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I came here to write this post, /u/wi5hbone just saved me the time. You're 35, get out of your own head about it. She's 19, just have fun and don't worry about the end game and you'll relax a lot more. As wi5hbone said, you're not trying to game her over text. The hard part is over, you know she has some interest and you've already got a date pending. Stay away from text and don't use silly lines or try to escalate over text. She wants a man or she wouldn't have said yes. All the 19 - 23 year ol…
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:01 PM
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I've been in this community a long time. I got in around the same age as you. I'm 31 now. From the experience I have now, maybe I can impart a few things to help you. I'll try to keep it brief but this my general Guidelines For Success in Everything and Forever (tm). Don't beat yourself up over oneitis. The younger you are the easier it is to fall into this trap of thinking that each girl you meet is a completely beautiful and unique snowflake that is impossible for another girl to top. The more…
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:37 PM
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You shouldn't be downvoted. This is a great question and OP should get checked. Age plus his size, and what seems like decreased mood and passivity, and lack of sex drive being discussed all point at low T as a potential issue. Enough to get it checked out for peace of mind / baseline recording anyway. Also, You can't out lift naturally low T, OP. Assuming not an issue: How many sexual partners have you had, and when was the last? Are you scared of a ONS possibly due to a lack of experience? The…
/r/seduction21/08/13 12:21 AM
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/r/seduction03/10/11 07:53 PM
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You already know what to do here, you're just emotionally involved and don't want to. Start dating other girls. You should have already been doing this. She was dating other guys, if you didn't know already. She didn't want to be exclusive. You should immediately have been out having a good time with others and stopped sinking into one-itis further. You know that now though. To help you from getting here in the future, just remember: You can never go backwards. Never ever. You tried to take the …
/r/seduction30/09/11 02:59 AM
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Approach guys. Seriously. You're likely way more comfortable with guys than you are chicks, so just start approaching guys, old people, teachers you don't know, the garbage man etc. Approach 3 to 4 new people you don't know every day. You'll likely start with simple things like "Crazy weather today huh?", but soon you'll be able to strike up an entire conversational thread with anyone, anywhere. You will be universally liked and could diffuse any situation. Now you can approach girls you're sexu…
/r/seduction30/09/11 02:54 AM
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As others have said, the things you've already listed are good enough. All of those activities have potential sexual energy, but it's likely you haven't infused it. I mentioned this in another post, but lets take your movies for an example. If you have a girl coming over for movies, especially this month, do a thriller or slightly scary movie. Maybe even a campy one so she can laugh. Before she comes over, turn your thermostat down a bit and crack a window. Make it slightly chilly. After a few m…
/r/seduction30/09/11 12:47 AM
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You have to treat this like you were sarging in any other setting. You don't know this girl. You have maybe one or two threads of conversation you can start about mutual friends? That's really nothing... If you're already friends on Facebook, stop doing the poke thing. Comment here or there a few times over the span of a week on something she posts. Build a little commentary. If you have a little back and forth, make an event like hiking or a bon fire or whatever is natural in your area. Go to i…
/r/seduction30/09/11 12:42 AM
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I hope you know I was just injecting some humor, not trying to talk shit. I don't get any bonus or pleasure from trying to come off like a stud on the internet. I'm just trying to help people and return to the community what I took out of it long ago. This stuff isn't about picking up chicks. It's changing your life and being a more confident person in everything you do.
/r/seduction30/09/11 12:30 AM
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Please do, if I can help you in anyway I'd be more than happy to.
/r/seduction30/09/11 12:27 AM
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Talk to everyone. Be nice to all of them. Male, female, skinny, fat -- Doesn't matter. You will know many people casually. Begin to introduce them to each other. People will love you more for it. Your social value will go up. Through these groups of people you will meet more people. You will also gain more social skill. Because of the aforementioned social upgrades, you will have access and pre-built starter conversations with tons of hot chicks that would be cold approaches in the past. You wil…
/r/seduction29/09/11 10:53 PM
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This is a classic example of why you should be nice to everyone. Two ways you can play it. If you were nice to this girl and you've spoken here and there, just say that you saw her randomly and was wondering if she could do an introduction. She'll likely be totally cool with it. It's not some strange thing to ask for, trust me. If you weren't that nice or you've barely spoken to this person, just contact the person outside of your mutual friend. Say you saw her on facebook, you have a mutual fri…
/r/seduction29/09/11 10:47 PM
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Humans need and desire physical contact. Do you not like it when someone hugs you, for instance? Touching, or "kino", allows both people to feel good. It allows people to instantly be more comfortable around you and it opens them up to deeper relationships. It's all good stuff. If you can do something you like and at the same time make the other person feel good, why would you not do this as much as humanly possible?
/r/seduction29/09/11 10:21 PM
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Good work. First time I've ever offered advice and someone one-upped the social risk factor to use it. Do a write-up after so I know what happened.
/r/seduction29/09/11 09:22 PM
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"I'm not really a touch kind of person" Yes you are. You just don't know it yet. When you start hugging girls and they start initiating hugging you back as time goes on... the moment that happens you'll realize how wrong you are. Touch people. They like it. You will too.
/r/seduction29/09/11 09:21 PM
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Skip the 'I think you're really cute' stuff. If she is, she has heard to before and it's boring. If she isn't, what are you doing with her anyway? =) The problem here is you're already chasing her and you haven't even met yet. You're instantly at a lower value. You're giving her unearned compliments and offering her to buy things for her. Why would you ever do this?? You're having inner game problems because in your head you're planning on putting yourself out there WAY too much. Your plan is fi…
/r/seduction29/09/11 09:15 PM
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blow RIGHT past any introductions or 'nice talking to you earlier' type shit. Your next response is "So, when are you going to pay me back for babysitting your laptop and buy me dinner?". You're welcome. Let me know what you name your kids.
/r/seduction29/09/11 09:07 PM
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iznous, give him some more help brother. That advice works great for you and I who might have done this a bunch, but he wants more help. Give him a scenario you've done or something. Thanks in advance.
/r/seduction29/09/11 08:53 PM
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In response to your first paragraph I have to be honest. You're being too scientific. As I already alluded to, you're taking too long. "Stop trying to hit me and HIT ME". Stop waiting the fuck around to be defriendzoned and defriendzone yourself. Do you want this girl? Then stop torturing yourself. Get something going RIGHT NOW or move along. You have enough friends. You're a popular and interesting guy with a lot of shit going on. You don't have time to fuck around. You either get this defriend…
/r/seduction29/09/11 08:46 PM
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The escalation is so subtle that I wouldn't even call it such to be honest. You did MOST things right here except for asking her to go. If you ask, she gets the time to weigh options and think "I'm not thirsty for coffee and don't want to be weird and say yes but not buy anything.". She had a better option at that point then going with you, because going with you would have been more socially awkward. When you say "Walk with me I need to run by the B building and burn it down", and instantly sta…
/r/seduction29/09/11 08:35 PM
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Turn your brain off immediately. It's fucking up everything for you. Your problem is you're a pussy. I say this in the nicest way I can. You need to admit you've been a pussy, and then tell yourself that at the end of reading my comment, you'll never be that person again. STOP worrying about if you come off as creepy, or if they accidentally touched you, or if you are being awkward. ALWAYS assume if someone touched you it was on purpose. Spend the next week KNOWING that every girl that talks to …
/r/seduction29/09/11 05:57 PM
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I see a lot of advice here about just going for it and not thinking before you act etc. This is all obvious and if it worked you'd have done it already. It's great to work towards this level but you're obviously nowhere near it, so let me help you take baby steps toward it. At the end of the night I assume you AT LEAST hug her good bye. With that assumption, you need to make an obvious change to that hug. It's going to prep her with whats coming next and get you ready as well. Be slow in your hu…
/r/seduction29/09/11 05:46 PM
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You're not moving fast enough at all. The fact she intiated the kino strongly leads me to believe you've not done it fast enough. The thing I worry about here is that you say "if we keep having moments like this". That's the wrong way to think about it. You had one moment like that, she gave you OBVIOUS IOI's. You have to take the initiative and start up the kino yourself, increase the attraction etc. Don't wait around and let her get bored and move along to something else. She's a kitten, give …
/r/seduction29/09/11 05:35 PM
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I don't think this is a helpful response. Anyone can be defriendzoned. It's much harder than a normal pickup though. You need to re-frame that persons view of you. In this example, he has a positive factor working for him in that he doesn't see her everyday and large amounts of time has passed since hanging out. It's very close to a new pickup situation. This dinner will set the tone of everything else to follow.
/r/seduction29/09/11 05:28 PM
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Listen, from what I can tell you're already teetering on the edge of disaster. You're obviously a little jazzed about this idea, which is fine... If you're well versed in the game and can control your inner AFC. I don't think you're there yet from what you wrote above. No disrespect, I'm just running on the tiny info I have from you as a person and trying to help you. With that said, you need to remember you have the power in this situation. She essentially asked you out. She made the approach, …
/r/seduction29/09/11 05:13 PM
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