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ROAST-A-SCROTElilarose8/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:50 AM
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I can’t believe how many guys my age (40s) put down that they “want kids someday” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:09 PM
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I was wondering the same thing 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:51 AM
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I had my first baby at the same age and had sex way before I should have after each of my children because my ex was so pushy. He would harass me til I gave in, throwing tantrums if I ever said no, that would escalate to screaming and throwing things. We’ve been divorced 7 years and I still have moments like right now where I’m remembering yet another fckd up thing he did that I had somehow come to accept as normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:26 PM
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We’ve been divorced for 7 years and he still tries to find excuses to talk to me about our young adult kids to “coparent”. I have him blocked on everything but he still makes new numbers and emails every now and then. Once in the early days he even messaged me through a trivia game app we used to play. I saw him recently at a sporting event for my son and he came walking right up to me while I was chatting with another mom and said hey do I know you? thinking he was being funny. Then he made a g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:16 PM
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QUEEN! 👏👏👏 Also I’m dying at “specializing in macaroni” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:23 PM
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Sammme. He was a sociopath though. He was really really good at reading me and knew exactly what women actually want. Sex was so intense and emotional. I later became friends with two of his other victims and they all said the exact same thing, that the sex with him was like nothing else they had ever experienced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:57 PM
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The other day the 20 year old male gas station worker called me hun and like a visible shiver ran through my body. I find it so disgusting, inappropriate and condescending when men do this. It’s right up there with strangers on the street telling me to smile. Worry about your own gross face, scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:56 AM
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Tbh it was negative talk about FDS on another sub that made me curious about it. But it only took a few minutes of reading and I knew I had found my people 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:39 AM
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Yeah I saw something similar the other day on a relationship sub, there was a guy who wouldn’t let his pregnant wife put the heat above something like 50 degree and only in one room, and they lived in a northern state with very cold winters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:18 PM
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It’s sounds like it’s a GPS device that just works on its own but since it’s an apple product, your phone will detect it if you have an iPhone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:40 PM
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I think it’s almost like addiction…people have to want it on their own and do it for themselves. Others telling them they need to stop drinking or stop using isn’t what gets them to stop. I stumbled upon FDS by accident and the timing was just right, I was intentionally taking another break from dating after another failed short relationship post-divorce. I thought I need to take some more time working on me because no one ever sticks around so it’s probably something I’m doing wrong. Well this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:36 PM
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I’m so glad you are learning this lesson now at a young age. I met a guy like this as a a teenager and spent nearly 20 years and had two children with him. Now I’m in my 40s, out for 7 years and I think I still have PTSD from some of the stuff he did to me. Still to this day I will suddenly remember things he did or said that I dismissed back then and will now realize how messed up it was. However, I’m thriving. I have more money, I’m in better shape, and am 100 times happier than I was with him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:39 PM
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Same, getting attention from men young and old and I’m just average looking and a little overweight. (Not that I’m bragging, I think most of us have the same experience, and none of them have anything to add to my life so I’m just doing me for awhile enjoying being divorced.) Meanwhile, to see what happens to the average single guy in his 40s, just hop on over to datingover40 and look at all the whining about how they try everything but can’t even get a response on OLD. There’s a wall alright, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:31 PM
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Yessss. When a guy says this I always say please don’t call us that, this is not a nature documentary 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:48 PM
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Even before I discovered FDS I learned to stay far away from guys who wouldn’t shut up about a “crazy ex”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 01:42 PM
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My ex husband would do “guys camping weekends” and ghost me all weekend yet if I so much as went to dinner with a friend I’d look at my phone and have 30 missed calls and texts. We were together for nearly 20 years from high school til our 30s and I never once went anywhere overnight without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 01:39 AM
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I’m almost grateful that my ex MIL was cruel to me so I could then be more aware of how damaging that is to marriages and make sure to never ever treat my sons’ partners that way. My oldest son has possibly met the one and I do everything I can to make her feel welcome in my home and to support her. She has on more than one occasion told me I raised a good man which just makes my heart so happy. We want our babies to always be our babies, and it’s bittersweet to see them grow up and move on, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:35 PM
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Early 40s here, divorced and thriving. I’m reminded of a song I recently discovered that I absolutely love by Ashley Monroe called Onto Something Good: Days are gonna fly and draw lines around your eyes It can make you bitter or it can make you wise It’s coming either way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 12:50 AM
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I’m in my 40s and guys my age do this as well, these guys don’t grow out of it unfortunately. It’s happened to me a few times…things are supposedly going great, there seems to be a great “connection” then poof they disappear for several days with zero explanation…and then they think that when they come back around I’m supposed to be happy to talk to them? Maybe now that we have FDS, the guys in their 20s might stand a chance of leaving this behind if all the 20s women immediately reject them the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:36 PM
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I completely understand what you’re saying. I’m new to FDS and haven’t told anyone about it yet, other than once briefly mentioning to my son that I had been listening to a feminist podcast. As much as it makes perfect sense to me, I’ve always kind of been a little different than many of my peers and I can already predict how some people in my life might react to FDS. I’ve come across other women on Reddit who I think will be receptive and have messaged them privately and recommended it but have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:12 AM
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When I got a restraining order and then got divorced from my abusive ex husband, he was very vocal to our mutual friends and on social media. I basically just walked away from our large group of mutual friends that we made together during the marriage, instead of trying to figure out who would pick sides. I just needed as much distance between us as possible including everyone and anyone associated with him in any way. Well the dust settled and a few of these people reached out to me in the year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:16 AM
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My favorite is “can we exchange numbers? I don’t get on here much” …last time a guy said this I said “you literally just push the little app icon with your finger just as easily as you would open your texts, it’s super easy” and I got blocked, love it when the trash takes itself out 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:39 PM
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Years ago when I was still a pickmeisha I was dating a guy who would text “good talk” if I didn’t respond within a few minutes. He worked nights and was free during the day and would say this to me when he KNEW I was at work. He was really rude and condescending to a waitress a few dates in and luckily it snapped me out of it early on so I didn’t get in too deep with this dbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:25 AM
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Thank you for this! I laughed so much when I read “most women outlive their husbands anyway”, I’m tucking this one away to use next time I hear this comment! I see people, especially men, use this phrase often on the dating over 40 sub. As a divorced woman with grown children, my main priority is not to live my life as half of a couple. If I find an amazing guy who meets my standards, awesome! Otherwise I’d much rather stay single. And I certainly won’t “die alone” in the sense these scrotes are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:45 PM
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