| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Always. | linsanityy | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 09:22 PM |
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| 2 | Reminder to keep getting checkedLmao. Never a dull moment on seddit haha | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Getting more of a chill, laid back vibe instead of scholarly and serious?Lift | /r/seduction | 21/04/18 01:39 AM |
| – | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%You're citing a skewed distribution. Most people slow down after they get a LTR. If you want an accurate comparison you should look @ average n count per year single/available. Don't validate through comparison to the mainstream. Improve. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 11:34 AM |
| 3 | How psychopaths deal with rejection1/20* | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 11:37 AM |
| – | How psychopaths deal with rejectionEssentially boils down to -- because each attempt is independent of the other there is a possibility that you get 20 misses. Which needs to get accounted for. If you fail 19/20 times, the probability of success of the 20th time is still 20/20. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 11:36 AM |
| – | How to get 'no' girls?Raise your value to get fewer "no" girls. Fitness/Style/Status (higher baseline attractiveness) "Game" (Calibration, escalation, man to woman energy) If you're asking whether game help you get girls who are on the fence then yes, good game can help you consistently do that. If you're asking whether game can get you sleeping consistently with girls way above your league ... although it certainly can ... it's not really feasible unless you put an absurd amount of time into it. IMO you're better of… | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 12:43 AM |
| – | FR: Balls deep in a spinner 10 years youngerThis is shitty advice. Leverage your programming skills to either 1. get in the startup game and become independently weathly or 2. Work remote and maintain the high salary with increased independence. Pursue social goals in your free time. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/17 12:03 AM |
| 6 | I did it fellas!!Literally picking up chicks. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Attractive girls vs. Girls that I'm attracted to.It sounds like your game is optimized for when girls shows interest. You're going to have to develop so strategies for what to do if a girl doesn't immediately show you she likes you. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you... you just have to game differently. | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 07:08 PM |
| – | Attractive girls vs. Girls that I'm attracted to.It sounds like your game is optimized for when girls shows interest. You're going to have to develop so strategies for what to do if a girl doesn't immediately show you she likes you. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you... you just have to game differently. | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Life in college has a good basement but terrible ceiling, life after college has a terrible basement but a pretty high ceiling.Lol the equivalent of F-. That said, considering life can get pretty shitty if you let it go - perhaps it's an appropriate metaphor | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/17 06:11 PM |
| 8 | OkCupid's Depressing Confirmation of the 80/20 Rule - The Majority of Men are Invisible to WomenWait this chick you barely know is spreading rumors about your penis sex and sexuality. What. How does this happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where to take the conversation after a successful tinder opener.Chat shit for 4-5 messages then go for the meetup | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 02:45 AM |
| – | I don't know where to take the conversation after a successful tinder opener.Chat shit for 4-5 messages then go for the meetup | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 02:45 AM |
| 0 | How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick?Something along the lines of ... Hey, just want to make sure you're good for x-day. If not that's okay... just let me know earlier to so I can adjust my plans. Get's you ahead of the flake and drops the hint that you're and this date impacts your plans. If she still does this after confirming you can call her out on it. Might be better in this order vs just straight calling her out. | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 05:30 PM |
| – | How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick?Something along the lines of ... Hey, just want to make sure you're good for x-day. If not that's okay... just let me know earlier to so I can adjust my plans. Get's you ahead of the flake and drops the hint that you're and this date impacts your plans. If she still does this after confirming you can call her out on it. Might be better in this order vs just straight calling her out. | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 05:30 PM |
| – | If you don't have a business card... get oneDoes yours have your title and occupation on it | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 11:28 AM |
| 7 | How to approach women on the dancefloor?Eye contact is key. Eye contact and a smile back is a pretty much guaranteed in. | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 04:28 PM |
| 5 | How to handle an outing with 2 girls you are trying to pursueThreesome or bust | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 11:25 AM |
| – | Don't laugh... but I need help getting over my fear of women.Slowly spend more with women. Don't worry about seduction, just try to connect with them like you would a guy friend. It'll take some time but you just need some more positive experiences to wash out those irrational fears | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 10:39 AM |
| 10 | PUA Meets Girlfriend On CameraSalt levels are high | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 10:34 AM |
| – | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)It definitely is. His whole part about his looks not mattering for him when he went from a 6 to an 8 is hard to relate to when you're starting as a 4. You're going to get rejected more and more harshly. Can't change reality though, got to suck it up if you want results. | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR]- Rough Night, A lot of Plowing, A lot of shit testsIt's good to push your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 04:02 AM |
| 2 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence?That's exactly what happened. Each time I rolled, I got a bit more anxiety, I got a bit more brain fog. But I could live my life no problem so I ignored it. I'd chalk things up to being not in a social mood, or not having enough sleep. That was until the last time- when I was hit with crippling anxiety. It was a struggle to order pizza. Even then I was in denial and kept thinking it would go away after a week or two, only it didn't. It's been tough as hell but I thank god I got this wake up call… | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 01:27 AM |
| 7 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence?Same boat man, on month 11 of a long term comedown, I would not wish this on anyone. Gotta be careful with what you put in your body. | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Found out someone I was friends with in high school four years ago now does porn. ???You can't just post this and leave us hanging | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducerGreat guide. With a good profile and logistics, Tinder is a really efficient tool to get laid. | /r/seduction | 05/03/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducerIf you don't have Tinder plus you're capped at 100 swipes every few hours. | /r/seduction | 05/03/16 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Unwritten Letters to the Son I'll Never Have (Part 1)Good stuff, would love to see more. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 09:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a waitress' number by pretending to "lose" my phoneHe would want a delivery like this after the phone goes off in his pocket. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | When I drink, I can get any girl I wantEase yourself into more uncomfortable situations sober. If you can do it drunk, you can do it sober. You just need to get used to the awkwardness and anxiety you get ignore when you're drunk. | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 04:13 AM |
| 75 | How I picked up a 10"oh no. This is too much for the unicorn" LOL | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 09:36 PM |
| 33 | The best way to boost your inner game every day.I started doing this after losing a drunk rap battle with my friends last week. Been practicing for the next time we go out because fuck them. I notice a nice rush of endorphins after putting together a few good rhymes. Sounds silly but freestyling puts me in a better and more social mood. | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 12:42 PM |
| 6 | I'm not who I want to beI understand where you're coming from. It's really difficult to be confident in yourself when you don't think you're the "right self." If you haven't already, you should check out Eliott Hulse. He is bodybuilder who does videos about all aspects of personal growth. Most of his viewers are young so he talks a lot of being a man and being comfortable in your own skin. | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 05:23 PM |
| 2 | How To Get Rid Of Anxiety (Without Even Talking To People)I agree but there are some points of the blog that don't make sense and contradicts itself. For example: "just take your shirt off. Walk out of the gym like you’re a model. Don’t do this one if your overweight though" ... The whole point of this is to stop caring what people think of you, so it would be even more beneficial if your body isn't fit. I would take this post with a grain of salt: some parts like the smiling and karaoke are good but you don't need to purposely look like an asshole to … | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of guys talk about girls approaching them, why does it happen and why doesn't it happen to me?Girls don't generally approach out of the blue. Most of the time I've been approached I've noticed a girl checking me out and smiled back at them. You might just be failing to notice those initial signs. Next you to see a girl standing near you or looking in your direction make eye and give them a smile. If you're attractive and presentable, you'll probably be approached a few times. Worst case you just made a girl happy some cute guy noticed them. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 05:31 PM |
| 1 | A 9/10 girl's review on Pickup - "With great power comes great responsibility"Thanks, I appreciate your honesty and openness in handling the response. | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 08:50 AM |
| -1 | A 9/10 girl's review on Pickup - "With great power comes great responsibility"You have no right to "review" Pickup. This is community and body of knowledge that countless people have dedicated years of their lives developing and contributing to. On this forum alone many guys have shared very intimate, vulnerable experiences in the hopes of improving themselves. Many such experiences directly stem from trouble with "hot" girls. For you to come in here and post a review of our community just based on your experiences as a self-prescribed "9/10" is an extreme act of arroganc… | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 06:36 AM |
| 2 | A 9/10 girl's review on Pickup - "With great power comes great responsibility"Your point developing your on beliefs as opposed to reacting to previous traumas is really hits home for me. I'm going to re-read models. | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 05:59 AM |
| 1 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..You should have every right to have a comfortable experience at the gym. For guys, it's a matter of reading the situation. There are many times it is pretty clear that the someone (not just a girl) is focusing on their workout and doesn't want to be interrupted. But, I think there are certain cases that approaching someone is fine. If there's some eye contact and exchanged smiles then by all means introduce yourself during a break between sets or at the water fountain. A guy shouldn't try to for… | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Am i scaring them away?Thanks! Those some good points to think about. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:03 PM |
| 5 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..People don't come to Seddit to learn how to be professional. They come to learn how to leave their comfort zones. If this helps OP get out of his comfort zone by learning how to approach women in a new social setting- more power to him. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Am i scaring them away?Let me be more clear. I have a great time at clubs, especially when I enjoy the music. I dance, self-amuse, and am a decent looking guy- so I generally don't have a problem generating some interest. The issue I am having is that after I start dancing with a girl it's different. I'm no longer just goofing around by myself, now I'm goofing around with the girl (for lack of a better description). Frankly, I'm not used to it. How do I take it to the next level and make it "our" dancing instead of "m… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Am i scaring them away?Can you elaborate more on the last part. I'm having the same issue with the club game. How do you "get her on onboard" when it's so damn hard to talk over the music? | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 01:27 AM |
| 10 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..Do you ever check out guys at the gym? Are there some cases when you would be open to approach? I do my own thing while working out but sometimes I feel like girls are checking me out. There's eye contact, I catch them looking in the mirror, they move their workout closer/in front of me, etc. Usually I chalk this to coincidence and frankly I don't want to interrupt my or their workout... but a part of me feels like I'm losing out on potential opportunities. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How I view looks and seductionYou can't measure confidence. Confidence is a reflection of a fluid mental state. Your confidence can change throughout the day but your weight will not. Confidence is also in the eyes of the beholder. I, or you, or any guy, or any girl, wouldn't be able to look at me from 6 months ago and look at me now and come up with the same answer on how my confidence changed. However, we could all look at a scale and see that I put on 15 pounds. We could also look at a picture of me and see how my clothes… | /r/seduction | 12/04/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How I view looks and seductionConfidence is intangible. Maybe the girls sensed more confidence. May be not. But they definitely saw a guy who is much more fit, athletic, and better dressed. | /r/seduction | 12/04/15 06:32 AM |
| 11 | How I view looks and seductionLooks makes everything else so much easier. Girls are open to approach and more open to you being yourself. I went clubbing for the first time in six months last night. In that time I've been working myself. Hit the gym 4-5 times a week and built a decent wardrobe. Incredible difference between now and then. Before, I didn't see the many "IOIs". Girls didn't really hold eye contact or bump into me on the dancefloor. I used to just orbit from set to set, trying to be high energy and get girls to … | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Leave your comfort zone. It's amazing what will happen.Inspiring, just what I needed to see tonight. Hard work pays off, good luck with your new relationship! | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Losing the hottest girl of my life to LMRConsidering the circumstances, it would have taken some ironclad will to have broken it off and sent her home after all that buildup. Sounds like it was a good learning experience though. Goes to show that the solution isn't always to try to push through. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome fear of failure?- Worked on innergame, became late bloomer, stuck in a ruttVery true. Good food for thought, thanks. | /r/seduction | 16/02/15 05:36 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome fear of failure?- Worked on innergame, became late bloomer, stuck in a ruttYou're right. It's just so much harder in the situation. Any tips to get out of my head and cut out the self-doubt? | /r/seduction | 16/02/15 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome fear of failure?- Worked on innergame, became late bloomer, stuck in a ruttedit: formatting | /r/seduction | 15/02/15 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Texting game tips for nervous dudeI recently set up accounts on OKC and Tinder have been messaging a lot more girls. This accomplishes two things: 1. gives you experience texting girls and 2. gives you a sense of abundance so you aren't stressing out if one girl doesn't takes awhile to text back. Try it out, doesn't take long and can really improve your "text game." Who knows, you may even get laid ;D. Some general things that I've learned: keep convos light-hearted, joke around, don't take things too srsly use a few emojis or p… | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Minneapolis | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 09:51 PM |
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