literallyou Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
47	My text game is pretty bad	Fundamentals	literallyou	/r/seduction	21/02/24 01:45 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is it fine if I always swiftly develop feelings for a new girl after a rejection? I needed this	/r/seduction	21/03/25 02:18 PM
2	How to keep yourself mysterious when your info is public I think that being mysterious is more about you not sharing it directly, like if they look about it online it is even more interesting	/r/seduction	02/02/25 02:04 AM
1	What do you usually do for the second date? This sounds like an amazing blueprint	/r/seduction	01/01/25 07:06 PM
1	What do you usually do for the second date? Facts, the first date always goes well and then I get ghosted	/r/seduction	01/01/25 07:06 PM
12	How to deal with going from unattractive to attractive? You have to start trying and getting experience, as with everything practice makes perfect	/r/seduction	28/12/24 07:16 PM
3	[ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence! Depends, if I am really interested and interact frequently with her I am willing to work it thorugh. But if we do not interact a lot on the third flake I stop	/r/seduction	27/12/24 03:44 AM
1	how to meet women im in college Join as many societies and extra curricular activities you can, just build a network naturally and be fun. College is an amazing place because you have Clubs Societies Teams Classes Conferences Networking events Parties To meet new people, and by sharing an activity you can build rapport more easily	/r/seduction	24/12/24 05:54 AM
1	When it comes to approaching women, how many phone numbers have you got, and which places have you found the most success in? bars, restaurants, nightclubs, coffee shops, grocery stores, clothing stores, malls, or elsewhere? I have never been able to get a phone on a coffeeshop. I mainly get the numbers in clubs or random encounters	/r/seduction	23/12/24 07:04 PM
3	Your Appearance Isn't The Problem I had a friend who got a nose job and his personality did not change, but the way people treated him did	/r/seduction	22/12/24 02:46 AM
1	How I text girls when I want to get laid (+IRL examples) Make him gilded, you lead us	/r/seduction	20/12/24 09:19 PM
17	Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)? Bro You already fucked up twice Just take a sick day leave and go hel0 with her "furniture"	/r/seduction	22/10/22 02:07 AM
1	What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds? I think it is more where I live, here being an active person makes you look like an outcast... as in, the more you know the less you have value or that you feel better than the rest I try to mix my activities as much as I can but honestly, here most women I meet dont have personalities	/r/seduction	17/10/22 01:19 AM
1	What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds? Trying to, but currently stuck	/r/seduction	16/10/22 03:47 PM
4	We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for them My prpblem is i dont meet anyone I like	/r/seduction	16/10/22 03:47 PM
5	What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds? For me its the opposite, I am full of activities but meet no girls that are my type or interesting enough	/r/seduction	16/10/22 06:18 AM
7	Cute girl at conference Just tell her that Hey I thought you had a cool vibe and felt we didnt interact a lot. While the event lasts maybe we could grab a drink or a bite	/r/seduction	11/09/22 02:54 PM
1	Always some girl has her eyes fixated on me, even when I look at her. When I approach her or say anything to her she start acting weird out and being rude. Nice one	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:52 AM
1	Always some girl has her eyes fixated on me, even when I look at her. When I approach her or say anything to her she start acting weird out and being rude. They crazy	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:41 AM
1	What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t? To get access to top tier women If you work towards yourself, you are improving a product. You also have to know how to market it, one of the key aspects of marketing is how to reach your customers and to determine who is your target market	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:27 AM
2	How do you approach women on the street of a big city? Lol	/r/seduction	04/09/22 08:15 PM
1	How do you make the first approach at the gym If she a baddie bro, just do some fine short interactions and then use that sentiment as your hook "Hey, I thought you had a cool vibe and would love to keep in contact. I wanted to ask you for your number because it would be a shame if we dont run into each other again"	/r/seduction	04/09/22 01:37 AM
-1	How do you make the first approach at the gym It even helps for when they have headphones or you have, because there will be a first ground to build rapport. If she has headphones, you ask her what she is listening to If you have them, you tell her about what you listen and if she likes it Boom profit However... Dont ask for the phone on the first interaction, gyms are places that are frequented. So use that as an intro and slowly build the setting	/r/seduction	04/09/22 01:31 AM
3	Better to say “let me give you my number” or “ let me get your number “ Shoot your digits pretty pretty Out of joke just make a hook as in "We should totally go to this event, what is your number?"	/r/seduction	04/09/22 01:29 AM
8	How do you make the first approach at the gym Make up an excuse, water fountain, get close to the machines she is using or just straight up go and say some random shit like "hey, today the music is terrible isnt it?"	/r/seduction	04/09/22 01:25 AM
2	How long will you put in effort with a bad conversationalist on tinder? Bro, I had a date where I talked and all her replies were like a text	/r/seduction	03/09/22 03:03 AM
10	PSA : you DON'T have to go for a kiss on the first date (this is how I fumbled 2 hotties) Most of the times, when I havent gone for the kiss there is no second date whereas going for the kiss at the right time and with proper set up has gotten me more dates. Last summer I went on a date, this chick was crazy and I thought maybe I should wait a bit to know her more. She took off her mask and started closing the dostance between us but I didnt go for it, she then cancelled the second date and stopped speaking.	/r/seduction	31/08/22 07:09 PM
3	You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things? Kiss her	/r/seduction	30/08/22 05:17 PM
2	why is she very hot/flirty then cold If you ask for advice and not give full information, what kind of advice do you expect?	/r/seduction	25/08/22 10:40 PM
4	why is she very hot/flirty then cold Yes, the problem here is that dudes play mind games to get the girl. Girls play mind games to get your attention but nothing else	/r/seduction	25/08/22 12:04 PM
4	Can you live a happy life without women? No Our only goal as a species is to have children, everything else is a social construct	/r/seduction	25/08/22 02:22 AM
1	She’s hundreds of miles away, but is visiting my area this September- what do I do? Wish you luck!	/r/seduction	24/08/22 06:16 AM
1	She’s hundreds of miles away, but is visiting my area this September- what do I do? Ahhhhhh great difference Then elicit from her, what she considers the best spots in town. Then you give the contrary and play it cool with a small bet such as You love this park, but this arcade is way cooler. If my spot is better, the drinks are on you That way you already secured drinks without any effort	/r/seduction	24/08/22 06:01 AM
1	She’s hundreds of miles away, but is visiting my area this September- what do I do? You could tell her that maybe you should facetime at some point for you to give her tips and tricks about the city. More so, use the parallel technique (write as many lines as her) not to overpush	/r/seduction	24/08/22 05:58 AM
1	She’s hundreds of miles away, but is visiting my area this September- what do I do? Dont need to facetime, just keep going and tell her you will be her guide. That you know the best and most dun places... make her want to see you	/r/seduction	24/08/22 05:54 AM
11	Men Need to Get Out Of Their Romantic Default Yeah lol, by that point she already got 5 new dudes	/r/seduction	24/08/22 05:32 AM
14	Men Need to Get Out Of Their Romantic Default I used to believe what Hitch said... no kiss until the third date. Man, that fucked me up big time	/r/seduction	24/08/22 04:09 AM
2	Twelve Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive Men Nice	/r/seduction	18/08/22 09:28 PM
2	If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or two Bro same, when I started expecting more. I got alone	/r/seduction	16/08/22 10:08 AM
1	What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?" Just reply "why, are you planning on murdering me?" Dont think too much, it is not a test. Also dont stress on that section or she will get nervous, just play it cool and change topic	/r/seduction	14/08/22 09:29 PM
1	Looks Max Guide 2022 Agree	/r/seduction	13/08/22 07:43 PM
43	Would it be weird if I approached girls at a college campus even though I don’t go to college. Take a course	/r/seduction	13/08/22 05:44 PM
7	Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird. Go out with someone else and post on social media. No more texting from your side	/r/seduction	13/08/22 05:12 PM
4	Would you be friends with someone who rejected you? If she dissapears once, she will do it again. She needs attention and validation Orbiting is one of the worst tactics they pull and honestly it angers me so much (male you lose time by pulling your attention and then leaving you doing circles around them)	/r/seduction	13/08/22 01:19 PM
4	Giving out your number to a waitress How do you pull it off?	/r/seduction	13/08/22 12:18 PM
2	This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why? I had a girl that would only call me when she would see me with other girls in my stories	/r/seduction	11/08/22 01:26 AM
3	What to do when a girl who’s a year older then you. Says your year younger Sounds like you are in a good spot. To me it sounds like you are in the flirty/shit test zone. On the top of my head, next time you two are together and she says something like that: tell her that while that year passes you can have fun and reach out for the kiss... let's hear what the others say but you are in a good zone because she has expressed interest and you being a couple has been a conversation Even, you could answer something like "dont worry, I am not attracted to older women" just to…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 03:17 AM
2	What to do when a girl who’s a year older then you. Says your year younger Has she said explicitly that she wont date younger guys? If she always bring up age just play it off cool "I am old enough to have fun" "life has aged me like 10 years the last year"	/r/seduction	09/08/22 03:08 AM
1	How to respond to "what type of trouble do I look like" The fun kind of trouble I like it	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:48 PM
1	Confusing girl Never do something for anyone unless you have laid out the cards first. Better ask her out prior to helping her with anything because of 2 reasons: 1 you feel as if you have invested more than her thus leaving an uneven balance 2 if it is not going anywhere, why help?	/r/seduction	07/08/22 03:48 PM
4	Kareoke is one of the best Environments for seduction. This! I love karaoke bars	/r/seduction	07/08/22 06:00 AM
8	Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since Wednesday Use the delay trick, I learnt it recently "Hey can we say 15 minutes later? Something came up and I don't want to make you wait" That way you sound busy, you are reinstating the date, and also you are having 15 extra mins to do whatever	/r/seduction	06/08/22 03:47 PM
49	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit? Most women just want to have you orbiting them for attention but nothing else	/r/seduction	05/08/22 08:27 PM
1	She's telling me shes interested yet taking long to answer and seems to be ignoring me? She wants you in her orbit, she will tell you nice things from time to time to grab your attention but won't go further	/r/seduction	04/08/22 08:20 PM
1	What works romantically doesn’t always work socially, and vice versa. Agree	/r/seduction	04/08/22 06:33 AM
19	What is it about Pete Davidson He gives the vibe off a project, where he seems weak and flaky which nowadays is gathering more adepts. Look at the rise of Kpop and how women are attracted to Tom Holland, Tim Chalamet and sorts. He seems like non competitive and chill whereas Kanye does not flinch, is unapologetic and is always energetic	/r/seduction	04/08/22 06:11 AM
1	About “If it’s not hell yes!, then it’s hell no! “ saying Agree	/r/seduction	02/08/22 09:33 PM
11	If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. She is being nice and giving another option, just tell her that you are sorry to be busy tonight but thay you are looking forward to Sunday. That way you even sound more interesting	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:38 AM
8	Why do you guys want to make out on the first date I get you man, I had a date the other day and since I thought maybe wait for the second one to kiss she just stopped replying lol	/r/seduction	30/07/22 02:30 AM
9	Strategy: Why it's good to always start off as "friends" Nop, it is a soft reject most of the time	/r/seduction	27/07/22 02:41 PM
1	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? I know, I am exhausted	/r/seduction	23/07/22 12:23 PM
2	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? Lays?	/r/seduction	23/07/22 12:22 PM
12	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? I had 10 dates in the last 3 months 1 asked me to meet her parents after a videocall 2 abused sleeping pills 3 used me to get back with her ex 4 never answered her phone, we went on a date, she asked me out for a second and then ghosted me 5 only talked about her depression 6 would forget the day we are living 7 was so introverted she couldn't handle small talk 8 was scary 9 asked me out and then stopped replying, one month after she said she had been busy 10 we didn't have chemistry	/r/seduction	22/07/22 07:16 PM