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Thank you so much for the reassurance! I was so convinced I should leave when I decided to, but then writing all of this out made me question myself, so I'm super grateful for the perspective. I've had a very intense and co-dependent relationship in the past so I do fear that red flags of that nature pass me by.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 01:19 PM
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Ooh, do you have a recipe you follow for Vietnamese beef? It already sounds tasty!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 12:46 PM
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I've recently given up pork for sentimental reasons, but I still eat all other meats and animal products (go figure). I'm finding it quite inconvenient as a lot of recipes throw in bacon or chorizo for flavour, so I wonder if any of you guys have any recommendations for alternatives. I have found a source of vegan chorizo, but as you can imagine it's pretty expensive.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 12:45 PM
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Thank you! I'm looking forward to it, good and bad
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 11:15 AM
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You're right, I tried to wrap it up quickly to avoid rambling but I did sacrifice some detail. The phase ended because I realised that, though I was recovinf my mental health, what I was doing was not making me happy and I could not sustain it going forwards. Also the decision to resume pursuing a future of marriage and motherhood was incompatible with that lifestyle and I picked the long term goal. I do still have moments where I'm anxious about what this experience will mean going forward, and…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 11:06 AM
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Definitely, I am only just starting to put the work in for giving off the correct vibe to attract the men I want, and I would only accept ones that required that I prove I'm committed to the change. I will probably be back on this forum for advice on how to do this when I run into specifics!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 10:59 AM
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Thank you for such a long and detailed comment, I hope you will forgive that my response will necessarily be long in kind. I can completely understand that this comes across as a destructive message, and as you say stories do shape the social world, but I would like to let it be known that I just wanted to put information out there, for people to make their own minds up about. Thusly, your response is just as welcome as the others, and I thank you for taking the time to go into such detail. You'…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 10:48 AM
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Thanks for the questions! I don't think there was much my first bf could have done to be honest, that relationship was coming to an end so staying together would not have worked out, or indeed been healthy. If I had had friends that were like the women here they probably could have talked me into staying in traditional monogamy at least, as a way of dealing with my doubts and fears of the time. Even with the men I saw in that time I vert easily slipped into starting relationships (I cannot do on…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 10:20 AM
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This is so true! I've experienced this before as well, and it's easy to say when they're already committed to you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 10:11 AM
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I have unending respect for your choices, you stayed strong in the face of social pressure I for one could not have coped with at that age. I unsarcastically bow to your gold-star adherence to this way of living. I suppose what I was aiming for was to put out my story as someone joining the movement rather than being born into it, for anyone who - like me - might be too scared to ask for guidance from people who have more experience, like the fine ladies of RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 10:10 AM
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Yes in my mind there isn't a perfect value for what men want, and like you say every man will have his own value. It also weighs in with other factors like your personality and your homemaking skills etc. I have no doubt my number will be too high for some men going forward, and I accept that with neither pride nor self-hatred: it is what it is now. Such is the nature of coming into this lifestyle as a 22-year old!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 10:06 AM
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I truly don't mean to brag about having cake and eating it. I guess I should have made it clearer that I completely accept that this phase will have lowered my SMV for traditional men. Moving forward I'm working on increasing it where I can, but I have well and truly spent some points and that's nothing to brag about, you are completely right
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 10:02 AM
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This is how I feel about it. To me all experience is good experience, and I didn't feel able to move forward without knowing myself better. Some people can know themselves without experience, and that to me is very impressive and to be commended, but it's not how I am.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 10:01 AM
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I fully respect that, I tried to convey that it's not something I would recommend for every girl, but didn't want to drone on too much haha! For me personally it couldn't have been another way I don't think, but I wanted to set it out straight so that people who have no intention of ever being promiscuous could read it and go "hell no, that is not for me", which some people here have done and that's awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 09:59 AM
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I was the exact same, I cant remember a time in my childhood where I didn't bite my nails! I managed to break the habit in my late teens by convincing myself (rightly or wrongly) that biting my nails so often was pushing my teeth out of allignment. This worked well because I had a bunch of orthodontics when I was a kid, and was super not keen to have any more to correct new misallignment lol. I also found that once I did let them grow out they are really long, strong, and gorgeous, so let that m…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 11:28 AM
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