linalake Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Pet Peeve: Men who need to be competitive and condescending if you have the same hobby/interest/passion for a cause, etc. as them are annoying as hell Ufff this is soooo good🙌🙌🙌 we live and we learn	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 12:26 PM
9	Pet Peeve: Men who need to be competitive and condescending if you have the same hobby/interest/passion for a cause, etc. as them are annoying as hell This is soooo common. I have childhood guy friends who do this to me all the time ( i just dont see them as that worthy of my time anymore) . My ex was soo insecure when i did stuff better that him that he never spoke about it, never complimented and ignored my interests. I practice the truth with my guy friends , i tell them straight up they dont need to explain the obvious and that that is making me annoyed but they straight up forget and do it anyways. 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤣 they are hopeless	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 12:25 PM
4	Noted! Sameee 🤣🤣its so funny how such a small thing shows true colors. He didnt wanna share with me a single fry🤣🤣 i got a man who cooks for me now	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/20 09:46 PM
1	The fact that he posted this himself really says a lot So sad 😢 he is very immature. The problem here are everyday chores. If she wants a husband time to start therapy. She is way to upset to talk to him by herself and he obviously doesnt respect her. A third party needs to give him a proper smacking. Suggesting divorce over chores is a bit extreeme. They seem very young too.. he prob doesnt know how to start the washing machine.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/20 09:43 PM
3	Men being inspired by you vs feeling out of your league Hmm i would say HVM will always be inspired by you While LVM can or might not be. So you cant really decide only on those words. My LVM ex was inspired only so he could compete with me and never said it in a happy way	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/20 09:37 PM
2	Getting engaged within a year of dating? I had an ex who was LVM .. just always so selfish.. never did a single thing i wanted... lied ... rigid... took me for granted, low effort when it came to me. But! He always did his work deadlines, dishes and cleaning. Never mistake the effort he puts in for himself as something he does for the relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 11:02 AM
1	Getting engaged within a year of dating? Follow your gut.. there are no securities as far as time goes. He could be high value for 5 years straight then grow into an asshole.. If he showed his high value to you and you are happy dont let your mind start imagining these awful scenarios. Believe in yourself and that if the worst happens you will be ok. You will spot if he isnt bringing you happiness and leave like a queen. I would say a year is enough to know if someone is good to go.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 10:53 AM
2	It's sad to see how often women's good nature is taken advantage of. I hope we don't let LVM make us bitter, but that we become less naive and save our sweetness for people who will value and appreciate it. He gives me a bad vibe 🤫 too much like hes forging this version of himself 🤭And for a man who can pick and choose roles why does he go for dark depressing ones. Idk.. my rule of thumb is happy and positive people smile more and bring joy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 10:46 AM
2	Point By Point Critique of “The Wall” The absolute truth ! Its healthy to be atracred to your own age range.. even at 60. I feel sorry for them	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/06/20 04:24 PM
2	How many other NVM phrases can you think of ? Uff i have had a super similar experiance as mindeska wrote. I hang around this subreddit cause it comforts me to know other people have had similar experiances with guys. I dont love my ex nor do i hate him anymore. A year after a break up ( 10 year relationship) i have these questions that haunt me a bit. Why did i stick around for so long. Why did he disrespect me like that. Why didnt anyone warn me. I think it might be that he took me totally for granted cause we ended up together so young. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/06/20 04:07 PM