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DISCUSSIONliquidswan/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 06:15 PM
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I at first thought you were with him for 7 years by the dentist comment and all I could think was “How?” Dude has mental issues
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/25 01:04 PM
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There is risk that your high income may intimidate men. However think of it this way: women used to come with dowry. Men used to not marry a woman unless she came with a dowry. If you reframe your high income into dowry, it won’t be such a big deal to you mentally. Just pretend your dad saved it up and dispensed it to get you married. Also, finding a “high value” man is not necessarily your goal. You should find a man with whom you connect with genuinely, with whom you think would give you healt…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/25 03:24 PM
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I find talking to people in real life in a genuine way usually nullifies the feelings of resentment from politics. I see most people as sponges who just live in the environment and soak up what’s around them. That’s not meant as an insult but simply is what it is. It is very very difficult to escape the Sponge Life.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/25 08:10 AM
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For me it’s Brazil
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:15 PM
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My wife is from Brazil, and they aren’t like women in Canada/USA. They are more worried about kindness. They are happy if you are successful financially, and handsome, but since success is relative, compared to men in their country, even a moderate income is going to be seen very positively. So with Brazilian women it’s all really about having a good personality and being kind. The world is your oyster and there is plenty of society to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:30 AM
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It’s true though. I am lucky enough to be a handsome fellow, but I know that if it were not for that, and my self-work, my skills and passions, my high income, I’d be in a tough spot. I feel sorry for the other guys who struggle. My main recommendation is to find a woman from another country, who won’t judge you by 90% materialist measures. In other countries for example, the main attribute both women and men want in their partner is kindness. Income is secondary as they want to have a decent li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:22 AM
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Easy. You marry a woman from a different country and suddenly you’re a big winner compared to most of the men she knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:19 AM
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Guys supporting each other outside of a very private setting is basically seen as a pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:17 AM
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I don’t think that’s possible. If I was not handsome I would also probably receive no empathy. Even with that advantage, I still know what it’s like because men are basically disposable. But, whatever. I have three kids and a wife so I am not one to complain too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:17 AM
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Life often is unfair. I guess that’s part of being a man so you basically nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:14 AM
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True. Smol gains, smol brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:19 PM
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Nothing to do with slavery, has to do with a decline in the positive vision and how now everything is derivative and uncreative. That date is chosen because that’s when The Blue Danube composition was first performed publicly, all the great cities of the world. Now? Nothing but ass shaking and degeneration.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:47 AM
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Certainly. But you are an exception, and no rule stands in the face of an exceptional individual (like yourself).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:16 AM
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Yes but historically it is still very bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:27 PM
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That’s still bad. And 80% are initiated by the woman. Perhaps that should be telling that something is rotten in the state of Denmark.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:26 PM
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Why should women be forced to stay at home if they don’t want to? Ah! I never said forced! But I have seen the most adamant feminist become perfect mothers and housewives after a young life of “fighting the patriarchy”. They became mothers and housewives and were like, “Honestly fuck this working shit.” I wouldn’t have believed it either but I have been seeing it more and more. If they really did ruin wages as you imply, the answer would be to stop them working. I assume you mean “not to stop th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:25 PM
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I too know women like you, but I must admit the vast majority of women seem to prefer the freedom of being a mother and housewife. It seems to jive more with their natural urges. Widespread female employment subverts the natural feminine drive, and in doing so undermines our entire culture and probably societal integrity and existence (ultimately)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:21 PM
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Sorry? What? The “West” only started to decline in 1867. It’s existed long before 1919.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:17 PM
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I used to think that exact same thing, and I used to call myself a classical liberal. But now I’m a postmodern traditionalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:17 PM
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So it will never happen again right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:04 PM
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Nearly every woman I know was exactly like that, and now as they are older and have kids (or want to have kids) they wish to god they could be a stay at home mom/housewife, but it’s been made unaffordable (because so many women entered the job market that wages declined for everyone including men who used to be able to support a whole family and a house on a single income)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:03 PM
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What’s the divorce rate again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:01 PM
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Wait, so is the solution to talk it out or to shove it deep into the recesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:00 PM
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1919 I’ll leave that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:59 PM
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It’s more that the feminist journal felt like the grievances brought out by Hitler were legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:55 PM
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Some red pill stuff, just some undeniable truths out there, and a whole lotta cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:52 PM
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Sorry, but liberals are just as bad now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:51 PM
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Redpills generally cut through the “ego-driven & acceptable” narrative. For example, the following two sentences are true: “Does the average woman want to be dominated against her will by an incompetent man? No.” And “Does an average woman want the comfort and security of a competent and dominant man in her life? Yes.” It’s about context, and framing. Feminists would view either as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:49 PM
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Slaves in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:45 PM
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I knew about Tate but I literally didn’t care at all. Now he’s everywhere and it’s kind of annoying. He is right about some things, but he’s a bit goofy and extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:43 PM
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Is that the checklist thing? I believe I did it and scored super non autism on it if I remember. Edit: Oh shit, I must have done a different test before because when I did it now it said I have mild autism lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:58 PM
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For the record I see autism as being more of an enhancement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:01 PM
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I have some sort of issue, probably not autism, but I do think differently. I have 3 kids and a great wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:58 PM
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And sometimes not even agreed (like Epstein didn’t kill himself)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:29 AM
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It’s probably not for everyone . But what if he were exceedingly wealthy and equally handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:28 AM
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Sounds kinda exploitative don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:02 AM
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Well, don’t marry women like that (for starters)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:01 AM
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What’s there to be jealous about? You share a single husband in the scenario, and if he never sways outside of that arrangement you basically just get a larger family, more siblings for your own children to ally and work with, lots of benefits. Perhaps even more wealth over all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:10 PM
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History is written by the people who felt like writing it down, and interpreted by those who feel like interpreting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:40 PM
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Men in power kidnapped women, I’m sure their fathers were most pleased by this./s bought women, “Invested in family relationships for political purposes” stole, women, How were they stolen? Usually because their men were weaker. raped, women and enslaved women. True, and the men were just killed usually. Why is this significantly long detail of human history always ignored by you people? Touché mon ami, mais qu’est-ce que tu te penses? Powerful men having multiple women doesn't mean or imply tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:36 PM
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Sounds like resentment, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:30 PM
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Women already share men, it is simply behind the veil of dating apps. (80% women go for top 20% of men, meaning on average each of those men share at least 4 women, statistically speaking)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:28 PM
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What if say, it was exclusive? Like the man has more than one wife, but, the wives only sleep with him and he with them. Edit: Why the downvotes? I’m just asking a question LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:26 PM
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I’d only take on a second wife if my first wife agreed to the arrangement. It wouldn’t even be about sex, but to increase our economic power.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:23 PM
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I wouldn’t give up your career h til he puts a ring on your finger, especially in THIS economy!
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/22 03:49 PM
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Being handed a check every month makes you dependent on him, fyi. It may not seem that way at the beginning, but it will become as such until you are married.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/22 03:48 PM
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Woman B. But I’d try to get her to enjoy it somehow shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:23 AM
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Thanks bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:41 AM
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Friendly reminder that boomers eschewed functional traditionalism to spite their parents and are one of the reasons why things are hard now. They seemed to have mistook vice for virtue and virtue for vice. The odds of having a rational discussion with them is very low, so I say trust your gut instincts and consider talking to earlier generations if you are so blessed as to have a living grandmother or grandparent. The boomer mentality of “Me me me,” is temporary and will hopefully be a blip in h…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 04:40 PM
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Social media is bad. Every minute you spend on it is a loss of that minute, but every minute you spend on real relationships and friendships is an investment in both yourself and others and therefore is always guaranteed to double your investment. The choice is therefore obvious. Best wishes.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 07:56 AM
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I prefer to use the term natural rather than traditional. I feel many postmodern people forget that we have a nature, and that often we become depressed when we reject that about ourselves
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 04:09 AM
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Where I live, tradesmen make 60-120k or more if they own their own business. College grads are lucky to snag 60k
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:41 PM
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He’s a loser. He should have his stuff together
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/21 05:49 AM
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Possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:41 AM
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Super BASED
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:02 PM
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It means you say what you think regardless of what others think about what you say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:00 PM
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Very interesting post. I do not contest a single portion. That being said, in the broader view of nature versus nurture, many ignore biology in favour of ideological preconceptions. But consider the following analogy. Imagine yourself an Apple. When you look in the mirror as an apple, how much appears to be skin? Without “cutting” into the Apple, it appears to be all skin. So on the surface the Apple appears to be what is merely showing on the outside, and so one could make the presumption based…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:28 PM
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BASED.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:12 PM
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Yep. Had this happen before, luckily I’m a big guy but also good at talking. Luckily also Thea guys are usually cowards and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:12 PM
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The fact that this post has fewer than 200 upvotes and nearly 700 comments is direct evidence that men are seen as disposable by society. That alone is pretty damned interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:05 PM
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Isn’t it considered an honour to serve your invited guests and they honour you by attending?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/20 07:52 PM
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One way to turn a man conservative is for him to meet a reasonable and faithful woman
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/20 06:55 AM
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Church, family or friends connections, HARDWARE stores (pretend you’re looking for something and ask a guy who looks single and try to sleuth it out later on in the interaction). Be friendly and smile. Guys at hardware stores are often already married but the ones that aren’t are you for grabs and probably pretty handy
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/20 05:56 AM
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I think the apps are bad overall. I would try to talk to close friends about trying to find a certain type of guy. For normies this usually means asking them if they are aware of any single conservative men. They exist. Hell sometimes you can get a middle of the road guy and turn him more conservative (this kinda happened to me at least partially due to my wife being Catholic, at first I was “atheist” but now I just see it all differently). Maybe your parents have a friend who has a son, or a re…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/20 05:53 AM
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One problem I had with having female friends is I’m a decent looking bloke with a good job and such, so the ones that aren’t great looking are constantly trying to get into my pants, while the good looking ones I’m constantly trying to get into their pants (when I was single anyways). So it was just terrible all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:40 PM
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I am surprised that there is an assumption regarding thinness being attractive. While certainly obesity is unattractive, a normal healthy weight is very attractive. Women who are obese or thin appear less attractive to me, perhaps it’s because they aren’t as fertile? Or at least my hindbrain thinks so?
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 04:37 PM
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I almost choked after the PS5/Samsung Smart Fridge/Car Raffle part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 11:26 PM
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There are limits to hypergamy. Women desire resources. If a man is busy already doling out resources to even a small number of women, that man will be less attractive to her on at least that basis, for he doesn’t have as many available resources. So it comes down not only to being resourceful (whether good genes or wealth) but having the resources available. A man may have a first marriage, few kids, and then a second marriage later in and a few kids, but at some point he will be maxed out (so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 04:38 PM
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I’d say we are 99.9% nature and 0.1% “moral” (something like religion or something). Except we are like an apple, mostly apple and only a little bit of skin, but, when viewed only from the surface, we appear to be all skin and nothing else. Digging down it is hard to see anything but apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:19 AM
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Nice :) I may have misinterpreted earlier. I think social constructionism is basically nonsense/wishful thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 10:11 PM
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Yes, because blank slate is utopic hogwash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:21 AM
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Narrative mapping. If someone is imbued with a “map” that doesn’t match their biological system, they will likely feel dysphoric. Imagine being raised like the Buddha in a serene existence and not even knowing people age or die. Then you leave the garden and see the world as it is, old men, funerals. It would probably be quite mind blowing. (I’m speaking of Buddha’s early life I mean before he was the Buddha)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 09:03 PM
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I think I just come straight to the point. There is no such thing as male/female nature. I think quite the opposite. I think we are probably closer to 99.9% nature and 0.1% or less “other”, and that other part isn’t insignificant, and I would call it “morality” or something similar. An analogy I use is that we are like a fruit, perhaps an apple. From the outside we appear to be all skin because that is what we see directly, but the skin is really a very thin layer that sits on top of everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 08:58 PM
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Lots of fish in the sea, don’t waste your time with him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 07:16 PM
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Well, this has been an entertaining thread to read. That being said, most criticism of OF is because it essentially ruins the personality of a lot of women because it engages both their vanity and desire for attention. It is such an easy thing to just have a trickle of cash flowing in from desperate soy-infused betamales, but it leads nowhere for the vast majority of them and will simply become an embarrassing blemish on their lives. If I found out my wife had an OF before we were together I may…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:47 PM
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Sounds like you dodged a bullet ;) But seriously this is a strange thought that we don’t have full executive control over our choices
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 06:17 AM
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Apparently the men who have a blood type that doesn’t match well with the woman’s creates particular pheremones which the woman senses as smelling bad, not like smells that indicate lack of bathing etc, but just a permanent odour that always exists even when the person is technically clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:27 PM
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Speaking of the not understanding the selection criteria, there was a study that showed that women would avoid men based on smell, that would be their reasoning anyways, but turns out that that smell was an indicator that the blood type of that man would likely lead to birth difficulties and problems with potential children due to blood type incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:43 PM
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You can’t. They have literally chosen “war.”
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/20 02:25 PM
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As a child I spent time in a women’s transition home (which are what we call them in Canada). It was much nicer than a homeless shelter that’s for sure. Now as a man I can do nothing but rely on myself because there is no safety net for me. My safety net is whatever I manage to scrape together if I happen to go through a trying time, be that family, friends, or my own efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:48 PM
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no demand 75%+ of homeless people are men Ok! 👌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:13 PM
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“CMV: Men don't protect women, they protect their honor” Interesting take. “Men don't really care about protecting women as people. They care about protecting "their own women". They see women as a possession.” I don’t see “my women” as “my property” but rather as one of my many responsibilities as a father and husband. The truth is that I’m much stronger than any of “my women” and have the natural physical capacity to defend them from harm, or at least present a significant enough barrier to ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 06:15 PM
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Well, I met my second wife when I was 8 years older than when I met my first wife, so that definitely played a role, because when I was 18 the biological urge was insane, but by the time I was 26 (I’m 32 now) my libido had definitely changed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 02:59 PM
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My current wife I didn’t have sex with her until marriage, despite her wanting to, and we have a super solid relationship and a young daughter together. All it took was me insisting we did not have sex until we were married and because of this we are inseparable. My previous marriage resulted in 2 children and only lasted 4 years. I had a child with that first wife before marriage and then after marriage, and we ended up getting divorced. Now me and my new wife have my two previous children as w…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 03:33 PM
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Men can handle a lot of stress, we are built for it (those men who couldn’t handle it simply didn’t breed often, or died). Life can carry with it much in terms of stress all on it’s own. But a man needs a woman to wake him up out of his stupor, if they are in one. This isn’t a bad thing in such a case and a woman waking a man up can bring much meaning to his life. However, if he is already successful and has his own motivators, if he already deals with his shit so to speak, then attempting to wa…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 11:41 PM
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There is always space for forgiveness, empathy, and personal growth. You’re quite young, I am 31 this month. I have 3 children (12/9.5/2.5). In between my two marriages I dated a woman who was 6 years younger than me. She wasn’t mature enough for me, an experienced father, but was too mature to date guys her age. I felt she was always being dramatic for no reason, I think as some natural impulse that was learned by her in the past as a problem solving mechanism. But it was just frustrating. I wa…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 09:16 PM
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If I put myself in his shoes, I would wonder why you were acting a bit out of control and not pulling out of the spiral. I would probably tell you I love you genuinely if I did actually love you. But if that failed to stem any drama, I’d be frustrated because a negative response to such a thing or even a neutral response is a signal that you don’t trust me. If you can’t seem to trust me then the relationship has failed and I would begin mitigating the coming impact failure. However, if you came …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 08:58 PM
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The truth will set you free.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/19 11:28 PM
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I think that female autism is severely under diagnosed (not to say you have this but just wanted to point it out for others who may have this same problem, might help understanding some peoples issues)
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/19 02:33 AM
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That’s much better than my comment <3
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 06:46 AM
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“The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence” until you to that other side, and then, suddenly the other side looks greener now. So you can waste your energy forever fence hopping, or you can settle in and think about what you want in the long term. Do you want to have someone to rely on? If that is true, should you also think your partner desires the same reliability of you? I know many older women who hopped fences their entire lives, and now are old and living with cats if they…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 09:42 PM
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Always floss. People who don’t floss have a poopy smelling mouth even if they brush because little pieces of food get stuck back there and biodegrade. Bonus points is that you might not even notice the gross smell because you get used to it, and people don’t like being rude so they will just avoid you at all costs. I use those little flossers because they are handy and easy to use. I even use regular floss even more now. The best thing you can do for your mouth is brush and floss and ideally a d…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/18 05:36 PM
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As a man, I would love if my wife made more money, but to be perfectly honest, I’d prefer to work two jobs or a job and a half because I want to provide for my family as best as possible and I want my kids to have a parent at home at least while they are young.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/18 06:06 PM
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Okay
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/18 07:17 PM
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I play hockey, and it is one of my sole personal hobbies outside of work and family. I find my wife somewhat supportive, but once in a while she gets mad about it. I usually play once per week (sometimes twice), and if it inconveniences her in any way it seems to get a negative reaction. I never complain when she goes out with her friends (usually once every two weeks). What would you recommend to me to communicate to her in order to convince her that me getting a little bit of exercise and pers…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/18 05:11 PM
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Generally if someone isn’t at least a 5/10 in your eyes you shouldn’t be thinking of marrying them
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 06:39 PM
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Not sure exactly, but you can be opinionated and also maintain the ability to allow others to express themselves without reacting angrily or trying to deny their ideas. You probably will need a man who is smarter than you if you’re going to respect him though. But keep that in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 06:18 PM
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This is really great. Good job!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 05:22 PM
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You shouldn’t put yourself down for having dark skin. I take the MLK approach and only care about character (and attractiveness, melanin doesn’t get calculated into this)
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 09:19 AM
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Well, I wouldn't say someone who is pregnant is at their worst, in many aspects they are at their best. But I understand what you mean, if I were to give an example of one of my past relationships, the quote would be: "If you can't handle me at smash your TV, then you don't deserve me at undercooked chicken for dinner due to lack of diligence." I have more but I will keep those away from everyone (for the best)
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 06:32 PM
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Assuming that is true still results in many women trying to use this quote as some kind of inspiration... but I guess even in that case your comment is correct
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 03:44 PM
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Well, he sounds like he was honest about it. That says a lot. Many men would just never acknowledge what they did. Relationships take work. It takes sacrifice. You both need to be able to hear the truth and not run away, marriage isn't for you or him, it's for the children. I say talk to him about it, ask him what he will change to make this not happen again. I wouldn't accept anything less than promising to not attend future bachelor parties and or not getting "drunk and stupid" like he did to …
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 07:07 AM
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We've probably all experienced something along these lines, I could give examples but only if asked. I've almost made a meme of it in a way.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 06:16 PM
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If you practice getting good at video games you can attract men of the younger crowd, but if you're looking for an older man you might want to have an interest in something they like, gives you an excuse to get to know them better. Men have a lot of respect for women who have hobbies and interests especially if they coincide with their own. And before you say it would be fake, it's not, it's just learning something new, maybe you would like it, maybe you wouldn't, but the key is to be interestin…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 02:24 AM
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I had this happen a few times. I stopped taking them seriously and moved into more serious folks. I mean, why should I waste my time an energy? -a man
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 02:20 AM
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I am a man so I'm not sure exactly if this applies, but when I was 25 I attempted to date a 36 year old woman. She was really hot, firstly, however, IMMEDIATELY she's starts the date by entering my vehicle, and giving me a speech about how driving above the posted speed limit makes her car sick. This made little sense to me then and less sense to me now. So imagine I'm driving 53km/h in a 50km/h zone, she would start complaining, right away. As the date progressed I saw more and more weird thing…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 07:32 PM
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