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you ever see something on this sub that looks like the equivalent of swinging a baseball bat at a hornet’s nest? that’s what this whole post is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:03 PM
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for me(late bloomer with experienced partner), doesn’t bother me. it’s chill. i mean. i ABSOLUTELY made fun of him when he told he had to get treated for chlamydia twice(i got tested before we started dating and after we had sex the first time - all clear). bc dude that’s gross?????? threesome doesn’t mean you don’t need a condom what the fuck other than grossing me out bc past STD 🤢 i didn’t mind that much. he did the college fraternity thing. i did online at home w mom and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:36 AM
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with the HPV vaccine. should be clear. one of the girlies young enough to get the vaccine with friends who caught it from unprotected sex with “clean” boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:30 AM
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i just consider it a constant work in progress bc if i say “nothings wrong and i’m fine” then i’m probably just ignoring my own shittiness. but if i recognize i’m getting better but i can still massively improve then i keep working at myself. (: it’s just my way of not letting myself fall back into the way i used to act
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 05:06 PM
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just emotional. take things too personally. and i get defensive super easily too. also i have depression and anxiety and dating someone exactly like me showed me how much of a nightmare i actually was? so i’ve gotten better about it(i hope ???) it’s easier to have a dude who can just be like “i didn’t mean it like that?” then have a girl who’s the same exact way. and husband is not super emotional of a dude at least not obviously he’s more Acts of Service love language so it’s easier for me to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:51 PM
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i’m a nightmare and i don’t want to deal with other nightmare women. i’ve tried. i only attract other nightmare women. it sucks. might as well be with a man who is usually not as nightmarish as i am. even long term. nightmare. sucks bc girls are pretty and i like them. but the women i attract suck. also i’m a bottom :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:28 PM
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so, for clarification- my older sister, who was in an abusive relationship/marriage with a piece of shit for 3 years that fucked with her birth control, got her pregnant and then she left him when the child was 5 months old bc he starting subjecting the child to his abuse and that’s where she finally drew the line. it’s her fault? that she was abused?? that my nephew was abused?????? you say women are incapable of comporting themselves like adults. i just want clarification that you genuinely th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:59 AM
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still doing better than you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:48 PM
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i know how the word got started ??? when did i ever imply i didn’t know it. you’re trying to “gotcha!” me over this? honestly? since i have to be specific now, for you(i’ll even capitalize the first letter) I Was Saying That Incel Is Mainly Used By Cringey Teenagers Who Hate Women. In All Honesty, The Word Was Misappropriated By Cringey Teenagers. I Know How The Word Was Coined. I Did Not Know That There Were Neo-Incels Who Aren’t Cringey Virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:45 PM
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you’re not a virgin then dork. i stand corrected on that front. damn there’s neo-incels now???? what happened to the old-fashioned teenage creeps hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 09:29 PM
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does little jimmy have drug money????? or does he have Mickey D money. nice and money is better than nice and poor. don’t get it twisted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 09:24 PM
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oh yeah purge week was rough. where all the nasties come out to spew their hatred for the opposite sex. i liked where people were making fanfics for mrs. drgree that was cool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:20 PM
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eh the cop thing is more bad people wanting an excuse for their aggression. the fact that they abuse their spouses just clues us in to that factor of their hidden aggression. you’re right, sometimes that’s true. but you know mafia bosses had lovely family lives with pictures of taking their kids on trips or visiting their wives. i’m not saying 100% jerk dudes are jerks only to others. but it’s also not 100% jerk dudes are jerks to their SOs. i’m not denying the fact that yes, shit dudes abuse wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 04:48 PM
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all humans are shitty by nature. just how it is. i’m not trying to win anybody’s heart over here so idrc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 04:45 PM
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25+ for men.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 04:18 PM
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honestly this 100%. women genuinely care about what a man can do/is doing for us. he treats us nicely? that’s perfect, it doesn’t matter that he’s a drug dealer or a bank robber or something. he treats us nicely and that’s what matters. it’s the solipsism thing, i believe(could be using it wrong, sorry)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 03:48 PM
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i’ll just do what other old ladies do when their husbands die. get a lot of cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 12:42 AM
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grateful for my parents for genuinely helping me become a person i like being. grateful for my sister for showing me empathy is better than revenge(sounds cheesy sorry) grateful for my friends for not pushing me when i’m having a bad day grateful for my husband for caring for me and loving me grateful for my job bc it’s still q*arantine where i live ❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:00 PM
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hey don’t knock anti depressants :( some people actually need that shit to live a normal life :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:56 PM
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i’ve been on anti depressants since 14. they never killed my sex drive. i’ve been on bc since 16(my friend got pregnant at 17 and my parents freaked) and they are hell on earth. bloating, horrible mood even with anti-depressants, and fucked up period. i’m honestly thinking about switching to monthly tracking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:53 PM
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nah. my hubs is 10 yrs older than me(i’m 20) he’s attractive 6’4 and exercises with me. do i think he’ll always look attractive? no bc ik we’ll both be old and gross when we’re 30+ years. it’s not for money. you have a skewed perception bc you were a sugar baby. that’s not anybody else’s problem except yours. you can have fun pretending to your bf that you weren’t a prostitute, but you were. hope that bf of yours doesn’t find out about your past. most men would dip
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:49 PM
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okay well, the incels i have seen are normal looking dudes that don’t look ugly. i’m sure there are ugly incels, just like there are ugly people everywhere in the world. but there are ugly fuckbois too. so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:41 PM
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naturally monogamous women (if that’s a thing) living proof right here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:54 PM
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some men are just brick walls. or when they do open up, they only want to talk about their interests. which is fine, but i expect my SO to let me have the floor at times as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:53 PM
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yeah no there’s nothing wrong with being awkward at first. i can get social anxiety. it’s just if they literally make no change 2nd or 3rd time we hang out, then i’m just not going to bother again. bc it makes me feel like i’m being annoying. i’m not a chatterbox by any means, but i don’t like one-sided conversations the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:32 PM
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what exactly do you mean by your last paragraph. incels are male virgins who blame women for their virginity?? and 2nd of all, several people have mentioned on this post that they do message people just for the sheer entertainment of it or to troll. but ofc “women don’t do that. the hivemind won’t allow that” and also, dude some women are just gonna be okay with that shit. like there are women who protect the pedophiles in their families. there are women who are neo-nazis. i’m not one of those w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:24 PM
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Yeah, if it’s excessive then yeah i’d be a little weirded out. if he has kids w 2 other women, then that’s a no from me. if he has a history of cheating, that’s a no from me. excessive body count is a sign of unhealthy mindset in men and women. i don’t see why there would be a good thing about a man having a high body count vs a woman having one?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 06:03 PM
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being awkward usually means you suck at conversation. or they only talk about things they care about. being bitter means they’re just unpleasant to be around bc of the constant griping. being creepy is just genuinely uncomfortable. a dude can be cute and i’d still be bored to shit if i couldn’t make him talk. he can be cute and id be annoyed by his bitterness. he can be cute and id still be grossed out if he was being fucking creepy. attractiveness is important, ofc it is. but those secondary tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:00 PM
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why do you assume attractive men cheat? only reason i can think of is, you’re ugly so you can’t get any women. you think if you’re attractive you get multiple women so ofc YOU would bang them all. attractive men don’t think they way ugly losers think babes. different life = different approach another reason women don’t like incels :/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:35 PM
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dudes who don’t like short stocky-fat girls ????? lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:08 PM
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what is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:07 AM
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honestly, after being on this sub for a while i think i only ever went for my looksmatch on dating sites. if a man that looked like that reached out to me, i’d think he was a bot. a man like that wouldn’t be into me lmfao. he’s sexy but like TOO sexy. like not even in my fantasy he’d be into me. he can get insta models and i’m a fucking gnome
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:51 AM
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my husband asked me to rub his feet and threw a fit when i said i didn’t want to unless he cut his toenails. he’s 10 yrs older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:07 AM
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he’s 30 lmfao. he used to play football and shit so he’s got bad knees and a bad back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:15 AM
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they are still attractive. but they have “old” traits. my husband goes to bed at 9. every night. he asks me to help him stretch before bed and to pop his back when he wakes up in the morning. old man shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:13 AM
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i’m 20 married to a 30 yr old. he’s tall(6’4) and attractive(exercises with me regularly, pretty eyes). you need to be cute to get early 20s. if you’re ugly at 30 you can’t touch a sexy 20 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:10 AM
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i’m red pilled as a woman. i know exactly how i acted when i was single. ugly men that stoped being orbiters suddenly got the majority of my attention. just so i could keep them in orbit. once they fell back into place, they were nothing again. edit - i’m not saying this is okay behavior bc it’s definitely not. but that’s how i acted and that’s how my single friends acted as well. we’d never dream of doing it to a man we wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:31 PM
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wym gifts? he bought dinner on the first date and i didn’t let him fuck me? his insistence in that respect makes me not want him. we could’ve gone dutch. he could’ve asked if i was going to pay for myself. instead if he just assumed “I do this for you so you’ll do this for me.” isn’t my problem. i’m honest about my body count. bc it’s not an intimidating number and i don’t have shit to hide from my husband. i think you’re misunderstanding female nature. i, as a woman, like to feel smaller than a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:46 PM
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well you never said the word “friendzoned” in the OP but a male 10 is already making her feel bad about herself. that’s why she’s still spinning plates with him and why you’re stuck in the friendzone even if you’re funny. manipulating someone in any way is wrong. attempting to hurt someone just to make them feel weak enough to actually have sex with you, just highlights how pathetic you are. like that isn’t “game” my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:13 PM
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okay, so say this woman thinks she’s a 10 and won’t touch you. why is she close enough to be in earshot of you? why isn’t she off spinning plates with Chad instead of entertaining you? if you can’t get her, then why is she around you? showing that you’re a jerk to women who aren’t interested in you isn’t going to help you lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:06 PM
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lmfao no i wouldn’t be upset about that. hell if he likes me enough to take me on a date, hell yeah we can go to Olive Garden or grab some Mickey D’s and cuddle watching netflix. if he explained to me he didn’t want to go all out bc he felt used, that’s totally legit. i get it my dude. if i’m on the date, i’m in it for him. first couple dates that’s fine, i’ll talk to him if i maybe wanna go somewhere fancier. my relationships only work with communication i don’t magically expect a man to know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:41 PM
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it’s real and i think most women don’t realize it’s what they’re doing. women who say “being hypergamous is better” are a lil weird bc like they’re openly talking about playing men. and let’s be real, only top tier women can come out better if they play like that. usual women are stuck w multiple babydaddy’s and a string of divorces bc they got cocky
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:57 PM
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i’ve had dudes get bored bc i was bad at giving head. men judge women on their sexual prowess as well. i’ve seen posts about starfishing on this sub and TRP but men complain about starfishing, about not doing anal and about shitty head. don’t play pretend here :/ edit - i’ve never actually met a dude who was uncomfortable with a woman who knew what to do with a dick. my type isn’t insecure men. and i don’t even have a high N count y’all. once i got good it was “i wasn’t expecting that.” bc i don…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:51 PM
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we’re currently living in the age of Sugar Daddies/babies and OnlyFans so i can get with your aggravation but men who PumpandDump are considered gods amongst their friend groups right? that was my understanding of it. clapped on the back and asked “how’d you get her?” “i’ll just marry rich” was used as a joke to my mother about not wanting to do homework. never taken seriously and was met with “you will not!!!!” from my mother. i grew up in the Southern US(Bible belt) so maybe my understanding o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:35 PM
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i probably don’t have much to say on the subject. being as i’m 5’1 so unless a dude is like 5’1 and under he’s gonna be a no from me. so Danny Devito is a no. i see tallness as a “wow that’s tall” and then move on. but i’m RPW and married soo i don’t rlly target men i guess? husband is like 6’4(technically 6’3 and some change but they rounded up for football) but i’ve dated guys that were 5’3 so height’s never been an issue for me? taller than me(5’1) is my preference :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:26 PM
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i’m 20f married to 30m my friends gave me weird looks when i said how old he was(19 and 29). told me “be careful” like i don’t know how to set boundaries with him(snatched my phone - he got an earful and hasn’t done it again). they’re in emotionally abusive relationships and think bc their bf’s are closer in age they’re doing better than me romantically. i got domestic bliss and they got highschool drama. we are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 01:30 AM
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im probably going against the grain here but i’m 20f. my husband is 30. so that statistic that claims people are attracted to similar age, may make me an outlier, but oh well. i like that he can show me how to do things. it’s not a turn off for me to have a man smarter than me or more fiscally mature than me. my sister is 25 and has had 3 husbands. all ended in divorce. all were same age as her. i don’t want to be like her. my mom warned me not to be like her. my dad loves my husband. they’ll wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 01:24 AM
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context - straight female, married no i don’t hate the fact i like men. i think my husband is a great dude. he has traits i like and traits i don’t, but the pros vastly outweigh the cons. i wouldn’t turn off my sexual attraction to men. even when i was dating i didn’t like dudes half the time, but the sexual chemistry finding the right dude is heaven on earth. i thought i was bi in highschool, but i couldn’t make myself like the taste/texture of pussy. dick tastes so much better. making him moan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 01:11 AM
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i only have 3 best friends. two are women(from highschool) one is a man(met in game) and my husband but i’m not gonna go complaining to him about every single thing that happened at work.(man friend is long distance) i guess i don’t get along with most women. i kinda think they’re mean to each other? like i mean yeah i get that someone’s outfit might not look right on her body, but like i don’t want to talk about anybody like that. makes me feel bad being around those kind of women. i mean men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 10:00 PM
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i’m lost, can you please clarify what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 09:53 PM
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i like mate-guarding. as a woman, it’s kinda hot to see my husband pull me a little closer to him and make it subtle, yet obvious i’m his. i would consider abusive behavior to target to the partner. like making them give their location at all times, texting you before they stop at a gas station, or snatching the phone from their hand to see what they’re doing. mate-guarding isn’t yelling at any rando that walks by, it’s more like publicly designating that the person is your person. like holding …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:32 PM
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