| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to demolish your deepest insecurities by asian dating coach David Tian | lisward | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 08:52 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Ever had the game backfire? My Story: THE PSYCHOBut at what cost!! | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 11:09 AM |
| 4 | Everything You Know About the Friend Zone is WRONG'journalism' looool | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 05:23 AM |
| 11 | What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately.I remember that time I brought a girl over and played generation kill, because I wanted to watch generation kill. | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I couldn't get laid in eight years of college. Does this mean I'm hopeless? Should I just give up?Learn to enjoy the process and stop validating yourself based on things you can't control e.g. Whether a girl will sleep with you. If you really just want to fuck go and hire and prostitute. | /r/seduction | 04/09/14 07:50 AM |
| 1 | The "starting strength" of seductionWork on one thing at a time and apply yourself. The texts, the information is all there. People don't fail because of lack of information, people fail because of lack of action. One example would be to get the most circle jerked book on social skills, how to win friends and influence people, and apply the what you learn in your everyday life, then move on to the next thing you want to work on. | /r/seduction | 04/09/14 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Can 'overdressing' be counter-productive?You got challenged and you backed down. In general when it comes to dressing, males often feel offended when another male puts in more effort in the way he dresses/stands out/goes on the risqué side when it comes to dressing, probably due to insecurity. Don't be afraid to stand out. | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 09:44 AM |
| 2 | That's it, I give up on the online datingHuh, maybe, I've never invested enough time in online dating... Perhaps I stand corrected! | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 02:42 PM |
| 2 | That's it, I give up on the online datingHow so, pray tell. Do bear in mind that people also actually want to get with women that they like, not just women in general... If your aim is to just go out with females again I can argue that just approaching is easier. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 12:57 PM |
| 7 | How to handle a relentless guy trying to AMOG?There are many ways to go about it. Personally what I'd do, is completely ignore the person, I don't acknowledge his presence at all. For example he goes up and talks to me, I look at him, and look away, kind of like spilled milk, it distracts you, then you don't think much about it. In general, for this kind of situations you should be unresponsive and chill, point out his bad behavior. For example if when he said 'What? Are you fucking gay, bro?', I would have said, 'Why? you got a problem wit… | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 06:48 AM |
| 4 | That's it, I give up on the online datingLol in fact online dating probably takes more time than actual dating since you need to do all sorts of crap like browse through all the profiles, send messages, reply messages etc. I'd argue it's so much less stressful doing it in real life, just talk to a girl, establish a rapport, ask her out. There are so many things against you too, like it's hard to show off your personality over the internet versus in real life, not to mention the fact that online dating websites have way more men than wo… | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 06:26 AM |
| 2 | How do I get past the fact that I hate dancing and it makes me very uncomfortable?I love dancing, and I have no clue how to dance. It's an extremely great way to escalate. When I ask a girl/girl asks me to dance, what I do is 'prom dance' hugging, a bit of grinding, really just letting her dance, all the while with strong eye contact, almost always end up making out with the girl this way. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 06:22 AM |
| 1 | I'm a male virgin (28) and I'm only attracted to women out of my leagueYou're a superficial person and you've viewing life from a superficial point of view, you'll never be good enough for women more attractive than you, until you realise that attraction goes beyond looks. Look man model women have a lot of access to good looking men, it's extremely easy for a model to hook up with an equally attractive model man, I think what's more important is being a high value, unique man. Anyone can offer looks, what value do you give a woman that is specific to you. The fact… | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 06:07 AM |
| -2 | Small Hands shit testThey make your dick look big | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 03:21 PM |
| 4 | M[21] Could someone please help me with dealing with highly confrontational guys in a charming yet dominant manner in front of the girls ?^ What this guy says. If he comes off brash, react as if you'd react to a glass dropping on the floor, you look at it, then you look away. But know your boundaries, if he crosses it, don't be afraid to tell him off. | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 02:29 PM |
| 2 | How do I tell if a girl is genuinely interested in me?Attration is a combination of these: Value Investment Believablity A woman's attraction for you, at any time, can be measured by the lowest of the three cornerstones of attraction. Value Your value in the woman's eyes. Your social value, your attractive traits. Think, health, confidence, charisma and humor. Your niche value. Are you a bodybuilder, a scholar, a world traveler? Your value to her, think of social value, universally attractive traits, humour, charisma, confidence, status, etc. Inves… | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 04:16 PM |
| -1 | How can I seduce a man?Just ask him for sex. It's relatively easy for a woman to get sex from a man so long as she is reasonably attractive. | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop equating my social value in college with my real value?Be internally referenced and not externally validated. Recognize your own values and judge yourself based on what you value. | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 05:22 PM |
| 2 | What is the correct course of action if you are at a table with nothing to say while a guy is "holding court"?The leader of the conversation isn't the person in the group who talks the most, but the person who the group seeks approval from. Join the conversation, agree, disagree, steer the conversation to a topic of your choice. Your mindset should be, People want to listen to my opinions. | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Be a fucking value giverI personally never neg, I just do playful teasing, but I've put some thought into negging. Is negging like the male version of shit tests? I mean the whole point of shit tests is to make a guy feel insecure right, or rather test a guy on his insecurities? | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 08:53 AM |
| 0 | Never Buy A Girl a Drink.Same thing, paying for the dinner date is investment in her. It's okay to do that, but you need to take note of how invested you are in her, and how invested she is in you. There are a few ways to go about this, usually what I'll do is, I pay for this and you'll pay for Y activity later on. (Come on your first date can't only be dinner right?) By doing this, she's invested also invested money in the date. Some people go dutch, personally I wouldn't. If it's a small purchase, like coffee at Starb… | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 08:31 PM |
| 7 | Never Buy A Girl a Drink.It's about investment. When you buy a drink before you even talk to the girl, you've already invested more inthe interaction than she has. But if the drink means nothing to you it really doesn't matter; whenever I have a table at some nightclub I often bounce a girl to my table for drinks, introducing her to my social circle, raises your value and social proof. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Will Dancing Get You Laid?I don't know how to dance, but social dancing is one of the most powerful and effective tools I use in night clubs. After some banter and S&Q, I bring a girl to the dance floor and dance with her, this works really well when it's a really crowded dance floor and you have people shoving and pushing against each other. I prom dance; pull her close by the waist hug her and let her dance for you. Mix in some grinding, make sure that eye contact is strong, move with her. Escalating has never been eas… | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 09:58 PM |
| 4 | How to build attraction over text over long periods?Stop texting her, wait for her exams to finish, text her again. Be casual about it. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How to build attraction over text over long periods?You need to have a fucking purpose when you send texts, that's most important. Too many guys just send texts to get validation from a female. An important man who fucks a lot of females doesn't have time to banter over texts. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 07:19 PM |
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