listAmbitions Archive

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0	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups.	Discussion	listAmbitions	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 05:23 PM

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1	Price of being a chad Nice. You said you finger more than bj. So you mean you get them there, move the panties to the side and hmm massage the wet pussy lips while like kissing? I could totally see doing that. Because I am more of a giver type in sex I think.	/r/seduction	12/07/22 01:14 PM
1	Price of being a chad How do you get them to toilet? You ask hey let's go to the toilet or take em by the hand or? I will give it a go as well i think	/r/seduction	12/07/22 11:45 AM
1	Price of being a chad How many have you gotten? I always wonder if chicks are into that. I understand getting fucked. But just giving a bj must not be so exciting for them. I know a indian chick who had sex in a club toilet like 3x in a year.	/r/seduction	10/07/22 02:41 PM
1	Price of being a chad Yeah kissed a white tongue chick and i have this fucked up brohnitis for 6 weeks now. But I think it is from a wisdom tooth infection. I really do not like the white tongues. I mean just get a bicarb soda based toothpaste or scrub with seasalt.	/r/seduction	10/07/22 02:39 PM
2	Anyone else feel like they're missing the bus to a fun sex life in their 20's? You can still bang like crazy in 30s. No issues whatsoever. And age is not a thing. Believe me lol	/r/seduction	04/07/22 07:50 PM
1	he is a 10/10 but has no social media. what he is? Well I am the same. Not a 10/10 but a 9/10 probably. Get harassed by women a lot aka touching me and stuff. And compliments. Last week I approached a 23 yr old chick on the street and later found myself thinking if I should become another social media slave. Encounter was short (2min) and had not much to work around with. Left a high emotion but also a tid bit of akwardness. I can easily conver to kisses, romance in 10-15mins like yesterday with some chick. So I have awareness and sensitivity, i…	/r/seduction	04/07/22 06:36 PM
1	Where are all the good men sub has really become toxic. Yeah can heal anything yep and then enter he market. Some never do the work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 09:09 PM
1	Where are all the good men sub has really become toxic. Spreaded everywhere as if the light was turned on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 09:03 PM
2	What do women think of muscles on men and which is body type preferred? Apparebtly also abdoninal saggital diameter and trunkal fat mass were use as markers lol. Anyways 25% free serum insulin is pretty insane difference. Good to know. Lean and fit is they way to go(if possible I guess)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 06:54 PM
1	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? I know some playboys 6in shorter than me. Way better womanizers than me. Also I could be skinny fat and would get 0 I am pretty sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 06:48 PM
1	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? 6"2 and lean, fit. I do look pretty. I think even very good. But I think just illustrating the other shortcomings is a good to put out there. And I do believe that the good convos were everything for creating attraction. But to think of it now i would have gotten maybe 20% without connecting super well, just via looks. 80% it was about connecting. But I mean I am fit because I really stress myself to do pushups all the time. It is an uphill. So it is super-earned. Every day I have to think about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 04:36 PM
3	What do women think of muscles on men and which is body type preferred? How does insulin sensitivity relates to body fat?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 04:14 PM
2	What do women think of muscles on men and which is body type preferred? Same. They had no clue before. I am otterbox	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 04:01 PM
2	What do women think of muscles on men and which is body type preferred? Nice Input. I was wondering this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 03:55 PM
2	What do women think of muscles on men and which is body type preferred? I wonder if it works like this. I can't believe an overweigth woman would seriously cosider otter type. Rather they are "realistic" and look for something bigger as well. Or maybe so they do not look big when hanging out together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 03:51 PM
1	Which is better - Emotional Bond or Physical Bond? Lol both. I had some chick who I was not physically attracted to. Nothing will happen. Had some chick I was not emotionally attracted, well 3 times bang max. Not even hang.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 10:09 PM
0	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? I pulled the first 20 chicks with a limp dick. They still loved me. Was on min wage, unemployed mostly. But my personality was dope. That is the connecting point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 09:03 PM
1	True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here ARE Good that you appreciated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 02:36 PM
1	Discussion about beautiful girls and not looking good guys in the club Well I am a dude with options and there were o hot chicks in the clib. But bitchy judgemental composure. Just bad people. Dancing and "dancing fun etc" I avoided em like the plague. There were loads of sweet, kind chubby girls with good cups and all that and I am in a club to spend time with fun people. Not to pull. So i just danced with them. And would have had a chat if they wanted. Or even went home with em of they were not too pushy. It is all about he energy rather than reducing people into…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:42 PM
0	This girl almost immediately added me as a close friend on Instagram. Very curious she seems. High interest either as a buddy or maybe more. Might be cultural interest for a westerner. Either eay you have a lot of leverage. Probably let her build/compound emotional interest a bit more by doing less input. Do video calls if possible. Not sure how to get there tho. They will love you even more after that.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:29 PM
3	True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here ARE 'Well active in dating' is not a representation of normal population as well. It's about top 25% of both sexes who have a bit of looks, a bit of social skills and clothes etc and IG profiles with a lot of pics to choose. Others have the potential for all this but are inactive, shy, low self esteem probably. Yeah 75% population has a bit low self esteem. I would not adjust the norm but rather say that most people perceive themselves as boring. Who are reddit users in general? Some sort of people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 01:12 PM
1	Tips for guys struggling with cold approach……don’t clear the pipes. I'll see in a week. Hope so. Loved the boldness and not giving a f I felt yesterday	/r/seduction	30/06/22 09:36 AM
1	I always get romantic interest, never sexual tho. Bridge the gap. They love it	/r/seduction	29/06/22 11:55 PM
1	What does it mean when you’re texting a girl and she says Hello with this emoji 🙂? Granny uses these But basically nothing can be intepreted	/r/seduction	29/06/22 11:52 PM
0	I always get romantic interest, never sexual tho. Lick nipples finger em for starters	/r/seduction	29/06/22 11:42 PM
1	If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl? Saw an avg chick today wirh no bra (just top)and was thinking. If I was stuck in some project with her with 20ppl in a cottage for two weeks and she'd be the hottest there I would torally go for her. Very motivated. Since I was in a big city on a sunny day and many others were also no bra etc walking past like 200 people on the square passing by ten I would not even bother ever with her since there are so many hotter chicks everywhere that I like more. And she was like avg of 200 ie. 100 were be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 11:05 PM
1	Tips for guys struggling with cold approach……don’t clear the pipes. I did not jerk off for 3 days and was limping home today. Pain was so unbearable. Could bot even fap because pain killed the erection. I wonder if I am the only person like this.	/r/seduction	29/06/22 09:36 PM
5	When wanting to get some from a dude, do y’all think they think about what their kids will look like or they jus wanna get railed by an attractive dude Most probably not excactly a thoroughly-thought and carefully articulated claim with a lot of meaning. Just flirt. But could be a sign of high level physical attraction. In another context than reciprocation. I as a dude could say that some chicks are so hot that I wanna go raw and blast inside because the babies would come our godesses. Like one in a couple of thousand girls. But saying that can fck their minds pretty deeply, so I prefer to not play with them. And am not intellectially or emoti…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 03:02 PM
0	What are you and why? (Also why are you here?) (Purposely talking nonsense to illustrate level of (un)awareness) I have no awareness of the pills, except that they are schoolschooter incels who lack a evolved emotionally soothing and beautiful personality or lack masculine drive and awareness of what that concept means. Pills are some self-improvement dudes who have some matrix view of life and not sure but seem somewhat delusional as well. Again just impressions, do not take too seriously. Kinda funnily expressing it. Thought I'll come and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 02:46 PM
2	Does the average guy really not get casual sex? Hope shit gets better for you. Study like a motherfuck3r. I speant years going trough materials. Even now I spend half a day using searches and making notes here. Firsthand descriptive experiences can be useful. Also coach corey wayne helped me to keep my cool and evolve beyond drama. Rsd max the natural helped me to take action. But you have to self study integrity and rspect. It did not cover that really. Also without therapy I'd be some evil, raging inside troll splashing venom online to peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 11:01 AM
1	How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women) Oh, interesting lol that you receive hand touching. I used to have super fit hands but then again not big..maybe it is a thing. I meant the ones grabbing like in a hostel kitchen without even knowing me were the crazy ones. Not in bedroom lol. This is super okay. But yeah gotta downregulate my online smartass a bit. It is addictive posting here. Thanks for the good vibe tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 08:35 AM
2	Should I read much into it??! Sounds like a female wing to me. Or mostly friend bonded at this moment. Can change it probably, fepends how highly she looks at you. Hm but if friend gave insta and seems to be up for meeting and you like her, it might be a good idea,. Otherwise she would have clit-blocked her probably. Or will step in at some point. By messaging you or the friend will tell you to check up with her. I think they are a bit slow/ wishy-washy in these romantic things. Tbf I don't know either. Little data.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 10:44 PM
3	how many dates do you guys personally usually wait until sex? I had the same story. Many dudes actually lol. It's a trauma and then catching up for the lost time. I did the same stuff 4 years ago when accelerated or something but once 30 hits you might start respecting chicks with a more patient pace. It's sexy in it's own way. But maybe just me. I think I can see your perspective. Must be verry passionate, like an exception. I am not sure I'f the best thing ro connect through. But if also emotional side is strong then abaolutely fine. Or even special. But…	/r/seduction	27/06/22 09:04 PM
1	how many dates do you guys personally usually wait until sex? How old are you? Maybe a bit age related.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 08:48 PM
4	how many dates do you guys personally usually wait until sex? First is a bit easy for me at least. I don't think she is a much of a catch really if so easy. Women are stronger with withholding and should be comfy of losing you. But second is fine. 3rd max.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 08:36 PM
1	Question to tall guys I always stare tall people. I mean it is just so interesting to see those large beings. I also ask their height sometimes. Usually 202 or 210 cm. Height is good tho. Not bad stares I am sure. Also not sure if you feel comfy in your skin. Some body oriented psychotherapy could be good. Probably best thing one can do for themselves/accelerate growth.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 08:30 PM
2	Is she still interested? Do not rush. A week probably. And then " hey how have you been doing" ask if she wanths to get together some time. Wait for response. Then ask when she is free.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 08:12 PM
2	Anyone of you keeping track of how many girls you have slept with? If so, how many and how old are you? Everyone likes a sweet caring dude with a sense if humor and his own life. Even as a male bro to hang out. You gotta become that bro.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 07:46 PM
2	Anyone of you keeping track of how many girls you have slept with? If so, how many and how old are you? 40 or so In last 4 years. Age early 30's I feel like shit tho. Also my Tinder gets no matches. Photos are 5 yrs old when I was a people pleaser. Chicks are not into assholes really, but also not into submissive tag-behind dudes. All have been with cute sweet chicks after emotional chemistry and sincereness	/r/seduction	27/06/22 06:23 PM
6	How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women) Ya lol. I read some threads where chicks told what turns em on physically. Firstly they are not by far like men who are visual. Coach corey wayne talks about this. Hands was pretty popular tho. So I just use a 5 usd stretch band and have ripped arms lol. Chest just comes with pushups. And slim fit shirts from anywhere lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 05:32 PM
10	How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women) You are right. I remembered him with less muscle. I would point out tho that with low bodyfat abs become visible on their own. Minimal training. And I mean if no fat all muscle is visible. Also with less muscle he would still be hot. Chest plates 0,5in thick rather than 1,5 that he has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 04:40 PM
1	Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere? Soyboy Estrocel	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:56 PM
1	Displaying kindness can be attractive as true benevolence often comes from a position of abundance and confidence Healthy women are attracted to masculine kindness. Insecure scum is attraced to people putting other people down. Although they do not know what love is. If they would they would go for that. The whole badboy myth comes from social clicks where the agressive assholes dominated the group with violence. Once people go past their puberty and enter the real world these bullies end up sitting on a park bench with a bottle of beer, no dental care and 9 years of school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:52 PM
2	Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the same I am a chad with loads of options. Had freakishly hot women. Skinny waist and cups in middle of alphabet. I choose girls based on the beauty of their personality. It is sooo scarce to be non-selfish and genuine and kind, but also have some drive. I'd have a LTR with a 5 any time over a dating with a 10 who has an average personality. I can't even imagine having a LTR worh someone like that. Why the fuck. I think incles are porn addicts who project their own shallow visually based values onto oth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:48 PM
5	Does the average guy really not get casual sex? Horrible view. Go travel. Many are sincere. They just like educated men which lack in these village-populated counties. People are not scummy. Maybe 5%. If you think more then you had some narcissists on your proximity as a child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:29 PM
7	Does the average guy really not get casual sex? Getting it once in 180 days sounds pretty bad indeed. I mean 20 yr old dudes with gfs bang 3x a day. We are biochemically made for it. So hard to stop and such a turn on to have a naked chick as a little spoon and wake up with a boob in your hand and a hard on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:26 PM
9	How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women) I am a calistetics guy. Honestly 30min a day when I remember a day a week. A lot of flexing tho lol. Every day 20min. Muscle awareness and tense-release. I eat paleo, so 1,5 pounds of meat a day with veggies. So bodyfat probably around 7. Lately around 10 but my legs are pure muscle, chest is muscle without fat layer. A bit on stomach lately but sides are clean. Hands and back only muscle and skin. I have 40 year old chicks say that now after meeting me they finally know what their bodytype pref…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:17 PM
-10	How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women) So you are a dude? Or a chick. Or gay or straight?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:06 PM
17	How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women) Shirtless brad pitt from fight club is a good example I like to give. Just a bit of home workout and a bit of carb watching can get you there. No need for the protein gym hulk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:05 PM
10	How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women) Happy for you mate! People can learn from this. Unless victims who just want to justify their worldviews.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:03 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. A good meal can be considered instant gratification. So you should stop wasting your time enjoying food? Nothing wrong with mutually sought after beautiful sexual experiences. I have gone in detail in comments. I move fast but sex by 2nd date is not exaclty an out of this world thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 02:29 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Bullshit. I met chicks with 10 year relationships and they were not aware of owning a clitoris. Dude climbed on top once in the evening and went for 2 mins. Met multiple with decades of "boyfriends" I'm sorry to say this but your worldview seems quite limited and you seem pretty confy making negative absolutistic judgements which can turn into beliefs and hurt people. You seem to spread em with ease. Not exactly lifting people up. But I guess what you express externaly is a mirror of your intern…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 02:27 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Good thoughts. I guess I still needed to see that I can actually get some. I still get rejected by pretty much every white mean sorority chick and feel worthless at times. I think I will do some decent photos for Tinder. Ans sleep with a couple of high value women who I first inform about what is going on. And then sit down and realize that I can actually get some really good people and can cool down and let go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 02:22 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. I wonder if it was like this. What data we have. Jealousy is very human and people act on it. But did we have monogamies on these 70ppl groups I am not sure. I really think horny people did quickies. Apes secretly do when the alpha ape is looking away. So the non alphas can also bust some. And the females seem to enjoy it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 02:16 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Yeah interesting stuff. In gorilla groups only they grayback bangs. Everyone else gets a punch in the face for any approach lol. Also in terms of group hierarhy it is more stable to have some leaders and more followers. But yeah I am not sure if it applies. I Really do not want to cast anyone into a permanent frame. There are so many transformation stories. I had a blind massause who found a blind chick and made a kid. He was 30 maybe. But sexual frustration is a thing. It is an irrirant. I mean…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 02:11 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. /Not replying to you, but following up with your thought :) I think there is around 100mil women currently on the planet with chopped off clitorises. Or got stiched on the onset of periods. Female genital mutilation. They chop em with razors. 5 african countries where 95% plus of teenage girls get the "procedure". Muslims. Guess who is doing it to them? Guess. It the old women from the group who pass it on to younger. It was done to them by older women as well. It's anti-slut pride and a shame t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 01:39 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Don't let these fears grow too big. Yiu can really miss out. It's sometimes tied to general health fears. Condom helps a lot. Also no prostitutes, skanky low esteem girls who do raw with strangers. I do not drink so stupidity is out of equation. Never sleep with chicks who do drugs. I don't even do stoners. Also no anal. Never let anyone with oral herpes blow. Or kiss them. Also do not go down if it smells bad. At mininum a harmless bacteria. If smells like bread then chlamydia. Or yeast. Also r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 01:06 PM
3	It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-related Just learn from coach corey wayne. He transformed me. Has 2000 vids on youtube. I even found his name from reddit lol. I think i looked his stiff for a year pretty actively and integrated. And did visualisations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/22 09:58 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. That is why I do not date and give wrong signals. No intention to hurt anyone. Also what do you base your claim on? What is the potential situation that would cause it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/22 05:34 PM
1	Do women as they approach mid 20s / 30s start to cut out male 'friends' from their life? Yeah I have had people reject me their insta and i do bot want most people in there. Makes your network visible...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 10:48 PM
1	Sexless men hated by society will change the political landscape in the next decade Muhammad was a fucking incel	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 10:42 PM
0	Sexless men hated by society will change the political landscape in the next decade I have a friend who is in bottom 3% in looks He hooked up with 4 girls in last two weeks. He has social skills, nice clothes and really tries to socialize with everyone. Kinda like the glue between people. So the 97%... well could perhaps have some as well. And yeah he bangs 3's and 5s, but who have tits of a 10 some times. Incels get bad rep because they have victim neurosis. And neurosises in general. Isolation and hypotises do not go well together. And the subculture is obsessed by jawline ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 10:40 PM
2	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Never cheated, never will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 10:19 PM
3	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Good for you. You can and then again why not keep doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 10:16 PM
2	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Ah yeah, sorry the text was possible to be misintepreted. Yeah. Good looking dude shows up with crappy shirt and knows no bachata and has same outcome lol. And I am not sure if pays, I'd say maybe compromises. Or works harder. Or yeah, in some cases downright pays a bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 10:04 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Okay. Thanks again for articulating that stuff. Lol philosophically looking at it I am not from US and the term hookup might have gotten distorted travelling across the ocean. So my definitions: Hookup: for sex only with people you do not really click that much. What I do: hit of really well, have fun, move silly fast. Also, I never have sex on first date because I do bot know if they are safe. I Do like to aim for it but inside i know I do not want it. Also rarely I end up with a lunatic with a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 09:31 PM
2	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. I have seen enough data on reddit etc of short bald dudes getting some. Some like big booty so they go for slightly chubby chicks. They wont get the prime quite frankly yeah. Unless kind sad 9/10 looks girl. They are out there as well. But I mean I accept them if they like it and well. If they dance bachata well and have a job and a nice shirt and hygene ans some confidence I do not see a problem. I really don't. 70% of the weight of your game is internal as a man. Some chicks pass you with 70% …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 09:20 PM
4	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. If you are sweet, kind a fun(not to impress) then most girls are keen to cuddle. If one is average looking just go for average looking girls. No problem. I would not shame anyone for their looks. Not a choise really. Which illustrates the parallel of a healthy sex life and easy to bond personality. So a lack of a sex life indicates...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 09:01 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. I'm telling you lol. I knew a dude who passed mensa test, highly rational and sensible. Not sure if it means anything. Dont want to promote elitism or put people into brackets. I discussed my stuff with him. But he said he just downregulates his drive as well by jerking off i think every day. So he can do research. Otherwise just needs sex and spends a lot of time with partner search. He had been off sex for a year. He was very nice personality and good looking I think. Bonobo apes have sex 6x a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 08:43 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Thanks mate	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 08:28 PM
2	Straight women who have had (or hope to have) "hookups" or "one night stands" or whatever, what made you do it? Or, what would make you do it? What attracts/attracted you to that person? Sorry bro, did not reply to you. Clicked on wrong comment. All the best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 08:20 PM
2	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Thanks a lot. I think you reflect what is on my mind as well. The thing is that all the "bros out there" hooked up. And some brag. So I always felt that I was not the bar stud. I am not loud nor have a beard lol. And well until 27 I had almost nothing. I was afraid of death so bad since i never knew what sex is. And I agree that 5am stinky/sweaty hookup with a stranger is just silly. So fuck the bodycounters They are probably more confused than I am. Also sex goes with emotional bonding and safe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 08:17 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Yeah bro, thanks. You point something out. I see it as well, will not pull the guts out in this thread tho. I really appreciate your attention to clarify my growth points. I will get trough. Came a long way for the baggage I had already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 08:06 PM
3	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Luv ya bro lol. Thanks i like your perspective. I will think about it. Maybe we should educate the mankind more about those topics. In darkness demons form. In light they dissapear. Taboos are the fucking plague. I am also anti wife-enslaving(islam) Jung said that whatever you repress will grow and head becoming more primitive. I do not slut-shame. I needed the first 10 naked pairs of tits because all i had seen was porn until 27 basically. I had a whole collection downloaded. Teenage boners+lac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 08:01 PM
2	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Nah, I think I am fine. This is how life is. People in 20s date and kind of are like on the lookout of "what is a good partner and what qualities I like" So a lot of trial. I guess what makes rhw differnce is that fortunately I have access to very good looking women. They get so much attention that they do not need me per se. So there is not a lot of trauma involved. They have some nice dudes hitting on thwm in a bar all the time. And some hookups with nice slow and mutually understanding detach…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 07:35 PM
2	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Hey I really appreciate your input. Hmm well the thing is I do not do hookups. And I made the post battling with confusion for a biological built. Because I am not intereted in random sex either. Dates are alyways fun and physical chemistry is there. They often touch me and we laugh a lot. And are vulnerable etc. Some indian girl just told me that she had sex 3 times in a club toilet sonvmxe she came to study in europe. Hookups I would assume 20+ in a year she has been in Europe Just getting all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 07:28 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Yeah I conveyed my message wrong in OP. That is the thing I do not like the hole. They do not need to ask. I tell everyone that I am very active and it should be obvious ao they get their expectations straight. Later less drama for me. Ofcourse I am super hygenic. Always a condom. And as I said one a month currently is bot that much... The ones I get are aleays suoer healthy, don't drink, smoke, have self love and just like spending time with someone for some days since they have been single for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 07:15 PM
5	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Some women want hookups And now I am asking if I should be the pump.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 07:00 PM
1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Lol i think i messagesd as if i want to use them. The whole point is that i dont. But the society wants. So I am like "I do not want to fuxk random people" but the girl wanted yesterday. I would rather meet people I empathize with. Be genuine friends etc. But yeah I start to seem that i need to do some conclutions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 06:58 PM
-1	What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups. Probably bad idea to astart arguing because it is essentially an emotional reaction coming from an disturbed state. But I have good girls who really love me and they can get charismatic dudes who have their shit together. More than I. So I do not lie. Also I am sweet and vulnerable and upfront. Also I do not sleep with people in relationships. Also i only sleep with the peak 5% of women who are dun, genuine, safe, non-needy, non-insecure. If they seem insecure i will not go for a kiss. I never f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 06:54 PM
1	Straight women who have had (or hope to have) "hookups" or "one night stands" or whatever, what made you do it? Or, what would make you do it? What attracts/attracted you to that person? Broken chicks with attachement issues. Not even the clingy ones. Can be the opposite aka cold. They do not have exactly a great self-Image. Mommy put their unworthiness causing words into their little brains at age 4. Later the new networks were added to the old. CBT does not reach that stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 06:22 PM
1	Straight women who have had (or hope to have) "hookups" or "one night stands" or whatever, what made you do it? Or, what would make you do it? What attracts/attracted you to that person? I think forum-incels with their worldviews sourced from thinking in their heads and imagining stuff in isolation are aliens lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 06:09 PM
1	The Red Pill is actually quite helpful I tjink the value of RP is that is helps polarize by the ridiculousness of what they claim. It makes the subcontious fantasies visible. And makes people move on from the jawline bs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 02:36 PM
1	It’s a numbers game for men, but women don’t want to be treated like numbers? I don't mind a girl sucking 3 dics a day if she is honest about it We all have needs. But lying is ugly. Some of the worst are the ones who have had like 2 relaitionships in their whole life by 30. And are shy and full of taboos from their jealous incel exes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 02:31 PM
2	How to spot good women? Coach corey wayne on YouTube. He has a lot of videos about healthy women and also red flagsm. helped me immensely. Amazing relationship education. Complete life turnaround	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 02:15 PM
1	Older guys are not dating young girls Youngsterd are hard to talk to. I'm 31 ans active dating life and the jokes would just not land with under 23s	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 02:10 PM
11	Would you take a bcp for men if it was on the market ? Only in very safe and exclusive. But honestly the amount of dudes going raw once this hits.... not sure if it is safe with anyone anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 02:07 PM
2	Why don’t more men get sex bot? If the feel would be identical and the heat and tissues and skin, I'd bang one all day. Perfect figure etc. I doubt that some rubbery smelling cold weird texture thing with monotone tissue type is anywhere close currently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 10:00 PM
1	At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man? If you lose it at 40 and then become a funny, sweet dude who is lighthearted about it and has nice romances and flirts with chicks and exchanges physical pleasure then it is still not weird or late. Noone cares about the yesterday. It's who you are today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:58 PM
2	How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why? Hook ups suck. Emotionally distant strangers. Short romances are amazing tho.Anything from an hour two two days. I can easily find action 3 days a week of I wish. But i find it sick when people want me for my body. As a male. I had one hotel meetup with asian girl who just used me for my body. I cried a bit. She had o onteest in my personality. As of I am an object. Narcissists are objects and see others as objects. Why even bother with that shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:56 PM
1	There really is NO WAY of knowing when a woman is FLIRTING with you Learn the process and sequence of arousal. Also a man does the moves. I start in the first minutes. By an three hour mark I have kissed 90% of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:43 PM
2	Why are the professions that society is most reliant on also seem to be the least desirable for a man to have from an attraction standpoint? And why does is it seem so important for a man to have a degree? Also I know idiots with masters. I mean not to judge but a degree is not a guarantee. There are always exceptions to the rule. Fucked up families produce high iq high school educated dudes quite often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:39 PM
5	Why are the professions that society is most reliant on also seem to be the least desirable for a man to have from an attraction standpoint? And why does is it seem so important for a man to have a degree? It's your attitude towards life that makes you sexy. If you judge youself as worthess then you 'suck' even with a phd in physics. And if you are a happy go getter then 8 years of school is enough. Richard Branson does not have much I think. Or I could see it at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:37 PM
6	Competent Men Competency can mean a thousand things. Having 5x the avg salary and a penthouse could still.mean the dude is an incel. It's just maturity and self awareness and self-love. So you are motivated to help yourself. You are the friend who shows up in the rain(for yourself).	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:24 PM
2	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy Happiness is not something that halpens to you. Happiness something you do. So you have it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:21 PM
1	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy Hahaha so true lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:19 PM
1	It’s really not that hard for unattractive guys/guys with typically unattractive traits to get sex from women Lol wish you were here so could give you a soft kiss on your wet lips haha. Haha. Kidding. Sensual is also important tho :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:13 PM
1	It’s really not that hard for unattractive guys/guys with typically unattractive traits to get sex from women Some people just want to whine, blame, criticize. Who wants to listen to this. Obviously no woman wants to hang out with self-made victims of life. Even a dude does not want to listen to this bullshit. Even a dude does not want to hang out with people like this. And then they avoid their feelings by switching to trolling. And then the cycle goes again. Maturity is sexy. Not the opposite of it. Go to good therapists. Not the cognitive plapla bullshit. You need to work with emotions, not just talk…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:10 PM
1	It’s really not that hard for unattractive guys/guys with typically unattractive traits to get sex from women True. More than half will never reach it for sure Even nowadays. 7 was the stats in the past. avg lifetime partners. It takes one fuckboy with 50 and 10 dudes with 2 to get that average lol. Median is more of a thing lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:05 PM
2	It’s really not that hard for unattractive guys/guys with typically unattractive traits to get sex from women Chubby is great. Probably smooth akin and firm Not like pancake cellulite macdonalds. Chubby can be curvy as well. Like people judge ao hard other people and then wonder why noone wants them I even as a dude dont want to hang out with judgemental mean people. Obviously noone else wants as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:02 PM
2	It’s really not that hard for unattractive guys/guys with typically unattractive traits to get sex from women ❤❤ pretty comment, thanks. Dudes who are clueless have some out of the space nerd theories why they can't get laid. Socially normal dudes who know they are loveable and sexually pleasing even when short and bald go for it and move fast. Obviously everyone wants to hang out spend time with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 08:58 PM