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lintheswithd/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 08:34 PM
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Basic Questionlintheswithd/r/askMRP07/11/15 03:00 PM
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lintheswithd/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 05:07 PM
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If her mood is stable, there's no shark week, and your meeting schedule is erratic, I'm not sure where the value in tracking is... If you had a way to divine her cycle, what problem would you be trying to solve with that information?
/r/askMRP30/05/17 04:09 PM
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Jesus Christ, you're a month in and need to chill the fuck out with the hyper-analysis. And you left out a very important detail..... who started this "talk"? On my first read I assumed it was the wife, now I'm thinking you were feeling well-versed in some MRPanese and wanted to tell Mommy how you're a big boy now. If that's the case, then you're a dumbass cuz you clearly puked some nonsense and if she didn't know something was up before she sure does now. Let's assume I'm right. You didn't get …
/r/askMRP30/05/17 10:23 AM
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Sure - it's something I read here a long time ago but I can't find the original to give credit where it is due and I can't even remember the context. Nonetheless, it actually proved accurate in real life so I've kept it in my mind ever since. This Rule of Two Favors, let's call it, says "an above and beyond favor ask that you honor three times in a row stops being an ask and becomes an expectation." When she asks you to get her a glass of water while you're already up and getting yourself a wate…
/r/askMRP26/05/17 12:56 PM
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/u/screechhater hit the nail on the head with your underlying problem and sidebar reading will help you on your journey. I'd still like to dissect your story a bit more. I know there are shit tests, but wtf is this shit? Since you have no history and your post is scant on details, I'm working with a lot of assumptions here... If she truly walked into the kitchen, without any previous hostility between you two, and then immediately lost her shit, then you need to worry a lot less about the "disre…
/r/askMRP26/05/17 11:58 AM
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You're still not entitled to it. Entitlement breeds complacency.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 06:29 PM
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I've been where you are, I've turned it around. A horomonal, breastfeeding baby-mama paired with a man that's let his foot off of the gas is a powder keg... So in your efforts to rekindle your deadbedroom be careful to not explode your marriage by clumsily playing with a box of matches you found here at MRP. I'll probably be flaired as a purple pill faggot for this post, but fuck it - this is my experience and hopefully OP can take something valuable from it. Lurking around here, you'll invariab…
/r/askMRP25/05/17 06:18 PM
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^ this is great advice for a new guy. It's easy to go Red Pill Rambo when you're viewing your wife as the adversary and treat every interaction as an event to be "won" or "lost". This j10 gem might resonate with you, OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 12:25 PM
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"My financials have always been in shambles"... so is it really bullshit that she's sick of being the adult in the relationship? Can you fault her for not wanting to take you on as her child? Get your financials in order. Not for her, for you.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 11:08 PM
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If you're looking for some external validation on your decision to stay, or your decision to leave for that matter, you've come to the wrong place. If you're looking for your balls so you can make a decision, you've come to the right place, but you need to start with the sidebar.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 05:18 PM
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A sturdy Frame is required to enjoy this type of woman. How would you rate your Frame, 1-10? ... Now rate yourself again after you realize you let Wyrdewoodsdweller spin your hamster to 10000RPM with only a few words.
/r/askMRP22/05/17 06:43 PM
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Sounds to me like you're thinking of your wife as an adversary and you're paranoid that she is getting the upper-hand. That mindset + any verbal exchange will end poorly for you.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 08:27 PM
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Take an honest assessment of your SMV vs hers. If I had to guess, you're making steady improvements but became complacent and let your foot off of the gas. Your wife senses the stagnation (or backslide) in your MAP and is reacting accordingly. This is 100% your fault.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 08:00 PM
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Sure you're not the one PMSing? "On a date with my other girlfriend." Then kiss her forehead and move on with your life.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 07:36 PM
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You're right, as a matter of priority, staying stoic in the face of hysterics is the primary focus. I certainly appreciate the spirit of "STFU then leave" but I have the battle scars to prove that it isn't an option I'd use for the type of Schrödinger's Fitness test that shook my frame; that's a recipe to fail the comfort test it'd surely turn into, retrospectively. Hmmm... maybe a separate post exploring this topic is warranted.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 02:34 AM
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After 18 months of lurking and improving, this is my first OYS. Physical Lift = B Heavy lifts two times. Bodyweight workout two times. HIIT one time. Missed playing a sport. Diet = C Missed protein macro target a few days last week. Drank too many calories. Goal = I will increase water consumption this week. Overall, stayed within calorie range, no weight gained. Sexual = C+ Good sex with Mrs. on back-to-back days. Increased DEVI scores compared to recent encounters. Goal for this week = maintai…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 06:50 PM
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Agreed. And a boundary without consequence is just an invitation for more shit. The funny thing was that I was setting micro-boundaries and "winning battles" with merpjitsu, but the macro-boundary of "don't be an insufferable cunt" was violated constantly - the overall tone of the marriage was awful. The click came for me when I stopped trying to win battles and focused on ending the war.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 02:03 AM
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Despite all the merpjitsu I'd learned and applied elsewhere in my life, the simple truth was that I wouldn't leave no matter how shitty it got. It was the first year of my firstborn's life and she knew she had me by the balls. Sure, I'd AA, AM, fog, etc but it was all just masturbatory since she knew she had a no limit charge card in our relationship. Declaring "but our baby" bankruptcy kept the balance in her favor. Once I accepted and made peace with the outcomes of bombing the marriage, it wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 02:03 AM
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I appreciate the perspective and the three preachings of yours... and I know the radical difference in the last few weeks isn't an anomaly - that's the observation that inspired my post. The takeaway here, for myself and for my relationship, was that the nuclear option was the end result of more than a year of conventional warefare; I think this is in alignment with MRP teachings like "fuck me or fuck you". To your point, yes, I had to stop lying to myself about a lot of things. To my point, yes…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 01:50 AM
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I appreciate the direct rejection of the concept. It seems there's a divide in MRP on the topic of apology. Some say "you fucked up. own it, apologize if you were out of line". Some say "never apologize. period."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 06:25 PM
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Brilliant point. I fucked up on "doing what a man should do" because I tried to play above my skill-level too early. To me, I'm equating this "I went too heavy in the gym, hurt myself, and gotta take it easy for a brief time"...
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 06:16 PM
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You are 100% right on both points. Despite the lack of baby knowledge, his point about frame control is still good- "I'm taking the baby, you go nap."
/r/askMRP08/11/15 10:17 AM
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Excellent suggestion for a new oak move. Much appreciated.
/r/askMRP08/11/15 02:03 AM
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Thanks man. You're right, I don't want to, but I need to.
/r/askMRP08/11/15 01:59 AM
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OP read through the sarcasm but didn't actually find anything helpful. OP's problem is that he's unsure if acting in typical MRP-fashion (dread, etc) is acceptable when dealing with the mother of his infant child, or if it needs to be tempered or adapted. Research shows that a new father's hormonal profile and indeed brain structure is altered after the birth of a child... Surely this explains my internal conflict, but I'm asking for guidance and advice.
/r/askMRP08/11/15 01:55 AM
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