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PARENTINGlilacrhi/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 12:31 PM
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Before filler I was more cute/innocent/not a lot of sex appeal. After the filler I’m more sharp/sexy/m If anything lip filler would've softened your face. Filler adds volume and removes sharpness.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 10:33 AM
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What can you do? Run the other way, quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 10:32 AM
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complain
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 01:57 PM
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It's important here to note what is out of your control and what is in your control. Posture, inflection on the way you speak, and the way you move are in your control and is what you should be focusing on to become more feminine and dainty. The appearance of your physical body won't make a difference on how feminine you are perceived as. Worrying about things out of your control is just going to weigh you down. Try doing things that make you feel feminine too. Like doing your hair nice, putting…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 12:45 PM
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withdraw when something happens that you don't like
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 02:04 AM
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Are you really attracted to emotion over logic type men? Or, are you misreading attraction for emotional availability as attraction to emotion over logic? Something I'd think about, it's something I had to think about a lot when I was younger. My parter is an entj while I am an intj (we're both geminis but I don't think that means anything). I have ASD (autism) and I've been told plenty of times that I'm cold, emotionless, controlling or bossy for being blunt, I certainly have 'man brain'. That'…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 12:07 PM
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Such a crap situation to be. To me it sounds like she doesn't fully trust you and the fact that you refrain from being 100% honest about your sexual history doesn't help. Talk to her, answer every question she has and she might decide to move on from it. She also may feel as though she cannot trust you again, if that's the case I suggest moving on. Note that the issue isn't that you've lied to her, it just seems to me like she's treating it as such. Don't rush to leaving, give it some time. She …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 11:31 PM
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Being feminine is important to me because I am my most authentic and happiest self when I behave that way. No, a woman shouldn't have to be a stay at home mother.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/19 10:09 PM
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It's not that they're 'not strong enough' to go against what they view as the status quo, it's that feminism has made it artificially difficult to do so. The salary of one full time working parent isn't enough to be financially stable for a family in most cases.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/19 01:57 AM
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Except she's not a woman, she's 15...
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/19 04:37 AM
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Practice mindfulness and gratitude. Pray if that's your thing. Start taking classes for a hobby that you're interested in. Sometimes we get too caught up in work without enough play, but it could also be that you don't have enough self discipline. Exercise is also a good way to express self care, if you haven't started it'll suck at first, but it eventually feels good and your body will thank you for it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/19 04:31 AM
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Submissive is not a trait that represents women, it represents how women interact with their captain.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/19 03:54 AM
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I'd say it's a mix of the stressful workload and that previous relationship messing things up for you. I'm sorry you had negative experiences with something so personal. Try to get to a therapist, you'd be surprised how much even just talk therapy can help. Maybe try finding another partner if he isn't working for you, but if everything is great besides your sex life then I'd stay and try to get on top of that stress. I'm sure you'll find your sexual self again, don't give up, she's in there som…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 10:30 PM
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First of all, how old are you? Have you got any medical conditions or are you on any medication that could be affecting it? Have you ever felt turned on with a partner before? Maybe talk to a doctor or a therapist.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 10:10 PM
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That's great to hear, I hope it all works out for you. Just make sure you stay true and honest to what you want. xx :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 09:23 AM
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As a fellow tall hourglass (although thin) I can promise you pencil skirts and just skirts in general are your bestfriend. Find some nice blouses to tuck into them, pair with a blazer and you're good to go. With the skirts you can usually get away with cheaper options, especially stretchy pencil skirts but with tops and shoes I recommend splashing some more cash on high quality materials. A nice pair of leather flats will last you a long time if you treat them well. I also cannot stress the impo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 09:21 AM
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It's sounds to me like you're doing odd mental gymnastics to make it work. This is a big red flag. You don't sound like you're at the same maturity level, this would render you incompatible as 'serious' relationship partners in my opinon. If you want to settle down and have a family you need to be looking for someone who can do that with you, not someone who seemingly doesn't want to. Sit down and really think about it, ask yourself if this is what you want and if you find any doubt or the answe…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 08:36 AM
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I just don't think you're likely to find good quality people through dating apps. I think it'd be much more efficient to try socialising with a group of people while learning a skill/bettering yourself rather than one person at a time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 04:25 AM
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Do you have any hobbies that could include other people? Try to get into a workout class or something where a group of people have to meet. You have to appear interested too, I'm not saying you need to become a goddess at flirting but keep simple things in mind like eye contact and smiling. I'm sure you're not 'fugly' it just sounds like you need to socialise a bit more. I wouldn't recommend online dating, but you should give it a shot if you want. Just don't do it out of desperation, you won't …
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 02:54 AM
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gonna add to this and suggest heading over to r/abrathatfits, wonderful subreddit
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 11:44 PM
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I don't really understand the question because it's so vague, but you should never do something because of your insecurities. If you listen to your insecurity you're letting the irrational part of your brain win and allowing yourself to be weak. You'd be doing yourself a disservice by listening to it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/19 02:40 AM
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It's gonna sound corny and lame but just be you. If you are unapologetically you the right people will find you and approach you. I think the man should make the first move but you can if you want to. Eye contact is super important, it lets people know that you're interested and paying attention. Keep it lighthearted and just have fun with it :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 04:52 AM
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Of course they're visual, but appearance/aesthetic shouldn't determine how you live your life. Good luck with it all ❤
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:48 AM
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I think wearing makeup to the gym when you're going to get all sweaty is a ridiculous idea. It's also not great for your skin to have it on all the time. If his demands are lowering your self esteem, talk to him about it. That doesn't sound very healthy to me but I don't know you or your partner. It's okay to do things for your partner, or do things the way he might prefer, but if you feel like you're losing yourself because of it, you're doing too many things that aren't genuine to you. I hope …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:34 AM
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In my personal experience you gotta start being harsher with yourself. You know it's ridiculous to let yourself think those negative thoughts about you. Stop allowing your emotional, irrational brain take control and put your logical brain back into control. Appearance means very little in the grand scheme of things, especially things that you know are temporary. Do not indulge yourself with sadness. That being said, I hope you feel better about things soon and that you're able to overcome your …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 10:15 AM
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Just practice not believing everything you think, there's no quick fix you have to build it up over time.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 01:57 AM
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Usually I just try to remind myself of how petty my complaints usually are. With nagging, I remind myself how much I hate being nagged and then it's easy not to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 09:35 PM
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i've also recently dealt with insecurities and have had terrible self esteem for as long as i can remember. i totally hear where you're coming from. what helps me get over it is recognising where the negative thoughts come from and treating it from there. if it's a temporary skin issue tell yourself to just get over it and stop thinking about it. don't indulge yourself with the self hate and the sadness. realistically you know it's ridiculous to dislike yourself over something so superficial. th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 10:56 AM
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start making an effort, actions speak louder than words
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 09:16 PM
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