lisasaurusRex Archive

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4	K-closed a Tinder girl on first date, then she never returned a text again and I can't get over it. I think your exchanges after the date were totally okay and did not come off desperate or anything. She was polite enough even though she had no obligation to text you back at all. Sounds like she thinks you were a nice dude but she just didn't feel a spark. Sucks. Totally okay for you to feel bummed out! But, on to the next. You didn't do anything wrong, this just wasn't a win. Dating is freaking difficult and the older I get the less I enjoy being single. I know it feels like you've suffered e…	/r/seduction	12/10/15 09:07 PM
2	How do you guys get in the mood to go out That's a good point - sometimes I'm just going to meet the wrong people. I tend to find a way to blame myself regardless, though.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 03:09 AM
1	How do you guys get in the mood to go out Thanks for clarifying. I do tend to try and please everyone, which may very well keep me in a "safe" place with people rather than allowing room for some people to like me and some people to not. Maybe that feels better to me than having some friends but then also having to live with knowing I'm disliked by others. I know I am, and I know that's okay, but I'm still working through it for sure. I also hold myself to an incredibly high standard and wonder if I accidentally push this standard onto …	/r/seduction	28/12/14 03:08 AM
2	How do you guys get in the mood to go out It's a true negative feedback loop!	/r/seduction	28/12/14 02:59 AM
2	How do you guys get in the mood to go out I put a reasonable amount of effort into my appearance and often get compliments on my hair and outfits (I school/work in a clinic so it's pretty formal), I work out, I'm clean, etc. This person in particular I thought I might get along with because we had similar liberal attitudes and dressed alike, liked rock climbing and working out, board games, smoked pot, and a few other things. The thing she flaked on was something we would have done with two other people (I went anyway) so it wasn't exac…	/r/seduction	28/12/14 02:59 AM
1	How do you guys get in the mood to go out I like video games. Met another girl who likes video games. This girl and I talked about how we should play. Initiated plans with her to play, which she agreed to. This is the example I mentioned where they made plans over our plans and then invited me to those plans instead. I'm struggling so much to see what I did wrong here.	/r/seduction	27/12/14 09:11 PM
1	How do you guys get in the mood to go out I'm going into the work force in May, and I'm super afraid of not making connections even more so then. My last experience in the workplace was not terrible until someone I had gotten very close to betrayed me in a pretty horrific way. I don't understand how what I do gets me to the positions I find myself in.	/r/seduction	27/12/14 08:58 PM
2	How do you guys get in the mood to go out And the worst part is, because of our personalities, if we were to meet we would never become friends. Who would initiate it?	/r/seduction	27/12/14 08:56 PM
1	How do you guys get in the mood to go out I'm not sure how what you've said plays into my question. Can you say more?	/r/seduction	27/12/14 08:53 PM
1	How do you guys get in the mood to go out Forgive me for not quite understanding, but I'm not sure what something I should bring to the group looks like. Can you give me an example of what you bring to the group? Since you don't know me I can't ask you suggest what I might have. This time in grad school I really tried the "being me while not caring how others perceive me" and I certainly do not behave in ways that would grant me a lot of attention. I hate a lot of attention. So although I get what you're saying, I still can't picture wh…	/r/seduction	27/12/14 08:53 PM
15	How do you guys get in the mood to go out I've been struggling with similar issues. I've gotten off to great starts - taking genuine and authentic interest in other people, asking questions, initiating hanging out, etc. However, it seems that despite my efforts, often times my bids for friendship are not returned and the fact is, I am not interested in being involved in a one way friendship. I've stumbled into a pattern of being friends with the kind of people who will never actually be there for you when you need them, unless it's conv…	/r/seduction	27/12/14 01:10 AM
28	Own Yourself You make some super great points that have an overall inspiring theme that can really be generalized to anyone, not just men. You should consider rewriting this to be more focused on owning the PERSON you are, regardless of gender, age, race, sexuality etc and post it to a larger sub. So many people could benefit from this sort of insight and you seem like a relatable guy and that makes people want to listen to you, more so than some buzzfeed article about the top 10 ways to gain confidence or s…	/r/seduction	18/11/14 02:28 AM