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ADVICElinsann0310/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 04:02 AM
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This is kinda funny my husband and I just talked about this on our way home from a wedding rehearsal. My husband and I spent very little on our wedding it was simple not very long an evening wedding followed by dessert. The reason was pretty simple it makes us not our parents each others next of kin for him this was a big one as he has a crazy mother that would have made decisions based on what she would want not what he would want. I have no problem what so ever with anyone that would choose no…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 03:58 AM
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Thanks for sharing!! That is really cool!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:17 PM
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If you don't mind my asking what is your culture? I was born in canada but have a very mixed back round as far as where my ancestors are from if anything it's mostly irish Scottish and german and about 6 others I can trace.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:22 AM
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Ultimately we just want to be free to live our lives on our own land as we choose.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 02:22 PM
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Yes that's my husbands and my political view as well! it's still very new here almost like underground lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 02:20 PM
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My husband was left a ring that belonged to his grandfather. That is what he gave me on our engagement and it has so much meaning. it's got a glass stone and is a white low grade gold but it was never about the price tag it was special to wear a family heirloom. Also we went for a low budget wedding and I made my own gown! It was so fun! The piercing and tats. I can't agree on tho as we both have them lol. my brother teases me that I could pass for a militant feminist but am really anti feminism…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 02:18 PM
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Totally agree!! This whole new world belief that love is a fluid thing that comes and goes and when it's gone you should split is insane to me. I chose my husband and I'm keeping him baring something extreme. don't get me wrong there have been times I had to choose to keep loving him cause that warm feeling of love had turned to anger. But one thing he and I do is never let a fight go on for more then a day. We've stayed up all night before to work it out. The world just doesn't believe in work …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 02:05 PM
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Take heart just as we must choose to love our SO even in times when it's not easy you can choose to rebuild the trust and respect that were lost! My husband is 3.5 years younger then me he had a bad childhood his parents both tended to kick him out on whims and thus he learned nothing of how to be responsible. I bought our first house I also paid the debt he didn't tell me about. I worked 3 jobs in the early days of our marriage. And he would spend money on whatever he wanted with know thought t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 03:43 AM
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This is political and yet to me very personal so my disclaimer I'm not here to bash anyone. Just stating what I believe and feel. PS not American so this has nothing to do with an election. I believe government should be tiny like almost non existent. My husband and I are working toward being off grid and self sustaining I believe I should have the rights to choose what I build, raise, and grow on my own land further I believe is should be allowed to build however I choose and further still if s…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 03:12 AM
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I worked in child care for half my life. As a result I told myself any children I may someday have will sleep in their own rooms. Mostly I saw poor dads being kicked out of their own beds! Why? Because the moms were like I can't put them back to bed their to cute! It was sad to me for the dads to be so easily cast aside. My husband and I now have 3 under 5. I love them they are wonderful beautiful babies and cuddles with them are great but the house rule is you sleep in your own bed. Now if they…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 03:45 AM
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We were friends from a young age and when we got older we did talk once about dating but didn't because he said he was happy with what we had I was too so we just stayed best friends. Plus the love I have for him was never like what I have for my husband it was always more like what I have for my bro when meeting his friends that I didn't know he always introduced me as his sister. But my point was I agree for the most part and that we are the exception.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 02:27 PM
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I think in general your right. But as a woman who's best friend was a guy I have to say for us it worked and I'm not talking friendly I'm talking bff. Now with that said I'm not really a typical girl growing up I was more a hard core tomboy and even today I'd say I lean that way still. Now you may be thinking oh he's a beta but no he was very very alpha! And I was his sounding board for all the crazy stuff he did! Like I'm talking 3am phone calls of hey I met this girl and want to bang her but s…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 03:42 AM
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Thanks so much and thanks for this post it's been great!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 03:07 AM
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After years of him being sick we found out it's celiac disease. The hard part now is to convince this half Portuguese man that all the foods he loves are out. it's been really hard it's his fav foods that he can't have and all the gluten free stuff by comparison is crap. I'm hopeful once we adjust to this he will feel better. don't get me wrong more sex would be great but honestly I would just love for him to not feel so sick all the time!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 01:26 AM
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If I could get some once a day I'd be living the dream! But my hubby is almost never in the mood due to health problems I have to work hard for it. However once I get him going or if he starts it it's amazing and he treats me as well as I treat him ;). We have 3 kids under 5 and I will say because of heal problems I have I gained a lot of weight so it's taking time to get my body back but it's coming. With that said having 3 didn't change my drive at all. I'm hopeful though that now that we know…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 01:26 AM
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Hello RPW! I wanted to give everyone an up date! I went to my husband and told him I was worried told him why was honest but not emotional just straight facts but also told him if he wanted to go he should. He said he didn't know but assured me that he wouldn't get waisted just in case things got weird. I was happy with our talk so left it at that. A few days later he came back to say......... he's not going!!!! I'm so shocked! But after talking with him he said that some of this guys friends an…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 03:37 AM
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I gave one year to a guy like that but I'm so bull headed that it broke up fast in the end his life dreams didn't match mine at all. It was still really hard! But let me say my now husband we totally fit our dream of where we wanted to live and what we wanted to build there was spot on! Only thing was he said he didn't want kids but changed his mind. We now have three and even ended up living where we wanted a lot sooner then I thought! Now we just have to build our life here lol!! Point is don'…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/16 02:08 PM
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Mouse utopia was the scariest thing I've ever read! Just insane but totally see the parallels!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 12:28 AM
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Lol no his keys that's the only reason I went down. Other wise I would have just lock the door and went to bed. But he left his keys at home cause he was only going to be gone an hour.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 07:25 PM
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Thanks so much I think that is just what I will do!! I appreciate the input! I know we are both very different now. And honestly after really thinking about it after reading all the replies. I realized it's not his friends it's just this one that I worry about. Sometimes I think you just need to write stuff out get some external input and you gain so much perspective!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 06:06 PM
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Ok so I've read what you guys are saying. And as one said since you don't know me or my marriage I'll take it worth about a grain of salt. However it all has been helpful getting me thinking about different things and ways to look at his perspective a little more. We both have been on a DIY RP journey for a while and just didn't know it till my bro found you and told me. So I thank you all I think I need to just turn off my feelings let him go after I tell him why I'm worried. The thing is the g…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 04:59 PM
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I totally agree about it's something you are asked however if you knew this guy you'd find it totally believable that he didn't ask. When I asked my husband if he knew he was in the wedding. He called the guy and was like hey am I in your wedding?!?! And the guy goes yeah didn't I tell you? I was standing beside him heard the whole thing!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 04:46 PM
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The guy in the first story is different then the guy getting married. The first was to give reference as to when I realized he could do something like that. If he did lose face with these ppl that would be a good thing. We get invited to bday partys and other things but I told him the kids and I can't go after we went to their 1 year olds bday party and the whole fam was so wasted I was concerned for the little kids there their were only a few ladies there that were sober. he's only known the gu…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 04:43 PM
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Sorry I should have added that I've done a lot of work on myself the last few years too. it was a big learning experience for us both! So that is totally not how I would respond today but that. Was what triggered the whole realizing he's not good when alcohol is involved. He hadn't known I called at all and texted him to say you left your keys but admits he was to busy getting drunk to look at his phone.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 04:28 PM
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Sleep- Not a chance bahahaha never been a good sleeper and to this day still bad. Side note the last decade has been better then the one before tho so I'm going to say 6 hrs a night is way way better then 2 or 3 not joking at all no wonder I was such and angry teen. Stretch- not great but tried a bit Exercising was easy as I've got 3 pups basic training right now and 2 dogs gearing up to pull this winter with the pups running along to learn so they can all pull winter 2017/2018 yay!! Food yeah n…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 01:44 AM
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Really simple be very clear and level ie no emotion this is not a feeling thing this is cut and dry. I speak from experience my husband in his teens was very into coke he had been clean 6 mos when we met again and started dating. I had met him years before well he was still very much in the middle of his addiction. After a month we hung out with some of his old friends one night and he did a bit. I waited till late the next day when I was sure he was clear headed and told him I needed to know if…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 10:23 PM
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Your welcome! My husband in general came to me beaten down by his crazy mother let me tell you supporting him has changed who he is so much! He just needed to have someone stand behind him and say yeah I'm willing to put money on you that's how much I believe you can do it! I really think it will just get better and one day you may just be able to talk about what you were both thinking in the early days. If you do someday it will give you so much insight it did for me and my husband! And things …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 02:42 PM
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In the end the choice is yours to stay or leave. But here is just my experience and opinion. My husband grew up in a household where sex was evil and nothing good could come of it! He was evil cause he was a boy and was rambunctious! His mother tried most of his life to feminize him to no avail. So when it came to sex he was shy scared worried and had no idea what to do his experience was limited since he had only one GF before me and they were not together long. The long and the short of it is …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 02:21 PM
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Hi "Lil'Star" if it could say 30's married 7 years thanks so much!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 12:41 AM
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I'm very new to reddit and have hear about this flair thing but am so so lost!
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/16 03:22 AM
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Not really sure this will help any but when I was 24 I started dating my now husband he was 21 the first week I told him straight up I want a marriage and kids he said he didn't I said ok then we should go our separate ways. Over night his mind changed we got married 8 mos later and have 3 kids now. As I was young I didn't ask what changed till much later he said he wanted me so badly that he was willing to do almost anything to get me so it was a no brainer agree to what I wanted. The back stor…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 02:52 AM
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