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| 26 | Leading through Sobriety | literaryhunter | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/17 06:31 PM | |
| 1 | Sobriety | literaryhunter | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/17 07:08 PM |
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| 8 | [FR] The Plate Affair“reminder that this is a plate only, fuck knows how many of these cab rides she’s done” This is the most telling part of the story. If she’s willing to fuck me, I have to accept that she’s already fucked many others. Some may have been right before me, others may be right after me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm shitty but i don't know what I am responsible for after her leaving....Jesus, dude...where to start? Man up and make a decision to put in the work. Shit is hard right now and it's only gonna get harder after the baby arrives. Your current situation is a result of your past actions. Draw a line in the sand and start making positive decisions to benefit your future self. You didn't get in this predicament overnight and you won't get out of it overnight either. Give her space but be supportive, if not out of love for her, then out of love for your unborn child. Know t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/17 07:49 PM |
| 3 | FR: Reward positive behavior, withdraw from negative behaviorThanks for your FR, it's something to work toward. Am I the only one here that has trouble in the moment remembering that not reacting in a butt hurt way actually positively affects the way I feel? I know that she continually throws out shit tests to get a rise out of me and I'll be damned if I don't occasionally fall for it, especially with the whole restaurant choice drama. As I type this, I realize how foolish it sounds...like I want some clickbait article "10 Simple Ways to NGAF" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/17 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Band of BrothersThere was an old farmer that had some land adjacent to my family's place growing up. He was a lifelong bachelor that drove an old Ford truck with a case of warm beer in passenger seat. Floyd always had a smile on his chubby face and a dirty joke cued up. He lived alone in a run down trailer house and he would hire a girl to clean it about once a year. Well one year the girl gets back into town and can't keep her mouth shut about the place, apparently old Floyd had close to $1M in un-cashed check… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/17 01:49 AM |
| 5 | "My Wife Seemed To Want Me More When I Was On Drugs. Now That I Am Clean Everything Has Changed. Why???"Damn, this post hits home with me. When I was drinking I would actively engage in the arguments that gave my wife the "feels". It was the emotional roller coaster that you describe. Then I went through a numb stage when I first became sober. I was boring and monotonous and she missed her project. After a few months of sobriety, it finally hit me that I needed to go to work on my emotional intelligence...and that's what I think red pill is once you really boil it down. It's an advanced tutorial f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/17 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Leading through SobrietyDamn, you hit the nail on the head. Thanks for all that you do as a counselor. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/17 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Leading through SobrietyNAD is a breakthrough treatment for Addiction, Depression, PTSD, Stress and Chronic Fatigue that has proven to be fast, safe and effective. NAD Therapy is utilized to reduce cravings, minimize withdrawal and restore well being. NAD Therapy directly addresses the chemical damage in the brain that drugs and alcohol caused. Brain cells send signals to one another using a variety of chemicals neurotransmitters. (Serotonin, dopamine, norepinephrine are examples of these). A neurotransmitter is emitte… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/17 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Leading through SobrietyI have the Naltrexone subdermal implant. No chance of forgetting my meds | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/17 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Leading through SobrietyThanks man, I'll take you up on that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/17 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Leading through SobrietyAll valid points. I'm currently in week 6 of 8 at Intensive Outpatient Therapy through the RightStep recovery program as directed by my addition specialist doctor. I will continue making 3 AA meetings per week after completion of the program. Additionally, I will continue my regimen of Naltrexone, B12, and NAD for 2 years as directed by my doc. As for switching addictions, I've definitely noticed an upswing in sweets that's effecting my waistline. You're absolutely right, I don't know shit yet. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Leading through SobrietyI finally accepted that I couldn't control my drinking. I made promises about only having one drink or only drinking beer but couldn't ever keep them. Abstinence is the only solution for me. Thank god for Naltrexone for keeping my cravings at bay. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/17 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Leading through SobrietyHaha, good catch. I guess a better way of putting it was that I was happy and didn't care that she wasn't. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/17 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Leading through SobrietyI'm taking what I spent on scotch and putting it into savings. It will more than pay for my family ski trip this winter. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/17 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Leading through SobrietyThanks, man. I can't take all of the credit...Naltrexone has completely eliminated my cravings. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/17 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Leading through SobrietyAlcohol was always my easy way out. Now that I'm embracing reality, I find life much more rewarding and fun. Give it an earnest go without self-medicating. Find an AA meeting. Get outside your comfort zone. These things are difficult but you can do it! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/17 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Leading through SobrietyThanks! I will continue to stay the course and look forward to my renaissance. New opportunities are already being presented that I never would've dreamed possible. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/17 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Leading through SobrietyI was the epitome of the drunk captain. It was a problem that will never darken my doorway again. Making my regular AA meetings are a constant reminder. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/17 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Captain RamboDamn, that was a really good write-up. Thanks for the share, love the analogies! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/17 07:00 PM |
| 1 | A profound and surprising married red pill exampleI would argue that money is much more important than portrayed in this fictional account and than is being represented in the comments. Women judge men by earning potential as much or more so than physical appearance and personality when choosing long term mates. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | SobrietyThanks, do you have any suggestions to make it more relevant. For me, it touches on everything that MRP is about because if we don't take care of ourselves first then we're never gonna be able to nurture our marriage and family | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/17 02:26 AM |
| 5 | Requesting Advice: Wife texting other man, right on the line of okI think I would try dating my wife again since that sounds like what she's after. Set a lunch date and pick her up from work. Be attractive, get noticed by the hot hostess at the restaurant. Her looks will soon fade while yours should be on the upswing. You hold all the cards so you might as well play it up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/17 02:48 PM |
| 2 | The Key MastersYour comment best clarifies how the above excerpt best fits MRP philosophy for me. I'm my wife's best option, I have other options, and I don't need her. On the other hand; I also realize that she's my best option, she has other options, and she doesn't need me. We choose daily to be together because we want to, not because we need to. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/08/16 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Withholding sex after childbirthThe monogamy versus celibacy response is brilliant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/16 03:35 PM |
| 4 | She will never forgive you for leadership failureExcellent point. My first marriage failed due to my lack of solid leadership. I was a complete beta and wore my feelings on my sleeve for her to stomp at her discretion. I played the field as a bachelor for about 5 years, this was like my graduate school in RP philosophy. I am now the clear leader in a happy marriage. That's not to say that I haven't failed terribly at times but my leadership remains constant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 05:13 PM |
| 1 | No I don't want to have sex with your fat belly, your lack of enthusiasm and your stretched out pussy that I can barely feel.....You're right, she probably won't ever forget those words. But to claim permanent damage is a bit presumptive though. It's what OP does from here that will determine the strength of the relationship. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | No I don't want to have sex with your fat belly, your lack of enthusiasm and your stretched out pussy that I can barely feel.....Damn, I never post here but I've got to chime in on this one. You clearly lost your cool and the situation could've easily gone from bad to worse but you recovered by explaining that it was only a taste of her own medicine. Great job of vacating, I look forward to hearing how this plays out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/15 06:25 PM |
| 2 | [Theory] How to build your road to safetyWow, this post is incredibly helpful. It's exactly what I needed to read this morning. Thank you, OP! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/08/15 02:24 PM |
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