| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | realistic expectations | Conversation | limjl3657 | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:13 AM |
| 0 | i’m tired | Lifestyle | limjl3657 | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 12:58 AM |
| 0 | text game | Inner Game | limjl3657 | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 01:07 AM |
| 0 | The art of noticing | Fundamentals | limjl3657 | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 11:39 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | realistic expectationsthank you for your replies! so just to make sure you’re saying that I should work on building a connection with them during my initial approach and not throw the “would you wanna go on a date with me” too easily? can you give me tips on how to build an emotional connection? like i don’t understand flirting lol me asking questions is my way of showing them attention and interest | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 03:44 AM |
| 3 | realistic expectationsi generally state my intentions pretty quickly, i don’t use pick up lines and i don’t play games. i get their attention, give them a compliment and ask for the name. if they do give me their name, i tell them mine and shake their hand. after that i usually have a 1-2 min small talk about what they’re doing and ask for the instagram. it and when they type it in, i ask them if they like going out on dates which usually surprises them/instantly tell me they’re busy and i end the conversation in a r… | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:50 AM |
| 2 | realistic expectationsso the funny thing is I actually speak a fluent American accent, most of the time people assume I’m from the Bay Area. But sometimes I wonder if that might be the reason I’m scaring them away, because I learned English mainly from my Black friends and Rap songs so I kinda “talk black” if that makes sense | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:28 AM |
| 0 | text gamethank you for your advice! but i’m really new to all this and i think it’s hard for me to really understand what flirting is, could u explain more about that? is it just trying to make her laugh by being silly? | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 01:21 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys handle nonverbal signals that say don’t approach?my guy u just said the realest thing ever🤌 i think we live in a generation where information is so widespread that we believe in the lies other people tell especially on social media. not all girls are the same and neither are guys, stop making assumptions and only get answers directly by doing your approach, it’s that simple! | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 11:28 PM |
| 1 | The art of noticingyou might be on to something here | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 11:25 PM |
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