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| 1 | Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like.They don't live according to the gender roles, instead they live as they truly are, and show their actual needs, like needing to talk, cry, hug, show fear, or whatever the gender role says they "can't" do because it's "not masculine" or "manly". Just give up on the idea of trying to live "as a man" or "masculinity" and just be a good kind person and you'll feel a lot better. Same goes for women who stop caring about being a woman "in the right way" and just be a person, an individual, instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:53 AM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?I'd argue that sex IS relational in one way or another (attraction, chemistry, whatever), otherwise it's just jerking off in someone elses body, as if it was a silicone pipe that just feels extra good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 05:24 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?It's like only having paid friends, or pay for love. It's antisocial behaviour. It shows that you have a really fucked up view on other human beings, relationships and emotions, when you think you can pay for something emotional and relational. Like you're robot who doesnt understand what it is to be human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many men find women boring here?Strict gender roles still divides people up a lot, manly men and womanly women have a harder time finding things in common, obviously. They learn to see women as women and not just... people. Attachment issues aka mommy issues. Basically had a bad childhood and then hates women for the rest of their lives for it (same goes for lots of women in FDS who hate men, they prolly have daddy issues). If you hate or don't like all the people from one gender (like they're all the same...) , the problem is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRsSo what makes a man cheat? Not high body count but....? What? Or is it just men who worry about women cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardI'd say women in general definitely take better care of themselves. I didn't say that not any men ever take care of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardBeing horny and having standards are two different things. If you're super visual like me, and a big part of the sex is watching the guy during, you don't really get a lot out of fucking someone ugly. Might as well masturbate then. Doesn't say anything about your actual drive. Also, I wouldn't say women have high standards, rather a lot of men can't even live up to basic hygiene. Women take better care of themselves (diet, exercise, make-up, haircut, clothes, skincare etc), so it's easier for me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | What sexually arouses a woman at 18 will also sexually arouse a woman at 38 (and so on)." I think many women mix up sexual attraction and emotional attraction which confuses men." Well I for one am shallow as fuck. But if I have an emotional connection with someone, that can make them hot/cute/sexy in my eyes too. So the lesson from this for guys is: If you have a good personality, that can land you someone like me, as well. I think this is the case for guys as well. For a one night stand, or just at first glance, most people probably go just by looks, but if you get to know someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?Work out, good posture, nice attitude (smile more and be socially comfortable), get a good haircut and also take care of it (make the hair shiny etc), use moisturizer and sunscreen, take care of nails/hands, clean shaved face (or very well groomed, no pube looking beard thx), pluck eyebrows/nose hair, smell good and clean, wear more tight well fitting clothes with nice colors and patterns and cuts (not just black, brown, grey baggy shit with a crap hat on top). Accessories like sunglasses, ties,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Why are cruel men so romanticized?Attachment issues. What kind of girls are drawn to these kinds of aggressive men? Girls from broken backgrounds. About 50% of the population has attachment issues unfortunately. Some of them more bad than others. They are the ones with the toxic behaviours you're describing. The rest of the population are having pretty non dramatic relationships in normal mundane lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 10:41 AM |
| 2 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?Body composition and growth, sure. I haven't denied that. The bodies do look different. We still don't need any social rules about how you can dress, what jobs you apply for, what hobbies you can have, what body language you should have and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:45 AM |
| 4 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?You with your amazing ability to articulate why the fuck I'm so fucking wrong seem to be just the right person for that job, don't ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:20 AM |
| 3 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?So don't respond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:03 AM |
| 18 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?No gender roles. No expectations based on genitals. We're just human bodies with different genitals. Just expectations of being a kind human in general and not destroy other people, animals or the environment. Everyone can do what ever the fuck they want, whatever job, clothes, hobbies, mannerisms etc, again, as long as they don't hurt other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What is a natural beta to do?Sure is some real toxic shit.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 09:48 PM |
| 8 | What is a natural beta to do?Log out from reddit, and never return. Forget every red pill word you've ever heard. Go out and meet people through hobbies/friends/education/whatever. Connect to real humans in real life. Love yourself and go in with the attitude that you're a catch and actually have something to offer. No, not every woman will love you. Not every person will love every person. That's just life for everyone. You only need 1 to love you of all the billion people out there. And just as you are a different guy, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 12:33 PM |
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