| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 66 | HVM dropping FACTS | MOOD FOR LIFE | lisasimpsonfan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:23 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 42 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidWho is screwing guys who hit on them in the street?? Anytime a guy does that you know he is a creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 10 | Men finding "love" with AI chatbots - Horrifying Black Mirror episode, good alternative to sex workers, or both? - 'I fell in love with my AI girlfriend - and it saved my marriage'Your link took me to a login. I did find this https://futurism.com/chatbot-abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 7 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childlink plz? thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 01:15 AM |
| 136 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.Coming over after midnight is a booty call not a boyfriend/fiancé. Girl needs to DTMFA and only have anything to do with him when it comes to their child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.Maybe she will achieve Secret Scammer Level 100 where they happily build a life and grow old together. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:50 PM |
| 213 | "70% of things couples argue about are unresolvable problems" - woman advises women to compromiseUnresolvable problems? Then she goes on to list things like punctuality. I was raised if you are 15 minutes early you are on time, 5 minutes early you are late, and 10 minutes late you are embarrassing yourself. I am still the same way. Setting expectations for your partner is not bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:32 PM |
| 26 | The ole blast from the past “I’m in your town let’s get coffee” textIf you aren't into him then don't waste your time. It doesn't sound like you were fried in high school and don't really have much to reminisce about now. It would be different if you randomly ran into each other or if he contacted you even to say HI before he came to town. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:26 PM |
| 36 | Evidence A: Don’t spare these fools any sympathy or play Bob the Builder and take chances on a cheater! They will always throw it back in your face. These men will use you as a stepping stone whilst broke & promise you the world only to cheat on you with younger women when they hit bigHer first mistake was being his Mom/bang maid/checkbook and putting her own need aside for him. Dating is fine in your early 20s but if you don't know if you have a future after 18 months in your 30s you are wasting your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 14 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorI can smell his one mildew bath towel that he never washes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:34 PM |
| 19 | Saw this & immediately thought of FDS.That immediately made thing of Angela Tramonte. A couple weeks ago she went to Phoenix to meet a cop she met on a dating app. Their first date was this hard hike. The weather was over 100f and she was getting sick and wanted to turn around. He decided to keep on hiking while she tried to make it back to the car. She died in someone's yard trying to get help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 01:52 PM |
| 114 | “Build with him”I hope he divorces her and tries to make that happen. He settled once he thought he had peaked, more money isn't making him any hotter. Then all he will do is bitch about golddiggers wanting him for his money... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 06:33 PM |
| 18 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.I fucking hate the idea that we OWE men or anyone anything. I don't owe anyone shit. I tolerate other people. I am not mean or make fun or harass anyone. I mind my own business unless someone needs help. I always try to step up because that is the right thing to do. Just because I am a woman is it is not my role in life to be nice and sweet. Hell tell a man to be nice and he will laugh at you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:36 PM |
| 5 | When LVM’s rear their ugly little heads.If he is not willing to respect her culture then how can he respect her? It seems like a symbolic bride price is not that different then a father or other important family member walking a bride down the aisle at her wedding. It used to be about transferring "ownership" of the bride to the husband but now it is just a symbol of her starting a new life with someone she loves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Gross! 🤮If my husband said something like that after I birthed our daughter it would have been the last time he saw my vagina. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 25 | Needing some support. I am fuming. Boy moms are fucking worst.Save those texts. Next time the asshole comes over record him. She is almost an adult and does not have to go with him if she doesn't want. You can't force her. But she has to tell him and then go to court because this is abuse. She is NOT responsible to keep her stepmonster's son from acting like a molester. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:45 PM |
| 4 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastAnd I feel guilty because I steal pillows and blankets in my sleep so I can wrap myself up in the like a nest. We solved it by my partner having separate blankets and extra pillows on the bed. I also freak out if we don't change the sheets every week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:38 PM |
| 54 | Patron saint of women who don’t want to talk to you on public transitI might make an exception if you on your own initiative stay minimum 2 meters away and there also isn't anybody else coming towards me or hanging around. Our last house was in the burbs and on a corner so occasionally people would stop and ask for directions if we were outside. I was outside playing with my daughter and a guy stops. He got so mad at me because I wouldn't come right up to his car to give directions. I insisted on staying way out of reach. It must be nice to not have to worry abou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 09:46 PM |
| 6 | ThE BoTs ArE CoMiNg!Nothing wrong with fleshlights or vibrators but when someone made a lovedoll that looked like a little girl that is where you have to start asking WTF is going on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 11:02 PM |
| 30 | I got me a divorce kitty 😆 Man better treat me better and love me as much as this little guy does to get me to spend time with him 😁 Burmese/Siamese snuggle monkey 💕Being a crazy cat lady My retirement plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:58 PM |
| 40 | Say it louder for these predatory men! 👏🏼 👏🏼Remember we didn't start menstruating at such early ages as we do now. Average age for girls first period was 15-16 not that long ago in pre-industrial times. But we have such better health care and nutrition our bodies are developing earlier and earlier. So having a child at those ages while not ideal isn't as physically damaging as it is at 11 or 12. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:19 AM |
| 68 | Say it louder for these predatory men! 👏🏼 👏🏼That is what killed any foundling interest I had in K-pop. The girls groups are basically put together to attract pervs and have these nasty meet and greets where the men and get touchy with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:15 AM |
| 194 | 😭😭😭😭being known as "Mom" and not my own name That is one thing I hate about being a Mom. No matter what I do in life being a mom defines me. The headlines will never read "Cute AF Local Woman Ran Off With 1 Million Dollars" no it will be "Mom ran of with 1 million dollars, family wonders who will make turkey for Thanksgiving?". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:40 PM |
| 7 | 😭😭😭😭Thank you for that nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 22 | And here we have NVM/LVMs who whine about paying for a first date huhSame. I am always prepared if anyone needs a pad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 10:46 PM |
| 39 | Where being a pick me will get you.I agree. I feel more like she was forced into the sex. I wouldn't necessarily call it rape. But you are running on no sleep taking care of a newborn, your body HURTS, hormones are all over the place, and you have your no good husband hounding you for sex makes this sound like she just didn't have the energy or the ability to say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Where being a pick me will get you.I am severely anemic. I have had to have numerous blood transfusions and go to Hematologist for IV iron infusions. I know how horrible a 7 hemoglobin level feels. I have passed out, gotten so shaky, unable to get warm, felt light headed, sleepiness, etc... but a 4?? I can't imagine how bad that poor woman felt and she was in no condition to care for herself or a newborn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:54 PM |
| 5 | “Womanly” activities are cooking, cleaning, caretaking & appearances 🤢You know what makes me feel like a woman? Going to the shooting range and channeling all the badass women I admire. I cook and clean because I love good food and clean house. It has nothing to do with being a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:48 AM |
| 94 | This. I felt this was since i was 13 and got exposed to hardcore porn. People told me that i will change my mind when i grow up. But now i'm 21 and still feel this way, even worse now after my encounters with men and all the misogynyI agree. My husband never asks for oral but I do offer it. He love to give it though and is a very sexually giving person. I feel safe with him and like giving him pleasure. I have had partners who made me feel bad and dirty about giving them oral. I was young and felt that it was one of those things you had to do even if you didn't like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 12 | Classic example of scrote stringing his forever girlfriend along. I hope she dumps himI never understand why women have children with men who won't commit to them. If he won't commit before you have a kid then he is not going to commit after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 08:21 PM |
| 85 | There's this new Tiktok trend of singing this song to your girlfriend 'Why Beer is better than Women' and watching her reaction, and it's not just the kids doing it. Disgusting, once you hear the lyrics..And when you get mad they are all like "why can't you take a joke?" but you make one crack about how they should go suck down a bottle of beer the next time they are in the mood they get pissy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:33 AM |
| 14 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”No woman in her right mind tells her man to go watch porn to learn how to please her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:21 PM |
| 20 | FYI, r/Sex is now refusing to let porn addiction be discussed freely because it’s “sex negative” and only promoted by communities with “dubious ideas”. Reminder that your choices on the “neutral” subs are being made *for* you and it’s always pro-porn no matter how much evidence you find against it.If you make a LVM or NVM feel that their orgasm is threatened they will burn you like a witch. It matters way more than anything in their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 38 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisSupporting porn and the "sex industry" is supporting human slavery and sexual violence. https://stoptraffickingdemand.com/facts/ https://endsexualexploitation.org/prostitution-and-sex-trafficking/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 4 | The gaslighting this woman experienced is unreal. Let this serve as a reminder of why not to get involved with a LVM.OK maybe this is my Midwestern nativity but unless he lives in a Nordic country or Japan, isn't Sauna just code for gay man's bathhouse where guys go to have don't ask don't tell sex with other guys? I have never heard of a straight man's public sauna in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 6 | FDS hitting 100k but men STILL be like...Wow just wow. I can see getting coffee when you don't know someone IN A PUBLIC PLACE. I used to do that and then if he isn't a dud go grab dinner but a FIELD? WTF? Not today Mr. Serial Killer not today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 11 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾If I was going to buy someone a PS5 it would be ME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 23 | Where is the lie though???I don't even care about the price too much but don't buy me shit. I won't wear cheap, ugly, fake, or toys. How is your finger turning green romantic. I would not be with a man who wouldn't buy me jewelry as long as we can afford it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 37 | Where is the lie though???Then we compliment a guy and the first thing he does is assume we want to fuck him. No thank you. I don't need some dog sniffing around me just because I said that I liked his tattoo or shirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:36 AM |
| 14 | Share your stories of men and how they deal with our periods! HVM, LVM, NVM, advice and anything!!!My husband gives no fucks about periods. If I need pads or tampons or when our daughter was at home, he was always picking up supplies otw from work or on grocery runs. One time he forgot the brand I told him to pick up so he told me he asked the woman working there and told me she recommended the kind he got. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 3 | From a thread where a man said that they need explicit instructions for them to do something for their SOs. Imagine being the wife of this man, how sad is this :(IDK I always make a list of things I would like for my birthday, Christmas, Anniversary, Mother's Day, etc... It is just suggestions to give him an idea of what I would. For example if there are any books I want or special fandom items or since I am into cooking things for that. He does the same for me. We don't stick to the list but it gives us an idea of what the other person wants and what we can get with our budget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 4 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.I always thought whoever did the asking did the paying. It had nothing to do with expecting sex or affection. It was just manners. I never minded paying when I did the asking but if someone expected me to pay after asking me out then that would have been our last date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:54 PM |
| 6 | We all know why.Leaving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:03 AM |
| 6 | HVM dropping FACTSStill good advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:38 AM |
| 7 | HVM dropping FACTSMods I wasn't sure if I needed to blur his name since he is famous and that is his twitter account. Please let me know if I need to change it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 7 | Please fuck the robot and leave me alone. No loss on my half.The type of man who would want that instead of a live woman isn't worth any woman's time. I will laugh every time they get hacked or the programming messes up and they beat the shit out of their rapists or rip their dicks off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:01 PM |
| 4 | She had me in the first half 😂I don't care if he cheats on me with a hole in the wall with tits painted on it and gives all my money to his meth head brother, I am down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 09:11 PM |
| 39 | “Real men get vasectomies!”Dr Anthony Youn.men HATE, HATE, HATE paying for child support this is what I don't get. Every LVM on Reddit thinks child support is a personal vendetta against men so you would think there would be a line wrapped around the doctor's office waiting to get neutered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:52 PM |
| 108 | Hopefully after leveling up, we choose neither!I miss times when nerds were actual intelligent guys YES! Smart is so sexy. Being able to tell me all about their favorite anime is not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Liberal Feminists waiting for "Feminist Porn" featuring "Strong, Empowered, Women being pleasured" to become mainstream.good bot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:21 PM |
| 29 | Liberal Feminists waiting for "Feminist Porn" featuring "Strong, Empowered, Women being pleasured" to become mainstream.No. Porn relies on human trafficking and exploitation of poor and desperate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:20 PM |
| 21 | Beware of men who care about 'body count'these LVM will slander women for having numerous sexual partners while simultaneously trying to get in your pants on the first date. Can't have it both ways fellas. Even as a teen I never understood this. Why shame a girl for wanting sex and then beg her for it. I know I held on my virginity longer than I wanted to because of shaming. When consensual, sane, and done with protection sex is fun and shouldn't be something anyone feels bad about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 05:13 PM |
| 16 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Thank you. I was going to have to go look up what that was in Freedom pounds and inches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:20 PM |
| 106 | Men: You get what you giveIt was like this man baby crying on a post because no pretty girls will go out with him because he wasn't rich or handsome..blah blah blah.. I asked him how many average girls he asked out and he said none. I replied that he didn't deserve any dates since he was "too good" for average women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 11:32 PM |
| 62 | We are really expected to be work mules from birthhe was a hard worker and did all he could for family. That makes him a HVM in my book. It's not about money or status but about putting in the time and effort to be good man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:54 AM |
| 26 | TrueThat is the only reason I could think of wanting to go on it. No man is worth fighting with 20 some other women over. I watched half of an episode just to see what the big deal was and I had to turn it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:24 AM |
| 27 | Pickmeisha asks for advice on what to do with boyfriend who wants to hire a prostituteDude already slept with a prostitute on this trip and is now afraid that one of his friends will say something and it will get back to his new GF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 08:04 PM |
| 20 | LVMs watching Miss UniverseFrom the look in that dog's eyes he has seen stuff...bad nasty stuff... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:15 PM |
| 15 | Funny that he is treated like a God in Hollywood and nobody is calling him outMen are gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:19 PM |
| 31 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.The thing that always pisses me off is the guy who is jealous of his own baby because he isn't the first priority anymore. He can't handle that his wife/gf put the baby first over his needs. Everytime I see a man complain that his partner is too into motherhood what he is really saying is that she is too busy taking care of a tiny human to be his mommy/sex toy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 05:17 PM |
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