are women that a version of myself five years ago would have never expected any reasonable amount of attention from I'm curious what changes you made over the past 5 years to get to where you are now?
/r/ThankTRP18/06/14 09:06 PM
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seem
/r/askTRP08/06/14 10:51 PM
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First, School of Hard Knocks lesson no. 1: Don't ever become 70 lbs overweight again. I started dating my ex when I was a college rower. Then I stopped, got skinny-fat and hey, guess what? Her attraction for me plummeted. We broke up a few months ago after 4 years. What helped? 1) Exercise. Started lifting weights (actually started a few months before we broke up, as I could see the writing on the wall, and was desperately trying to fix things). Have gained 15lbs so far, and plan on gaining anot…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 03:13 PM
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Yeah, agreed.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:37 PM
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I've always interpreted AWALT as applying to instincts rather than actions. I.e. all women instinctively find high value men attractive, and all men instinctively find hot women attractive. The behaviours that we then choose to act on those instincts are where socialization, etc., have a moderating influence. Not all guys are going to cheat if Miss World was flirting with them, and not all women would cheat if Clooney hit on them. But the instinctive urge would still be there (AWALT/AMALT).
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:31 PM
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Married Man Sex Life. Read the website, and the books. Athol Kay knows his shit.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 11:01 AM
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My understanding, largely based on the book Brain Gender (the least biased summary I have found so far), is that higher level thinking skills are for the most part fairly similar between genders. Its possible, as 123ggafet suggested, that the spread in men could be more extreme, but I've never seen a study looking at this. The exception seems to be things like spatial abilities, where gender differences seem to be more robust. There may still be differences, but for the most part the evidence su…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 05:33 PM
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Good point, Einstein probably didn't do physics to pick up chicks. However, I think that historical trends have limited ability to answer this question, because few/no women had the opportunity to reach these levels of success because the genders had such stratified social roles. I think the next few decades/century is going to be the real test of these ideas: with the removal of social barriers to female achievement, will the most exceptional women reach the same heights as the most exceptional…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 05:23 PM
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Interesting idea. I need to read his book about men. Dunno how you would show that this was true though... I suppose you would expect it to hold across most traits in most species. Is there any empirical research on this?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 05:00 PM
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My understanding (as a biologist, I don't have the exact references here) has always been that there is negligible difference between male and female intelligence, except perhaps in a few specific areas like spatial reasoning. Recently, I have been wondering a lot whether most of the societal differences we see between men and women emerge from a few key factors. For example, do we need men to be inherently smarter to explain the greater success of men? I wonder whether you could argue instead t…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 11:14 AM
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