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lilchapo97/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 06:03 PM
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Are you open to sharing your age? The reason I ask is because I worried about stuff like that when I was much younger. At my age now (about 30) I literally could care less, because either way other guys are gonna want whoever I'm with whether they think she has a hoe past or not. Honestly, you can go about it one of several ways. Me personally, what helped was dating more, and more variety (took me years but I digress). I've been with women who can count on one hand how many they've been with, a…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/26 09:03 PM
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Since you're posting this on exredpill, I'm guessing you're working on breaking out of the redpill mindset. This likely stems from the "She's settling for you but really actually wants the 'Alpha/Dominant' guy who didn't commit to her" mindset the redpill community pushes. Either that, or its some other form of deep insecurity. What are you actually worried about? That she's been exposed to more sexual partners and that you're not enough? Are you worried of the perception that you think comes wi…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/26 08:01 PM
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For me, there's no such thing as a "friend zone." People either like you like that, or they don't. The "nice guys" who don't get dates are dudes who make their personality about being nice to women with the expectation that they will be "rewarded" after a while. When those same dudes aren't getting dates or sex as a result, they paint that narrative that women only like "jerks." It's kind of frustrating to explain because being nice is a good thing and is necessary to form a healthy bond, but th…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 01:30 AM
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Oh, you got caught up in the Alt-right red pill movement. I keep forgetting that's it's own "red pill" too.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/24 07:07 PM
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I see. So there's things that red pill content creators say that actually is true sometimes. The problem is, they're wrong about why most of those things are true. It's pretty much that "correlation does not equal causation" principle that you want to take into account here. What exactly are you seeing that you feel is validating some of those red pill talking points?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/24 05:27 PM
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I highly recommend @healthygamergg on YouTube. Take a look at his channel, he's on tik tok as well and has interviewed people who fell for the redpill. One of the guys he interviewed even spent thousands of $$ on all sorts of "coaching sessions" and was still an incel (not saying you're one, but you would think if it was legit and not a gimmick, he'd at least find a way to get laid after spending all that money).
/r/ExRedPill01/11/24 05:55 PM
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An excuse to fall back into it. You said in another reply that you don't want to end up alone and poor, and what, you think red pill is gonna make you rich and get lots of women? They literally prey on that fear and make a living out of having podcasts and "coaching sessions" where they just spit a bunch of BS. Hardly any of it is actual dating advice, and most of it is just manipulation anyway. Idk if you posted your age or not, but it's just another marketing gimmick that's been around for dec…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/24 05:52 PM
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What is it that you feel you're lacking? You don't need to be "successful" to not fall into it, that's really just an excuse tbh.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/24 06:43 PM
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After I left the rp rabbit hole, the first thing I did was stop taking things personal when women complain about or criticize men. If you truly understood what most women actually go through, but don't open up because of dudes like that who like to huff and puff and get defensive saying "that's not how it goes" or "I don't do that" or "no that's not x" and invalidate their experiences, you'd walk around jaw dropped the rest of your life. The good thing is you're recognizing your errors. Is red p…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/24 09:55 PM
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Quit cold approaching, that's one of the most desperate things you can do. Women who are "high value" in red pill terms are gonna see right through that and be like, nah. Work on your social skills and make friends doing the things you like. I know it's cliché, but that's really what's gonna eventually help you meet the right person authentically. Or a change of scenery, like moving to a bigger city. If you're that terrified of being single forever, then sure, go see a therapist. But I think you…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/24 10:30 PM
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Yeah, if he ever develops that level of self-awareness and/or empathy. Part of the problem is that he's taking advice from narcissists. It took me personally about 3 years to completely ditch that way of thinking, but that was only after the amount of bridges I burned and the destruction I caused in my friendships, relationships, and even at times my family. And even after causing all that destruction, I was fortunate enough to run into some videos from some of my favorite content creators (that…
/r/ExRedPill14/10/24 08:40 PM
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Remember this about red pill podcasters. You admit that you don't have any women friends, redpillers' target audience is guys who don't really socialize a lot and have little to no woman friends. It's a business, they make money off the fact that their audience struggles to socialize with women and are very likely not getting laid often or at all. Because of social media, a lot of our generation is awkward AF, and it's even tougher for neurodivergents like us who were socially awkward with our w…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/24 07:46 PM
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90% is definitely a huge stretch, I understand your post, OP, just be careful with how you word things like that. You unintentionally end up making it sound like most women are under one big umbrella and all want the same thing, which couldn't be further from the truth. Like, if you want to make the case that "90% of women WHO LIKE YOU would sleep with you if you did x,y,z," then that makes a lot more sense. It's still a stretch, but it's a lot more understandable. I don't care how good-looking …
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 02:26 AM
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Where did you learn that? Because that couldn't be anymore inaccurate
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 08:03 PM
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Where did you learn that? Because that couldn't be anymore inaccurate
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 08:03 PM
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Bro, if that's not working for you, it's definitely your personality. I had a feeling when reading your OP that that was the case, but after reading your responses to good advice, it's very obvious. You sound pretty closed minded and tbh a little insecure. Getting a foreign chick just because you can't pull here won't fix your problems, probably having a better sense of self-awareness, emotional security, and empathy will
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 05:55 PM
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Being needy and showing attraction/interest are very different. The only women that would look at a text from you, let's say the day after the first date, and think "Man this guy is needy" are women who didn't like you like that to begin with. Unless you're bombarding her with messages, it's not needy to show genuine interest. Even saying something like "Hey, I really had fun yesterday/ last night, I hope you have a good day!" I can only really speak for myself, but if I send something like that…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/24 02:57 PM
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I wish someone had put it to be this way when I was your age. The simplest way to attract women, which idk why redpillers over complicate it, is to develop your social skills and become emotionally secure. That's it. When people say "just be yourself," it makes sense, but that's a little oversimplistic, I know I didn't benefit from being told just that. Like, yes, be yourself, but also work on social skills that complement your personality. (Easier said than done, right?) Learn how to make frien…
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 07:27 PM
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The lack of empathy actually made the whole thing feel unnatural to me tbh. Like I would try it in practice and it didn't feel right. I ended up being a total jerk at one point, I remember realizing that one day when I started hurting the people closest to me over the littlest things. RP targets socially awkward young men, and I already had anger issues to begin with, but I feel like it justified me being a jerk, just in a more calm tone if that makes sense. Like they preach not being emotional,…
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 04:35 PM
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It means you don't follow creepy ass advice from these weirdos lol
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 09:59 PM
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Nah, definitely say it. Contrary to a lot of red pill teachings, women love it when a man can be vulnerable and is secure with his emotions. Doesn't mean cry every time you're sad or throw things when you're mad, etc., but owning your emotions and displaying them in a healthy way is a huge indication of maturity. Red pillers will tell you not to get emotional and all that, but in my personal experience, following that logic backfired in many ways I didn't realize until I got out of that space. A…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 11:38 PM
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Nah, there's feminists, and there's "feminists." You're complaining about dudes that call themselves "feminists" to get laid. Most dudes that are actual feminists do it because it aligns with their ideology and values. I guess it's that hard for you to believe that guys actually care about women's rights lol Like the fact that there are politicians actively trying to ban access to contraception is fuckin ludicrous. What sane guy trying to date around wants to have to worry about lack of contrace…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 03:29 AM
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Just tell him you're not about it anymore. He'll most likely start calling you a "beta cuck" or "bluepiller" but if that's the case, you don't need that energy in your life. Honestly though, if he considers himself "alpha" (which just about every red piller does) it really shouldn't bother him what another man does with his life.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/23 12:59 AM
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That doesn't make sense. You can be confident in the workplace and not with women. If you're relying on your income to pull, you're attracting the wrong type of women. It's definitely a factor, but not as big as you're making it out to be.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 08:13 PM
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Idk where you're getting that from. Maybe it's just my experience with dating and being out in a few cities, but that's not exactly how it works. It's not the dudes physique and financials that get him dates and long term relationships, it's the confidence that he has from that that gets him there. That's the factor I see as to why I have fat friends with an average/low income that date a lot more than my fit friends that are middle class or better. The confidence is honestly what turned my dati…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:40 PM
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You're definitely not alone. It's hard to help someone who's given up on themselves.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 06:17 PM
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It definitely happens, fat dudes pull a lot more than you think lol. Sexual market value is mostly pseudo science
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 05:40 PM
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This whole question makes zero sense. Porn and social media has dudes thinking their penis size is a much bigger deal than it is
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 05:39 PM
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