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Yes women have true empathy for men, I've had many men I've ran into in life I've had empathy for and helped with things. Probably more than women as I'm just too anxious to speak to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:34 PM
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I think most people will assume those comments are making fun of the sport especially made a goal, if they are inclined to be upset about it. Honestly the best thing to do is figure out the name for a goal in that sport and maybe one or two little bits of knowledge so like for watching rugby I'd maybe wanna know "goal-try, only pass backwards, if you kick over posts that's also some points" then you can ask questions from there. Just things you could Google suuuiper fast
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:37 AM
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Reminds me of someone ik who walked out mid sex because the girl said "daddy"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:33 AM
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Women likely like the confidence/ haven't learned how bad people can be, the "I can fix him" trope often also confuses matters as women think they are able to help. Also people who had assholes for fathwrs/grandfather's and haven't realised how bad they were may also gravitate to similar people to them as that's the "positive" relationships they've seen. Also 9/10 times a self proclaimed nice guy is either creepy and overly sexual, or get angry at the women anyway, so they tend to be assholes wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:36 PM
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If I sleep with people at work I'm not likely to win a promotion, I'm more likely to loose my job as most places do not let you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:19 PM
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If the person acts badly/overly flirty or being a pest, rather than just speaking then maybe this applies. If you just go up, try chat to them like your making a friend and see where it goes from there, then you'd not be labeled a creep (other than by a minority of women) and they'd probably be more likely to enjoy your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:19 PM
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Yeah it says don't bother women not don't talk to them :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:17 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this, and I hope you can/have received the necessary support throughout.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:01 AM
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Happened to me too, and I'd say it's not specific but people whot tend not to care much for others are normally going to be like that, though even the best personalities can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:23 AM
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You do feel difference but if it's like the friend was describing, like it's a different size shape and you can feel it but it doesn't really matter to me. I've been with quite a wide spectrum of size and shape and it's doesn't matter. What does matter is how willing a guy is to make sure you enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:22 AM
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We've lived together for three years so we've obviously had our arguments issues and tough patches. But I've never wanted anyone other than him, although I know plenty of people who have been single and even have been interested and my type. It's easy when someone treats you badly to dislike everything they did and point to things that they maybe were acting wrong in and taking advantage of and assume that's the whole reason, but it's likely not right. For example people hating men, being a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:46 PM
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They re 2 of the shortest people I've met, I think they are because of how much taller I was and I'm not tall
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:30 PM
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Yeah if your going for any girl from the group that thought they were the queens of their year at school and think there shit doesn't stink. If your going for a normal average women, who has any rational thought, none of this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:18 PM
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I had once previously and it seemed to come out with a pretty negative response as people felt I as a woman was being a bit invasive and nasty though this was years ago. I felt it would be good to post here as it collects comments it's a good example to a mixed group that they need to show more consideration on men being victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:12 PM
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I don't think you are very commonly speaking to women but I've heard conversations and been part of conversations like this: "oh he definitely looks like he's sleeping around, I mean how could he not" "Yeah, do you think I should go on the date or??? I don't want to end up being just another hole" Both in my group of friends and people I've nothing in common with other than sitting nearby
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:08 PM
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Well I was homeless at 16 and had been victimised by men in a lot of ways. I'm now happy, living in my flat with my partner. But I found good representation to help me fight for what I needed, and that was all luck, I got a room in homeless housing asap, luck again. And eventually I worked through fixing my brain, re aligning the pathways that trauma can mess up, but to do that I needed 2 years of not working, not living with family, not having too much responsibility. That wouldn't be possible …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:32 AM
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I'm unsure what you wanted from this reply but I don't feel you've proved life isn't hard. The thing Ur saying almost sounds like "life can't be worse than mine and I'm here" And that sounds not too far from true. But you neglect to factor in the way people's brains differ, and the luck you may have had in building yourself back up (luck doesn't take away from your effort, nor say someone else put in more effort for the same). But others don't get the breaks, don't have that ability to push on d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:06 AM
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Totally agree my first crushes both are like under 5ft. And even in my immature teenage self, I liked them a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:02 AM
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It can though and does. And they may sign the forms but as someone else mentioned they often sign every form related to birth and early care due to time off for being pregnant and having a kid. If the men in those relationships were against it I'm sure we would hear more of it causing divorse ect. I am not a feminist myself, and I also have issue with this and have had many issues with feminist orgs that have been helping me for this reason. Either way, popular opinion is on feminisms side, so i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:58 AM
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What's the point of discussing SMV then if it's acknowledged as being pretty deeply flawed thinking? Especially as I see it mentioned so much to do with "I'll never find someone coz smv" Not having a go just wishing to understand, sometimes my tone comes across more angry than I mean it to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:39 AM
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She sounds to be living the life she wants, and that's what feminism was all about, so we could all have a shot at living how we want. Also talking down to, babying and pretending women don't know anything isn't a very kind thing to do, she's made her choice and seems very happy in how her relationship is. She knows better than you, and no amount of being a dick will change a women's feelings on a relationship. Weather Ur angry her bfs older, younger, controlling, passive, uninvolved, clingy, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:37 AM
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I can understand you thinking your pains above everyone else and that women don't have a penis to circumcise, so they can't have worse. First of all a lot of gynecology procedures and after pregnancy care is not done well and can cause extreme agony to women. Women and men both have bad parts of life that we need to work together to fix. You shouting that women have it easy and shouting at them about this fixes nothing. Much like at this point women's spaces need to include the talk of men's sa …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:24 AM
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Life is hard To being with before even being able to fend for yourself you can be injured, abused, SA, r*pe. All those things fundamentally alter your brains function and thinking patterns. Later on your parents can kick you out, you can again go through all forms of abuse, you could live in a struggling economy, a place with few jobs, few houses, end up on the streets. As you get older unavoidable debts, dangers of life and again everything mentioned before. And no matter what you look at there…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:18 AM
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Why do so many people here totally pretend personal preference doesn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:11 AM
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I don't exactly know what smv means (so I'm assuming it is the ranking of guys) but like people probably date and get in relationships with people who match their preferences so it's likely either very mixed results or Ur landing about mid level
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:10 AM
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Most of what I've seen is women get lots of attention but it isn't what they want, like very sexual or sexist remarks for example. A lot of men on these sights aren't looking for serious things either and that's the bigger issue with dating. Men are frustrated no one is matching them, but it's probably because they simply have too full an inbox, even if you are what they are looking for it's hard to tell you from a cloud of men. Dating apps re also just bad for everyone, women feel extremely unc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:03 AM
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You can say that "the only thing that matters is looks" but I also feel people often miss the very important fact of personal preference when it comes to settling. I did have sex with some "chads" and similar. But I didn't like them they were basically just the other horny people (maybe this LEDs to it idk, but exercise leads to more horny and confidence lead to more willing to let people know Ur horny) but we're not my type. I'm now with a short, big, guy, and he's beautiful to me, much better …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:46 AM
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From experience I was having sex with what TRP and things would believe were hot men, I'm now with a man they'd believe was probably well below average (coz their rating systems suck imo) but this man is more physically attractive to me, and is the guy I'm staying with because I fell in love, something that didn't happen with the hook ups. settle even with a hobbit looking woman and women are wasting their younger years, bang hot dudes, think they deserve hot dudes but end up with an average dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:39 AM
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Anecdotal evidence is hard to get past especially when it's so hurtful but I feel you may scare off more people with these views than you will work anything out. It's fair to have boundaries and explain how you want to be loved, those are important parts of a relationship. Obviously though if it's a hard boundary for you then that's also allowed. I'd also say I'm bi I haven't had a proper crush since before my partner (well it was him) because I am in love, when I haven't been in love and didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:28 AM
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I will say despite the overturning of roe v wade id say that it doesn't make you lesser to men, I've seen men be forced into raising or paying for kids they didn't want more than a handful of times (without ever looking for it) because the woman wouldn't abort. So it is kind of more equal but it's an area that probably shouldn't be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:19 AM
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I believe that it's pretty 50/50 but it's just the nice guys respect people, the assholes don't. And I honestly have found it the same amount with women respecting eachother, about 50/50. I will say men seem to get more respect but part of me wonders if it's largely from the less respectful girls, and the conservative sorts of men (not saying all bad just there's a certain sorta guy). So there is a slight difference (especially around industries where more conservative views are held like mechan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:16 AM
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I think it comes from the fact that as a whole these things are true, as a study. But individually we re all different, this leads to people saying the things they do, maybe they did decorate coz of a bad husband who manipulated them and they left because they can't stand toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:09 AM
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Well I mean if your convinced a helpline won't stop you, but when I call a helpline I likely aren't very sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:01 AM
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I didn't ignore you, I replied to you, and to be fair he never was inside me lol, and I'm bisexual so am I meant to have no friends then?11
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:12 AM
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That's a ridiculous way to read what I said. And it's totally untrue. Because idk what I base Ur views on but by red pill standard I had. "better" options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:52 AM
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He's aware, he knows about every guy before him. And the use of current is to make it clear to Reddit we are still together and he isn't an ex. I'd not describe him as my current boyfriend other than that sort of scenario. So what is the word "current" telling you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:41 AM
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So who is your best friend? Both, but ones my boyfriend and ones my best friend if you just ask in a general way rather than when I'm explaining in more detail. If you love him, why do you even have male friends? That's cheating. How is it cheating? Is it cheating to have a brother? No. So what's different with a male friend? Is it just that you won't trust your partner/ don't want them to see other men as positive? I'm confused by this view. And I'm friends with guys because they are my friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:54 AM
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I don't think the issue comes from porn or dating apps. I feel like the issue with this is individuals who maybe aren't that great to begin with being influenced into dehumanising others and never working on themselves. I watch porn, I still see men and women as humans and equals. I know people who've been on dating apps and also view men and women as humans and equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:43 AM
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I can't remember if I did or did not actually cheer at the end of a relationship. I will say I had these thoughts after the honeymoon phase in the relationships I did cheat in though, not after checking out. either that or I was doing it spitefully . I also think women don't really think that different to men in most regards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:36 AM
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I'm not having a kid because I was treated awfully by teachers and other kids and still live in the catchment area and probs won't move There's way too many creepy men and women around, and around everywhere, there's no escaping them The world's collapsing in on itself, AI taking jobs, mega companies own everything, the natural world is disappearing and being damaged, there's a climate crisis, a financial crisis, and a human contact crisis. For these reasons I wish I was never born, I'm not doom…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:32 AM
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Well I don't know how else to describe it? There's 2 cases where I might have bit can't remember what happened before and after as these guys thought having a male friend was cheering. So we argued but idk if I actually did anything as I don't remember timelines and was in a relationship quickly after.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:28 AM
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I've never been married but I did cheat on my ex's. The first guy I cheated on cheated first, we were in a relationship but it wasn't good and he kept trying to cheat on me, so I gave up on being monogamous and we split up 3 months later (I was 15 at that time) Then the next guy I was okay to see other people too after a while, because I was bored and lonely without the attention (This isn't a woman issue this is a I had no friends and compensated issue) but i had cheated on him for about 5 mont…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:21 AM
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They definitely can
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:55 AM
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now have a bunch of fat people declaring they are fine and you should find them sexy and get bent out of shape if you point out people tend not to like dating fat people You can look overweight and even be it and still be as healthy as you can be. And also personal preference is huge, there's a whole porn category for big women and from what I've seen views aren't bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:51 PM
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This I fully believe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:39 PM
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It's because the body positivity is exclusive for fat women Not really although it's generally a focus I've seen larger men and skinny women take part, as well as people with other issues, one I've noticed recently is a lady with a beard to put most to shame. You do you, the thing is, those women are not confident. If you need reassuring for someone else 24/7 you're insecure. I don't believe this is true at all, the movement is to help people build confidence, but once you build it you can be co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:38 PM
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Idk if in general they dbocate for being obese I follow a fair few of these people and have recommendations and most do fitness but say "I don't look fit to you but I am fit, I do work out and I eat well"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:34 PM
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But although I dislike the phrasing fatphobia is a big issue, and there's stil a view that women should be thin, not heroin chic, but stil thin enough it's either unhelth or impossible for some to maintain. It also encompasses talking about small breasts and flat ass for example
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:32 PM
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But I feel like in general the message is be you and lose weight for health NOT what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:31 PM
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But a lot of overweight people can't lose the weight or have to go to extremes, unhealthy extremes to lose it. Often I've seen the point made that "looking fit and being fit are 2 different things" and encouraging bigger women to not hide and instead get outside and go swimming and go to the gym. I feel over all it likely causes more overweight people to go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:30 PM
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Not all simps are single, the single ones are probably single because they can't talk to women very well or give them the attention they WANT . Not all cheated on military men are ugly tbh I don't think that's reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:38 AM
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I mean if you just give attention in a friendly way and get to know them that can also lead to a relationship. Obviously I can't just decide to have sex w someone to make a relationship or get too pushy too early.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:35 AM
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