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| 2 | PSA: Men want sex, women need sex.How is my point a strawman? I fail to see how it isn't relevant to topic of "Do men protect family?" Your point doesn't contradict my point. I never said they didn't. My point was that is merely more convenient for women to have other men protect them. Fathers eventually get old and injured and lose the ability to protect (assuming they don't die first). If the father didn't have a son with the daughter, who's going to protect her? You are making a weird assumption that you must fight to protect… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 09/02/21 02:28 AM |
| 9 | PSA: Men want sex, women need sex.would fathers not defend daughters? And what would they do after the father is unable to fight due to old age? Who's going to take his place? Brothers not defend sisters or their mother Is the brother not allowed to leave and have his own family? Protecting the old current family and the new family at the same time is a tall order. It's too many people to look after. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 09/02/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | "Watch what women do, don't listen to what they say" doesn't work because you're not observing women in general. You're observing the women you want and the men you envy.Quite literally the only time words would be relevant over action is if you are dealing with a spy, or someone that is operating under threats. Even then, there are actions behind those words. I don't know how words are more relevant with spies, but threats are threating because someone might try to come through with them. Threats are empty when you know they won't come true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingI don't think you were paying attention. His original point was that you should take an appropriate amount of precaution in order to avoid bad outcomes. His example was to carry a weapon or learn self-defense. Everyone else decided to modify the scenario in order to make it unwinnable. "What if the random threat disarms you and uses your weapon against you?" isn't a counterpoint. It is merely escalating the threat. Were they to continue, they would keep going until the random mugger you run into… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:02 AM |
| 3 | From our "Friends" over at FDS. YOU tell ME what's wrong with this picture?You didn't counter my point. You are also looking at kids in a vacuum. Parents are not the only ones able to give rewards and punishments. Kids often get rewarded for all kinds of behaviors that their parents don't instill and punished for behaviors that parents would approve of. How would a parent stop their kids from pursuing the other behaviors without punishing them? With kids it may involve hugs and attention Like with most things, it has a diminishing return. Eventually, "hugs and attentio… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 07/12/20 03:08 PM |
| 3 | From our "Friends" over at FDS. YOU tell ME what's wrong with this picture?I can teach a dog more things with treats than I can with consequences. Punishments are there to stop undesirable behavior. Rewards promote desirable behavior. Humans have more behaviors that need to be ironed out than dogs do. You can get kids to do stuff with rewards, but you can't get them to stop doing other stuff without punishment. Also, only teaching with rewards is risky. This means you have to keep rewarding them, or they will cease the desired behavior. You also have to make sure the r… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 07/12/20 01:55 PM |
| 33 | That's it!!! It's time for you man children to man up and match the mighty muh vuh Gina!!! 😂It never seems to occur to them that the reason men go/stay Peter Pan is because all the other options involving women are shit deals. Worse. They don't seem to realize that men have no incentive. Why should they grow up? Being Peter Pan doesn't seem to have any downsides. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What's the #1 reason women want to get married? They have to check the box. Stay safe, stay single.No. You'll stop, drop, and roll. If you are just standing and screaming, you are basically wishing for death. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/08/20 11:23 AM |
| 4 | Female CEO unleashes hell on Feminists: "women just aren't good programmers"Depends, are both armed with combat training? If so, it's anyone's guess. The guy wins 99% of the time. There's a reason why we still separate the genders in sports. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 0 | WOMEN DESTROYING FEMINISM WITH REAL FACTS:- MUST WATCH ! WHY PATRIARCHY IS IMPORTANT!!!I feel you are saying this because you've never been a manager. Come back when you've been the manager of lazy, unmotivated people who only do the bare minimum. I wonder if you would still be singing the same tune. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/08/20 03:40 PM |
| 6 | I have a good paying job, but I want my bf to pay for everything. 50/50 is just not fair!But you didn't answer the question. Whether your question is just as valid does not matter. You are just placing arbitrary pseudo philosophical statements. But they are still questions that need to be answered. You can't convince anyone of anything if your only responses are, "Why not?" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/08/20 06:09 PM |
| 5 | Close your eyes and spin the wheel of dating woes. You get 3 guesses. Ready. Set. GO!!! 😂In this case, she's not attracted to them in the first place. Then, why did she go on dates with them in the first place? Her going on three dates with three men of the same archetype is most likely not an accident. Too many people on this sub have the idea that if a guy is a good person then the girl should get with them even if they're not attracted to them. I read it literally everyday here. Because the women bitch and complain about not getting with them later. That's exactly where the phras… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/07/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Waaaaaaaaaaah. For the College-Educated, There Is a Man Deficit in the U.S. 🤧😥😢😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣I fail to see why it has to be a romantic partner. Rivals and friends can also serve the purpose (in addition to the above mentioned mentors). On top of this, it is a hard balance to "challenge" your partner and "be loving and comforting" to your partner at the same time. The first part is unnecessary to a relationship and can kill it. The second part is preferred and can't really exist when doing the first. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/07/20 04:06 PM |
| 68 | Gentleman, shame on you if you’re not grateful to be her betabux !I think she also missed the mark on the guy's perspective. Her post basically boils down to, Women will fuck all guys who are hot when they are younger. You [men] may be ignored, but don't be sad. Be happy that they want you after they don't want to [or can't have] loads of sex anymore. This is your chance to have sex and be desired. Enjoy and don't waste it. What she doesn't get is that it is demoralizing for most guys. She is basically telling guys that they should be happy being the back-up p… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Starting the weekend off right with a sex worker who wants to know when and how to break to her new boyfriend that she gets fucked for money (but only a couple-three times a month!) As always, stay out of their subreddits or you'll get the banhammer. We don't brigade, ever!You are giving a lot of credit to 18-22 year old girls in terms of their decision making process. My first comment: Just admit that women are so blinded by the easy money that they are willing to ignore the consequences. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Starting the weekend off right with a sex worker who wants to know when and how to break to her new boyfriend that she gets fucked for money (but only a couple-three times a month!) As always, stay out of their subreddits or you'll get the banhammer. We don't brigade, ever!You still aren't thinking of any potential consequences. For women, doing that type of stuff makes their relationship value plummet. The point of this post was literally, "So how do I tell my boyfriend that I'm sleeping with other dudes for money?" Why is this a question? Because most guys don't want to date a chick who sleeps around for money (or in general). On top of that, it's basically justifying cheat with, "But I'm getting paid to do it." As a guy, you would probably just get a bad rap fo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/07/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Starting the weekend off right with a sex worker who wants to know when and how to break to her new boyfriend that she gets fucked for money (but only a couple-three times a month!) As always, stay out of their subreddits or you'll get the banhammer. We don't brigade, ever!If a decent looking 50 year old woman offered you $4k to bang and you were broke 99% of guys would say yes. You literally created a situation where the decision makes sense. In a vacuum, this works. However, our lives are a series of interconnected events. Most guys wouldn't take such a deal in most situations... and they especially wouldn't make a career out of it (which is different from doing it once). Actions have consequences. The consequences here are bad enough that it warrants hiding the… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/07/20 10:08 PM |
| 7 | 36 years old, Independent, "emotionally stable" with a kid... but it's the MEN who are SCARED of wifing her up.I think you posted in the wrong thread. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/06/20 11:24 AM |
| 6 | There aren't enough wealthy financiers to satisfy the endless desires of every gold digger. Man up American men! YOU'RE HURTING THE MARRIAGE PROSPECTS OF AMERICAN WOMEN!!!Women and men are equally smart, but we're smart at different things. Sorry, but I have to disagree. I haven't really heard of anything that women do naturally that men can't do naturally. People usually run to "being nurturing," but that's a vague statement that doesn't have a lot stats to back it up. From my perspective, men are better most situations. Assuming we are equally as smart, men are still more athletic than women are. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/06/20 01:15 PM |
| 130 | r/WAATGM doesn't endorse this man's behavior on Bumble, but it's another example that mature, financially stable men who are constantly passed over aren't welcoming women with open arms after dating a string of men and ending up post-wall or single moms.I feel bad for guys like these. They get told, "These are the personality traits women want." They go out and try to be exactly what society tells them works... and it doesn't work. And that's not even the worst part. If they make even the slightest complaint, they get bombarded with, "Stop being a "nice guy," or "If you have to say you are those things, you probably aren't," or "You need to work on your personality." So not only are they lied to, they are villainized for saying that it isn't ge… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/06/20 06:17 PM |
| 11 | Woman is shocked that her player boyfriend displayed her nudes on a wall of women he and his friends slept with. The good news is she didn't date a NiceGuy. He would have done far worse like keep their sex life private.He shouldn't have showed pictures of her. That's common sense. No. Common sense would be to not send nudes in the first place. There are so many problems with having someone else holding on to your nudes. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/05/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | After years of riding the bad boy roller coaster, she finally began to notice the kind, mature men. Who knows, she may even settle down with one. As always, comments are golden and as always - NO BRIGADING!Why do they assume guys after 30 are more mature? What is more more mature anyway? One would be not judging for past relationship baggage and/or other struggles and being open to listening, understanding and working through that baggage together. Oh... Also being mature about looks and changing bodies. Still telling me they see me as beautiful/love my body even though I don’t look like I did when I was 24. Yikes... (Both were from OP.) I think I'll stick to being immature. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/05/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Imagine actually wanting to be her boyfriend, grossThat's why morality needs to come from an objective external source not subject to human desires. But not even religion gave us that. In the bible, God killed a lot of people because he was angry (whatever reason). How can a being be objective if they are still subjected to the same flaws we are? On top of this, anything that was considered wrong in general contexts was okay as long as it was God that commanded it. (And let's not forget all the things we currently deem immoral but wasn't deemed … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/05/20 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Carol had her life all planned out, now at 45, with fetid eggs and a Vassar degree, she's wondering WAATGM?Did you just ignore everything I just said? There’s plenty of reason to want to have your own career before having a baby. Ok. It’s called wanting a career of your own that you can be proud of. Why can't that wait until after you have a child? You can go to school at any age. You can get certified at any age. You can ask most guys here. Some of them basically started at ground zero later in life due to various reasons. It’s called being in a position to come back to the workforce after pregnancy… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Carol had her life all planned out, now at 45, with fetid eggs and a Vassar degree, she's wondering WAATGM?Why us every one here so vitriolic to her just because she wanted to get a stable career before bringing a baby into her life? Because having both is nearly impossible. Time is not on a woman's side when it comes to childbirth. The longer they wait, the harder it gets... and I'm not just referring to having the child. Finding someone who wants to have a child with her gets harder as time marches on. (As much people want to deny it, looks matter a lot. Looks fade as one gets older.) On top of thi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/20 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Carol had her life all planned out, now at 45, with fetid eggs and a Vassar degree, she's wondering WAATGM?Because they aren't affected by the actual birth of a child. That's the biggest problem here since not working doesn't get you promoted. Women are affected before, during, and after childbirth. Maternity leave was specifically created for women because they couldn't work nearly as hard while pregnant (in addition to potential health risks). If they want to have kids, they basically need to keep taking time off. Guys don't have this problem. In their case, they just have to balance spending time … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/20 01:28 PM |
| 14 | Carol had her life all planned out, now at 45, with fetid eggs and a Vassar degree, she's wondering WAATGM?there are millions of mothers who work or own a business but are also parents. That's not what they are talking about. They are referring to high paying careers. It's hard to move up the ladder if you are off for paternity leave (since women bear the children). On top of this, it is hard to move up if you are trying to play around your schedule and your child's schedule. (little to no overtime) Let's not forget any days taken off to take care of any problems the child might get into. This is wha… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/04/20 04:53 PM |
| 3 | I'm very picky with everything. Not looking for some random encounter, I know exactly what I wantNot sure why everyone’s making comments about the lingerie pics when chad is out there posting shirtless or underwear pics. But Chad is looking for hookups. She says she isn't. That's the difference. It is basically her saying, "Here is what I like and the type of person I am. I'm not looking for random sex... now here's some pictures of me in lingerie." It is a direct contradiction. (Not to mention that it is contradicting her statement about being introverted.) Outside of that, it is really ta… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/04/20 06:12 PM |
| 8 | She can't comprehend why a guy wouldn't want the town bicycle...Why does it matter? They’re gonna have more after you And this is why it matters. It is obvious that she wants this relationship to last. She doesn't want an "after you." Having a high body count calls her motives to question. What was wrong with the other guys she fucked or dated? Was the problem them or her? Why didn't the guys ever stick around? Is this the first time she's felt this way? No matter how you look at it, being with someone with a high body count makes that person less... special… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/04/20 11:40 AM |
| 5 | Carousel rider finds out the Internet never forgets the hard way. She tried to hide her sexual past, but now her husband is divorcing her lying pregnant ass.I know how this messes up your head and behaviour. Come on. It's one thing to try things you couldn't try when your parents aren't around. It's another to go crazy and continuously do things you were strictly told not to (and for good reason). If you end up doing things that you wouldn't want to tell anyone (especially someone you are supposed to love and respect), that's on you. Ultimately, you decide what actions you are going to take. There's only so much blame you can shift to your "controll… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/04/20 10:28 AM |
| 8 | Sometimes I think NiceGuys is a front; to show men how women truly think and to give women a false sense that their schemes are actually working.That's fair. I enjoy difficulty as well, but I will always prioritize fun. (As sometimes fun is sacrificed to make things "harder.") | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/04/20 11:25 PM |
| 11 | Sometimes I think NiceGuys is a front; to show men how women truly think and to give women a false sense that their schemes are actually working.play garbage MMOs like ff14 I get your point, but do you have to trash on games people like to play. I say this because I personally like that game. Popular games are popular for a reason. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/04/20 11:10 PM |
| 8 | Don’t forget that Rihanna chose this asshole, and women like her wonder why there are no good men.I want the Chads I‘m going after to be pressured into treating me like my whiteknight orbiters do Also women: You aren't the same person I liked when we first met. There isn't a spark anymore. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/10/19 02:53 AM |
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