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STAY WOKElilithdianara/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:09 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDlilithdianara/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:16 PM
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Yuckie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:08 AM
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Ugh the truth in this! I no longer like romance novels I used to rave about bc I now see the patriarchal propaganda of women overextending themselves and doing emotional labor for some emotionally unavailable scrote. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:02 AM
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Everything you said is so on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:56 PM
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Awww girlies are so brain washed it’s sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:34 AM
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Omg so sorry about this, sis! This seems to be a common behaviour among scrotes. One time this guy I went on one date with and ghosted hit me up months after his wedding. He asked me out on a date when his wife was CLEARLY on his fb page. She just had his kid too. 🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:31 AM
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Omg as a labor room nurse, there was one time this man had 2 different baby mamas who gave birth at our delivery room within a 3-month gap. I felt really bad for the first woman. He showed up drunk at her delivery (mind you, she had to repeatedly force him to come as a significant other is needed to admit the patient). She was already in labor and stressed out about the situation. The second woman, he ended up being engaged to. He was very attentive with her and clearly favored her. This woman w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:29 AM
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Ofcourse! Don’t feel bad about it. I cut off plenty of pickme friends, particularly 2 girls who were okay with being abused and cheated on. I did my best to help them, but you can’t help people who don’t want to be helped. Leave before her attitude and pickmeism rubs in on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:32 AM
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LOVED the episode as usual. I couldn’t stop laughing on the roast a scrote part tbh. You girls are hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:44 AM
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I’m so sorry about your grandmother. This was so heartbreaking to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:52 AM
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Accountability is their idea of ‘violence’ against men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:32 AM
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^ This please!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:32 AM
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I love everything you wrote. I wholeheartedly agree with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:31 AM
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🥵🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:00 AM
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The day I found FDS was the day my life changed. Telling my friends about FDS changed the course of their lives. This sub is so powerful and amazing. Thank you ladies for all your wisdom and hard work in educating us all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:12 AM
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What in the mental gymnastics? Giiiirl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:04 AM
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Lololololol men and their delusions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:34 PM
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I started dating at 21, when I had my first job in the hospital. I was so focused on my career and meeting new people that it was so easy for me to dump whoever didn’t fall into the standards I set. My mama advised I didn’t date until I graduated college (yes lol), passed the boards and become a full fledged nurse which I didn’t understand at first.. but gooood I am so thankful for now. She taught me to put my education and work above all else because men will fall at my feet after without effor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:24 PM
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Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:11 AM
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You’re amazing, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:21 PM
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Every time society pressures me into dating, I think of this. Will never deal with this shit ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:04 AM
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Yes girl!!! So proud of you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:02 AM
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Exactly. Dumped my ex and got myself a Satisfyer Pro. Best decision ever. Daily orgasms minus the headache and audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:58 AM
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Listen to your instincts. If it’s not a fuck yes, then it’s a hell no. Focus on yourself, sis. Abstaining from dating for nearly a year now has done wonders for me and my mental health. I’ve gotten a good job, moved to a new house, worked on my mental health and boundaries, focused on self care, etc. Get yourself a Satisfyer Pro and you’re all set.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:19 AM
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So sorry to hear that :( I used to think I had low libido too because I couldn’t enjoy sex with my ex. Turns out, he was just bad at it. I got myself a Satisfyer Pro and got multiple O’s in one sitting. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:14 AM
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So much truth. The moment I felt like my circle of friends were the most loving, genuine support a girl could ever have, was the moment I stopped wishing to receive that affection from a man. Good gfs are like boyfriends minus the drama and the possibility of being a human incubator so some LVM can propagate his worthless seed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:10 AM
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Why do we even bother with men at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:07 AM
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Exactly. We will keep resisting. ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:31 PM
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I am so proud of you. Welcome home, sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:24 AM
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Exactly. Exotic isn’t a compliment at all. Sincerely, a WOC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:53 PM
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This is so pathetic and sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:15 PM
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Yes! The freedom we enjoy now is the freedom many of our ancestors have been beaten for, have been silenced for, and have been killed for. We ought to enjoy it and push and push and push for more until we can truly call the future generations free women. 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:11 AM
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Can I get my money back puhleeease? The only good side to it is 95% of the dates I had have always been paid for by the man (the only one that made me go dutch was the cheapskate who ended up being my first and only bf). But ugh the wasted time and fhe wasted money I used for taxi! At 23, I honestly feel like i’m done with dating. I can’t even look at a man and feel any spark or even get excited because I know behind every handsome face is a huge possibility of scrotacity that I never want to de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:06 AM
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Yes sisters. Give them hell! ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:13 AM
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Lol I honestly love it when women own their bodies and dress up. Scrotes just mad these women can’t be told what to do and wouldn’t let him touch them with a ten foot pole🤪🤪🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:06 AM
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Honestly my life would be better if men just learned to shut up when it comes to whatever we do with our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:02 AM
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Huh??? Haven’t women endured this shit for millennia?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:21 AM
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Yikes he’s definitely spying on her laptop. When I worked at the hospital and had computer-related problems, I’d call IT and somehow they can see exactly what’s going on my screen so they can see the problem. The mouse would be moving on its own (mirroring their actions on their own pc). It’s fucking scary that happened to your friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:25 AM
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Awww! This is so sweet. We women should absolutely be doing this for each other. My friends and I do this too. Sisterhood is seriously the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:22 AM
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Yes sis. YOU are the main character. Thank you for highlighting this. This needs to be more talked about. I find a lot of women get so overshadowed by their man’s success. Sadly a lot of women downplay their own strengths and would rather support their men while completely ignoring their own. It’s truly sad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:16 PM
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Yeah no thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:13 PM
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The more I leveled up, the more I attracted fellow women with the same mindset. Most of my girlfriends I met during Nursing school though. Most women there had really independent mindsets/were career women. Some of them I met through work. You can meet like-minded women everywhere. Strike a conversation with that girl on the cafe who’s reading the same book you’re reading. Or make small talk with a girl you bump into at the mall. HVW are everywhere. If the covid situation in your area isn’t as b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:10 AM
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Thiiis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:51 AM
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I was guilty of riding this rollercoaster during my pick-me days. Never, ever again. Thank God I woke up at 22 and never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:00 PM
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This, exactly. Most if them are also LVMs who want women to cOMmUnIcAtE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:14 AM
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Eww god wtf is this. The most alarming thing is his age preference. Way to announce you’re a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:58 AM
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They act like we care what they think about us lol. We’re too busy with our careers and leveling up to give a damn about a bunch of pickmes and LVMs and who hate being called out for their appalling behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:07 AM
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The comments agreeing with the husband are disgusting. Agh!!! All these pickmes banding together. Somebody help them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:07 PM
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Drop him. He’s selfish and only cares about his pleasure. He’s not a HVM. It should be your pleasure first before he gets inside you. Men are always guaranteed an orgasm during PIV sex, women are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:16 AM
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Forever resisting!!! ✨✨✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:12 AM
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I’m so happy for you sis! You do deserve every bit of it! Just remember in the midst of this happiness, please keep vetting. ♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:11 AM
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THANK YOU FOR THIS! God, this post reeks of the truth. If a guy doesn’t make you cum the first time, he probably won’t be able to in the next few times. My ex once told me to lessen my expectations before losing my virginity. It won’t be like the movies he said. There will be no candlelight and roses. Pickme little me had no idea this was a red flag apparently. He came twice and left me on the bed to take care of myself. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:04 AM
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Yeeees sis. You took the words out of my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:00 AM
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Uh huh honey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:59 AM
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Exactly. They’ll slap on some week-old underwear and a tshirt with holes... 😭🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:57 AM
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^ exactly sis! It’s honestly revolting. Some women just... are so far gone as pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:56 AM
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This is so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:25 PM
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Made me teary eyed... I cannot handle other women shaming feminists too, as if they’re not reaping the benefits of women who fought with their lives for the rights we enjoy now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:23 PM
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This is so beautiful. 🥺🤍 This is why I still have that 1% chance of considering dating again/marriage and why I haven’t entirely abolished the idea of it. HVMs truly exist.. they’re just hard to find. This is why we must be very picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:21 PM
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I so agree with you sis!!! Beautiful story you have right there. I am so damn proud of you for realizing your worth. It is truly so wonderful when we realize we are happy on our own. Boyfriends are not a necessity.. sometimes even more so a liability. After months in lockdown and free from messaging or seeing any man, I’ve come to realize i’m more mentally at peace when I am single and attached to my goals, hopes and dreams. The fairytale scam is just that.. a scam that has been used for centuri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:19 PM
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Even in my worst pickme days, I’ve never let a man police what I wear. The idea of some dumb, jobless, premature ejaculator with a lower than hell EQ telling me what to wear thoroughly disgusts me. I LOVE wearing flattering clothing that shows off my best assets FOR me, so I can stare at myself in the mirror and take pleasure at the divine being in front of me. My mother, despite being a pickme, taught me growing up that being a woman means owning your clothing choices too. Always find it funny …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:09 PM
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THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:21 AM
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YEEEES. Learned this the hard way. Turns out my ex has slept with all his “female friends”. He keeps them at a roster for when he travels internationally 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:38 PM
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YES. This 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:03 AM
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Omg the accuracy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:39 AM
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I’m SO sorry to hear that. Men are truly despicable. I hope you find peace and healing one day. Sending you love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:29 PM
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So sorry to hear that. So many of us were groomed to be pickmes—but the good thing is that we are now unlearning all this. I grew up with misogynistic uncles who literally let all their female family members be their mommy, yelled and hit their women and controlled everything despite being jobless and broke. I absolutely agree that FDS principles should be applied to all relationships. I pray you will be able to get out of the situation, find peace and healing through therapy and self work and y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:49 PM
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^ this. My friend’s boy “friend” casually groped her in her sleep (she was half-awake). She pushed his hand away. Minutes later, he tried it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:45 PM
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What in the actual...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:43 PM
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Yay!!! I’m happy for you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:54 PM
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Yas girl 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:09 AM
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Golden advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:31 PM
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Small thing, but I went to the mall to get my watch fixed and the man who ran the shop fixed it for free lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:30 PM
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This video is actually what made me stop watching porn years ago. 💕 Wish more men had his mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:20 PM
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Queen energy!!!! So, so proud of you. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 12:38 PM
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Such queen energy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 12:37 PM
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Good God... 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:21 AM
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All of THESE and most likely he isn’t even college educated himself, has a minimum wage job, lives with his parents, can’t cook or clean up for himself, doesn’t even wash his balls, is porn sick and can’t maintain an erection for more than 10s and doesn’t even know where the clitoris is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:15 AM
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This. Unfortunately we still live in times where a woman will lose everything because of a leaked nude/sex tape while the man gets a slap on the wrist and that’s it! It’s definitely SO sad. I mean, I remember reading an article about a teacher in the UK who got sacked from her job for a bikini photo alone. It’s crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:15 PM
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Just when you think pickmes can’t get any worse..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:12 PM
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They really expect this to be a hard decision when we can have dogs, shopping, dark chocolate, pasta and a vibrator... 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:10 PM
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I cringed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:48 AM
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Smh 🤦‍♀️ these pickmes.. they just.. dig the bar deeper than hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:11 PM
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He sounds like a real treat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:28 AM
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And yet instagram doesn’t ban the amount of child porn/porn/female hate comments i’ve reported and will message me saying it doesn’t go against community guidelines. Sexism is alive and well. 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:00 AM
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It makes me so teary eyed to see fellow women finding themselves again and immersing themselves in crafts that used to make them happy. I am SO proud of you, stranger. Beautiful voice, btw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:53 AM
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Sorry to hear she took some of your emotional and mental space. You did the right thing, OP. You made her see the light, though it seems like she’s not ready for it —- a lot of unlearning and self growth to do but if she does level up even months or years from now, you would have been the catalyst that helped her. Tbh they both need therapy. Your ex sounds like a psychopath who should stay abstinent forever. I fee sorry for the other girl too. Unfortunately, we can’t save all pick-me’s. Some are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:12 AM
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Omg yes KUHWEEN. Men are truly the most emotionally stunted creatures on earth. Even my dogs can empathize better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:43 AM
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Yep. Wish they would just leave us alone tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:30 AM
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Can absolutely relate. That’s why I stopped dating seven months ago. I realized I had a pattern when it came to men and it wasn’t good. Men actually pick up on this. If it takes you a month, it used to take me about 4 or 5 dates in. That’s how bad my pickme tendencies were. What I did were the following: 1.) Quit dating. Often times, these anxious thoughts are a signal that you need to work on your self and keep yourself busy with building yourself, your hobbies and basically occupying your time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:32 PM
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I remind myself of situations like this one whenever I get tempted by a good looking man :) No man is worth all of this emotional stress, EVER. The fact that they had a good thing going and then he shows his true colors. His gf was obvs assaulted and he’s mad he’s not allowed to assault her like that. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:37 AM
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It’s always the ones that look like a big toe who comment about women’s looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:15 AM
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This is so, so sad. So many life experiences she could’ve had as a teen she missed out on by pleasing this pedophilic scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:49 AM
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Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:38 AM
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^ This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:59 PM
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👏🏽 👏🏽 this sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:58 AM
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Yes!!! When I first started reading FDS, I agreed with some content and thought some posts were too extremist. I even felt attacked (imagine that!). Months later though, being locked down with LVM family, I completely embraced all principles. An awakening to the truth isn’t easy, especially when we’ve been brainwashed from the moment we learned how to speak, but it will always be worth it. Since starting FDS, I recruited 3 more girlfriends into this mindset LVM they are all absolutely glowing an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:49 AM
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This kind of mentality breeds more pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:22 AM
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Uh huh. At the end of the day, even the lowest value of men just wants to control us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:21 AM
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This!!! You have worded it out perfectly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:19 AM
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Yes this!!! While my dad wasn’t exactly a HVM, he also never let us pay for a damn thing. All of his salary went to my mother. Even now in my twenties, he still doesn’t hesitate to pick up the bill whenever we eat even when I offer to pay. He takes us out shopping once a month and lets us buy everything we want (even when I tell him I have a job haha). When my mom uses her credit card or her cash to buy anything for herself or for us children, he always recompenses with a cheque every time. He k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:17 AM
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Queen move right here. So happy for you!!! It’s the little things like these. We keep reclaiming ourselves over and over again. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:47 AM
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Yup! Ever since FDS, I stopped believing that ‘the one that got away’ even exists. When relationships don’t work out, it is what it is. Often we women are taught to romanticize those relationships (either because we haven’t been shown basic decency before in our family dynamic or we’ve only ever dated LVM and so we put a man who pulls in the bare minimum on a pedestal) but we really shouldn’t. He’s either with you because he wants to be with you or he’s not because he doesn’t want to be with you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:45 AM
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Yikes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:10 PM
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You have worded it all out perfectly. Will screenshot your response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:52 AM
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What did I just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:09 AM
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I’d never anyone stick it in if they don’t eat me out ever again. I really can’t come from P&V sex (or maybe it was just bad sex with my ex?l) Oral is the way to go for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:04 AM
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You’re in a situationship. He’s leading you on and using you for free emotional labor. Block and never look back. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:02 AM
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THIS. A hundred times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:53 AM
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Yes to this! My old pickme self used to LOVE this, but now it makes you realize it’s a lazy way to court you. It’s also a surefire way to get you to fantasize about him and daydream about him and then eventually fall for him without him exerting much of an effort. You end up falling for the idea of a person, and not the person himself. I mean, who’s to say what he’s even telling you is completely honest? Without face to face interaction, you won’t be able to pick up on telltale signs he’s foolin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:49 AM
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No surprise that they’re thinking of themselves yet again. ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:42 AM
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Walks are amazing but they’re not THE date, you know. They come after a date. He’s a stingy scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:46 AM
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God I wish I knew this before losing my virginity to a scrote who NEVER once asked if I came. Didn’t even bother giving me oral because “he doesn’t really like doing it” to women. I cannot count the number of times I did it to him. That statement should have been clear to me that only his own satisfaction mattered to him. He made foreplay seem like a damn chore. Plus he wasn’t really good with his fingers. I’m never gonna settle for bad sex/shitty bed partners ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:42 AM
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Gosh, what the hell did I just read..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:11 AM
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Omfg. Scrotes and pickmes will feel so called out by this. 😂😂👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:37 PM
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Yup. Totally agree! I can’t even watch my old fav romcoms or reread my old favorite romance books without cringing at how pickme most heroines written are. Don’t even get me started about the normalized bad boy trope where a woman has to do mental gymnastics for how cruelly he treats her, simply brushing it off as an effect of his ‘traumatic past’. 🤮🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:30 AM
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He’s the kind of dude that will let you cook for him but not wash the dishes after. He just feels entitled to your labor bc he has a dick. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:27 AM
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It truly is. Divine feminine energy is just healing. The women in my life have done nothing but elevate me. Cooking for each other, cheering each other on, sending long messages.. the list goes on and on. When women come together, we rise. I find that filling myself with love from girlfriends, family, pets and myself is enough. Thankful to FDS for affirming this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:46 PM
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💖💖 sending you love, sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:44 PM
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Definitely! Girlfriends are amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:41 PM
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Oh gosh yes! Virtually sending it to you rn <3 and she truly is! We really go above and beyond for each other.. writing each other long messages, cheering each other up, though she is more of the gift giving type and my love language is more on words of affirmation and quality time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:40 PM
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Hah exactly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:39 PM
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She is truly lovely!! Girlfriends truly are the gift of the earth, aren’t they? Funny fact, we both used to be huge pickmes with a history for bad decision making in men, and then we discovered FDS and just made it our lifestyle. Blocked all the scrotes + now spoil each other with support and love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:17 PM
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Oh my god, yes. If I could send you girls some rn, I would!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:15 PM
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Yes, definitely!! It really did make my day. I am not so easily impressed by scrotes thanks to FDS + the way my gfs and I go above and beyond for each other. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:14 PM
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Uh huh and these same scrotes are the ones with sky high standards on how a woman should look like, what a woman should or should not do. 😂😂 It’s laughable really. These scrotes can’t even take care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:01 AM
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You are so welcome. To be so young and have a good head on your shoulders and a strict boundary policy is something worth celebrating about you! You are a good example to young and older women alike. Do treat yourself to a long bath/your fav food/a glass of wine if you drink.. maybe even a face mask. I hope you have a great day too 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:24 AM
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So many posts like yours lately and I am so pumped about it. I am soooo proud of you. FDS truly changes lives for the better. And I am sorry for the horrible things that have happened to you lately. I am glad you have taken a huge step in taking control of your life and being on the road to becoming the HVW that you ought to be. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:52 AM
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Oh my god bby, I am so proud of you!! I wish I had your smarts at 21 not to sleep with a man until I was fully ready. Keep leveling up and being the queen that you are. Sending you love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:46 AM
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Right?! Even simple chores were done by girls as children! Never the boys because ‘boys will be boys’ 😅😅😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:42 AM
5

Congratulations! I am so proud of you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:12 AM
2

Thank you again. I appreciate you! And I am happy to know you are at peace now as well ❤️xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:03 AM
15

Omg this!!! I keep pushing this towards my friends because they don’t want to insult the man by getting him tested (it’s a cultural thing here) 😩😩😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:24 AM
14

Damned if you do, damned if you don’t has always been the narrative for most women since time immemorial because of men. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:20 AM
47

Yes.. being a South East Asian woman I’ve been fetishized a lot by the white men i’ve gone out with (I made the mistake of thinking only men in my culture were lazy as fuck that’s why I never dated within my culture) turns out white men are problematic in their own right too. Some of the men I went out with specifically said they didn’t go out with white women because they’re too independent and -gasp- there’s too much feminism. Boy had no clue even baby pick me was a Rad Fem at heart. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:51 AM
6

So happy for you ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:42 AM
2

Thank you so much. I needed this the most today. 🥺❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:16 AM
13

Oh Lord. No thanks. I would never volunteer to live with a man. Brings no value to my life. Probably will age me too having to watch 50 kinds of trash just strewn all over the place. 🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:43 AM
8

Oh men and their stupid projections. These mfs all need to go to therapy before dating. They damage so much women because of their insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:36 AM
12

I hope he stops propagating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:36 PM
3

This. This is what we do the work for. I’ve shared the handbook with three of my friends who are now all fuckboy free and are now living their best lives, making choices FOR THEM. One of the best parts of being a HVW is being able to inspire others to finally break free from the patriarchal conditioning of always sacrificing and putting others first before ourselves. FDS truly changes lives for the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:51 AM
15

Big yikes 🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:24 PM
2

I couldn’t stop laughing at the video. What a cringefest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:16 PM
27

And that’s the real tea ☕️ The greatest injustice we ladies can ever commit is to not acknowledge our worth, our power and our inner radiance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:10 AM
73

Another huge reason not to subscribe to pickmeisha ways. Living our fullest lives, prioritizing ourselves also honors our ancestors who literally went through hell to give us the rights we are enjoying now. ✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:06 AM
122

Oh lord. What is happening to our young women rn 🥴 No, just no sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:36 PM
43

Ugh, exactly. Why can’t I be a lesbian, seriously? Men nowadays are hopeless. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:23 AM
18

Yup, this. Boycotted it a year ago and never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:19 AM
69

Lol, the projection! He’s just mad he won’t be able to go near her within a ten-foot pole. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:32 AM
9

❤️❤️❤️❤️ ofcourse it is! I am happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:26 AM
3

And yet these same scrotes are the ones who think it’s our unpaid job to cook/clean/pleasure him and provide emotional labor for him. Please. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:11 AM
5

So proud of you! This is only the start of your journey. Here’s to becoming the queen you always ought to be ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:04 AM
1

Saving this and manifesting! I can’t wait to have this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:57 AM
12

Take your time. HONOR the emotion, process kt and own it. A healthy amount of anger is necessary. Use it as a driving force to treat yourself better, to create better boundaries and to keep in mind never to let another person treat you like that ever again. It is so natural to go through that anger as it is part of the grieving process of the death a relationship. I liken it to the Kübler-Ross model, which was taught to us in Nursing school, which was mainly about the five stages of grief in ter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:52 AM
1

The pick-me that I was months ago would have felt so called out. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:37 AM
2

Hahaha so much truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:32 AM
37

Oooff. Glad to see she dumped him on her latest tiktok post. She’s absolutely stunning and this scrote was lucky to have her. And one year together without a single post of her? 🥴 Sounds like he wants to look single to his followers. A familiar excuse, really. My ex bf wouldn’t even let me me follow his IG account when we first started dating. Later I found out he had been keeping his Tinder girls there. Literally every girl he was following he had already slept with or was planning to sleep wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:34 AM
41

So true! Thank you for this. These LVMs aren’t worth even a second of our time. I recently adapted this attitude and it worked so well for me. It got rid of most men on my DMs.. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:59 AM
37

So happy for you, girl!! It is truly heart-warming to me whenever women’s minds shift because of FDS. There is nothing more satisfying than putting yourself first and sticking to your standards. FDS makes you realize the world is your oyster and life is so much more than relationships ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:03 AM
1

A puke-worthy intro 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:45 AM
1

Ugh puke. How men have standards like these and be a NVM is beyond me. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:48 AM
3

Oh my god, the entitlement of this scrote 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:46 AM
3

Hahahaha projection much 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:43 AM
35

Ahhhh absolutely fucking love this!!! Thank you!! Using patriarchy to our own advantage? Yes please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:51 AM
13

Congratulations, girl!! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:34 AM
19

So true. I used to make the same excuses for scrotes I was into during my pickme days. None of that now though. A man truly interested WILL find a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:12 PM
54

Agreed. You’re more likely to fall into the traps of LVMs and NVMs. Plus, more often than not, your self-worth and validation will be tied to how much attention he’s giving you. I know this by experience. It’s just not worth it. And when the relationship is over, your self esteem flunks to the deepest pits of hell. Better focus on self-improvement; it is so much more rewarding in the long run. Dating should only be reserved when you’re coming from a good place emotionally, mentally and spiritual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:29 PM
18

That monogamy before commitment only benefits men. Vetting is so necessary and I skipped that stage all the time for fear of being called a slut by dating multiple men (because I belong to a culture that is still strongly patriarchal). I was surrounded by pickmes who thought that way too. I honestly feel sad I used to think that way. But I’m so thankful for FDS. It changed so many of my viewpoints when it comes to dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:08 AM
4

Lol no wonder he doesn’t get laid with that attitude he has. Clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:26 AM
3

g SpoT tRaInInG 😩🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:03 PM
9

I know, it’s crazy!! They make up excuses for it all the time and feel justified by it. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 04:38 AM
16

This!! I was dating a guy whose ex-girlfriend called when I stayed over the first time. We had a row over it and he had the audacity to say to me he talks to her all the time (and has been since they broke up a year ago!!) because ‘he doesn’t have many friends’. Lol he must have thought I would fall for it. Needless to say, I broke up with him. 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 04:30 AM
1

I swear to God 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:55 PM
4

This is amazing. I'm happy for you, girl! Taking notes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:12 AM
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