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| 2 | Q4M: Have you begun or would you consider utilising an 'AI Girlfriend' due to being unsuccessful in finding a partner?i respect myself too much to ever consider such a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Making women feel safe around you is apparently the biggest factor in attraction?Self-explanatory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women.Look at their username. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 11:05 PM |
| 7 | When women say they want a man to show more emotion, what they are really asking for is healthier emotional communicationEveryone is shit at communication. The only person who's good at is me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 08:23 PM |
| 12 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?If that's what shy implies, sure, but it's more about yourself than other people. I have no problem talking to others, but unless It's been affirmed that people want me to talk to them in a casual way, my inhibitions are fully-deployed and I probably won't. That goes for men and women. It's a self-worth thing, not a legitimate fear of women or people in general, fundamentally. I can make a risky investment or approach people to talk business, but I'm not going to talk to approach anyone casually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 03:04 AM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?Being "shy" with women doesn't mean you're not bold in other areas of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Some guys prefer to be marriage material, some girls prefer to be hookup materialJust lol at destroying people's copes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Some guys prefer to be marriage material, some girls prefer to be hookup materialSelf-selection. Oblivious people do oblivious things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Where did you get your opinions about women?I don't think people should have cosmetic surgery done but it's well within their rights to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Where did you get your opinions about women?So you are against choice. No, I am a civil libertarian. Being anti-something doesn't mean I am pro-authortarianism. I am pro-critical discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Where did you get your opinions about women?I think they share the same fundamental goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Where did you get your opinions about women?So be it, am I supposed to compromise my morals for earthly satisfaction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Nice physique! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 9 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Feminism is great if you actually do the work to individually interpret the world through that lens and throw out all of the unnecessary vitriol. I'd consider myself a feminist, and because of that, I call out inequities and problematic expressions of traditionally gendered behavior when I see them, man or woman. It's very feminist to criticize women for acting against their interests or purported allegiance to the cause when they supposedly know better. That means being pro-egalitarian relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Where did you get your opinions about women?How about we treat everyone with kindness and cordiality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:16 PM |
| 0 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.It doesn't take high six figures to be an above average man. If you're making six figures period, what are you, above about 80% of all Americans in yearly household income? That's no doubt above-average, but read your own damn comments because you're proving my point. The way you frame the idea of an above-average man implies that men who are objectively above-average in all of the categories that women (and men) critically assess aren't colloquially above-average and thus effectively average. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.Okay, but income isn't the only metric by which we may measure a man's SMV. When we consider what may make men casually desirable to women, which seems to be at the forefront of discussion here, my mind goes to physical fitness and fashion, not income. Both of those are also more immediately accessible to men than the prospect of increasing their incomes by any notable degree. Consider that these men are whining about their "dating" struggles because they've gone through the process of becoming … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?They will never get it. I don't think any analogy could effectively convey how non-psychologically-cucked men feel about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 07:17 PM |
| -4 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.The red pill is all about self-improvement, so I think it would be fair to assume the average man that frequents this sub is, at least, slightly above-average and continually working to improve his smv. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 07:01 PM |
| 4 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticThat's really sad. Every day, my view that most people shouldn't be in relationships becomes more solidified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 0 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticI can't believe this. There's no way that other men don't love women at the same intensity that they're frustrated by them. Personally, women can frustrate me to no end, but the love I feel for them is boundless, and I don't think there's any greater satisfaction one can have than being around a woman you love and would give the world to if you knew it'd make them feel loved & happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 09:21 AM |
| 3 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticYou're right and anyone who denies this or gets defensive has repressed latent homo-erotic feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Women of Purple Pill debate. Where do you feel like the current dating climate is right now when it comes to men and women?Women are all for feminism until the ideology demands they reject the aspects of a traditional relationship dynamic that benefit them and adopt a more active and/or egalitarian outlook on sex & relationships. Relationships are ideally equanimous and, most importantly, egalitarian, but that's not where we are. Women have overtaken men in the social hierarchy, at least in a material sense, and through their actions have shown that they're entirely comfortable with subverting the socio-sexual parad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsJust because something is derivative of incels does not mean that it lacks any value or utility. Most people don't like that scale because it hurts their feelings. That's all it is. It I were forced to decide a metric to determine people's attractiveness, it would be that one because it intuitively & logically makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestI respect rule #1, but not #2 : \ Seriously, though, online dating is awful for me, so I'm definitely not near conventionally attractive, but women seem to like me at certain angles offline. Particularly from the front. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestYes! I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestEven women because a lot of people give them passes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestI can give you both. 🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am opposed to it on ethical grounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, I guess it depends. Some people have really crowded teeth, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think they're fine because you're not fundamentally altering the way you look, and they legitimately help function. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI judge everyone who has had cosmetic work done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 3 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?From what I've seen, relationships that begin on the basis of sex almost inevitably crash & burn in spectacular fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?It seems like people don't understand what their priorities are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?Truthfully, I'd rather jerk off than get a bad blow job. It's not even something I'd have to consider all that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?That's hardly analogous because you could always just masturbate. I sense it's less about sex and more about everything surrounding the sex, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How did people even meet and start dating before the existence of dating apps?Such a stupid question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?I don't agree with that. Most people just aren't aware they're seeking validation. I'm too introspective and anal-retentive to entertain that sort of dynamic. I want a women with a more masculine temperament that still exhibits most of the feminine traits I find pleasing. Traditionally feminine women trigger the hell out of me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 0 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?There are probably women out there like that, though, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?Everyone has activities they enjoy, that's not the problem. The problem is other people who deem the activities we enjoy as not sufficiently interesting or indicative of an adequately valuable life in regards to how "unique" or "exhilarating" we are. We can't just like gardening, carpentry, pottery, writing, etcetera, we ought to live like Jay Gatsby because that's what looks the best and gets the most engagement and lauding on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 08:28 PM |
| -1 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?Okay, where does one find an above-average woman then? I.e., one that actually wants to have a critical discussion about how to solve whatever is ailing her, instead of one that only wants all of her bullshit to be validated regardless of the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 3 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?"Boring" people aren't the issue. The issue is the people who expect life to resemble their favorite movies. I wouldn't say life is boring, but it's banal and generally predictable, which can be desirable. People are more in need of better attitudes toward others who are just living their lives as well as they can than those people (the average + content ones) are in need of more "exciting" and "interesting" lives. "Bro, you're so boring. Maybe you'd get women if you purposefully injected stress… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men.Those aren't men. Those are grandpas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | The #1 reason women are so selective and flake so easily is because they simply aren’t as interested in men or dating as the reverse which inflates their options and in turn their egos, not because of the “danger” of dating as a woman or risk of getting pregnant.Assuming he goes to the gym, his BMI could be an indicator of having a fair amount of muscle mass. Be more charitable. It's a principle of argumentation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?Salutations, my fellow le epic Redditor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Why are women less attracted to men than men are to women?You genuinely believe otherwise? Of course, we don't like fat or ugly women, but we don't find most women to be so fat or ugly that we find them unattractive & not worthwhile. It's the opposite, in fact. Most men find most women, "good enough." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Why are women less attracted to men than men are to women?We also don't find most women bad-looking, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guysI think I agree with you, for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:06 AM |
| 4 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guysHe "refuted" this point in his post? You're not saying anything that he didn't already acknowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?I haven't done any mental gymnastics. If women aren't having sex, then neither are men. That brings us closer to equity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?Maybe make them wait or try to choose better men? I don't know, just a thought. I think if you keep getting manipulated into sex, it says more about your capacity to select good men than it does about the general goodness of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?So don't let yourself be used for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Women here, what ways do you show interest?I find that distasteful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 01:33 AM |
| 4 | Women here, what ways do you show interest?The one time I had this happen to me, it was blindsiding, but I became immediately enamored. If a woman is that magnanimous, it puts me at ease and forces me into a state to be more confident and conversationally vulnerable. Once a woman tosses that first stone, everything just flows. I loved it. You know, I don't like it if women are any other way now, to be honest. I hate the games people play and the cowardly hints you're supposed to pick up on. I want someone who knows how to effectively exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 01:32 AM |
| 5 | If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual?I think it's pretty fucking great, but I am straighter and more masculine than I am gay and effeminate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:25 AM |
| 23 | Men want the most sexual partners possible and women want the best. That's where our problems come from.Yeah, I don't get the converse mentality. Like, you had sex with 50 absolute dogs, congrats. That's totally an accomplishment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Based on your personal experience, do cheaters tend to have many or few friends of the opposite sex?Any. 😶🌫️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 03:04 AM |
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