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Yeah I’ve been looking for this too
/r/seduction15/08/20 03:21 AM
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Uhh wrong. It’s how do I become that fun, attractive guy that women want to come back home with, how do I structure the situation so the girl feels like it’s a win-win, and not like she’s being a slut. Girls like sex too bud, and trust me, they are much more disappointed w the guys who aren’t able to give them that great experience that they want in a smooth, fun and confident way than the guys who actually care enough about them to do the work so they can have an amazing experience w a great gu…
/r/seduction05/08/20 02:16 PM
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Hmm yeah I live in a city of 2.5mil and have been having some good success online too, I feel like it’s kinda cheating tho I’m gonna start forcing myself to do more coke approaches, if only bc I’m nervous/afraid to do it a lot so I gotta face & break through that
/r/seduction03/08/20 12:30 AM
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For sure for sure, only thing is, like I feel like a good part of the excitement and what boosts up the energy of the date is when I escalate to that kiss, maybe just escalate up to that point but don’t kiss or only do it a really small amount? Lol that’s like one of the main fun things for me in the experience, but I hear ya I can still keep the sexual tension and then save it for when we get home, that will make it much better when it finally does come too & will help lead it to sex. But I wan…
/r/seduction03/08/20 12:21 AM
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The make outs are happening either in the venue or along our walks, but then when I try to pull back to my place she doesn’t want to come in... honestly I’ve only had a couple dates recently, so not a big sample size, but I remember I had this problem before, was only able to have sex on like the 2nd or 3rd date. To be fair as well my last date was during the day, and I had something planned for later so the girl was already thinking she was gonna go after we ate and hung out, but like we were t…
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:59 PM
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But on another note, do you have any tips to be, for lack of a better term, “sexworthy” or someone she might want to sleep w on the date? I think since I’ve only gone on a couple so far I’m still ironing out the kinks, but like I’m good at keeping convo flowing, good at teasing and making it fun, good at slowly escalating to makeouts... but I mean what else would you say is very important? Like I think I can improve at leading the convo (sometimes the girl strays into talking about some nonsense…
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:50 PM
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Ahh for sure for sure, I’m just coming off of a major derping phase so I’m trying to get back into the swing of things, still a bit rusty but it’ll come back to me
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:24 PM
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How come you ain’t trying to date anymore like you used to?
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:19 PM
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For sure man thanks very much for this, i definitely appreciate it. I’m gonna have to master the no alcohol game version of this, I’ll report back to you when I find some strategies lol—it can be done!!
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:10 PM
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Hell yeah thanks man, see the thing I don’t like to drink, so when I go out I’ll have like Max 1 beer, but I’m assuming that doesn’t really matter as long as the convo and vibe are good btw me and the girl. Also I’ve been taking them to a Much more kow-key outdoor cafe cuz it’s super nice and right by the lakefront, so not exactly the bar kinda feel tho. And I’ve been taking them on walks along the lakefront cuz it’s a super great view, so idk how that would work into this, I mean I could def st…
/r/seduction02/08/20 09:09 PM
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Thanks bud that was a great reply. And yeah when I’m with them I won’t be thinking of chodiness I’ll be tapping into my inner fun/social guy that I used to be before. Only reason I said the chode stuff is to convey the fact that I’ve been pretty isolated for a while and haven’t been working on myself until recently (like 2 weeks ago recently) I’ve made a ton of strides within those 2 weeks to where I barely recognize the person I was before, but I know I still have a long way to go. My main prob…
/r/seduction25/07/20 01:53 PM
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I always just go straight to saying "oh yeah thats cool, we can just be friends and keep in touch." Thing is I actually mean it, its super awesome to have great, attractive girls in your life who are just your friends. You don't need to sleep with every girl. Plus, there's a huge likelihood that she'll try to hook you up with one of her single friends, and if she's hot her friends are probably hot too
/r/seduction25/07/20 12:14 AM
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The statistics for online dating are that only around 7% or 7/100 guys actually message a girl that they match with, even lots of super beautiful women complain about this, so I wouldn’t necessarily beat yourself up about it. Lots of guys are lame and are either scared to say anything, or if they do say something they go with something stupid like “hey ur hot”
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:10 PM
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Don’t ever ask for the number, lead and be confident. Say something like “hey I had a real good time chatting with you, here put down your number (hand her your phone) and we’ll continue this some other time” and smile and act as it’s totally natural and expected that she’ll do it. It feels weird the first time you do it, but after a bit it’ll just seem natural, and will almost always work. The thing is, if she doesn’t want to talk to you she just won’t respond when you hit her up later, but at …
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:07 PM
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So yeah I don’t have much to say as I’m new to all this myself but one thing I would def day is stop asking them “what’s your boyfriends name??” That’s a real bad frame, if they say they have a boyfriend it’s either cuz they do or they feel uncomfortable and are trying to find an out, trying to call them out for lying is just a weird & combative approach that can only succeed in making them more defensive. Besides this tho good job having the balls to approach
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:38 PM
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Yeah I hear ya, the only problem with Tinder for me right now is that I’ve been super reclusive and isolated for a while now and really don’t have any good pictures besides like selfies or maybe one or two with family but none really of me doing fun things or being social, so idk if I could really do that until I can get some decent pics... you got any tips on making a good profile?
/r/seduction17/07/20 11:38 AM
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Yeah I am basically 100% on board with your approach here, I’ve been having a really healthy diet, lowering my calories so I can get to an optimal weight, and doing a consistent workout routine, I also stopped drinking and started having a set sleeping schedule to get good consistent sleep. I’ve also made sure to get some good clothes and accessories, and get a tan. And yeah when I go out my main goal isn’t picking up women it’s just to become a more fun, social person, so I basically try to tal…
/r/seduction17/07/20 11:36 AM
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Also, make sure your toilet is spotless, nothing turns a woman off more than an unclean toilet
/r/seduction17/07/20 12:07 AM
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Well unfortunately I live in the US, and the thing about Republicans running the government is that they don’t give a f*** about public health, so we’re currently in a resurgence and are the epicenter of covid right now. My state did a little better and enforced a more strict lockdown so it’s not as bad as other places, and I live in a big city, so there are pretty much always girls walking out and about and there are a lot of beaches/parks/outdoor restaurant places that I can go to... honestly …
/r/seduction17/07/20 12:04 AM
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Yeah dang, I’m just coming out of a very reclusive period and don’t have much in the way of social circle to go off of, luckily I live in a big city so I’ve just been going out to places like outdoor cafes and beaches/parks, but was wondering if anyone had any ideas for other venues to meet people at now with covid & everything, especially places at night, maybe I can find some outdoor patio bars??
/r/seduction16/07/20 09:05 PM
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Yeah I’ve started going to parks/ walking areas too, any tips on conversation starters you’re using at these places?
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:44 PM
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How are you coming across these dates, cold approach or online apps?
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:42 PM
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What have you been doing now that regular night game isn’t really much of an option? I’ve been looking into bars/places that have outside patios but mostly the only safe venues I’ve been going to are things like beaches or outdoor eating areas/parks
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:39 PM
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Even right now, outdoor gatherings are pretty low-risk, the real risk lies in tightly enclosed places with lots of people, so there are still opportunities to talk to and meet women at places like the beach, parks, farmers markets, walking around the city, etc. It’s more difficult for sure, and I think is a great time to focus on improving other aspects of our lives like the gym, hobbies, financial, and all that, but there still are definitely opportunities to meet and talk with women safely sti…
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:51 PM
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Same man, I was drinking way too much and using it as a crutch, and finally swore it off for good. I’m on day 4 right now currently & going strong. I also swore off porn and masturbating at the same time too... from now on I’m working out, eating right, working on my social skills, and the only sexual acts I’ll be doing will be with actual women. So good luck man! I’m in the same boat
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:46 PM
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Just so you know, those actors take a bunch of steroids to get that ripped, it’s physically impossible to make some of their 2-4 month “transformations” naturally. For us who aren’t using steroids, it’ll take a year or two or three, but after a year you’ll be looking pretty good. You can expect to gain somewhere around 6-12lbs of muscle year one if you do everything right (workout consistency, diet, sleep), and from then on you’ll earn less each year
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:43 PM
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Very inspiring, as I’m currently sick and tired of being in that “mopey” phase and just very recently have decided (& started) working to make things better. Seeing this gives me a lot of motivation and assurance that it can be done. My one question though is: how often were you going out/doing cold approach? I assume you had to be going out and socializing and getting better with your social skills while also trying to talk to and pick up women right? What kind of going out schedule did you mai…
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:38 PM
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Oh yeah same man, it messes me up so much
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:37 PM
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The good ol' pull-away, showing her what she'd miss without you by leaving her alone for a bit.... I'm just reading The Game right now and that's a big thing I've been taking away from Mystery's strategies
/r/seduction12/07/20 04:02 PM
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Yeah I second this, only sub I know for social dynamics stuff are subs like this
/r/seduction12/07/20 04:00 PM
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Honestly the thing that helps me the most is just getting out of my damn head, and reminding myself to stop talking me and everything else so seriously... cuz its really not a big deal. I know, way easier said than done, but once you get some successes/positive feedback you realize how true this is
/r/seduction12/07/20 03:59 PM
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its a skill, no one has any special abilities in this regard, you can learn it too if you just practice a lot
/r/seduction12/07/20 03:57 PM
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Could you describe how you were making chit-chat with the other customers afterwards? Since I used to be pretty social I definitely know how easy and effortless it can be to just be fun and social after you break that initial hesitation barrier, but honestly I've been so out of practice that it seems really foreign to me now lol, would be cool to hear the kind of things you said to people that didn't make them get all weirded out
/r/seduction12/07/20 03:56 PM
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I agree with this. Also I'd consider just taking out your phone, opening up the page where you type in numbers, and just hold it out to her and say "here, put your number down we'll go out for drinks sometime"... it almost always works. I figured this out from being turned down one too many times when I'd ask them for the number. The thing about this too is, if the girl really doesn't want to meet up with you later, she just won't answer, but I've found that if you do it confidently and just ass…
/r/seduction12/07/20 03:54 PM
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damn dude, you've inspired me with this post, I was literally just at Target like an hour ago doing the same thing, and saw a pretty cute employee that I thought I should talk to, but didn't, was very in my head and in that state of just wanting to be "comfortable" and not rock the boat in anyway that can be very hard to break out of for me, plus I'm just coming off of a long hiatus from anything even remotely close to game... it sucks because I know how easy and effortless it can be once you br…
/r/seduction12/07/20 03:50 PM
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