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| 1 | The Double Standards of Body Shaming MenI think dying on this hill because a sex trafficker got insulted is WILD. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/01/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | I am blown away at how many people are applauding Greta Thunberg for D-shaming Andrew Tate.So you don't know or follow Tate...a man who made a career on the internet by shaming men...but come to his defense because a teenager made a punishment joke about. Yeah ok. Really good priorities you got here on this male advocacy sub. If you actually cared, you would highlight how damaging and awful Tate's ideology and "coaching" is to men. Forget his misogynist bullshit, he's misandrist as well. But no, you don't care about that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I make peace with the fact that practically no one has progressive views on the role of men in society?Lmfao! You really posted this long ass shit because Andrew Tate - a blatantly hateful bastard that is harmful to men and eomen alike - got bodied on Twitter!? This is hilarious. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/12/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Those who have contempt for “toxic masculinity” have a FAR greater contempt for femininityIt's why I never subbed. For every decent post there's always some sneaky conservative/tradcon/redpill shit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/12/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Men receive contradicting messages about dating from societyAll great points the highlight the hypocrisy, but I gotta nitpick one: show sexual energy; but don't trust women like sex objects. I mean, there's a big gulf between showing sexual energy and treating someone like a sex object, lol. Unless of course, you're saying that any display of sexual energy is shot down as sexual objectification. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/12/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Those who have contempt for “toxic masculinity” have a FAR greater contempt for femininityYou had me until you snuck in your "omg Rey and Galadriel are so woke" nonsense. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/12/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | I did a podcast: The unpopular other half of gender equality, with TheTinMen.JustPearlyThings? Oh no.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/12/22 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Misandry IS systemicVERY systemic. Just speaking on a basic social level, the mere utterance of men's issues instantly puts hackles up and then it's out with the "male tears/check your privilege/fragile men/toxic masculinity/incel/change your attitude" nonsense. Many people can't even allow themselves to be receptive to the basic idea men face their own societal struggles. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/22 03:18 PM |
| 7 | What's missing from the incel conversation?I do kinda have to push back against the notion that "any woman will have an easier time getting laid than a man." I just...there are some very unfortunate looking women out there. I don't think it's as easy as them tolling a bar or club and getting lucky with the first guy she picks. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/22 11:26 PM |
| 12 | What's missing from the incel conversation?The term has already been successfully co-opted as a cudgel to mean "any male opinion we bristle at." And attributing it to the "right wing white male" scapegoat is all they needed to crystallize the term and anybody who identifies as an existential threat. I've been saying for years already that understanding the incel phenomenon is how we prevent it in the future and help those who already identify. But for the most vocal online commentators the very idea of anything remotely approaching a bas… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/22 11:20 PM |
| 6 | The misleading notion that men consider themselves "main characters" and expect the world to cater to themEvery male I've known on a friend, familial, and acquaintance level all have a fatalist pragmatic view on how to live a "comfortable" life. Basically, suck it up and work till you die cuz nobody gives a fuck about you. If you somehow become financially comfortable, don't even think about getting cozy in that position because it could all disappear tomorrow. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/22 08:34 PM |
| 7 | The misleading notion that men consider themselves "main characters" and expect the world to cater to themI've personally seen it a lot of social media - mainly Twitter. There is a lot of "if men want to have their mental health taken seriously maybe they need to change their entitled attitude" takes out there. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/22 08:25 PM |
| 4 | The misleading notion that men consider themselves "main characters" and expect the world to cater to themYeah, just speaking personally I never, ever expected less than ambivalence at best, abject misery at worst from the world. Anecdotally, every male figure in my life I've discussed life shit with ALL have the same outlook - even men who are materially comfortable in life. Expecting life to shit on you seems like a default for most men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/22 08:21 PM |
| 4 | What do you love about being a man?I don't know...I never think of my gender in that way. I never tied massive aspects of my identity to my masculinity. I'm a man. A straight man. I guess I engage in some things recreationally that are seen as connected to masculinity. I guess I also dress and oresent myself along standard masculine norms. But my thought processes are never filtered through a gendered lens. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | I personally feel like the conversation around men's issues is stuck in a grooveIt's amazing to me how many people openly dismiss men's issues so callously. It's not just women, sadly. It's also men. The "men need to just change their attitude/expectations" is a very popular mantra online that women and men mutually engage in. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/22 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Many of the biggest feminist organizations in USA and other countries have written an open letter to support Amber heard despite the availability of incriminating evidence( videos) where Heard admitted to hitting Depp.Right? All Heard ended with was footage villifying the struggle of addicts. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/11/22 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Many of the biggest feminist organizations in USA and other countries have written an open letter to support Amber heard despite the availability of incriminating evidence( videos) where Heard admitted to hitting Depp.Headline: "Woman lies about being raped, man found innocent - still men's fault, somehow." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/11/22 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Many of the biggest feminist organizations in USA and other countries have written an open letter to support Amber heard despite the availability of incriminating evidence( videos) where Heard admitted to hitting Depp.People in my life I respect and admire for their intelligence, compassion, rationality, nuance, and understanding...just flat out refuse to see Depp as a victim and Heard as an abuser. It's really disappointing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/11/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to reject the labels, or reclaim them?I'm still struggling with the fact the deck is so stacked against good faith discussion on men's issues that merely advocating for it instantly makes you an incel, sexist, misogynist, etc who disregards and downplays women's issues. Even people I greatly respect and agree with 98% of the time still fail to simply acknowledge men's issues. And if they do it's backhanded and dismissive. I believe in intersectionality. I believe, and can openly observe, how power structures have disadvantaged certa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/11/22 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Being perceived as a threat (especially by women)Nothing makes my blood boil faster than this. The while "ha lucky kid!" narrative is soooo fucked. And it's fucked in multiple ways. The 15 year old male student who has sex with his adult teacher MAY HAVE INDEED WANTED TO. But here's the thing: THAT DOESN'T MEAN HE IS MENTALLY CAPABLE OF PROCESSING IT. IT ALSO DOESN'T MEAN THE ADULT TEACHER DIDN'T ACT DISGUSTINGLY. You never hear "lucky girl!" if a male teacher sleeps with a female student. The girls desires are never brought up. They shouldn't… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/22 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Being perceived as a threat (especially by women)I've was sexually harassed multiple times at work by older women when I was in my early 20s. Inappropriate innuendo, solicitation to come back to their place to "help them" with the project they were shopping for, even unsolicited touching - groping even. My arms and and shoulders. What really bothers me was that I didn't truly understand how fucked up it was until later. It made me extremely uncomfortable every time it happened (happened on 3 seperate occasions) but I didn't grapple with that u… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/22 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Being perceived as a threat (especially by women)Not to mention incel has became a catch-all insult for a men online who you just happen to disagree with. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/22 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Being perceived as a threat (especially by women)OP isn't saying people like Tate, Peterson, Shapiro, ect are good role models. The point is, sadly, assholes and creeps like Tate and Peterson are the only people who discuss male issues, so it's no wonder men gravitate towards them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/22 04:12 PM |
| 7 | A recent experience with the gender empathy gap and its potential for unseen impactMen displaying emotion other than stoicism, especially in public, is scary to people. It's so fucked. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/22 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Getting down to brass tacks: what oppressions DID women deal with in the past, by your estimation?One of the biggest yikes aspects of some men rights rhetoric is that some people genuinely play the "women were never oppressed, actually" card. I've even seen comments here that orbit that take. And like...yikes. Imo the conversation needs to radically shift to discuss how society has been historically structured against the have-nots for most of time (and in some areas high society had its own prejudices). And this structuring has effected men, women, POC, etc in various ways. Some unique to g… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/11/22 03:46 PM |
| 9 | Finding validation in positive masculinity as a young transguyThis a lot of the reason why I haaaaate labels. I often shorthand describe myself as progressive or leftist but even that comes with an in-group bias that others who identify with that label project onto you. God forbid you go against a certain opinion or have a different take...then you're cast out as a bad actor. And what's really fucked is the corporate, social media driven feminist movement has demonized innocuous labels like egalitarian or humanist as just a dogwhistle for insidious ideas. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/11/22 05:01 PM |
| 11 | Finding validation in positive masculinity as a young transguyCommon feminist rhetoric scarily boils down to gender essentialism. Every negative trait perceived to be primarily male is because that perceived trait is INHERENT to men and maleness. Imagine using this logic for ANY OTHER DEMOGRAPHIC EVER. You'd rightfully be called a monster. The fact this is ignored is beyond frightening when you think about it. Even feminists who show "support" of men's issues basically just posit "men's problems all men's fault cuz men bad." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/11/22 04:55 PM |
| 5 | Finding validation in positive masculinity as a young transguyIt's transphobia and misandry rolled into one ugly package. Sounds like you got some TERFy comments in your life. Urgh, so fucked up. I often hear ftm individuals are ignored when it comes to the conversation, which is tragic...and kinda points to just how dismissive society truly is to men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/11/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Is There A ‘Right To Sex’? | Krystal Kyle & Friends PodcastLol, yikes. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/10/22 06:17 PM |
| 14 | People who claim that false accusations (of rape) are insignificant are so hypocritical and inconsistentThe double-eged sword of intersectionality. I believe in intersectionality and it has its place. But my god terminally online lefties abuse the fuck out of it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/10/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | weird spot politicallyYes, it's what I said. I guess I just misinterpreted your comment. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/10/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | weird spot politicallyWhat? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/10/22 11:55 AM |
| 16 | weird spot politicallyI often feel like a pariah politically. I'm left. Simple as that. I believe in social and economic equality. I believe in socialized healthcare, housing, college, etc. I believe in intersectionality and systemic oppression that adversely effects different demographics. I believe in complete gutting and reforming law enforcement. I believe in legalization of most drugs. Yet I find most of the mainstream leftist talk shallow and pedantic. It's all concerned with optics and fighting against shit th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/22 10:00 PM |
| 6 | I just came from r/MensRightsBeing left wing. Because real, tangible, substantive leftist policy would benefit men on the whole. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why I hate strip clubs, and what they reveal about sexual dynamics. (A critique of Norah Vincent's "Self Made Man")Why is this upvoted? Dude out here voicing deadass contempt instead of non-preference. Kinda groddy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Why I hate strip clubs, and what they reveal about sexual dynamics. (A critique of Norah Vincent's "Self Made Man")I have to call out this redpilly idea that men who follow sexy women on Instagram, Twitch, or pay for an OnlyFans are just deprived, lonely dudes. I'm sure many are. But maybe it ain't that deep for everyone else? Maybe dudes just be horny and wanna look at attractive women on their socials? Maybe the dude subbing to an OF isn't always just a loved-starved little lost boy but a dude who has his own preferences and desires and ALSO LIKES the transactional aspect as well? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/10/22 10:25 PM |
| 22 | Wife Guys are the new Nice Guys.I'm glad I'm not terminally online. I have fucking clue what a Try Guy or Wife Guy is. Nor do I care to find out. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/22 07:55 PM |
| 23 | “Fragile masculinity” is an example of the most cruel feminist strategy - exploiting insecurityFragile masculinity" is used by these people as a trump card for any and everything to shut down men's voices. From discussions as important as men's mental health to innocuous shit like disliking a piece of entertainment that happens to be about a woman. Don't like what a man is saying? Just attack his masculinity, smile smugly, and receive updoots. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/22 06:23 PM |
| -2 | Talk or shut up, which one do you want?Not very left wing here if this very basic, observable fact is downvoted. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/09/22 09:42 PM |
| 7 | Mad Men--tv showI don't think it's fair to say the show only examines sexism towards women. It examines how that period of time boxed people into certain roles and how those roles break people. Just look at how Lane ended up for example. And the female characters are hardly depicted as purely victims of "the patriarchy." Betty, Joan, Peggy...all do and believe and say pretty shitty things during the show. Betty goes from being very sympathetic to one of the most rotten people on the show. We understand why, but… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/22 03:31 PM |
| -3 | Is the opinion on feminism starting to change or is it just the algoritm?This. YT had become the oasis for the right. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on TERFs and the general reaction to them?They're assholes | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/09/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here had feminists and the broader ideology have lasting negative affects on there life?This comment shouldn't be downvoted. It IS a real thing. The problem is people using it to invalidate and shame others. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/22 04:46 PM |
| 15 | Has anyone here had feminists and the broader ideology have lasting negative affects on there life?The terms "trauma dumping" and "emotional labor" are so insidious. Like many terms, they are valid for certain behaviors and actions. But because the internet takes words with meaning and beats them into meaninglessness, these terms are now just weapons used to further invalidate people you don't want to hear from or acknowledge because they don't benefit you and your goals. "Men need to open up more." But when they do suddenly it's "trauma dumping" and "emotional labor." Maybe if men were genui… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | In my personal opinion, I don't think current feminism is left wing.Lol, our media is so not left. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/22 02:35 AM |
| 11 | Why do you think most women are hostile about manly traits but seem to be attracted to them?The Red Pill is so dangerous because it identifies nuggets of truth, but goes so hard on complete misogyny that any kernel of truthfulness gets lost and honest discourse can't happen. Men and women both face unique challenges in society and in relationships. And we should be able to address both sides. But the wider discourse is so toxic honest discussion is impossible. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/22 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think most women are hostile about manly traits but seem to be attracted to them?This is all true broadly speaking and I really don't mean to make this a "both sides" thing. But like, it kinda is though... Men and women alike are attracted to traits they openly condemn in the opposite gender. It's a foible of human nature. Due to various factors, we're attracted to the "bad boy" and the "crazy girl." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/22 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Am I the only one that notices a greater willingness by society to show male nudity in media than female nudity?I'd say current "boutique left" ideology - the people who wear progressivism like a "good job" sticker in kindergarten - who champion for equality online in the most shallow ways imaginable and only seem concerned with policing art and entertainment along strict moral lines. These are also the people who think activism is looking for people to shame and drag online for miniscule slights. Sorry. I'm far more concerned about defunding the police and striving for universal Healthcare than worrying … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one that notices a greater willingness by society to show male nudity in media than female nudity?Eh. In some very mainstream stuff male nudity is being pushed more, sure. But on TV and in more adult oriented films, boobs are still out everywhere. And just as an aside, as a film buff, the people who screech about female objectification in entertainment would have a fucking stroke if they ever saw a foreign erotic thriller or sex comedy. Nudity in foreign cinema is sooooo different than American cinema. It's often very blunt. Just because a beautiful woman is naked on screen, doesn't necessar… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Wednesday Addams castrating her brother's bully with a piranha is played for laughs. Sexual violence against teenage boys for minor offences is a despicable thing to laugh at. This should not be featured in a teen rated show aimed at a wide audience.Lol I laughed. It's a horror comedy. Who gives a fuck? Handwringing about art is so fucking pathetic whether it's coming from the right or the left. Also, there is lots of conjecture in the title, saying the bully only did a minor offense to Pugsley. How do you know? You haven't seen it yet. I have no home on the left when it comes to media engagement. Everything is offensive all the time to everyone. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/08/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Sexual “misconduct” is a gender neutral issue. This video shows behavior, that would easily land a man in prison.Are we sure this isn't staged? Not because I'm denying women don't act like this. I know they do. I've seen it myself many times. But using staged material to make a point is always gonna get you instantly dismissed. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/22 03:47 PM |
| 6 | I feel like homophobia is often co-opted by women when they claim that it’s just misogyny.Getting your kicks specifically at gay bars by using the clientele as entertainment and a shield seems pretty fucked, yes. Kinda missing that component in your argument... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I feel like homophobia is often co-opted by women when they claim that it’s just misogyny.I don't think anyone condoned a pure ban. They're simply saying going to a gay bar, as a straight woman, with other straight women, just to get your kicks is kinda fucked. I agree. As a straight guy, I've only ever been to gay bars and clubs when my queer friends have invited me. Going alone or with other straight friends feels like a shitty thing to do. So I quite simply, don't. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | My son's innocent teenage fumblings saw him branded a rapist, hounded out of school and left sobbing in emotional agony, his anonymous mother revealsMaking an observation and voicing an opinion is a "wild accusation?" Whatever you say... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/22 08:12 PM |
| 3 | My son's innocent teenage fumblings saw him branded a rapist, hounded out of school and left sobbing in emotional agony, his anonymous mother revealsThanks man. We're in agreement. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/22 07:27 PM |
| 5 | My son's innocent teenage fumblings saw him branded a rapist, hounded out of school and left sobbing in emotional agony, his anonymous mother revealsAttacking this mother's ideology and mindset because she happened to use a few prefaces where she, gasp, says women and girls are allowed to feel uncomfortable sounds like basic redpill nonsense to me. She flat out says the standard discomfort of young people working through awkward first-time sexual encounters should not be insidiously weaponized. People are even accusing her of not fully supporting her son simply because of this. I understand the bitterness. I understand the anger. I SHARE it.… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/22 05:14 PM |
| 4 | My son's innocent teenage fumblings saw him branded a rapist, hounded out of school and left sobbing in emotional agony, his anonymous mother revealsYeesh. Talk about an overreaction. She's merely saying the girl may have felt uncomfortable by an awkward/naive interaction and that, in and of itself, is fine. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/22 03:48 PM |
| 74 | Thoughts on the phrase “not all men” and more specifically the general reaction to it?Maybe we should stop gendering emotions altogether, eh? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/22 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyThis is the kind of redpillish blanket statement that doesn't do this sub any favors. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyThis such a stupid fucking argument it's almost difficult to even know where to begin. Faces are faces. They're our primary communication tool. They aren't an organ used primarily for sex and the evacuation of bodily waste. You don't look at someone's stomach or feet or back when greeting them. You don't gauge people's emotional state by looking at their palms. It's all in the face. So like ???? really dude? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 12 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyIt's just a shitty thing to do regardless. People don't like seeing other people's genitals unsolicited. It's really that simple. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 04:45 PM |
| 10 | Help me understand rhetoric surrounding men emotionally "opening up"What the fuck is even the point of being humans existing together if we don't open up to each about our emotions? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How the slut shaming double standard is actually rooted in misandryI think we can have these conversations without always saying "but it's actually the exact opposite, actually actually actually." Two things can be true at once. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/22 04:33 PM |
| 0 | The lies we tell ourselvesDid you really unironically use that argument? Holy.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/21 02:15 PM |
| 2 | The lies we tell ourselvesYou're just spouting tired gender realist nonsense. Gender and sex are not the same. This is basic, elementary. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/21 02:02 PM |
| 5 | The lies we tell ourselvesBecause he did have sex with a woman. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/21 10:59 PM |
| 15 | Historical oppression of women and patriarchy - how true is it?Yes, women where oppressed. But so were men. Let's not go down that road denying the very reality of female oppression through history. It just makes advocating for men's rights look stupid and hateful. Wealth and religion is what played the biggest hand in the oppression of women, and not-rich men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/11/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Netflix is a vile, misandrist cesspit of hateLol | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | examples media female on male violenceI mean, both characters were being drugged and manipulated by the cult. So it's not like Dani's choices are supposed to be "just." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/21 02:40 PM |
| 3 | examples media female on male violenceI would like to point out that the scene in Super is incongruous with your point, as that scene is in no way meant to be comedic. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Reddit hates gender roles... until a woman advocates for male gender rolesI stopped visiting that sub ages and ages ago. It was bad for my mental health. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/10/21 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Have You Ever Experience Sexual Misconduct From Women?The point is the inherent double standard. How automatically vile does this same situation sound if a boy did this? "I'll eat you out or be your boyfriend if you give me money." Yeah, sounds totally different. And all because of double standards. In both cases, the REAL answer here is "what are these teenagers going through in life to think they need to resort to sexual favors for some lunch money?" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Have You Ever Experience Sexual Misconduct From Women?Yes. Multiple times in my life. I experienced it first-hand and have seen it happen to others many, many times. I've discussed in detail on other subs an experience I had at work that still bothers me to this day, over a decade later of a much older woman (I was 20, she was in her 60s) making me her pet for a good hour while I was at work. She would make comments about how "strong" I was, about taking me home with her, and she touched me on my arms and back multiple times. And what makes it wors… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | The fallacy behind "toxic masculinity"This shouldn't be downvoted. It's a well-reasoned alternative take. For a sub that proposes to accept feminist commenters, it always seems to ignore or flippantly dismiss any reading that is not 100% lock-step anti-everything feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 02:19 PM |
| -15 | In regards to feminism and the representation of men and women in entertainmentIt's mired in some pretty shallow and alt-righty ideas. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/21 03:28 PM |
| -13 | In regards to feminism and the representation of men and women in entertainmentYou were making good points until you got to Rey. Then my eyes glazed over. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | My sexuality isn't yours to play with - rant about objectification of gay men.Ah yes, you make a good point. Generally speaking women find arousal in different ways than men. Just speaking anecdotally, the women I know all consume porn - but it's mostly prose. They get aroused by the build up, emotion, and atmosphere of the situation being presented where most men (again, speaking generally) are more "simple" in what turns them on. It's more baseline visual than any other factors. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/21 02:10 PM |
| 19 | My sexuality isn't yours to play with - rant about objectification of gay men.I could be totally off base with this, but I simply don't see men treating women friendships in this way. Like, I know men loving lesbian porn is a thing, but that predilection doesn't seem to extend past pornography. Or, I don't see it online or personally experience it. Like, I've never talked with a buddy about a film or show with two women in a close friendship and dive into "but what if they were gay together, right!?" kind of talk. Idk, maybe some dudes think it more than express it. But I… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/21 01:49 PM |
| -5 | 'Feminism, but for men'. A fascinating video that should be of interest to those of us here.You seem to disregard how this system negatively affected women... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/21 01:14 PM |
| -1 | Done with the excusesI type this out knowing the slew of downvotes that is to come.... But what does this have to do with leftism? Isn't the point of this sub to advocate for men's issues through left wing perspectives? This thread is just any other old "feminists are shitty" thread you can find on two dozen other subs. I'm not saying there isn't validity to this specific topic, but I've only been here a few days and haven't really observed actual leftist discussion - just more feminist bashing. And yes, I know crit… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/21 12:03 PM |
| 30 | My sexuality isn't yours to play with - rant about objectification of gay men.I have one "friend" who seems to go out of her way to make any and all male relationships in fiction gay relationships. I mean, she literally does it with everything featuring a strong bond between two men. Granted, sometimes there IS subtext or even text...but often it's just dudes...being friends. I've lightly called her out on it a few times. "Hey, not EVERY male relationship in a story is gay you know. Sometimes they're just friends." I'm just hushed and not so subtly implied I'm being homop… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/21 11:39 AM |
| 63 | My sexuality isn't yours to play with - rant about objectification of gay men.It seems to me, a straight man, that a glaring problem that is going unaddressed is the fetishization of gay men by straight women. I see the LGBTQ+ community bring it up, but it seems to die within the community. I personally know a few women who do this, and I've seen it happening in for years and years. But I never really see much discussion about it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/21 10:46 AM |
| 14 | Why is hate against men viewed as okay?I didn't say the MRM is bad. I said it attracts bad elements. Just like feminism has attracted bad elements. But because men don't have socially acceptable spaces to discuss their issues, it's gonna take time for the mainstream to accept the MRM. If you read what I said and absorbed it, you would know I didn't blanket the MRM as bad. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/07/21 07:57 PM |
| 44 | Why is hate against men viewed as okay?"Sure, a lot of people could argue that women have it worse when it come to sexism" This right here is why I've tried to stay away from discussing the gender issue side of politics for so long - it always boils down to an "Us vs. Them, who has it worse" circlejerk. This kind of childish contest, or "oppression Olympics" is just exhausting and pointless to argue against because everybody is so heated and convinced of their own side's superiority it's like talking to a brick wall. Feminists and … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/07/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I think it would be a lot more progressive for Luca to not be gay.Ah. Yes, I can get behind that. The "blink and miss it" representation recent blockbusters have used is cynical to say the least. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/07/21 05:22 PM |
| 2 | I think it would be a lot more progressive for Luca to not be gay.This is a stupid take. Why do non-CIS characters always have to be part of some grand point in a narrative for it to be valid? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/07/21 11:15 AM |
| 16 | Why aren't men more afraid?Good points. With the whole victim blaming thing...the suggestion of taking precautions to lower your chances of being a victim of a crime seems to challenge their desire for a world where taking precautions shouldn't be the case - that people should just "be better." On the surface, I genuinely see their point on the matter. Why should people have to live in a state of preparedness just to avoid being victimized? Why is it a GOOD person's responsibility to do all the heavy lifting to avoid the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/21 12:42 PM |
| 32 | Why aren't men more afraid?Just speaking personally, I am afraid. Always have been. I'm a fairly large guy. 6ft flat, stocky build. But I've always felt uneasy walking around the city at night. Especially less densely trafficked areas. I've had many uncomfortable run-ins with people over the years. Thankfully, never ones that turned violent or criminal. I would go out on a limb here and say I think many men, maybe even most, feel some degree of unease with this, but we don't express it for various reasons. Fear of shaming… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Being a woman who challenges feminist views is pretty funny sometimes.I know...that's why I put it in quotes....and said "shudder....." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/21 10:09 AM |
| 0 | Being a woman who challenges feminist views is pretty funny sometimes.I see your point, and I'm risking being a "mansplainer" (shudder) but your perception and lived experiences aren't the same as other people. That doesn't mean your experience has any less merit than others. But it also means it doesn't have any MORE merit than others. You may feel you've never been targeted for simply being a woman. I believe you. But I think it's only fair you acknowledge that many HAVE been targeted. Of course, you are correct in that these conversations often turn into lectur… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/21 02:19 AM |
| -16 | As a hardcore supporter of men’s rights i believe this sub has become less about men’s rights and more about how women have it better than us or why they are bad.You just proved my point. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/21 03:12 PM |
| -43 | As a hardcore supporter of men’s rights i believe this sub has become less about men’s rights and more about how women have it better than us or why they are bad.Yeah, this sub is basically just red pilly nonsense. A more balanced and fair sub in r/MensLib. It's not perfect, I think it plays into political correctness to a fault at times, but it's not the aggressive red pill hive this place is. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Do most people who are in the Men's Rights group lean towards conservatives?Personally speaking I'm a pretty hardcore progressive/leftist. I believe in equality for everyone, Medicare for all, UBI, higher minimum wage, defunding police, abolishing the two-party system in the US, abolishing student loan debt, making the internet a utility, legalizing drugs - just to give you a broad view of my leanings. I don't consider myself feminist or a men's right activist. I just want to understand and discuss societal hurdles both men and women face. I think women have societal di… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/21 03:02 PM |
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